Pump right away after sticking it in or allow time?

[VistaCaBB]

Just depends how relaxed the bottom is.  One guy I see I take my time with.  Push it in and very slowly give him 1/2" at a time until I'm balls deep. Then slowly pull out and gently pick up the pace.  

Saw another bottom for sloppy seconds and he was pre gaped so shoved it in and immediately pounded him 

 

[chaserslut]

I always prep my hole for meets so tops can do what they want. I'm tight so it helps us both.

In terms of preference I'm not fussed, as long as they shoot inside.

[LetsPOZBreed]

There's a bit of nuance involved. 

Personal preference is that I prefer to start off slow in taking my top - it's a necessity if it's been a while and I'm really tight.  The idea is to read the room, so it's up to my partner and I to give signals and clues about when to speed up or slow down. 

Also, never take what you watch in porn at face-value.  What you see in the final product is nowhere near the amount of preparation that goes into a session.  There's also plenty that goes onto the cutting room floow as well (talking mostly about the professional vids, of course).    

[baldwin]

I prefer the top to take his first entering me and slowly build up his pumping.  I find the gentle entry more erotic as well.  But once he is in and I am open I hope he pumps hard and fast. then pounds me as his his cock swells just before he cums in me.  

[HoneyBuns1980]

I don’t care and it’s not my decision anyways. I’m just a lubed hole to be used. And, I’m fine with that. 

[wbekk85]

it is more about personal preference than anything. when i top i don't care if i have to wait a minute to start pumping. i want my bottom to be comfortable and to enjoy getting fucked. when i bottom, i want thrusting right away. my ass is a sponge and absorbs lube quickly unless there is movement or spit constantly being added to the top's cock and my hole. i don't always get to enjoy a long fuck because i have to keep riding a cock to keep from drying up, and i always get knocked up quickly because i can't stop or it the friction starts to burn.

[hntnhole]

20 hours ago, takemeuseme said:

I like the top to give me some time to open up and adjust then to start thrusting slowly before he starts pumping me hard and deep

Well, of COURSE ... that's his responsibility. 

Some Tops think that Topping makes them more masculine, and the rougher they are the more butch they are.  And, that kind of mindset cuts them off from a chance of "connection", or some would say "bonding" if even for a few moments.  A Top's job carries a bit more depth and skill than just walking up to a Hole, jackhammering it for a while, and remaining completely outside the emotional/spiritual/connectivity that some of us know is the real essence of Breeding.  We all have certain acts within the context of fucking that we particularly love - sometimes even need - to completely bond/connect with the other guy.  Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't, but that doesn't mean we should revert to an insular hauteur if things don't work out precisely as we'd like.    

I'm no shrink, but that scenario seems to be cutting off the chances of a better fuck for both guys.  It takes two to .... um .... waltz?  2-step?  polka? ..... well, one of those dances ..... 

[verslut]

It depends on the bottom. Some bottoms are tight and need to stretch out before I can start pounding. Some can handle pounding right away.

[Bibttmmiami]

As a bottom vers I can answer both parts of this question. As a Top I like to give my bottom a minute to adjust. Then, I start slow and work my way up to hard and fast. Unless, they tell me otherwise or I know they’re already loose enough to take it. 
 

as a bottom it depends on the tops cock size and how prepared I am. If if the top is the right size and/or I’m prepared for it, I like them to ram their cock in and fuck me hard and fast. If they are too big, or I’m not fully prepared I prefer them to let me get used to them and start slow and work their way up to hard and fast. I’ll verbally encourage them to go harder and faster when I’m ready. 

[KylerIsTrash]

I usually need about 20 seconds with the first one. After that the top can go as hard and fast as he wants. If I’ve had a chance to stretch my hole or spin up the top can go as hard and deep as he wants from the first thrust. 

[OzzieCumdumpster]

As a bottom who craves cock a lot and can't get enough, I leave it to the top whether he wants to go at from the start or take his time. At the end of the day, I'm getting what I want, Sex, cock and cum.

[hermarbi]

If I am riding him, I will get on with it straight...  If he is fucking me and there's lube or loosening, it can be a slow start...  Had a few fellas just ram their cock home in the past, and had a spasm when his cock girth is wider than I was expecting

 

[Guest]

18 hours ago, hntnhole said:

Well, of COURSE ... that's his responsibility. 

Some Tops think that Topping makes them more masculine, and the rougher they are the more butch they are.  And, that kind of mindset cuts them off from a chance of "connection", or some would say "bonding" if even for a few moments.  A Top's job carries a bit more depth and skill than just walking up to a Hole, jackhammering it for a while, and remaining completely outside the emotional/spiritual/connectivity that some of us know is the real essence of Breeding.  We all have certain acts within the context of fucking that we particularly love - sometimes even need - to completely bond/connect with the other guy.  Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't, but that doesn't mean we should revert to an insular hauteur if things don't work out precisely as we'd like.    

I'm no shrink, but that scenario seems to be cutting off the chances of a better fuck for both guys.  It takes two to .... um .... waltz?  2-step?  polka? ..... well, one of those dances ..... 

I have to agree with you.  I had this one top take his time and allow me to open up.  And for the longest time it was a slow, easy fuck as we laid on our side, and he used his lubed hands to slowly stroke my cock as pumped my ass.  I wasn't just a hole or cum receptacle for him to get off in, he made it more like a loving act for the pleasure of both of us.  I definitely felt a connection and have been seeking that again ever since.

[Aidsbait]

I prefer it when guys just ram their cocks in me and just start pounding my fuckhole balls deep. partly cause it shows they probably know that I can easily take the pounding cause I’m a whore and partly cause it shows that they dont give a fuck about me or my comfort and probably actually want to cause me pain if they care one way or the other. I love guys to fuck me the way they never could fuck anyone they respect or care about. guys just fuck me like I’m an object, not a person cause all they see in me is a hot body with a fuckhole to jerk themselves off. plus as a gangbang cumdump, I really dont need any warmup after the first few. same with collecting loads going to a bunch of different tops places or from everyone in a porntheatre or in a park.

[BttmCub88]

Im usually pretty tight. Idk how guys can just take it all at once like nothing lol. But lately whe  I've been out taking loads, i kinda prestretch myself before going into his place with some lube in my car. That way we can just go right to it if he wants. 

Usually helps to take a cock right before another lol. Had 2 guys that fucked me the other day. By the time i got to my bfs later, i took his dick like nothing. He only fucks with spit Usually. So it was great and hot as fuck being able to take him in like 2 seconds lol