Need to bareback - neg scared of becoming poz but can't get it out of my head

[gaydude44447]

^Correct. Bare is the ONLY way to go 😉

[BreedingTop71]

9 hours ago, bihairy said:

And to add to that, once you go bare you won't go back.  I fucked bare and never put a condom on again! Guys wanted me to fuck them and I said no if they wanted it "safe."  Bare is the only way to go.  I'm sure the men here agree!!

True. If a bottom doesn’t want to receive my bare cock, I will find the one who will. Not going to try to convince anyone of life choices. I know mine, you do you, I do me. 

[FunforDads]

49 minutes ago, BreedingTop71 said:

True. If a bottom doesn’t want to receive my bare cock, I will find the one who will. Not going to try to convince anyone of life choices. I know mine, you do you, I do me. 

I definitely want to receive it

[jtgirl2022]

On 6/11/2025 at 12:02 AM, Tomass said:

Yes, I've heard about this prep. But they told me you have to go to the doctor every 3 month: crazy! I don't want that

It's not that bad, is it? That's only 4 times a year after all.

It's your choice though; if you don't want to do that, you can still continue to BB without PreP, but then you'll have to worry about pozzing constantly. Though if you get pozzed you'll likely be visting the doctor regularly anyway.

Not to mention the other STDs you might need checkups and treatments for.

Edited June 12 by jtgirl2022
added comment about other STDs

[BreedingTop71]

19 minutes ago, jtgirl2022 said:

It's not that bad, is it? That's only 4 times a year after all.

It's your choice though; if you don't want to do that, you can still continue to BB without PreP, but then you'll have to worry about pozzing constantly. Though if you get pozzed you'll likely be visting the doctor regularly anyway.

Not to mention the other STDs you might need checkups and treatments for.

I have found people like this many times in life. They claim they want to do something but they also work very hard to find an excuse not to do it (or not too hard, the excuse given here to not to take prep is beyond lame). That way they can always say “I tried, but it was not possible”. Offering them a solution is not going to work, the reality is that they are not ready to do anything to change their lives. It is sad, as time goes by quickly and before they know it they find themselves old and sad they didn’t do whatever they wanted in life because they were too busy finding excuses not to. 

[LuciFeral666]

My advice, being a girl that likes the idea of being knocked up... 99.9% of these people that claim to want to breed people are full of shit. The other 0.1% have already died. 😂 

[atyl7u]

I've been fantasizing about being barebacked for the last few years. Same fears though.  I have recently started 'advertising' for Tops that would bareback me, but tell me before hand that they won't, until after they've restrained me and I can't change my mind.  Then to hear them whisper in my ear as they are just about to enter me, or while they are fucking me that they're POZ and barebacking me, gets me so hot.  I know I will eventually meet with the Top who will fulfill my 'need' but until then, my fantasy will keep me cumming hard.

[hntnhole]

3 hours ago, atyl7u said:

Same fears though

Since you're on PrEP, (and likely Pep), likely tested regularly, you've taken all the available steps to avoid those issues.  

The issue you're facing is one of Trust.  Are you able to trust your friends, family, whoever?  Is the ability to "trust" the issue?  The use of restraints is something that needs to be "negotiated" in advance of the scene, and if you don't trust the guy when you're having a discussion in some non-sexual place (like a lunch-spot, sitting on a park bench, whatever), chances are poor you'll suddenly find that ability when both your cocks are hard.  

The point is to establish some level of trust as you spend a bit of time with him, before the hookup.  If that seems unlikely, I'd suggest you demur with the best excuse you can come up with.  Wait until you're ready to jump in with both feet.