is it ok to keep telling your top how much you love the way his dick feels?

[BootmanLA]

I certainly can't speak for tops in general or any in particular, but I will only note this in passing:

It might be more productive to say "I love the way you fuck me" or "I love how you make me feel when you're fucking me" rather than "I love the way your cock fucks me" or "I love how your cock makes me feel". I've known some tops over the years who, even if only in it for the sex, don't like being reduced to a living, walking dildo. If you know he's especially fond of his endowment, of course, you can add that, ie "and your cock fills me up so fucking nice" or whatever.

Complimenting the man, not just his equipment, is probably going to do more for his ego AND perhaps ensure a repeat (or a sooner repeat).

[NWUSHorny]

I like it when the person I'm having sex with tells me how good it feels and do the same myself.

[chargedodger]

I LOVE how much more vocal men are when getting fucked....if topping it really puts me in overdrive.:)

[fuckyouraw777]

If your top goes soft (before you or he wants to) and you think it's because you've said it too much, well then don't say it as much.

If the top expresses his opinion or gives a command - in the moment or beforehand - then you'd probably want to follow their command; unless you have some sort of "let's be naughty and you need to punish me" thing going, I suppose.

For me it's completely optional; I don't mind bottoms either way but I'll make it known they should shut up if I want them to.

[josh567]

On 4/24/2022 at 12:17 AM, upptheebutt69 said:

Fuck yes its okay to say it out loud. Nothing gets and keeps me harder than being told how good my dick feels while sliding in and out of a hole and/or when I'm balls deep and shooting my load. So fucking hot to be told your dick is giving them so much pleasure just by being inside them

bro it's on an even higher level than i can explain.  feeling his raw dick up my ass feels sooooo good.  i feel bonded to him and close to him.  i get insanely happy when he holds his penis all the way up my ass.  and the fact that he's a long time friend and goes so gentle with me at first turns me on,  that just makes me want him to stick it in even faster.  i just can't stop saying it during sex and i wonder if it's too much but he does tell me i feel amazing.  i felt so comfortable when he took my virginity.  

it never even hurt me.  i was surprised.  even though i prepped well beforehand i anticipated some pain but his dick felt so fucking good.  i love making him feel good.

[josh567]

On 4/24/2022 at 12:17 AM, upptheebutt69 said:

Fuck yes its okay to say it out loud. Nothing gets and keeps me harder than being told how good my dick feels while sliding in and out of a hole and/or when I'm balls deep and shooting my load. So fucking hot to be told your dick is giving them so much pleasure just by being inside them

i bet your dick would feel so good up my ass mmmm

[tallslenderguy]

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is it ok to keep telling your top how much you love the way his dick feels?

i don't think there is a one size fits all answer to this question. i.e., the only One who can answer this is the person you wanna "keep telling ...how much you love the way His dick feels."  

my body often writhes and i moan and groan a lot when i am receiving a Man into me, those are all forms of communication. i believe connection is all about being open, vulnerable, real with each other. i've been with guys who seemed like they were trying to hard, that the words or expressions were things they'd seen in a porn movie, or they felt obligated to say, so it was forced. 

i think communication is paramount, that we all need to develop the skill, but i think it needs to be honest and open, and that part of communication is including the other person in the process. 

[hntnhole]

On 4/23/2022 at 3:19 AM, josh567 said:

is it weird if i compliment him even more?

Not one little bit weird.  There are a number of components to a hot Breeding, one of which is the verbal communication.  I tend to think that bottoms that say nothing are usually still repressed by some measure of culturally-induced guilt at taking Cocks up their gut.  They're doing what they have to - must do - but aren't as deeply joyful while doing it as guys that fuck with abandon - loving every Cock, every load, every moment.  The verbal quotient is merely another layer of frosting on the cake(s).  Just make sure it's honest; phony Breedblab can kill the thrill very, very quickly.

This goes for Tops too, if perhaps not quite to the same degree.  There's nothing wrong at all with a verbal Top telling a bottom what a hot Hole he's got, how good it feels, etc. Reinforcing either guy's Lusts verbally only makes it a hotter fuck for both guys.  

Edited April 25, 2022 by hntnhole

[tallslenderguy]

48 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

 

This goes for Tops too, if perhaps not quite to the same degree.  There's nothing wrong at all with a verbal Top telling a bottom what a hot Hole he's got, how good it feels, etc. Reinforcing either guy's Lusts verbally only makes it a hotter fuck for both guys.  

i have a younger FB who's really sweet, but very quiet. He tells me after the fact that He usually cums 2 or 3 times when He is fucking me, and He frequently contacts me to breed, so He must enjoy. But while He is fucking He makes no sounds at all, it's like He is in stealth mode and i cannot tell that He is enjoying. i nvver try to make sounds or say things, but it comes out of me involuntarily lol. i moan and make noises, not constantly  but it's like my Top is playing an instrument and He knows i am fucking excited to have Him inside of me.

It doesn't take much at all to help me know He's happy. Guys who just say something like "oh yeah" or "oh fuck" turn me into Their total breeding hole. And i fucking love it when a Top tells me He is cumming. Drives me absolutely wild. 

[Guest]

I like to urge the Top on. If they don't want it, they just have to tell me to shut up

[LetsPOZBreed]

I'll tell him how good he is, and how I don't want him to stop.  Yes, it's his cock doing the work inside me, but he's controlling HOW it's working me over.  It's like it's been said above...I want my guy to know that I want him, and that he's more than just his penis.  

That being said, though, you've gotta be really fucking me good for me to start saying these things to you.  If I'm not saying this, or begging for it eve harder...you're more than likely not doing a good job.  

[Guest]

On 4/23/2022 at 1:47 PM, an0nt0p said:

I love having my ego stroked when I am fucking. 

Yes, especially if you're doing a good job. I always comment to my tops as they're fucking me. What happens when I do that is I get my top thrusting his cock aggressively forward and when he explodes inside my pussy, he has already pushed his cock as far into my pussy as he can and he holds his cock still while he ejaculates. How I love the feeling of a top's cum oozing deep inside me.  I've  developed the ability to squeeze my top's cock with the muscles of my pussy as he pulls his cock back before thrusting it forward again, and that ensures that I'll get a really huge load squeezed out of his cock. Does that turn you on??

[hntnhole]

On 4/25/2022 at 3:41 PM, LetsPOZBreed said:

but he's controlling HOW it's working me over

This  ^   is the important thing.  Every Hole is different in some way, and when it's New Cock up your gut, reinforcing that the Top is giving you what you need is fine.  Just don't overdo it.  That'll sound contrived - even silly - to some Tops.  It's also ok to say things like "oh - that feels so good - a little harder, please?.  Again, keep the reinforcing under control. By the same token, if you want it to be over due to lack of skill on the Top's part, just start giving him instructions .... that'll do it every time, and you'll be on to the next one in a twinkling of your balls. 

[TwinkChaserSlut]

On 5/11/2022 at 1:34 PM, hotpussyboy said:

Yes, especially if you're doing a good job. I always comment to my tops as they're fucking me. What happens when I do that is I get my top thrusting his cock aggressively forward and when he explodes inside my pussy, he has already pushed his cock as far into my pussy as he can and he holds his cock still while he ejaculates. How I love the feeling of a top's cum oozing deep inside me.  I've  developed the ability to squeeze my top's cock with the muscles of my pussy as he pulls his cock back before thrusting it forward again, and that ensures that I'll get a really huge load squeezed out of his cock. Does that turn you on??

I love it, SO HOT! That's EXACTLY what I do. It's like you lifted that right out of my playbook. 

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

I've always been verbal about his cock when getting fucked. It seems to spur him on, which is exactly what I am looking for.