Do you feel masculine when you bottom?

[TightBott7]

6 minutes ago, topblkmale said:

Yes

Yes

Yes

Yes

 

Many tops, myself included, are completely turned-off when bottoms become overly masculine (dominant) while getting fucked.

You know, the growling, woofing, 'acting thuggish' or displaying machismo. Yes, it varies by culture/ethnic background.

 

I totally agree. While I’m otherwise masculine looking and acting, Alpha tops have made accept that it’s my role to give up the last shred of masculinity and manhood to enhance theirs, and that I am at my best when I exclusively give up my mind and body to please a real man who’ll ultimately use me and breed me as he pleases. And for this I’m grateful.

[stillbreedin]

not only should you feel masculine whatever the role you assume, but in a course i took on human sexuality the professor claimed that the bottom  (he may have used the word 'passive') is always the one in control.  interesting, though i think it will generate a lot of negative views.

[blackrobe]

19 hours ago, topblkmale said:

Many tops, myself included, are completely turned-off when bottoms become overly masculine (dominant) while getting fucked.

You know, the growling, woofing, 'acting thuggish' or displaying machismo. Yes, it varies by culture/ethnic background.

The top breeder sets the tone.

I'm a very submissive and compliant bottom so I'll vibe with where he is. I feel strong when I'm giving it all up to a breeder, even when he's calling me his girl or faggot, talking about impregnating my pussy or cunt, I'm still giving him back the intensity that says he doesn't have to hold back. One Dom black breeder wants me silent no matter what he does to me. His dick gets bigger and harder when he hurts me and he only breeds me when he's holding me down with his hands around my neck calling me his white faggot.

I feel strong and masculine in taking everything he needs to dish out and surrendering to him, but there's nothing about that which is performatively masculine as I think you describe. 

[Rawonly06]

When i'm bottom, i just want cocks inside my hole and good loads that i will keep inside as long as i can.

It doesn’t change my feeling. I'm still a piggy guy.