Am I too vanilla? How are you vanilla, or not vanilla?

[NWUSHorny]

The question is mostly sarcastic, but to be fair:

     I'm not into partying, haven't really even experimented and don't want to

     Was never into bug chasing

     Don't enjoy toys

     Don't enjoy fisting and have no desire to even try it as a bottom

     Don't really care about gear, although if you are wearing leather chaps you can definitely have my pole and/or hole

     Not into roleplay

     Consider cocksucking merely foreplay not the main entree

     Hate cuddling, frotting, petting and massage

     Not really romantic or even particularly affectionate

     Have never been romantic relationship with a man, only women up to this point

     Look like the normal somewhat nerdish educated professional guy next door

What I am is:

     Bisexual

     If we have any sexual attraction for each other I will fuck around with any male or female

     I don't need to know anything about you, other than that you are horny, to have sex with you

     Exhibitionist

     Will fuck anywhere/anytime I can somewhat reasonably assume I won't get arrested (I've pushed this one pretty hard, but have luckily never been arrested)

     Love group sex, and am a complete pig when I get half a chance

     Completely uninhibited about sticking my cock in someone

     Completely uninhibited about letting someone stick their cock in me

     Not at all shy at an orgy

     If there is a pig pile I will be in the middle of it fucking and/or getting fucked, licking, sucking and kissing at the same time if I can make it happen

     Love ATM

     Love felching

     I've been with thousands of people

     I am unfortunately poz

     Am almost always on the lookout for someone who is cruising

     Take sexcations at gay hotspots and fully live up my fantasies when I can

What about you, how are you vanilla or not vanilla?

       

[phillygwm]

I personally don't care to compare myself to others that way.  Most of the guys posting on here are a lot more wild than I am.  AFAIK, I'm more wild than most friends of mine.  

Ultimately, it's whatever gets you off (or doesn't get you off, if you're into that) 🙂

Edited yesterday at 02:43 AM by phillygwm

[Ieatcumholes]

Agree with some:

On 4/21/2025 at 4:01 PM, NWUSHorny said:

The question is mostly sarcastic, but to be fair:

     I'm not into partying, haven't really even experimented and don't want to

     Was never into bug chasing

     Don't enjoy toys

     Don't enjoy fisting and have no desire to even try it as a bottom

     Don't really care about gear, although if you are wearing leather chaps you can definitely have my pole and/or hole

     Not into roleplay

     Consider cocksucking merely foreplay not the main entree

    I don't need to know anything about you, other than that you are horny, to have sex with you

    Love ATM

     Love felching

And don't resonate with others (don't necessarily disagree. but they don't really apply to ME):

On 4/21/2025 at 4:01 PM, NWUSHorny said:

     Hate cuddling, frotting, petting and massage

     Not really romantic or even particularly affectionate

     Have never been romantic relationship with a man, only women up to this point

      Exhibitionist

     Will fuck anywhere/anytime I can somewhat reasonably assume I won't get arrested (I've pushed this one pretty hard, but have luckily never been arrested)

     Love group sex, and am a complete pig when I get half a chance

    Completely uninhibited about letting someone stick their cock in me

     Not at all shy at an orgy

     If there is a pig pile I will be in the middle of it fucking and/or getting fucked, licking, sucking and kissing at the same time if I can make it happen

    Take sexcations at gay hotspots and fully live up my fantasies when I can

And I'm conflicted about a few of those:

On 4/21/2025 at 4:01 PM, NWUSHorny said:

     Look like the normal somewhat nerdish educated professional guy next door

     Completely uninhibited about sticking my cock in someone

     I've been with thousands of people

     I am unfortunately poz

     Am almost always on the lookout for someone who is cruising      

If someone called me a nerd, I'd hate it, but couldn't really argue the point...

My one inhibition is that if I won't stick my tongue in it, I'm DEFINITELY NOT sticking my dick in it!

(Clutch the pearls) I want to believe I'm still only in my first thousands worth... 😜

I am QUITE happy I'm poz, as otherwise, I don't believe I ever would've gotten in touch with my inner pig... 2+ decades ago, being diagnosed HIV+ was a much bigger deal than it is today...

I'm generally amenable to someone who's looking, but I have enough other things going on in my life that I'm more often THAN NOT "almost always on the lookout..."

I've said for a long time that I'm on the kinky side of vanilla, but definitely on the vanilla side of kinky... 😜

[PozTalkAuthor]

IMHO we should stop judging and labeling ourselves when it concerns sexuality.

Everyone of us should behave as they feel, without chasing (pun NOT intended!) social expectations. 

Like the one "gays are not made for romance" or the opposite "love is love"

or, that if you have a kink, you must necessarily search for others.

My thought is simple: experimentation is the key of human evolution; without curiosity and experimenting, we would never have discovered anything, starting from fire.

But after this, it's not mandatory to be hypersexual, or to always search for new experiences.

You can be extra-kinky even being monogamous, or you can be super-vanilla with no regular sex partners

always assuming that those labels make really sense.

[norefusal]

the first thing i did was try to see the OP's age and yes, i was far less kinky at that age. i don't know if other guys feel the same, but ive def morphed into a dirty old man. 😜

[Loveitraw]

Extending the metaphor, probably to breaking point but hey 🤷‍♂️, I like to think of most things as a selection. Whether its neuroses, quirks or kinks. Sometimes I like a scoop of vanilla, others mint choc chip, and then there are the days when I'll go crazy with sprinkles and balsamic vinegar just to see what happens.

When faced with a selection you have to wait a while to find someone who'll pick exactly the same as you. I find that leads to aiming for the common bits and take it from there. Lets be honest, even if you consider yourself kinky there are moments when something that comes up makes you think, "thats a little far/weird," and I believe that is true for everyone at some time. I prefer the many flavours approach because we all get to try somethings else. If everything is a spectrum that means that at one end there is someone who has to be considered the gayest/kinkiest and at the other is some poor bastard living in the most boring way and we're all somewhere in the middle. I much prefer thinking that whatever we're doing we're all the fetish of someone, somewhere.

[hntnhole]

I'd call you a regular guy - maybe with a more *refined* sense of tastes - but a hot, pig-minded regular guy ......   

[NWUSHorny]

17 hours ago, Ieatcumholes said:

I've said for a long time that I'm on the kinky side of vanilla, but definitely on the vanilla side of kinky... 😜

I like that. 

Most of what I'm not into is unlikely to change. I'm neither ashamed or proud of the fact that I've been inside or had so many people in me, I've certainly enjoyed it. As for being on the lookout, most of the time, is how I got to those numbers.

Edited 1 hour ago by NWUSHorny