SubOhioBttm Posted June 16 Report Posted June 16 On 6/14/2025 at 4:47 PM, BBBxCumDumpster said: In contemporary porn it's almost the norm. You're right. I think that this is what is at crux of this change. Gay porn was hard to find in the 70's and 80's. You had to go to a XXX theater, or a video booth porn shop. With the rise of the internet, and the ease with which all people can access porn - gay, strait and anything goes - people tend to crave something 'more' or 'new'... Harder hard core, more kink, push the extremes. It's somewhat like that in all forms of 'art'. What we see in cinema now would never have been seen 3 decades ago. Horror films from the 70' and 80's scared the shit out of me. The Exorcist in 73 pushed every boundary, and sold millions. I watch it now, and it seems almost tame to some of the slasher horror films of today. On 6/14/2025 at 4:47 PM, BBBxCumDumpster said: I'm not complaining about trend but noticing the way we have sex now is different than it used to be. At least in my experience. Does anyone else remember differently? I'm not complaining either. It is different. I didn't know what was out there when I started. Now, it's easy to see the extremes. I remember this much the same as you. I appreciate your thoughtful post. Thanks! Quote
ffabbian Posted June 16 Report Posted June 16 Years ago I spent hours with a guy kissing and simulating sex. Not fucking, no oral, no rimming, just kissing and our bodies grinding against each other. It felt like the best sex for both us. We were at a house party at the time and when we finally fucked at his flat it was just as good. I love to kiss. It instantly turns me on or off the guy. I'm more comfortable with fucking and fisting with a random guy and not ar all comfortable with hugging. It's too personal and I have to really like the guy first otherwise it's too weird. 2 Quote
ffabbian Posted June 16 Report Posted June 16 32 minutes ago, SubOhioBttm said: You're right. I think that this is what is at crux of this change. Gay porn was hard to find in the 70's and 80's. You had to go to a XXX theater, or a video booth porn shop. With the rise of the internet, and the ease with which all people can access porn - gay, strait and anything goes - people tend to crave something 'more' or 'new'... Harder hard core, more kink, push the extremes. It's somewhat like that in all forms of 'art'. What we see in cinema now would never have been seen 3 decades ago. Horror films from the 70' and 80's scared the shit out of me. The Exorcist in 73 pushed every boundary, and sold millions. I watch it now, and it seems almost tame to some of the slasher horror films of today. I'm not complaining either. It is different. I didn't know what was out there when I started. Now, it's easy to see the extremes. I remember this much the same as you. I appreciate your thoughtful post. Thanks! I don't know. I was into fisting and rimming before I saw any fisting and rimming porn 1 Quote
NastyRawBottom Posted 4 hours ago Report Posted 4 hours ago I have a questions for anyone who’s lived through it. Were cumdumps as prevalent after AIDS but before PrEP? Was the lifestyle much different? I feel like so many bottoms want to become cumdumps now or feel like they have to be. When I started being a cumdump in the mid-2010s it was still relatively rare and [banned word]. If you were a cumdump, you were pretty much a bugchaser. PrEP did already exist but it wasn’t as well marketed or understood. I never took it. I feel like many more bottoms are comfortable being cumdumps cause of PrEP and now Doxy. So I wonder how the cumdump lifestyle was in the years before I started. 1 Quote
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