Rough fucking

[hntnhole]

21 hours ago, Phallarchist said:

You're jamming something big and hard into a soft and easily damaged internal organ.

On the contrary;  I don't just "jam it in".  I have zero interest in causing harm or pain; I want the bottom to feel fantastic.  I want to reinforce his dependency on taking loads off raw cock, and doing it to the best of his ability.  

That means I take the time to eat the hole (unless he hasn't prepped), make love to the hole orally, play with it, finger it, and when he's ready, give him what he needs.  My goal is to give the bottom a fantastic fuck ... reinforce his lusts ... enhance his enduring hunger.  I don't want to harm anyone; that's completely antithetical to what I believe in.  

The one exception to these first two paragraphs, is if I'm negotiating a B/d S/m or 'Leather" scene, which requires a formal "negotiation" between the two men prior (by at least a day or two) and in some non-sexual environment.  Usually, I meet them and buy us lunch, and conduct the negotiation that way.  I never just "jam it in", but I do fuck bottoms in the fuckjoints that have been taking loads for a while, and are already loose from taking previous loads.    

I have absolutely zero interest in harming a guy, as you suggest in the above quote.  Your assumption is false.  

Edited November 14 by hntnhole
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[Phallarchist]

6 hours ago, hntnhole said:

I have absolutely zero interest in harming a guy, as you suggest in the above quote.
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I have not suggested any intent. I am referring to inescapable biomechanical fact.

[BreedingTop71]

On 11/13/2025 at 6:01 PM, Phallarchist said:

It's not a feeling, it's a fact. You're jamming something big and hard into a soft and easily damaged internal organ. It's violence that he welcomes, but violence nonetheless.

Violence has a negative connotation, I think that’s really the objection here, as it implies forced on someone. We ALL know faggots live for this type of action, many times frustrated as there aren’t that many tops to being with and to top it off, not all of us tops are into rough fucking. 

[Bokkierob]

I had one fuck buddy who needed it rough and I mean he needed to suffer pain to make him cum. He liked me to warm his arse up first with my heavy leather belt. Once his arse was real red I only put a spot of lube on my helmet and kept my shaft dry. He enjoyed feeling my dry shaft tear his hole wide open.  I’d fuck him face down on the bed and bite down hard on his neck and shoulder leaving bruised teeth marks all over his back. He shot his load every time I fucked him like that.

[Ozpig]

On 10/22/2025 at 12:27 AM, BreedingTop71 said:

What about pain? Does it matter to you if he hurts you on his way in or during fucking?

Not in the slightest. I totally surrender to men and their cocks. I am there for their use and that use is actually my pleasure. It's very psychological for total bottoms, We know we are powerless and just a receptacle for a man's cock and seed. Yet at the same time it empowers us, we know our holes are pleasuring the man. From the moment a cock enters my body, particularly my mancunt, every fibre in my body comes alive. It was like this is what I was born for.

[vanislebttm]

As a bottom,  I want to take it the way my top enjoys giving it.  That being said,  I want a boyfriend to always be rough.  If he wants to fuck other men,   he gives it to me harder than anyone else 

[TightBott7]

As I have shared before in other threads, I’m a total sub bottom that lives to please a top. I don’t seek to feel pain for pain itself. Instead, I welcome pain as a test of my commitment to please an Alpha top, particularly one who doesn’t give a shit about me or how I feel when he wrecks my pussy and degrades me just because he’s totally selfish and cares only about getting his pleasure. Definitely I could see falling in love with a top like that, a feeling that would only trigger a stronger desire to please him even as he inflicts more pain in the process.

[liger]

Getting fucked hard up the ass is never going to be a “comfortable” experience, but it’s still intensely pleasurable for a bottom like myself. I don’t want it gentle, or considerate or loving. I’ll try to prepare myself with lube (of some kind) and do my best to ensure my hole is as ready as possible to take dick, with a minimum of wasting the top’s time. Then I can revel in the physical sensations of a cock banging against my prostrate and insides, balls slapping against my ass, the sights, the sounds… Then there’s that psychological buzz that bottoms get from knowing they’re just being used as a fuckhole for other people’s pleasure. Verbal degradation is great as well. Even better if there’s an audience watching thinking what a slut you are and/or waiting their turn.

I don’t want to be injured, as that inhibits my ability to service tops, but I am happy to be pushed to my fucking limit. The top who left me gingerly walking away from the bathhouse sling the other night, dripping cum from a loose hole, was perfect. No concern for my pleasure, no asking if I was ready or if I wanted him to use a condom, just focused on himself, sniffing his poppers, occasionally checking the scene out in the full-length mirror beside us, and fucking me relentlessly for the next hour. He completely ignored my cock the entire time and he was perfectly right to do so. I can admit that I was struggling by the end: trembling, dehydrated, completely and utterly used… But I knew I had to hang on, concentrate on breathing, and give him and his superior cock what he needed. Then I knew I’d be worthy of the load he was building up to, undeniable verification of my cumdump slut status.

[Hungryforbbc]

On 10/21/2025 at 11:32 AM, IntoBBvisitor said:

 

If an agressive top fucks a faggot on a regular basis, the moment he decides he wants something more with the fag, the moment he decides to claim it as something more than just on of many other holes, the fag will engage itself and commit to whatever that is.

We endure it all to please, to get the attention, to validate ourselves but also to be chosen.

Facts. The right top can “break” a bottom like one would with a new prostitute - and from then on he owns you.

[hntnhole]

There are a number of ways to initiate a first-class fuck with a tight-holed bottom, and patience is needed from the Top.  

1.  Work the hole with your fingers, mouth, graduated dildos, starting gently.  

2.  Keep in constant contact (verbally) with the bottom, regarding what he's feeling, and gauge your efforts accordingly.  

3.  Include pleasurable acts in the "opening" process, first and foremost with your mouth and tongue.  

4.  Verbal praise can work wonders on the prospective bottom's mind, and thus his breedhole.  Always keep the positive commentary flowing, unless or until you realize the jig is up, and you won't/don't want to spend more time on it/whatever reason.  In any case, be kind.

5.  Keep working the hole unless it becomes clear that little progress is being made.  Be sure to compliment the bottom, encourage him, and if he apologizes, refuse to accept that apology.  Rather, praise him, encourage him, reinforce his lusts. Rome wasn't built in a day, and neither is an experienced cumdump.  

Know that if you can reach his mind, your cock will usually reach his fuckbutton too.  Never criticize the bottom's intent:  reinforcement of his cravings is crucial, even if it's not going to be your cock that breeds him.  

[blackrobe]

This ^^^. You embed your dick inside the bottoms mind long before you stretch his hole around it.

Getting the bottom to let go of any anxiety and feel all their needs and arousal is key. The more turned on and needy for dick I am, the more ready my hole is. Even eleven thick inches slide in a treat with the right mind-fucking beforehand.