Topping with an Average Dick

[hntnhole]

This may be a bit self-serving, but I've always believed that it's all in how one uses what he's got. 

It's not the inches that put a sweat on a bottom's brow - it's the skill with which his Hole is well and truly fucked.  

[jvlcumdump]

I know my limits for what I can enjoyably take and average is just fine with me as long as he can get hard and stay hard, and of course, breeds me.

[Iker80]

I love dick and when the mood is right getting fucked, but it's about the guy and wanting him. I don't care about size. I've never felt more excited by a big dick or less by a small one. I just want to have fun and it all works.

[partying.hard]

I’m not sure what’s the average or what’s normal. I have been fucked by plenty of guys with a dick as big as mine, and they left me totally unsatisfied. They were gifted with a big dick but never learned what to do with it.
 

at the other end of the spectrum, I’ve been fucked by lots of guys with average, normal, or small dicks. And these guys knew what they were doing. My eyes didn’t just roll back in my head, they worked my ass over and my eyes were spinning in my head.

Don’t generalise. It doesn’t work like that.

[pupHawaii]

37 minutes ago, partying.hard said:

I’m not sure what’s the average or what’s normal. I have been fucked by plenty of guys with a dick as big as mine, and they left me totally unsatisfied. They were gifted with a big dick but never learned what to do with it.
 

at the other end of the spectrum, I’ve been fucked by lots of guys with average, normal, or small dicks. And these guys knew what they were doing. My eyes didn’t just roll back in my head, they worked my ass over and my eyes were spinning in my head.

Don’t generalise. It doesn’t work like that.

agree .. 
it's the old saying .. it's not the meat .. it's the motion .. if someone doesn't know how to fuck it doesn't make a difference what the size of the dick is .. 

[phillygwm]

I'm "average."  Maybe a bit on the thick side but if there's one thing guys like, it's my balls.  If someone is a size queen, they aren't going to seek me out but guys can feel me when I'm inside 🙂

From a standpoint of giving oral, too big isn't great for me (or, I suspect, most people.)  I mean, it's nice to look at and play with but I'm not going to take it all.  Someone smaller will get throated and will generally enjoy themselves more than someone with 10".  But maybe I'm unusual:  I lack the patience for a long head session.  I'd prefer a guy I can get off quickly and easily.  Especially if he stays enough in the mood to get me off after,

[BruxoCub]

The BEST sex I've ever had had nothing to do with size. They have always been average or smaller sized cocks but confident, sexy, fun, and horned up men.

 

[phukhole]

Big ones are great (if they know how to use them). Medium ones are great (if they know how to use them).  Small ones are great (if they know how to use them).  The WORST sex I've ever had was with a guy with a big dick who thought he just had to show up.  I've had phenomenal sex with all size guys.  Be confident. Sling whatever size dick you have.  I'm here for it!

[hntnhole]

1 hour ago, phukhole said:

Be confident

Bingo. 

To which I'd only add, know your craft, Tops.  We can bring a sperm-addicted bottom to tears of joy if we learn our craft, and realize that there are two equally-important components to a fantastic fuck.  

[allrise]

I used to have a fuck buddy with an average cock but very hard, all he needs to do is to hit my prostate, and I am in heaven

[ballerva]

As much as I love feeling a big dick in my hole when I am bottoming, for me it's more about what they do with their dick than its size. One of the best tops I hooked up with had a penis that probably wasn't even 5 inches, but boy did he make up for the lack of size with his creativity in fucking my ass.  We haven't fucked in over 25 years but I still remember the sex I had with him. I can't necessarily say that about the hundreds of other guys I've played with.

[norefusal]

On 7/4/2011 at 7:39 PM, fuckyouraw777 said:

We know everyone has an 8" or larger dick. Yeah, right.

I've found having a smaller dick has helped me convince more guys to let me fuck them...

What's your experience?

i've never gotten and complaints but i know im average because: math. 

sometimes guys will say something about it being big and i always have to suppress a laugh cause ive been w enough guys to know what a big D looks like and i ain't it. 😜

but in my experience of "can i fuck you or not?" dick size is the least of the issues. most guys are either too tied into uptight ideas of the top being the "man" and the bottom being the "woman" or anal is a step too far, i don't know u like that, or fear of disease (it was soooo much harder to get a guy to bottom for you pre-prep) or "i'll suck dick but i won't get fucked - that's gay!" etc etc 

[hexfet]

One of the plusses of girth is that your cock is apt to hit all those "feel good" spots without much effort - "just" [hehe perhaps easier said than done] mash it in and it will hit the spots.  Maybe even hit them really hard, depending on curves and other anatomy compatibility. 🙂

But of course, girth/size not required.  You can actually buck into those awesome spots with any size cock head and make the bottom really happy too.  Just have to aim / use the right positions more 🙂.  Also depends on curves, etc but still have to be more intentional.

I know when I fuck I have two modes: the fucking I wanna do because it feels amazing on my cock, and the fucking I wanna do because it drives the bottom crazy.  There is some overlap for sure ...