Advice on sucking a beautiful cock from a unattractive person.

[luisrojas]

Hi. I need advice on how I can mentally detach the cock from the person. So let's say someone sends you a pic of their cock and it's beautiful and perfect and they send you a picture of their face but the person it's not your type and you don't feel attracted to them, but you still attracted to their cock, but you experience a turn-off when you meet them.

I know some people here are used to that and just enjoys the cock, but this is coming from someone who is kind of new, I can be picky, but I would like to be sluttier, but I don't know how I can just focus on the cock and ignore the rest, how can I cheat my brain? Maybe someone was in my same position before and have tips? Gloryhole isn't an option for me.

Thanks.

[Daddysucker]

I dont ask for face pics and I never really look at the guy, even in person.  I prefer a darkish room, or to be hooded or blindfolded.

Its kind a kink for me to suck off older guys and such who probably don't get hit up a lot by 19 year olds.  

[constructionguy]

That's what glory holes are for. You focus on the cock and nothing else.

[viking8x6]

12 hours ago, luisrojas said:

Hi. I need advice on how I can mentally detach the cock from the person. ... but the person it's not your type and you don't feel attracted to them...

I can be picky, but I would like to be sluttier

If the rest of the person (their face, their body, their brain, their hair, their ears...) is important to your attraction, IMO that's completely normal. Attraction is in the brain, and everyone has their own likes and dislikes that go way beyond just a penis. That probably isn't going to change much.

If you want to be sluttier, you have two options:

1. Find more men that meet your idea of what's attractive. This can be tough, but moving to a big city could be helpful, or moving to a place where the proportion of men you find attractive is higher (like, if you find asian men attractive, moving to Asia, or to the west coast of the US, would work).

2. Learn how to enjoy sex even if the guy is not all that attractive to you. This is something you do by practicing. Try it out and instead of focusing on the fact that he's not all that attractive, focus on what is enjoyable and sexy about the experience. Maybe his responses to what you are doing. Maybe his voice (which you didn't think about before). There are many possibilities. Learning this is also likely to make you a much better lover, which has its own benefits (repeat encounters!)

[JamesL100]

Blindfold? Dim lights? Darkroom? More experience ..?

[Hottightass4u]

Wear a blindfold or mask or leather hood with just a hole for your mouth?  Suck him off in a glory hole or dark room?  Focus only on the cock?

[topblkmale]

14 hours ago, luisrojas said:

Hi. I need advice on how I can mentally detach the cock from the person. So let's say someone sends you a pic of their cock and it's beautiful and perfect and they send you a picture of their face but the person it's not your type and you don't feel attracted to them, but you still attracted to their cock, but you experience a turn-off when you meet them.

I know some people here are used to that and just enjoys the cock, but this is coming from someone who is kind of new, I can be picky, but I would like to be sluttier, but I don't know how I can just focus on the cock and ignore the rest, how can I cheat my brain? Maybe someone was in my same position before and have tips? Gloryhole isn't an option for me.

Thanks.

Won't work.

Sounds like you have a type or type(s)...which is perfectly normal.

 

Most gays just focus on body type, age, skin color and dick size. I find most don't care about face which is why getting a face pic online is a chore.

 

I have three steady fuck buddies who are not attractive (ugly) but the rest checks out. We only fuck in the dark so I just focus away from their face with no kissing. 

[Qilly55]

Just the cock. Who cares as long as that cock enters your mouth

[Justaholeff]

Don't look up.

[hntnhole]

16 hours ago, luisrojas said:

how can I cheat my brain?

You can't "cheat" your brain, but you can alter what that brain perceives as "attractive".  It's a gradual process, of course, and you can't fool your brain into thinking red is blue.  It's not so easy that you'll get an immediate shift in your intellectual perceptions, but if you concentrate (i.e. train your brain) purposefully on the Cock you need to Breed your Hole, and push aside any negative perceptions as what they really are - unimportant - you can gradually re-orient your sexual responses.  The crucial thing won't change - you'll still be taking loads off as many Cocks as you need, and the unimportant things will gradually fade.  It's the kind of thing that works, if you work it.  

Now.  If some guy's face could stop the Rocky Mountain Express on it's tracks with one glance, it ain't gonna work.  But, you can lessen the impact, and enhance the impact of the really important thing.

3 hours ago, viking8x6 said:

2. Learn how to enjoy sex even if the guy is not all that attractive to you. This is something you do by practicing. Try it out and instead of focusing on the fact that he's not all that attractive, focus on what is enjoyable and sexy about the experience. Maybe his responses to what you are doing. Maybe his voice (which you didn't think about before). There are many possibilities. Learning this is also likely to make you a much better lover, which has its own benefits (repeat encounters!

As viking8x6 points out, there are many possibilities to learning to control that which you think you can't.  Just be patient, keep at it, and let us know how it's working out.

Good luck !!

[tighthole64]

A nice cock is a nice cock!  Suck in the dark, through a glory hole, or as bad as it sounds, throw a sheet over their face and or body!  

[IntoBBvisitor]

Try to lock ur dick and don t cum for a long period of time. You will eventually be so horny that ur level of pickyness will be lowered.

[Kinkybottomsw]

Need to start training yourself to be more of a slut. Any cock is good cock! Use bottles of aroma, porn, and locking your cock in chastity. Make your self so horny you just concentrate on their cock. Have had some amazing fucks from some unattractive guys 

[depravedslut]

I had exactly the same problem some years ago.

My goal was to become a no load refused cumdump, but I had difficulties servicing men I was not attracted to.

I managed with it gradually:

1. Learn to wear a blindfold with guys I am attracted;

2. First anonym dates with blindfold without seeing the guy;

3. Find a man who will organise the dates and select men for you, still blindfolded, and ask him to send you the pics after;

4. Go to darkrooms, kneel or wait doggy in the dark, and take cocks without looking to the guy. Then try to look at them while they are using you. You will not really see them because of the dark. But later in the evening you will probably recognise them at the bar.

Recignising the first "unattractive" man will be a bit challenging. You will probably not visit the darkroom anymore that day. But the memory of the cock will stay and you will visit darkrooms again.

After some month/year you will get used to meet "unattractive" men you have just sucked off and swallowed the load, still having their taste in your mouth. And they will recognise you too. Some will ask you to use you again and you will naturally do it as you have done it yet before...

At that moment you will realise you can disconnect the cock from the man.

[luisrojas]

Thank you everybody, I wish I had the reaction feature to acknowlege all the responses, but I've read them all and I'll apply your suggestions. I hope to enjoy more my sex life in 2023, that's my goal! Happy New Year!