Size of big dicks

[Leather69]

The biggest cock that I have ever seen was 11 inches.. many years ago in Melbourne (Australia).. yep it was big but the kid (he was 20) had huge problems getting it hard..at best it was flaccid.. fortunately although he was a rent boy.. he loved to get fucked.

[Iker80]

I heard 5-6" is average size, so 7" is a big dick.

[SpectreAgent]

There are bathroom signs you can buy that read: “Stand closer. It’s shorter than you think.”

There’s many a truth told in jest…

[gingerballs]

Yes 7inches is a beautiful length. But the thickness or girth. I love a good beer can cock

[ErosWired]

6 hours ago, gingerballs said:

Yes 7inches is a beautiful length. But the thickness or girth. I love a good beer can cock

The girth (circumference) of the average human penis is 4.7 inches. The circumference of a standard 12oz. beer can is 8.44 inches.

Beer can cocks do exist. I’ve taken one. It took my breath away when I saw it. I’ve never seen another one like it. They’re exceedingly rare. It took every bit of endurance I had to take him to completion.

Let’s think about this. For most, the vast majority of men, how many in-the-flesh, real-time erect cocks have they actually seen, let alone handled? We’ll set aside bona fide slut-cases like me and some others on this forum who aren’t pretending about their sexual excesses - I mean most men. People don’t walk around with their cocks out. It’s illegal, for one thing, but by and large the culture conceals its genitalia. So on what basis does the average man decide what is and isn’t ‘big’?

Most men will see relatively few penises. Some more, some less. If a guy spends a lot of time in locker rooms, he’s likely to see more than if he spends that time in church, but even then the cocks are just as likely to be flaccid and not contribute to an overall impression of erect size. For most men, the amalgam of cocks actually seen will amount to a sampling too small to draw a statistically accurate conclusion.

But he’s going to take what he sees and use it as a benchmark to compare his own endowment, because that’s all the information he’s got - that, and a vague sense that ‘bigger is better’.

If that small sampling were all he was getting, he ought to be getting the impression that an average size was normal and common, because that’s what he would see. But that isn’t the conclusion he draws, because that real-life sampling isn’t all he sees. He also sees porn, and that exposure probably accounts for the vast majority of sightings of penises he sees. You don’t get to be in front of a pornographer’s camera unless you have a superlative cock, so the majority if most men’s impressions of what a human erect penis looks like come from a constant parade of nothing but the biggest.

Porn is an illusion. It isn’t real. It looks real, because it’s photography, and we think the camera’s eye tells the truth, but in reality, the whole thing is carefully organized, arranged, staged and directed to fool the mind into believing an outrageous fantasy.

And it’s so successful that we now think we actually live in a fantasy reality where every cock we can’t see is 8 inches long and thick as a beer can, and every time we look down we feel like we don’t measure up.

All I can say is that if every bottom who gushed about wanting a beer can cock actually took one up the ass, you’d suddenly hear a lot fewer bottoms wanting a beer can cock.

[JamesL100]

7 hours ago, gingerballs said:

Yes 7inches is a beautiful length. But the thickness or girth. I love a good beer can cock

The term for a fat cock is 'chode'. I only had reason to look this up recently 😎

[Heir2012]

10 minutes ago, ErosWired said:

The girth (circumference) of the average human penis is 4.7 inches. The circumference of a standard 12oz. beer can is 8.44 inches.

Beer can cocks do exist. I’ve taken one. It took my breath away when I saw it. I’ve never seen another one like it. They’re exceedingly rare. It took every bit of endurance I had to take him to completion.

Let’s think about this. For most, the vast majority of men, how many in-the-flesh, real-time erect cocks have they actually seen, let alone handled? We’ll set aside bona fide slut-cases like me and some others on this forum who aren’t pretending about their sexual excesses - I mean most men. People don’t walk around with their cocks out. It’s illegal, for one thing, but by and large the culture conceals its genitalia. So on what basis does the average man decide what is and isn’t ‘big’?

Most men will see relatively few penises. Some more, some less. If a guy spends a lot of time in locker rooms, he’s likely to see more than if he spends that time in church, but even then the cocks are just as likely to be flaccid and not contribute to an overall impression of erect size. For most men, the amalgam of cocks actually seen will amount to a sampling too small to draw a statistically accurate conclusion.

But he’s going to take what he sees and use it as a benchmark to compare his own endowment, because that’s all the information he’s got - that, and a vague sense that ‘bigger is better’.

If that small sampling were all he was getting, he ought to be getting the impression that an average size was normal and common, because that’s what he would see. But that isn’t the conclusion he draws, because that real-life sampling isn’t all he sees. He also sees porn, and that exposure probably accounts for the vast majority of sightings of penises he sees. You don’t get to be in front of a pornographer’s camera unless you have a superlative cock, so the majority if most men’s impressions of what a human erect penis looks like come from a constant parade of nothing but the biggest.

Porn is an illusion. It isn’t real. It looks real, because it’s photography, and we think the camera’s eye tells the truth, but in reality, the whole thing is carefully organized, arranged, staged and directed to fool the mind into believing an outrageous fantasy.

And it’s so successful that we now think we actually live in a fantasy reality where every cock we can’t see is 8 inches long and thick as a beer can, and every time we look down we feel like we don’t measure up.

All I can say is that if every bottom who gushed about wanting a beer can cock actually took one up the ass, you’d suddenly hear a lot fewer bottoms wanting a beer can cock.

In response to this post and your previous one, thank you. 

Yes, we love the fantasy of a huge cock. We love the idea of a normal guy having an 8' cock with "large" reaching a foot long. It gets us hard thinking about it. I get it. I do that too. 

The reality of the world is that anything 7 and larger is big. Even 6 is slightly above average. If only 9 is big for you, you're a lucky bastard. 

I'm not here to diminish the fantasy. My own stories on here have most men packing significant sizes. The message to all men is that what you've got is good. Use it well. 

[hntnhole]

35 minutes ago, JamesL100 said:

The term for a fat cock is 'chode'

Well, that's another new one for me ... never heard that term before.  Thanks, JamesL100 !!

[muscmtl]

17 hours ago, Iker80 said:

I heard 5-6" is average size, so 7" is a big dick.

My hero

[subiboy]

18 hours ago, Iker80 said:

I heard 5-6" is average size, so 7" is a big dick.

Same

[muscmtl]

1 hour ago, Heir2012 said:

The message to all men is that what you've got is good. Use it well. 

only on the holodeck. In current real world twitter/ scruff/ grndr/ bbrt the law of the land is : "tell me the size, prove it with a pic, and I'll tell you if it's good to use"

[muscmtl]

Well now that the counts are in, I'm happy that the majority think 8 is big. I was worried that we had moved to "9+ or don't bother"

[WillingRawVerse]

I've been told numerous times that I have a big dick. It's 7 inches and fat.

For me, anything over 7 inches is big, because most of the guys who fucked me were between 5 and 6.5 inches.

The biggest I've been with is 10 inches. He hits bottom. My 9" fuck buddy is thicker than the 10" top. I usually prefer girth over length.

[Piggyybttmm]

I consider a big dick 8in or bigger...of course guys are going to lie of course...i don't mind as long as it's not tiny

[BootmanLA]

On 11/20/2023 at 5:31 PM, partying.hard said:

1.  I don’t get it … why lie?  When you pull his pants off, you’re going to see the reality of it!

But you may be forgetting - a significant number of the guys on such sites aren't there to actually hook up - they're looking for a "connection" with someone for long enough online to craft a quick fap-fap session script for, and then ditch for the actual fap-fap. So they tell guys they're 8 thick inches or whatever and get a narrative going about how the guy likes it and gets some pics of the guy to use for visual stimulation and then - phone off - they can go to fappyland.