IntoBBvisitor Posted 3 hours ago Author Report Posted 3 hours ago 12 hours ago, Olderkinkybiguy said: As a predominantly Top, I can only speak for myself . I tend to play off the bottoms vibe. Not knowing your discussion with the 22yo before meeting, it’s hard to draw any conclusions to your situation. If I had to speculate a hypothesis, I’d say things have definitely shifted to the more extreme side over the years for a few possible reasons. the ready access of porn might be to blame, or at least the prevalence of online access too hookup sites. Back when I was in my 20’s, I met and hooked up with guys the old fashioned way. Typically a drunk encounter in a gay bar. The only sexual ideas were from real practical experiences. As I hot older, and had more encounters, my understanding of sexual encounters expanded, as did my comfort level. It seems a lot of online guys lack practical experience and skills. another factor might be life in general. I don’t believe too many of us have escaped the growing tensions and restrictions of every day life. I find more people carry a great deal of frustration around. Sex can be a great release if done correctly, but not all bottoms are created equal. Some like being used and fucked without mercy, others not so much. my guess is your 22yo lacked practice experiences. And possibly the bottoms he was fucking didn’t offer constructive criticism or advice. If you liked how he treated you, than that is fine. If you felt he should have done things differently, than you should have offered some constructive guidance. It’s be my experience that young people in general lack a lot of the same qualities my generation were taught. It’s not just sexuality, but in general. I was lucky to have a lot of real life sexual encounters early on, AOL was in its early stages. I even had a few older mentors to help mold me into the Top I am today. Although I do enjoy the youthful energy and sex drive younger guys typically possess, it’s often not worth the frustration of emotional immaturity that often accompanies them. I have been fortunate to know a few younger people who were not typical, but they are getting harder to find. I suppose the system is winning! 😭 I think the same, fuck'apps and easy access to every time harder and harder porn are to "blame". That 22yo guy was good, really good, and that s why I went along with his way of fucking me. I know there are other bottoms that will satisfy him and I want him to pick me next time. What strikes me, and my point here, is this change that happenned... 20 years ago I would I would give blow job, and my tops would be happy with that. Today, they "fuck" my face, it s like a trend in which it seems the bottoms have to adapt and outperform themselves, that s all I m saying... Look at fist fucking as another exemple. It s not my thing but... There are now vids and vids in X of brutal prolapses. It s not only fist fucking anymore and it feels like, in little time, fist fucking without these extreme "arming" performances once again endured by the bottoms, will be regarder as vanille sex. Quote
IntoBBvisitor Posted 3 hours ago Author Report Posted 3 hours ago That 22yo guy was good, really good, and that s why I went along with his way of fucking me. I know there are other bottoms that will satisfy him and I want him to pick me next time. But that s not my point. What strikes me, and my point here, is this change that happenned... 20 years ago I would I would give blow job, and my tops would be happy with that. Today, they "fuck" my face, it s like a trend in which it seems the bottoms have to adapt and outperform themselves, that s all I m saying... Look at fist fucking as another exemple. It s not my thing but... There are now vids and vids in X of brutal prolapses. It s not only fist fucking anymore and it feels like, in little time, fist fucking without these extreme "arming" performances once again endured by the bottoms, will be regarder as vanille sex. Quote
Recommended Posts