Tops and rimming

[ktopper]

I love to rim although I am a little bit picky about it. I think I am good at it. At least that is what bottoms tell me. Maybe they might be lying about it but I don't think so.  I like rimming almost as much as I love fucking male ass. Strangely enough while I enjoy eating female pussy I have never rimmed a lady's ass. Maybe I should try it just to see how they react. When it comes to guys I absolutely love making out with a hot ass before I fuck it. If there is a load or three in said ass already it is a bonus. My tongue slips right in and there is nothing in the world better than the taste of cum and ass together. Just typing this has my dick rock hard. I really need a piece of ass, the wife (in name only) is gone for a while so I am on the hunt starting tomorrow.

[Marlin]

Rimming is a must for me...Nothing sexier than a hairy hole winking at me, begging for my tongue. As I'm rimming, I will go back and forth between the hole and the mouth. Ass to mouth is so erotic. 

I rarely use lube so I'll spend a long time eating a man out, relaxing his hole but especially getting a lot of my saliva in there. Once we are fucking I will frequently pull out, get my tongue in there again making sure he is continuously wet, then kiss again sharing with the bottom so he can taste what I'm tasting. Once I cum , if I'm really turned on I'll felch what I just shot and snowball by seed with the bottom. 

No cleanup. Sperm is where it should be...inside the man and no cleanup of lube 

[bgboy]

I would love getting rimmed with my hands tied 

[ktopper]

1 hour ago, Marlin said:

Rimming is a must for me...Nothing sexier than a hairy hole winking at me, begging for my tongue. As I'm rimming, I will go back and forth between the hole and the mouth. Ass to mouth is so erotic. 

I rarely use lube so I'll spend a long time eating a man out, relaxing his hole but especially getting a lot of my saliva in there. Once we are fucking I will frequently pull out, get my tongue in there again making sure he is continuously wet, then kiss again sharing with the bottom so he can taste what I'm tasting. Once I cum , if I'm really turned on I'll felch what I just shot and snowball by seed with the bottom. 

No cleanup. Sperm is where it should be...inside the man and no cleanup of lube 

I can relate to this post completely. I love forcibly kissing a dude after rimming him. I also love it when a bottom cleans  my cock orally after we fuck. Back when I still bottomed I often did this.

[FelchingPisser]

I find it hard to imagine fucking a hole that I haven't had my mouth on--with my tongue as deep as possible...

[50latinos]

2 hours ago, ktopper said:

I can relate to this post completely. I love forcibly kissing a dude after rimming him. I also love it when a bottom cleans  my cock orally after we fuck. Back when I still bottomed I often did this.

 . . . we need to meet!!

[barefucker44]

11 hours ago, FelchingPisser said:

I find it hard to imagine fucking a hole that I haven't had my mouth on--with my tongue as deep as possible...

I agree, if a btm sucks my cock like he is obliged to, I think I have the responsibility to eat out his hole before I fuck it.  Just good fuck etiquette I think

[opensource]

On 5/1/2024 at 12:24 PM, drm1234 said:

I love getting rimmed,  especially as foreplay to getting fucked.  Super hot when a top lifts my legs to go down on my hole and gives me the look that we both know he's going to breed me.   And if he kisses me after rimming so I can taste and smell my hole on him.  Super hot.  

Love being rimmed! Nothing better then getting my hole eaten after it's just been loaded. Also love it when the top kisses me after his rimmed me so I can also taste it and get a taste of cum. There is something so yummy about it.

[jjxlo]

Nothing better than having a hot tongue up your cunt and around your hole.

[tallslenderguy]

i'm total bottom with some sub thrown in, but my sub parts only respond to a certain kind of Dom. Force, bullying, meanness are total turn offs for me and shut me down, a subtle, affectionate Dom opens me deeply and my sub part cannot do enough to please Him.

i explain that because my 'bottom' wiring perceives any kind of penetration as top, even rimming.  For me, rimming is one of the more subtle ways a Dom can open my hole and my soul, it can be very hypnotic for me to be rimmed and a very possessing thing a Top or Dom can do to open me for possessing. lol i'm a mind fuck kinda guy.

When a Top likes to get rimmed? Again, depends on the Guy.  i do love a Total Top Who doesn't like Their hole touched because they perceive that as bottom. i love the psychology of that. But i have been with Tops Who love to get rimmed and have found that when They are obviously enjoying it, my response to Their pleasure kicks in and the sub in me takes over to Their intense pleasure. i do love a Mans ass, so that part is not an issue. i do a lot of kissing, licking and biting along with it, it's not just concentrated total rimming. Love a Mans thighs as well, so i can get into the hole region, as long as the mood is right. If i perceive any kind of bottom from him, the connection gets lost for me though... no top in me.

[hntnhole]

1 hour ago, tallslenderguy said:

 i do love a Total Top Who doesn't like Their hole touched because they perceive that as bottom

You always "get it", don'tcha ..... 

During covid, I allowed it for the sake of the buddy who I was getting through covid with.  We trusted each other not to expose each other to covid, so it worked for a couple of sex-starved piggies.  For some incomprehensible reason, he really wanted to fuck me, and he had a very modestly-proportioned dick, but it did nothing for me; it was a "grin & bare it" situation.  Given the circumstances of the time though, it was just accommodating a friend/fuck buddy.  Desperate times call for desperate solutions, eh? 

[tallslenderguy]

10 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

You always "get it", don'tcha ..... 

During covid, I allowed it for the sake of the buddy who I was getting through covid with.  We trusted each other not to expose each other to covid, so it worked for a couple of sex-starved piggies.  For some incomprehensible reason, he really wanted to fuck me, and he had a very modestly-proportioned dick, but it did nothing for me; it was a "grin & bare it" situation.  Given the circumstances of the time though, it was just accommodating a friend/fuck buddy.  Desperate times call for desperate solutions, eh? 

Well, my "get it" i think it has to do with our very compatible wiring from opposite poles. We do synch on an awful lot <3.

Awhile back, maybe 2 years now? idk, i sorta fucked a guy. One of about half a dozen guys i have ever fucked in my life (and i'm in the >5000 cock club when it comes to bottoming).  i saw his profile on Squirt and my heart went out to him as a virgin bottom looking for his first experience. Add to that he was a student from a repressive culture in a country where gay people get killed.  i didn't want his first experience to be a bad one that would scar his soul, so i offered being very open about who and how i am. 

It was a pretty funny experience, and sweet too. He really was obviously virgin, didn't have a clue and was starved for touch and affection. my penis works fine, gets hard as a rock when a Top or Dom is saying all the things that hit my bottom/sub buttons. Mention using my penis for penetrative purposes? It just sits there. So i really had to psych myself... and took some viagra. Still, that barely worked. Especially since he was so tight. i got maybe 2/3 in, but not much fucking happened. Partly because i had to spend time letting him get used to it (and that was after liberal time spent lubing, fingering and opening him first). i did suck him and he came twice, so he was pretty happy, but any experienced bottom would have to have been sorely disappointed in the fuck. 

Not something i see myself trying again. To me, the psychological part is just to important, even if not acknowledged or discussed, i can feel the energy of a Man Who needs/wants to fuck, and i can feel the energy of a man who needs/wants to get fucked, and that is just too vital of a component for me. i'd rather go without than pretend or just do something mechanically.

[NWUSHorny]

10 hours ago, opensource said:

Love being rimmed! Nothing better then getting my hole eaten after it's just been loaded. Also love it when the top kisses me after his rimmed me so I can also taste it and get a taste of cum. There is something so yummy about it.

I fully agree about the post breeding rimming and felching as long as the bottom was clean there is nothing better than a tongue bath and sharing the taste of the fuck afterwards, regardless of whether I've topped, bottomed or both. In my case I want to be sure I get to clean the fuck sweat off my partners balls (I want to smell it in my beard as long as I possibly can) as well as cleaning any cum leaking from the hole or  residual cum from the cock.

[ktopper]

On 5/3/2024 at 9:17 AM, tallslenderguy said:

Well, my "get it" i think it has to do with our very compatible wiring from opposite poles. We do synch on an awful lot <3.

Awhile back, maybe 2 years now? idk, i sorta fucked a guy. One of about half a dozen guys i have ever fucked in my life (and i'm in the >5000 cock club when it comes to bottoming).  i saw his profile on Squirt and my heart went out to him as a virgin bottom looking for his first experience. Add to that he was a student from a repressive culture in a country where gay people get killed.  i didn't want his first experience to be a bad one that would scar his soul, so i offered being very open about who and how i am. 

It was a pretty funny experience, and sweet too. He really was obviously virgin, didn't have a clue and was starved for touch and affection. my penis works fine, gets hard as a rock when a Top or Dom is saying all the things that hit my bottom/sub buttons. Mention using my penis for penetrative purposes? It just sits there. So i really had to psych myself... and took some viagra. Still, that barely worked. Especially since he was so tight. i got maybe 2/3 in, but not much fucking happened. Partly because i had to spend time letting him get used to it (and that was after liberal time spent lubing, fingering and opening him first). i did suck him and he came twice, so he was pretty happy, but any experienced bottom would have to have been sorely disappointed in the fuck. 

Not something i see myself trying again. To me, the psychological part is just to important, even if not acknowledged or discussed, i can feel the energy of a Man Who needs/wants to fuck, and i can feel the energy of a man who needs/wants to get fucked, and that is just too vital of a component for me. i'd rather go without than pretend or just do something mechanically.

Yes, I agree with the poster who said you "get it." I enjoy your posts, you have interesting insights and have obviously self-examined a great deal. I'm betting you are probably a great piece of ass, intelligent people usually are.

[tallslenderguy]

On 5/2/2024 at 3:45 AM, ktopper said:

I love to rim although I am a little bit picky about it. I think I am good at it. At least that is what bottoms tell me. Maybe they might be lying about it but I don't think so.  I like rimming almost as much as I love fucking male ass. Strangely enough while I enjoy eating female pussy I have never rimmed a lady's ass. Maybe I should try it just to see how they react. When it comes to guys I absolutely love making out with a hot ass before I fuck it. If there is a load or three in said ass already it is a bonus. My tongue slips right in and there is nothing in the world better than the taste of cum and ass together. Just typing this has my dick rock hard. I really need a piece of ass, the wife (in name only) is gone for a while so I am on the hunt starting tomorrow.

This is profound to me, hit's so many notes in me at once, but very harmoniously.  No, i don't think they are "lying," i think even in the absence of affirming words, part of what energizes You is the experience and fulfillment of Your desire/need in the response of the person You are rimming.  As i see it, rimming for You is another form of "fucking."

my sense (which may be wishful thinking lol) is that Your  being "a little bit picky" is about the depth of connection? I.e., Your pickiness is about the reason You want/need to rim in the first place.  That "picky" is about finding Your opposite equal in intent/desire/need.

 In my terminology, my attempts to explain this stuff, put it into words, Your tongue and mouth are "Cock."  i have experienced Tops where They are so focused and connected, that Their finger, toys, words, a look, can all be Their Cock... and i have been "Cocked" by them in all those ways and more.

i have this very involved notion of what "cock" is, way more than a physical organ between the legs, that a Mans Cock is the energy, desire, need driving and expressed through the physical. But loot to  experience a Mans cock beyond the penis. Correspondingly, my 'hole' is way more  than a physical opening in my ass or face. 

i know i have written this in other places on BZ, but some of what constitutes a Top/Dom to me are: "Cock, penetration, fucking, molding, creating, orgasm, breeding, seeding, marking, inseminating, impregnating, possessing, controlling.... " to name several.  For me, bottom/sub corresponds to Him. yin to HIs Yang (no really new concepts here lol): "hole, penetrated, fucked, molded, creation, orgasm receiver/holder, bred, planted, marked, inseminated, impregnated, possessed, controlled."