How many men have you had sex with?

[Piggyybttmm]

It's pretty low compared to others....but probably around 50 or 60 men. Maybe more maybe less. 

[Poz50something]

17 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

i lost count after 707,231

I wasn’t terribly good at Maths…I stopped after 2000…and that includes quick ones in the lavvies of various shopping centres in Singapore…

[tallslenderguy]

26 minutes ago, Poz50something said:

I wasn’t terribly good at Maths…I stopped after 2000…and that includes quick ones in the lavvies of various shopping centres in Singapore…

i was joking. i've never counted, but i've been getting fucked for 40 years and just doing dirty math. This year has been a light year, and >1000 just this year.  So, who knows when there are years when i was getting several a day?  It's a wonderful life... in keeping with the situation. ❤️

[ballerva]

I don't have an official account, but it is probably more than 1,000 thanks to my long-time love of bathhouses and sex parties. 

[tallslenderguy]

4 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

i was joking. i've never counted, but i've been getting fucked for 40 years and just doing dirty math. This year has been a light year, and >1000 just this year.  So, who knows when there are years when i was getting several a day?  It's a wonderful life... in keeping with the situation. ❤️

i wrote back channel to one of  the conversation participants who asked, that i'm "exaggerating." sorry, i was playing around, thought others would catch on i was inflating :-). For those truly interested, i have not been fucked >1000 this year lol. About 3-5x a week this year, it varies. Prior to the internet and apps? 3-5x a day wasn't unusual, i suspect for a lot of us. Cruisy places were where we hooked up, and they were public parks, restrooms, BH, Adult book stores, etc..  It was not unusual at all to get fucked 3-5x, one right after the other in a hormonal feeding frenzy by Guys watching you get fucked by Another.  It was rare for me to go to a cruising location and not get bred. 

Even when the internet first started, i got a lot of Guys in AOL chatrooms. It was new. And CL?  Place an ad and Guys would respond. i got a lot of anonymous walk in that way.  I think it's not as quick or easy hooking up with aps in today's cruising world. 

Edited December 14, 2025 by tallslenderguy

[meetme]

Can I just say, not all of them, yet.

[Luvbbslut]

16 minutes ago, meetme said:

Can I just say, not all of them, yet.

Working on it i suppose

[meetme]

9 minutes ago, Luvbbslut said:

Working on it i suppose

Don’t ask me if we’ve had sex before and I won’t say no to anything you want to do to me now. One at a time and 14 or so on a good day. I’m just trying to be friendly

[Hole4u]

Since I posted here in early November I can add another 25 guys to the list. Crazy. 

[LatinSlutPozPhx]

More than 5,000, and always looking for new dicks

[meetme]

This is an appropriate topic to quote Martin Crowleys Boys in the Band, gays in the 1960s. “ I always thought I’d lose interest before I lost count.”

[tallslenderguy]

It's a fun topic, and i  jokingly chose a random, high number.   After a day of cruising, it was not unusual for me to have  difficulty remembering how many guys that day, let alone how many over a lifetime. 

But honestly,  it's never been about the numbers for me.  It was about the craving for connection in that magical way with another guy. The bonding of mutual desire and a very intimate level.  i cannot think of any other experience where two people can touch each and have a soul exchange with an otherwise stranger, in a relatively short time.  

The saying: "make love, not war," comes to mind.  Imagine if mankind spent its hormonal energy fucking instead of killing and destroying what a different world this would be?  The act crosses so many boundaries.  Definitely better and more effective than a handshake. 

[hntnhole]

7 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

 it's never been about the numbers for me.

That's true for me too. 

It's the connecting with my bros ... sharing our lusts, our depravities, our hunger, and being sated by giving my abilities, and receiving theirs.  Besides .... I couldn't possibly come up with any where near an accurate number.  Even if I could still blush, and someone-in-the-sky actually told me how many guys I'd fucked, I doubt I could manage a blush-ette.  

Those that were spectacular for one reason or another I definitely remember, even from undergrad days, and that was decades ago.  

[Slipitupme]

Been having regular sex since I was about 20 which is 50 years ago. I like it anonymous, just a cum dump. I guess with the saunas, toilets and cruising spots, I've averaged about three cocks up me a week. So that's about 7500!

BTW, at 10cc per ejaculation, thats about 75 litres of cum!

[BruxoCub]

On 10/23/2025 at 3:40 PM, NJRawDaddy said:

How many men (or people if you prefer) have you had sex with?

YES. 😅