What kind of guys turn you on? (Personality)

[hntnhole]

13 hours ago, topblkmale said:

So nope, I don’t fuck atheists nor do I leave evidence inside an agnostic.

Do you mean you actually ask guys about their religious beliefs before you fuck them? 

And if the answer isn't to your liking, you ditch them?

[NWUSHorny]

Versatile flip fuckers with no inhibitions about fucking or getting fucked by all in a group setting.

[topblkmale]

8 hours ago, hntnhole said:

Do you mean you actually ask guys about their religious beliefs before you fuck them? 

And if the answer isn't to your liking, you ditch them?

 

I don't ask, but I'm mainly attracted to guys from specific cultural backgrounds. So I can tell. 

A spiritual basis is very important personality trait for me as far as having a long term fuck buddy relationship.

I know its not sexy to most. But to me it is.

 

[hntnhole]

Thanks for that explanation, topblkmale.

I too enjoy the depth of character you refer to, assuming it's more than a 1-n-done.  I see spirituality as separate from religiosity, which contrivance I'm not interested in.  But a spiritual man, whose belief-system doesn't include dependence on magic, is always most welcome.  

Then again, I never ask guys about those attributes in the fuckjoints; it's only after getting to know a guy somewhat that their depth of character (or lack of it) becomes apparent.  

 

[Willing]

Mainly black guys, but wouldn't mind being used by a  long hard twink or several older than me dirty old men 😵

[DNG999]

Mediterranean bears, shaved head, facial hair, toned hairy body.  Yum!

[will_zeis23]

Hispanic guys though I don't mind most types of guys as long as they're pervy and into geeky things. Know I can barely tolerate sports talk and also not be jeleous as I do like to take a chance with 3somes. Also have a moderate to high sex drive. As I do. And maybe bi or curious. Just to keep things interesting. 

[Ieatcumholes]

Just caught up on this thread. A lot of people are listing physical characteristics and not personality traits. Sometimes they're hard to differentiate; other times they aren't...

I love a self-professed cumdump, whose goal is to take as many loads as he can in a given night. I also love a bottom who wants as many dicks as he can get in a night whether or not he gets loads from them.

Despite my history with insecure men, a man who is secure within himself is a huge turn-on.

Not quite to the "pushy bottom" extreme, but a bottom who can express what he needs and what feels good to him instead of just accepting whatever I do to him is also a huge turn-on. I think another way to phrase this is I like a sub who has an opinion and will express it (but will defer to me if our opinions differ).

Another personality trait I love is a guy who can laugh, even during sex. (Of course, not laughing AT the sex...)

I like a guy who is sexually adventurous and/or has a dirty mind.

I love a guy who understands that my use of the word "pussy" refers to something that is receptive , and not to something that is feminine...

If I think of anything else, I'll add it.

[anonCUMtainer]

On 6/21/2024 at 6:27 PM, Luvbbslut said:

As a top, i love my partner slutty. I mean, real slutty, a no load refused cumdump.

He would be open about it, talking about it with pride, no shame. I love them when they're insatiable.

This member just demonstrated the personality type of man I crave to be with and around.

[wonderfulwoof]

i like the men who understand i am a slut bttm in the bedroom but really an alpha in the public world.

it takes a lot to get to this stage in life, n of u understand me we both benefit a lot…  especially if he turns out to be a smarty as well.

[Fatbearsub]

Rough violent top breeders are top of my list!

[GuelphGuy72]

Dominant guys who know what they want and take control.

[backdoorjimmy]

As a bottom, I'm attracted to men who exhibit the qualities of a protector. Someone who's not just confident in their role as the dominant male, but who lives the role. If you want to turn me on, control everything in my life but do it to my liking.

Wrap your arm around my waist and hold me tight while we're walking, and I promise my ass will get hungry for your dick. If we're staying in, snuggle with me on the couch and hold my hand while we're watching TV. I'll have my lips wrapped around the base of your dick in no time flat. When we eat out, order for me but order my favorite dish. Drive the car when we go somewhere and rub my back the whole way. Hold the door open for me and pull out my chair at a restaurant. By the time we make it back to the car, I'll be ready to suck your dick in the parking lot. When we go to bed, fuck me in the missionary position and kiss me the whole time. I'll bring you breakfast in bed the next day and put my ass in the air when you're done eating. 

 

 

[cockfun69]

Confident but not cockiness

[hntnhole]

I'm most interested in guys that make no apologies for who and what they are.  Not that there are opportunities for depthy discussions at Slammer, but one can usually discern whether cumdumps are confident in their calling.  I don't need to get any arrogance from them, or "attitude" that's so assumed it's almost laughable. 

Just guys that need what I can do for them, and vice versa.,