Bottom technique

[miticax]

Was looking at some videos and what I've noticed is that bottoms when in doggie they sit mostly still, as in just taking the pumping from the top and no moving against the tops dick or do much.as in just servicing the top and let him control everything.

So mostly for tops the ask is if that's how you like it, or do you want for the bottom to also move, or clench his sphincter as you are pushing?

Not sure on the pattern for other positions, would like to hear your thoughts 

[NWUSHorny]

I like to have the bottom fuck himself on my dick and milk me with his sphincter part of the time. If I bottom and the top slows down I will definitely start fucking back, and love it when I'm getting close and a bottom starts milking me for all he is worth, so try to do the same when I bottom.

[Pozguyinchi]

It could be the position. Usually when I am still I do it because I want the top to have the best position to fuck. When I move around it usually makes things harder for him to breed. Dom bottoms also want their top to be in total control. 

[Luvbbslut]

As a top, when my boy is doggy, he doesn't need to move much. Let me grip your hips and pound you as i wish. Sure you can move a bit, but let me in charge of the fucking
When i'm laying on my back, then you could ride me and move on my dick as u wish. 

[NordicBtm]

7 minutes ago, Luvbbslut said:

As a top, when my boy is doggy, he doesn't need to move much. Let me grip your hips and pound you as i wish. Sure you can move a bit, but let me in charge of the fucking
When i'm laying on my back, then you could ride me and move on my dick as u wish. 

Yes totally this 💯

My big issue is though that many tops will pound very hard without gripping the hips properly so either you use a bunch of muscle to counter that (fine for a few minutes) or his falls out of your hole because he slammed into you and pushed himself out. Super frustrating when tops don’t get this basic fact of physics 😹

[Luvbbslut]

 

4 minutes ago, NordicBtm said:

Yes totally this 💯

My big issue is though that many tops will pound very hard without gripping the hips properly so either you use a bunch of muscle to counter that (fine for a few minutes) or his falls out of your hole because he slammed into you and pushed himself out. Super frustrating when tops don’t get this basic fact of physics 😹

well if you fell down while they pound you, let them climb on you and keep on fucking.
I enjoy laying on my slut while pounding his hole too

[NordicBtm]

7 minutes ago, Luvbbslut said:

 

well if you fell down while they pound you, let them climb on you and keep on fucking.
I enjoy laying on my slut while pounding his hole too

Yes of course this is what happens in a hookup and it’s completely unproblematic. But the issue is more at a sex club where you’re on your knees and guys are taking turns… lol 

[bareback-flipflop]

Don’t overthink it. You should move from instinct. As a top I feel the bottom and vice versa. 
I guess it works, but @NordicBtmplease confirm or deny 😉

[NordicBtm]

20 minutes ago, bareback-flipflop said:

Don’t overthink it. You should move from instinct. As a top I feel the bottom and vice versa. 
I guess it works, but @NordicBtmplease confirm or deny 😉

You are both right. I also had useful feedback from tops about what to do and not do and like @Luvbbslut said a lot was to let the top keep control and respond to his direction. Including staying still when he wants to do his thing, very important! I think a lot of guys that top don’t always understand that pounding in doggy is only effective to the point you bottom out in your bottom. When you  go further you just push the bottom away.

Anyway, good discussion 😹😈

[PozToxVersPig]

I agree with @bareback-flipflop - go with the flow and the instincts you have.  I've always done it, it's never backfired.  If it's anon, just try asking for what you want, and hopefully they'll do the same.

I don't get the one and not both mentalities.  It's nice to give the top a break and push back on their dick while they catch their breath.  It's nice to be held down and mounted and give open access.  I don't like getting spit roasted by strangers cuz most times, they have different rhythms and are only paying attention to themselves, so the bottom just bounces around haphazardly.  But generally - if someone tells me NOT to move, I'm gonna hold steady.

Two back-to-back assholes (both super jacked muscle dudes) about two months ago both kept telling me (yelling at me actually) that I was moving too much.  I was pinned down to my bed in both cases and their full weight on my mid-section, and their hands or forearms pushing me down.  I could barely breath let alone fuck them back.  They both came back a second time but yelled at me both times, "STOP MOVING FUCKER" "YOU NEED TO STOP FUCKING MOVING!" - I was NOT MOVING! 🙂

[onlyraw]

All of this just goes to show that there is no one right universal answer - each top, each fuck, is different 

and @NordicBtm, is it basic fact of physics? Or engineering?  🧐

[PozToxVersPig]

8 minutes ago, onlyraw said:

All of this just goes to show that there is no one right universal answer - each top, each fuck, is different 

and @NordicBtm, is it basic fact of physics? Or engineering?  🧐

100%.  I'll throw one wrench in the gear though.  I think about 60% of the dick that I've taken have been from people of color, many in some way with strong cultural connections to the culture of origin.  We know how it influences music, dance, and movement.  And my statement is not meant to be universal either, but there are some different rhythms between Latino, Arab, Indian, Black and (i''m craving it out from Latino) Mexican men that I've noticed.   AIt's not causation, more influence to varying degrees, and I love all of it! 🙂

 

[SFCumdog]

My experience has been that the older I have gotten the more I need a certain rhythm, sustained long enough, in order for me to unload. So I feel like I need to set the pace so that I can sustain that rhythm, and keep getting the best feelings possible, if I ever want to cum. Bottoms moving around and/or trying to control the fuck, just break that rhythm, and if it happens too often, then I pass the point at which I think I can cum. Another thing that really throws me off is when anyone else gets to close to you on the bed while you are fucking and it causes the terrain of the mattress to dip or shift , I then lose balance and focus and have to get back into it again.

[Warmnsalty]

I LOVE doggie, as a submissive bottom there's nothing better than being head down, ass up. The top mounts and uses me for his pleasure. I don't "fuck back" will definitely push back when he's balls deep letting him know how much I love having him buried in my cunt. But active fucking, I don't. Maybe I'm doing it wrong but that's what feels right to me. 

[NWUSHorny]

4 hours ago, NordicBtm said:

Yes totally this 💯

My big issue is though that many tops will pound very hard without gripping the hips properly so either you use a bunch of muscle to counter that (fine for a few minutes) or his falls out of your hole because he slammed into you and pushed himself out. Super frustrating when tops don’t get this basic fact of physics 😹

Unfortunately there are both tops and bottoms that can't seem to figure out the physics of how to fuck. I'm pretty adaptable so I can find something that will work with most, but not all guys. Locally I run into a lot of guys that only fuck in one position, typically one that isn't all that comfortable for me either as a top or bottom.