HOST OR HOTEL

[faggotsub]

On 1/10/2023 at 11:50 PM, backtails said:

I like hotels.

When I show up to fuck a dude, I'm interested in his body and he's interested in mine. A hotel is sort of a neutral venue where men only bring their body — at a house, you see the rest of his life too. Usually it's not a problem, but I prefer to open the door and step right into a sexual realm.

Definitely, if you're looking for numbers, a hotel is a lot easier. Easier to get to, easier to find, easier to park... There's the drawback that some guys don't like going through a public space, but there are hookup-friendly places where you can go in off the street and it's not too open.

Yea i think you are right  it keeps the focus where it should be. Thanks for the response and sorry for the late reply as i was banned from leaving content for a few days for having posted in the wrong venue

[faggotsub]

On 1/11/2023 at 3:12 PM, evilqueerpig said:

I'd NEVER flake on you!

No doubt in my mind...been following you for a long time SIR

[faggotsub]

On 1/10/2023 at 4:08 PM, ellentonboy said:

I would go with an easy access motel.   Think of it this way, would you want a group of strangers coming into your home, possibly taking things that don't belong to them and then causing you to clean up their mess.  If you can find a hotel/motel off a major highway I would think that works best.  

Take it from someone who has been on both sides of this issue, having a designated place, that I don't have to clean up (i.e. towels and laundry) is much better than having the luxury of just answering the door and letting a total stranger in.  Sure it sounds great initially, but in the end I think you will have a better time if you take it away from your residence.  Good luck and have fun....

Thanks for your opionon..i use to run a bed and breakfast and rented the caretakers quarters out to a guy that had 20-30 guys stop by during the day and evening. Everything started out good but over time when it became popular the drugs and booze started coming in until one day i went down after everyone had left and someone had ripped the shower handle off with the water pouring out and didn't have the curtesy of coming up to tell me..that was the last day.

[faggotsub]

On 1/11/2023 at 4:00 PM, JimInWisc said:

I host group events at my house a few times a year.  If I guy is new to me I prefer to get to know him 1x1 before inviting him to the group.  We are a member club of about 200 guys.  Typically 35 or so show up for events post covid.  Breeding not a requirement.  We get more guys if they are free to explore and discover.  

Interesting alternative  thanks for your suggestions

[faggotsub]

On 1/11/2023 at 10:12 PM, BootmanLA said:

I will add something that people have kind of skirted around: there's a delicate balancing act between a motel/hotel in a really secure, safe area (which is a plus) and motels/hotels that have outside access directly to the rooms (ie not having to go through a lobby, which is also a plus). Unfortunately, these two things to operate to the exclusion of each other; the safer the area, the more likely it is that the hotel will require all guests to go through the lobby, and the more convenient the hotel layout is (with outside access to the rooms) the more likely it's in a less desirable area.

Plus there are guys who won't go to a hotel in a "nice" area because they think they might get seen and recognized by someone working there (unlikely, but it can happen), as well as guys who won't go to a hotel in a sketchier area because it's, well, sketchy.

I wouldn't recommend a really seedy area (it might seem appealing, but it's likely to cut into your numbers). What you're looking for, generally, is an older motel-style place with outside room doors in a not terrible area - like near a major interstate exit. Scope out the building and find where there's more parking than average (typically, at the far end of the building away from the desk) and request a room in that part of the building. That puts your transient visitors as far from the eyes at the front desk as possible.

excellent advice  thanks

[faggotsub]

On 1/12/2023 at 12:06 AM, ErosWired said:

Location, location, location.

Hosting in a rural home is not a recipe for success if you’re trying to draw numbers. Neither is hosting at a hotel if the hotel is not well situated. (Note that many of us use “host” regardless of the location simply to mean that we’re the ones providing the venue.)

A hotel should be located for convenient approach, near a major road, or better yet, an intersection, with available parking, and ideally within a mile of bars, dining, entertainment, sporting or retail establishments. It can also be useful if near residential areas, but know something of the composition of the neighborhood. Some will be better than others.

 I try to avoid hotels surrounded by industrial areas - these might seem the place to snare men as they get off work, but once that narrow window passes, they become dead zones.

Airport areas are also a two-sided coin - while they give access to people on the move, a hotel adjacent to an airport has vast acreage next to it with no houses or businesses, just runways and hangars.

An app like Sniffies can be very useful in scoping out the best-situated hotels - you can determine visually where the clusters of men are in a location, and then determine which hotels are closest to the densest groupings of likely participants.

excellent adivise thanks for the time you put into that.

[faggotsub]

On 1/11/2023 at 11:16 PM, topblkmale said:

Best bet would be a Motel 6 kind of place off of a major interstate in an OK suburb with direct access to restaurants/shopping center so you get more foot traffic if using a hook-up app.

Looks like im taking advice from an expert  Thank you SIR

[BBDreamer]

On 1/10/2023 at 8:50 PM, backtails said:

I like hotels.

When I show up to fuck a dude, I'm interested in his body and he's interested in mine. A hotel is sort of a neutral venue where men only bring their body — at a house, you see the rest of his life too. Usually it's not a problem, but I prefer to open the door and step right into a sexual realm.

Definitely, if you're looking for numbers, a hotel is a lot easier. Easier to get to, easier to find, easier to park... There's the drawback that some guys don't like going through a public space, but there are hookup-friendly places where you can go in off the street and it's not too open.

I like hotels too, for the same reason. Just about having some hot sex. Nothing about the other aspects of life getting in the way. 

[muscmtl]

Forget hosting

Forget hotels/ motels

Go for bathhouses 

[ellentonboy]

I do agree with the above poster - who wants to do every towel and bedsheet you have in your home?  Who wants some nosey cleaning lady coming into your room when you have your dick in some random  ass?  We can thank that bit of interruption to that idiot mass shooter in Vegas.  Not only did he kill 50 plus people or more, but the law now states in Vegas that a cleaning lady must come into your room once every twenty four hours. That sucks (and not in a good way).  Because someone went off his meds that means all  of us law abiding citizens must get dressed and act like we are watching football, and hide the lube, poppers, and whatever else we are doing from some woman who speaks limited English.  I don't know what it is where you live, maybe only Nevada adopted that law, but if I rent a room for a day, or two, or three, I think I have the right to tell housekeeping to stay politely OUT, get fresh towels off her cart, and tip her generously.

At least in Palm Springs, they bought porn to my room and ended up screwing half of the male housekeeping staff - but that is another story.

The bathhouse in Vegas is not bad, and in PS every guesthouse is a bathhouse, so I say go to the bathhouses and enjoy yourself!

[raw773]

4 minutes ago, ellentonboy said:

the law now states in Vegas that a cleaning lady must come into your room once every twenty four hours

If this is the law, I haven't seen it followed my last four trips to Vegas.

The super big hotels can be great honestly because you have two thousand guys an elevator ride away.

[ellentonboy]

2 minutes ago, raw773 said:

If this is the law, I haven't seen it followed my last four trips to Vegas.

The super big hotels can be great honestly because you have two thousand guys an elevator ride away.

Wow, that is surprising,  I always stayed at the Luxor, because Grindr often has a $10 pool party where you get to see everyone in real life, not just on your phone.  It's funny, because it sits right next to Mandalay Bay, where that gunmen killed all those innocent people.   I recall hearing that all hotels would now require a room be cleaned each and every day so that some nut job could not hoard guns over a period of days.  Maybe that was a "proposed" law, as I know many"honeymooners" do not want to be disturbed.  

If there are any other Vegas residents, or those who use rooms in that town, can someone state if they had their room cleaned during their stay?  I have no doubt what you are telling me is true, it's just shameful.  But then again, it could happen in any major city.  That is very sad.

[BergenGuy]

9 minutes ago, ellentonboy said:

I recall hearing that all hotels would now require a room be cleaned each and every day so that some nut job could not hoard guns over a period of days.

I don't know if there is a law that requires that a room be entered daily, but the law that requires rooms to be cleaned daily was repealed in May of this year:  [think before following links] https://thenevadaglobe.com/775times/nevada-governor-signs-bill-eliminating-daily-hotel-room-cleanings/

[ellentonboy]

3 minutes ago, BergenGuy said:

I don't know if there is a law that requires that a room be entered daily, but the law that requires rooms to be cleaned daily was repealed in May of this year:  [think before following links] [think before following links] https://thenevadaglobe.com/775times/nevada-governor-signs-bill-eliminating-daily-hotel-room-cleanings/

Wow, so Vegas is more concerned about people's privacy over people's safety - that sucks.  Not sure I agree with that one, so I suppose what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas!

[BlindRawFucker1]

The large Vegas hotels aren’t more interested in privacy over security.

 

It is a money issue, along with a shortage of housekeeping staff.

 

The less rooms are cleaned, the fewer cleaners are needed.

 

Some hotels now ask how often you want your room cleaned during your stay.