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"Dress codes" so to speak have been going on for years. I've been with friends in New York at a leather bar who were asked to leave because they were far too formal. I don't think it's indicative of any particular city, it is up to management as to who they want to let in. In my situation, the guys were in their 20s and 30s, they were in shape, but their attire was not appropriate. I told them so in the ride over to the bar and they laughed and thought because they were attractive they could somehow convince the bouncer they should be allowed inside. Well it didn't work. I do know of certain bars where you can come into the general area, and as long as you are of legal drinking age there are no issues. But if you want to go into the "back room" or "dark room" there was another bouncer, and in this case the rules were different. I usually wear 501 jeans, a tank top, and either boots or sneakers. But that is what I wear in almost any gay establishment I visit. One thing that was not on the door - no cologne! I have seen this in both the US and abroad, so you have to keep that in mind. I've never been told by a bouncer I was too old, or too out of shape, or too ugly. But the cologne rule, that was enforced. I suppose clubs have 'fetish" nights, and like other posters have mentioned, talk to locals and make sure you wearing the appropriate attire. It's a sobering experience to be told NO at the door.

Kind of a shame the story didn't continue. But indeed there was a time I was asking the same question. There is truly only one way to know what it's like to be poz...

that is infact the way I wanna get pozzed-having no chance to regret it & get loaded up continuosly until it takes. I'm scared, worried how ill cope & how it will affect my family life but this is just perfect in the way I want to go that next step. I can't wait to read the next part-will hubby come home & give in & poz the lad up as wejl-will they get friends around & tag team him or will he go thru the club picking up older guys and passing on the bug?

I've heard comments like that for years - and I am not bragging, many of my friends tell me that guys they hook up with make similar comparisons to their girlfriends. Another thing I hear is that straight women seem to be less inclined to suck dick than a gay man would be. Therefore their boyfriends start looking elsewhere to get head. I'm not saying that straight women don't like sucking dick, but I have heard that a lot of guys seems to have to "encourage" their girlfriends to do so.

What strikes me is that both Phil and Angelo are new to you. Getting too far into projecting a future with someone we just met is, just too soon. Enjoy each date as it comes.

I love black cock...always have. Most black guys love and know how to fuck!

You are right - depends on the person of being raised - surrounded and friends he is used too - maybe movies - depends on factors - I am not a expert !

To the part of ourselves that lingers. A day after James and I stopped seeing each other, I went back on the Hinge app and started going through the backlog of guys who had liked me during the three weeks I’d been off the app—because I was dating James. One guy in particular stood out. His name was Phil (short for Phillip with two Ls), and out of everyone I replied to, I secretly hoped he would be the one to text me back. Fortune had it—he was the only one who actually did. We connected deeply, on so many levels. Mutual interests like gaming, movies, writing, and reading. Deep thoughts. Long messages. Quick wit. All of it. We scheduled a date for the upcoming Saturday, and in the days leading up to it, we exchanged texts and even had a phone call that lasted three hours. When the day arrived, we met at a restaurant called Universal on Bygone Street in the city—halfway between us. We live about an hour and twenty minutes apart, seventy-five kilometers to be exact. I felt comfortable within the first five minutes of meeting him. We talked about our lives, our careers, relationships—everything in between. To both of us, the date went extremely well. There was just one problem. Philip had recently come out of a seven-year relationship. It’s been just three months. He told me this upfront, even before the date, and gave me the choice to continue or not. I said yes—I was happy to go along for the ride. But I had my doubts. Can someone truly move on after just three months from something that deep? Is the heart really healed enough to let someone else in? I didn’t have to wonder for long. The next night, he sent me a message saying that while he had a really great time, he needed to be honest with himself. He realized he’s not looking for anything serious right now—he’s still in a healing space. And I understood. He said he’d still like to hang out, if I wanted to. When I asked about boundaries, he said he was happy with hugging, cuddling, and sex—what he confirmed as friends with benefits. I told him I was okay with that. What happened with Paul a few months ago taught me something important: to accept people for the version they are now, not the version I hope they’ll become. That means I’m not holding out hope that Phil will heal and, at the end of that process, suddenly open the door for something more. That’s a nice fantasy, but it’s not healthy. It creates pressure. It sets expectations. And it prevents me from loving or showing up for who someone is, in the present moment. So I told myself: I’ll keep living my life with him in it, as a friend, maybe something physical, but I won’t invest my heart too deeply. I’ll protect that part of myself. I’ll save it for someone special. A few days later, I met someone new on Hinge. His name is Angelo. He’s from the Philippines, eight years younger than me. I’ve dated someone with that age gap before—it was wonderful. Angelo is 27. He’s building his career, his home, his life. We vibed. We had our first date just a few days ago—home-cooked dinner, movies, a lot of cuddling. He’s already excited for our second date, which we’ve planned for next week. But here’s the truth. A part of me is still with Phil. The situation is messy as hell. I still have feelings for him. I’m being honest about that. And because of that, I can’t fully give myself to Angelo—not right now. I can feel the imbalance. The way Angelo likes me, versus how much of myself I can actually give back. It’s uneven. And I find myself caught between two worlds, two men—splitting my heart without fully cutting the tether to Phil. So now I lay here in bed, staring up at the ceiling, wondering what to do. What would closure look like with Phil? What would surrendering myself fully to Angelo look like—for him, and for me? I take a deep breath. And I trust myself. I have faith in myself. That I’ll walk out of these woods in one piece.

I sorry that it happened to you. I have spent a lot of time in chastity as well. I usually make sure that I empty my bladder prior to getting bred. Not sure if that helps but I do feel better.

Great idea fella!

Tonbridge / paddock wood area here. But regularly travel down to hastings and St Leonards

I typically walk around with my towel slung over my shoulders so my hard cock and my bubble butt are exposed and ready for action. I always get a room and am happy to do 1-1 sex there, but I also like fucking in public sections (in the steamroom). My hometown bathhouse isn't nearly as active as it was pre-Covid, so I haven't been going very much lately.

I'm still in touch with my "daddy", although I feel a bit odd referring to him like that now, and he is up for a bed meet this weekend. It's been a long time since we last me. I will definitely go, but part of me craves something new. Any advice?

dublin / kildare based here, id love to meet like minded guys in ireland, let me know what transpires...

I also check to see who is coming in at the same time. Then it gives you a time line on when they are probably wanting to dump their loads. Most guys hold off until the end to cum. Those are the guys I want to play with.

You question why Dems got so many fewer votes but seem to be completely uncurious about how Biden could get an unprecedented jump in the number of votes in 2020 compared to Obama or Clinton. You then “think” that Musk rigged vote tallies. Any supporting evidence for that “thought”?

I typically get a locker, not a room. Start by making sure I see who's checking in at the same time. Make eye contact with anyone who looks like they could be fun. I start in the sauna and steam room because I like the benefits of both of those rooms, and sometimes you can find some hot fun (pun intended). Then I walk through the areas to see if there's any groups playing or men looking - gloryhole area, sling area, video rooms, or at Flex Cleveland, the asylum. I like playing in the public areas. It's a turn on to suck someone or get fucked with guys watching.

Depends on what it is and the intensity and duration of it all. Sodomy under normal conditions isn't going to push the prostate and lead to inflammation. However, if you start getting into the level of use and size I get--multiple days of heavy fisting at events and multiple events close together it's possible to get prostatitis in my experience. I just did 3 multi-day events in 6 weeks time (CLAW, spring Fist Fest and Furry Weekend Atlanta) and ended up with it from so much heavy and extreme size use. It's an easy fix, though: Bactrim DS and Prednisone.

Findom, humiliation, toxic loads, dad/son

Wow! I love this latest chapter….great writing!

I live about an hour away from the Bathhouse I go to. I clean out good before I go. Also I like at least my balls clean shaven. I always get a room. I get there early so it's normally not a problem. I strip naked grab my towel and my blub cleaner. I go to a bathroom and touch up on my clean out. Then back to my room. I put a ball clincher on my nuts. I like to tell guys to grab and squeeze my balls when they are fucking me and the clincher makes it much easier for them to get a good grip on them. I live my hole with Vaseline. Hoping it will break a condom if a guy uses one on me. Them I go to the shower and rinse off. Go in the hot tub and talk with a few guys if someone is in it. They have three TVs playing mostly gay porn that you can watch while in the hot tub. I go in the steam room for a bit. Then into the sauna . If nothing happens there then I'll start milling around. Normally with the towel over my shoulder. I'll check out the video room, darkroom, sling, and video room. I walk around all of the rooms looking for a door open with a guy stroking his dick. That normally means he is a top. If I find one I'll start by sucking his cock and I'll ask him to fuck me. When going to all of the different places if I do find a guy that shows interest I'll tell him my room # and I ask him to stop by. I'll put my room # on the blackboard and bbb. Then I'll head to my room, leave the door open and lay on my stomach with my legs spread and my ass facing the door . Like most things it doesn't always work. I get board quick though just laying there waiting. I then just go to random places still looking to get fucked. I will suck random guys but what I really want is bare dick in my ass. Doesn't always happen but I don't get discouraged. I've done very good there and sometimes just got to suck a fer dicks is all. Bathhouse is definitely hot or miss but I never really regret going. Best I've done is leaving with like 5 loads in my ass. And I have been lucky enough to have a few black guys fuck me and cum deep in me. Those are the best. Any advice anybody can give me to get fucked more will be greatly appreciated.

The Hyatt has these sorts of bathrooms on the floor with the conference rooms. I’ve also hooked up there among other things 😈😈😈 Not saying it’s the only hotel in the area with that set up, could be others.

No. When I do it’s to make sure we are both poz toxic

Actually happened. Met up with a guy off Scruff the other night. Chubby guy, but so my type. I actually didn’t think he would be into me but seemed keen. Facial hair and thick 8” cock. I was a bit concerned about the thickness and hoping he wouldn’t be too rough. Came over and straight away was kissing me in the hallway. Then straight to the bedroom and clothes off and some p[passionate making out on the bed. He got hard straight away and was rock hard. So flipped me over and slid straight in. Thank god I stretched with a dildo before he came over. About 5 mins of fucking and he grunted and groaned and was flooding my insides with a huge load. Rolled off me and turned me over and spent about an hour making out and kissing and cuddling. Was such a good kisser. Then hard again, so flipped me back over and he was back in me fucking me again. The first load must have been huge as this time there was cum all over the sheets, and it was slopping as he fucked me. Again, he dumps another load in me staying in me for about 5 mins kissing my neck before going soft. He stayed another hour, just talking, kissing and making out. He was cuddling me from behind caressing me when I felt his hard cock again against my back. I just cocked my leg, and he was inside me again. Not long before a third load was pumped into me wet sloppy hole. We made out some more and he left. Me sore and literally wet and leaking cum. Fell asleep naked with all his seed in me.

Never had a condom in me always fucked raw and love it. Love pnp parties where no one gives a shit just swap dicks and holes everyone knows the risks and that's half the fun. Most guys I meet soon know that I am an easy lay I go for guys who want to fuck.