Your 2023 Goals & Resolutions

[BiCurious100]

Happy New Year everyone

What are your  goals and resolutions for this year?

Mine  is to visit a sauna, for the first time and get fucked...

 

[leatherpunk16]

I have practically the same things every year.

- finding a lover

- career success

- more porn work

- improving my physique

- doing shows (used to be specific operas when I had a performing company)

- new body mod

When I wrote the list for 2023, I realized this was the same list I wrote for 2022 but with worse handwriting. 

[PendragonSpirit]

Mine is pretty simple. I want to get back to my pre-Covid body (see profile picture.) 2 1/2 years of working from home and eating badly took its toll, but quitting a toxic job and starting a place I love has helped out quite a bit.

Also, to make more trips to the local bookstore(s) and whore myself out to every cock I can get.

[NWUSHorny]

To move somewhere with a decent number of like minded guys that like casual fucking. My pole needs more hole and my hole need more pole.

[Webster9]

My usual goal is to get fucked on a nude beach while a group of men watch.  

[NLbear]

Rebuild my pre-Covid 'stable' of fuckbuddy stallions

[backtails]

Get nice abs. Fuck guys with nice abs.

[WillyD]

Take more poz cock

 

[austin_submale]

8 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

To move somewhere with a decent number of like minded guys that like casual fucking. My pole needs more hole and my hole need more pole.

I would have thought Portland to be a pretty fertile hunting ground for casual bb fuckers...  Where do you think is good?  Don't say Austin unless you are a Top...  This town is 99.99% bottoms it seems...

FWIW, it appears DFW and Houston are better as far as the top:bottom ratio...  But I'd love to hear what cities have a lot of Tops...  for vacation maybe...

 

[ffWhole]

In February;

• start traveling again... hell I don't know... I am a Nomad. This is probably my last big trip.
  A good traveler has no fixed plans and is not intent on arriving.
• make the decision as a bareback bottom, whore myself at saunas, etc. and either take Prep or forget about that too and let the dice fall as they roll. 
  I am already a bareback bottom and love gang bangs but never went full out without Prep...

[NWUSHorny]

44 minutes ago, austin_submale said:

But I'd love to hear what cities have a lot of Tops...  for vacation maybe...

I'm versatile and love to flip, which may screw my opinion somewhat. I've worked on regular basis in a lot of different cities, mostly Midwestern an western US as well as central and western Canada. My only real experience with TX was living in Dallas almost 25 years ago, and don't remember any difficulty finding partners. So here is my list that I can easily find willing partners in almost any larger city in the Midwest or central Canada, Denver is where I was living when I became a complete slut, it and Colorado Springs remain great locations for me, I also do really well in Las Vegas, Palm Springs and LA. In the PNW Portland, Seattle, Spokane, Boise, Vancouver and Victoria BC are the cities I almost always strike out, there is a severe shortage of guys who like to participate in casual fucking either as a top or bottom, they are very into kinks, fetishes and cuddling with strangers,  just don't ask them to actually fuck.

I'm probably headed back to the Midwest since that is where my current job is based and most of my family lives.

Edited January 2, 2023 by NWUSHorny

[atlfukbud]

I've declared 2023 "the year of the pussy" or more accurately, the year FOR MY pussy LOL ⛳ -- COVID, Monkey Pox and tons of other issues has made the last 3 years more responsibility, work and frustration centric than fun. So, will definitely keep up with work and family responsibilities, but plan to focus on fun, play and fucking a lot more -- back to prioritizing hook-ups, time with fuck buds and making sure sex is involved in all work and personal travel. Some ideas that I've been thinking of include: sexcations, husband/bf swapping, host and attend regular orgies, visit more saunas, more in-person cruising, try out some MMF action, DP again (give and take), explore FF and bondage w/ a regular stud and greatly increase the number of sex partners and frequency of breeding in general. Happy NY Men!!

[austin_submale]

3 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

I'm versatile and love to flip, which may screw my opinion somewhat. I've worked on regular basis in a lot of different cities, mostly Midwestern an western US as well as central and western Canada. My only real experience with TX was living in Dallas almost 25 years ago, and don't remember any difficulty finding partners. So here is my list that I can easily find willing partners in almost any larger city in the Midwest or central Canada, Denver is where I was living when I became a complete slut, it and Colorado Springs remain great locations for me, I also do really well in Las Vegas, Palm Springs and LA. In the PNW Portland, Seattle, Vancouver and Victoria BC are the cities I almost always strike out, there is a severe shortage of guys who like to participate in casual fucking either as a top or bottom, they are very into kinks, fetishes and cuddling with strangers,  just don't ask them to actually fuck.

I'm probably headed back to the Midwest since that is where my current job is based and most of my family lives.

Very interesting.  I keep all that in mind if I have any opportunities to travel.  I grew up in the Midwest, so I don't really have much desire to travel there, but unfortunately will in the spring like it or not.  Unfortunately it will be to Iowa, which has no big cities and is pretty much deadsville in all ways. The last time I was up there being on all the usual sites...  bbrts, a4a, sniffies, etc...  showed very few people online, even in Des Moines which is what passes for a city there, and I never got any action at all.  I suspect that the Twin Cities, Chicago, KC or St. Louis might be a lot better of course.  Anyway. if all things go well and I can wrap up the last of my family commitments up there I may never have reason to travel that far north again.  I used to love Las Vegas although I haven't been in a few years.  I'll keep Palm Springs in mind.  I've been to Miami and New Orleans but not since I've been an active barebacker, so I would love to go again.

 

[NWUSHorny]

41 minutes ago, austin_submale said:

The last time I was up there being on all the usual sites...  bbrts, a4a, sniffies, etc...

They don't do much good in the PNW either, very few guys on BBRT these days, A4A has been completely taken over by guys looking for long term relationships, and Sniffies was fairly popular until recently but very few even list fucking as an activity they are looking for, if you want to cuddle you should have excellent luck, personally I have never had a local successful hookup on Sniffies, but have had in several cities in both the Midwest and Socal. I don't know what they have moved onto now.

Edited January 2, 2023 by NWUSHorny

[austin_submale]

3 minutes ago, NWUSHorny said:

They don't do much good in the PNW either, very few guys on BBRT these days, A4A has been completely taken over by guys looking for long term relationships, and Sniffies was fairly popular until recently but very few even list fucking as an activity they are looking for, if you want to cuddle you should have excellent luck, personally I have never had a local successful hookup on Sniffies, but have had in several cities in both the Midwest and Socal. I don't know what they have move onto now.

I don't get it either...  BBRTS still has some activity in Austin...  but it is mostly all bottoms looking for tops.  Even the "tops" are looking to bottom.  I agree about A4A...  lots of guys looking for relationships...  it's like PoF or something.

Maybe someone else knows where the serious fuckers have gone off to...