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Unfortunate, but apropos. We've raised an entire generation of people who cannot accept criticism and are precious little snowflakes who've never heard honesty, brutal as it may seem, in their lives. I'll qualify my perspective: I'm Gen X. We came of age in a recession, were criticized for being slackers when we weren't, and we didn't have helicopter parents (ours made us play outside with other kids, meaning that you generally had to be physical). We'd argue with our mates, say unkind words and insults, then run along and do something else as if nothing happened, so we had a thicker skin. I recall being a manager and hiring my first millennial. He could not accept critiques of his work from a boss, no matter how truthful or constructively phrased, and only wanted to cherry-pick the work he liked. In short, he sucked. And I had to put him on a performance plan before eventually sacking him. I tried the nice approach, and also asked him whether the blunt and meaner approach did more to drive the message. He preferred neither and honestly just wanted to be told how great he was, so for him I could have called him lazy, unprofessional, and lacking any drive -- and I did -- and it didn't matter. I didn't have to work with Gen Z'ers, so cannot comment on that. See my above: For many, you can try either and it'll make no difference because it isn't something they want to hear. In managing people, I've often had to be direct and constructive, and they still didn't want to hear it. Logical arguments? Ha! You can forget those, they're no different in their view, and I've had people resort to just lobbing insults your way (for instance, "You're racist" when race was never at issue) versus being able to politely disagree or concede an argument. So for them, you could put lipstick on it and drown it in perfume, but they'll still interpret your intentions as 'mean'. I can't control how someone else accepts feedback. In my view, one is 'constructive' and one is just 'harsh with little redeeming value besides being candid'. It's not about being 'nice'. I'll relate a quick story: I once interviewed with a Hedge Fund (won't say which) where people were very direct and blunt with criticisms. If someone criticized your work, they had to be specific in examples although it could be painful. If they just said "you suck", you could easily respond with "Well that doesn't give me anything actionable, so until you can make your argument, fuck off." One was constructive, one was insulting without actionable guidance. I'll debate the constructive one if you can cite proper arguments to substantiate your point all day, everyday.

Clever. But since you responded to me, I prefer the “say what you mean” line.

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Same here. I’m always caged now. As for this topic, I’ve changed more to thongs than jockstraps. But I’m a hopeless submissive bottom so either works for me. I am at a place to get loads.

"Looking to get fucked." If they can't figure out from seeing me wearing a jock strap and bare ass leather chaps, totally exposing my ass, then I take it that they're looking for something else.

Honestly, although the uncle absolutely loved fucking his blindfolded nephew, after the fact, he suddenly felt really guilty about it. He begged me to not tell the nephew who fucked him. I’m sure feelings will change at some point and they will get together again.

I don't think Elon is controlling the other social media platforms. But yes, the other platforms certainly have their algorithms that are pushing content. I've stopped using Facebook because it was obvious pushing ragebait at me. Now my main platform is reddit and it pushes things like umpire rules forums at me because it knows I like baseball, and twinks it pushes lots of photos and videos of twinks at me cause it knows I'll click.

I think You have a point Rillion. Does your point apply to other social media platforms or are you asserting that X is unique in that respect?

My friend had giardia from eating ass and it seems awful. It took a while to diagnose so he had terrible diarrhea for a while. this sucks especially since I’ll recently gotten into eating ass and felching.

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I posted this on another thread, but has Jon Phelps from Slammed done other porn? I can’t find him anywhere else

Disclaimer: Just because I reply, doesn't mean I know what I'm talking about. There are a couple thing I can think of that may be going on. First, HIV and PreP medication doses are higher than needed for viral suppression. These meds are (almost) as effective if taken every other day compared to taken daily. One reason they are prescribed as a daily med is that it is easier for people to remember to take them daily instead of trying to remember an alternate day regimen. Even though you are missing doses, it could be that you are still taking enough to maintain viral suppression. Another possibility is that you are an "elite controller" which means your body is able to keep the virus under control on its own. It would be good to talk to your doctor about it and they could test for or monitor your ability to maintain viral suppression without meds, or they might switch you to one of the newer, longer lasting meds like the injectable which is one dose every two months. I hope you're able to continue keeping the virus under control. Reduced meds means lower costs and lower impacts to your liver and kidneys.

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I picked other as I wouldn't call him an ally but he was better than other Popes.

You can tell the truth without being mean about. Both of these can be true statements: "Wow, you are fat!" "It would be better for your health if you lost some weight." Is one nicer and one meaner? Are they both mean?

X is whatever Elon wants the algorithm to push to your feed.

Well, yeah. Since everybody has different susceptibilities, you do sort of have to figure out how far you can go on your own. Some guys with sensitive skin may start to feel chafed after being wet for less than an hour, while others can go all day without a problem. If you want to be wet, and know you are prone to rashes or fungal infection, you can try to be proactive to reduce or prevent the likelihood of an occurrence. Basic strategy is to apply something that acts as a barrier between the wet stuff and your skin. You can try baby oil / mineral oil (they're the same thing except baby oil adds a fragrance) Oiling your crotch can get you feeling a little raunchy even before you piss yourself. If you are prone to fungal infections, apply an athlete's foot / jock itch ointment proactively to areas it is most likely to effect. If your foreskin gets irritated easily, you could try applying a little bit of antibiotic ointment to cut down on bacterial growth. You need to figure out your own limits as to how long it's comfortable to be wet, and avoid going longer. When your play session is over, unfortunately, you need to wash it off. As much as you may like to stay wet, It's important to wash and dry yourself to keep any potential rashes at bay. And once you're clean and dry, if you're still horny, you can wet yourself again. For daytime wear, I think piss stained undies work well. After a series of repeated wetting, they'll take on a strong stale piss aroma that fills the air around you whenever you open your pants. The key is to dry them quickly and thoroughly (but without heat) after they are wet. A blower fan works great for this. Let them rest a day then piss them again. Once you've pissed in them a few times, they should be ready to wear. If you've dried them well between wettings, and you're not overly sensitive, they shouldn't irritate your skin to wear. Make several pairs so you can trade off everyday. And remember, you don't have to limit yourself to just piss stains. You could dedicate a pair to wiping your smeg off everyday. Or, you can make one pair an old school cum rag. Or, if you bottom, push out a few loads of ass slime, lube, and cum into a pair so it smell like raunchy sex. That way, you can have a different aroma to arouse you every day. That's a basic idea. Beyond that, just be creative and have fun.

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Thanks for this nice story. I'm cumming..

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Hey currently on a 4 night short vacation to NYC and looking for recommendations, bars, clubs, sauna, then who knows after that 😜😈 I visited the East Side Club on my last visit and had a hot time there, so that is definitely on my list. It would be good to know when is the best time to go? What about the Eagle? all ideas and suggestions welcome 😜 or PM me if easier.

Oh damn that's a hot story - and a gorgeous body and a helluva cock to dole it out too! -- Nothing close, but back a few years ago had a boy on Grindr be fairly pushy about getting throat fucked and loaded up. And I *love* throat fucking OMG, but it's fairly rare a guy can take me down his throat for more than a few thrusts alas. Not overly big, I'm just really hard and very straight cocked. Throats aren't made that way mostly. But he really insisted, and I warned him that he was in for a likely rough time unless he was exceptionally talented, and if he came over he *was* going to deliver on his promise talented or not. ...and overly talented he was not as it turns out. Plenty of rough gagging and a little puke, although his stomach was empty so no biggie. Took my time and really enjoyed punishing his throat with long strokes, deep slow grinding, etc. To his credit, he never overly resisted and only had to hold his hands down notably at the beginning. [and pin his head with my thighs a bit just to make sure!] He definitely left more liquid on the floor, than I shot into his belly with my load, but I still remember how hot it was to push his breath control right up to near panic as I injected my load into him and properly enjoyed it all - before letting him up. Most of the time when I'm extra rough on boys' holes they always come back for more, but this one didn't. I mean I did warn him.