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We change sexually as we get older. How has your sex life changed over the years? Here are some of my changes... I didn't realize guy gave themselves hand jobs until I was in college. I always humped the bed (think frottage with one person). I remember giving myself a handjob for the first time in my sister's living room watching porn (while she was at work). I was probably a Junior in college by that point. [i still hump the bed sometimes. It feels good.] I used to like condoms. I liked the tightness on my dick and I liked the fact that they protected my dick from shit. My favorite way to cum used to be riding a guy's cock (face to face) and jacking my dick. The orgasm's were intense that way. Haven't done that in almost 20 years. I used to get into butt plugs. I remember in college wearing them to classes. Didn't do that very often though. This was before I actually had sex with another guy. I remember how painful it was to get the butt plug out after being in there for hours, and how the hole didn't close up - there was a perfectly round hole that stayed open for a while after I took out the butt plug. This is a little off topic but related to the last one... I also remember buying this HUGE dildo in college (before I actually had sex). I tried so hard to get it up my ass, but in hindsight you'd pretty much need to be a fist pig to get something that big up your hole. I used to be so disappointed that I couldn't get it up there - I spent a lot of time trying... So how about you? What did you used to get into sexually that doesn't really interest you anymore? -
One of our users, MixMutt (Sam Storicks), died the other day. I'm really going to miss him. I used to follow him on Twitter and his humor was so dry and sarcastic it would make me laugh. He just had a way of looking at things that was different than everyone else. He was special. Sam was a flight attendant and a DJ. I always wanted to meet up with him when he was in NYC, but the last time he was in NYC (about a week before he died) he just had enough time to sleep and he was staying way out by JFK so it wasn't really possible to meet up with him. http://twitter.com/MixMutt http://www.facebook.com/sam.storicks?ref=search Here are a few pics of him (he was one of the first to post a gallery of pics here)... See more pics of him in his photo album - he uploaded the max 60 pics. Life can be short. Make sure you enjoy it.
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Masculine, Submissive Bottom visiting SF
rawTOP replied to RawPlay4Now's topic in San Francisco / Oakland / San Jose
Hey RawPlay4Now - Welcome to Breeding Zone! Hope you have a great time in SF. You can add you're A4A, BBRT and YIM profile names in your profile here (forget if you can add the AOL one). The YIM one actually shows up as an icon on your posts so guys can click and chat with you. -
Flashcard - If I haven't said it yet - Welcome to Breeding Zone! Your top's reaction reminds me of an ex-boyfriend I had who just couldn't deal with the fact that he was poz. He had a hard time admitting it to himself, never mind someone else. It wasn't until I found a KS lesion on him that he admitted it (years into the relationship). But that was 1993/1994 and things were different back then 'cause ARVs hadn't come out yet. You're the perfect person to confront him about it because you love him, and having it out in the open won't change anything between the two of you. I may make the sex more intense. But he'll be better off if he comes to terms with it and learns to accept himself and love himself. Fear and self-loathing are never good for the soul. In terms of a poz top not being upfront about his status. There may be legal implications, but he is on meds so chances are his viral load is "undetectable" so he's probably shooting blanks and the risk to the guys he fucks is low. It sounds like he rubbers up most of the time anyway. I wouldn't approach him from that perspective anyway. The core issue is that he needs to accept himself and love himself.
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How much of your difficulty has to do with being HIV positive, and how much has to do with psychological issues, and how much of it is due to drug use? You have a particularly difficult combination of issues to deal with. Most people don't have the same difficulties you have. I have a lot of poz friends. I know a fair amount about their lives. So while I'm not poz (as far as I know), I don't think my perspective is too far off base. I'm all for discussion. I think people should think about their sex lives and make informed decisions. At the same time when I see someone saying they got fuck flu 6 months after getting fucked, or they only got barebacked once and became poz - I'm going to challenge that because it doesn't match what we know, scientifically about HIV. And no, I'm not selling data off the site. Porn site memberships, yes. Data, no. And to be clear - you're welcome here.
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Ummm.... "Pubes" / "Pubic Hair" is the hair above the dick, not the hair around the guy's ass...
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Foreskin - Wish You Had It? Wish You Didn't Have It?
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
@Deaner - When a woman is the subject of genital mutilation it means she can never have an orgasm again in her life. It's a much bigger deal than circumcision and people should be arrested and punished for it. -
Ever Had A Black Guy Want To Be Called Nigger?
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
@hurtmewithit_ct - Welcome to Breeding Zone! Glad you're here... -
That's not how it works (I used to teach statistics). Looking back at the risks you took you can basically plug in the numbers and figure out what was the most likely cause of infection. We're talking about all the sex you had the year between your negative test and your positive test. The fact that the guy was indeed poz just means you pick a different risk factor for that incident. I still say it was unlikely you were infected at that time. Yes, you may not test poz for 3-6 months, but you don't get fuck flu 6 months later. It just doesn't happen.
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Today's NorCalRaw's birthday... Wanna wish him a good one... You can see from his profile and the post he did last month that he's a versatile jock cumwhore from Silicon Valley who's unsure of his status... Hopefully he'll do some more posts here to keep us up to date with what's going on with him...
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I've always wished I were uncut. That might stem from the fact that the first porn I ever saw (in early adolescence) was when I was shopping with my mom and sisters and discovered a Playgirl's Men of Europe in a bin in the women's lingerie section of a department store. (It wasn't long before I wished I had managed to sneak the magazine home). All the guys were uncut in it and to me their dicks looks weird, mysterious and intriguing. But then I know guys who hated their foreskin so much that they've been circumcised as adults. What do you guys think - are you circumcised? Do you wish you had foreskin? Wish you could get rid of it?
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Just wanted to say thanks to all of you who come here and participate. Yesterday we had our highest number ever - 291 at "one time". ("One time" is defined by the forum software as a rolling 2 hour period and includes people and search engine spider who aren't logged in). Here's a graph that shows the number of visits each week. As you can see the general trend is up (and up). There was a decline there at one point that was due to me pushing the site on rawtop.com and then it tapered back to normal. Tell your friends and fuck buddies about the site. Make sure they know your user name so they can fill it in on the registration form so you get credit for referring them. Hint: At some point I'll be rewarding people who've referred other members... If you have a blog, link to Breeding Zone. Use the URL http://www.breedingzone.com/?referrerid=UserID (where UserID is your user number) and you'll automatically get credit when someone signs up. If you're not sure of your user number, use the number in the URL of your profile page. If you're not sure you got it right - contact me and I'll confirm it for you.
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Do you wish your dick were longer or thicker?
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Going forward why don't people post hardon pics when commenting on their dicks so people can get an idea of what you're referring to when you say you want a bigger/thicker/smaller/thinner dick. I'll do it when I get a chance. Out and on my iPhone right now so can't. -
Do you wish your dick were longer or thicker?
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I added an option to the poll indicating you like it the way it is... -
Just curious - how happy would you say you are? Answer the poll for how happy you are now. But put comments about how you see the future. If you're not feeling so great about things, is it the economy? I know in my case I hate where I live right now, but that'll change in a year, so I'm just ignoring it and focusing on the future, but every now and then it gets to me. But overall things are fine... I guess the other question is how does your happiness affect your sexual activity? Do you get depressed and just want to be used (take loads, be treated like a piece of meat) 'cause it fits with your mood? Do you get depressed, crave human contact, and have sex just hoping the guy will be nice and cuddle or be affectionate? I know some of the guys I fuck REALLY respond to me being affectionate and I wonder whether that was what they were really looking for. The fact that they had to let me treat them like a piece of meat and cum in their ass to "earn" my affection probably isn't all that healthy for them psychologically. Or is it the other way around - does your sexual activity affect your happiness? I know when I fuck 2-3 times a week I feel good about my life. It's satisfying. When I'm not seeding hole I get frustrated and irritable.
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If you're hooking up with a guy - do you prefer he have hairy pubes or do you like guys to trim or shave their public hair? Personally, I like trimmed pubes on lean/thin guys (sorta accentuates how lean they are), and a 'normal' amount of hair on other guys. If the guy is crazy hairy down there, then I think he should trim it a bit to keep it under control. I should also mention trimming or shaving your pubes is a great way to get rid of crabs. That and making your dick look bigger are the two reasons why so many sex workers trim their bushes.
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If you could change the size of your dick (length or width), would you? I know as a kid I always wanted a bigger dick. SERIOUSLY wished I could have surgery to make it both thicker and longer. Now I know I'm above average and my dick is fine. But would I take an extra inch and more thickness? Probably - although it would make it difficult to fuck some bottoms. But more than anything I think I wish I could be bigger when I'm soft - that I had more of a pouch in my pants. I'm more of a grower than a shower and wish it were the other way around.
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This is in the FICTION section - the pig is not me - it's a fictional story (or at least not something that happened to me)...
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Sounds like you're saying your fuck flu was months after infection. I didn't think it worked that way... Thought fuck flu came 2-4 weeks after infection (if at all)... A lot of people attribute getting pozzed to the risk they take with unprotected sex and forget about the risk of "safe sex". Using a condom reduces the risk 10 to 20 times, which means 10 to 20 fucks with a condom = 1 raw fuck. So if you only went raw once that year then it's more likely you got HIV when you had safe sex all the other times. Which means all those years of guilt were pointless - even if you hadn't barebacked that night you could still be poz... You don't even know the guy who fucked you at Oneida was poz. Personally I'd ask who you had sex with 2-4 weeks before you got the flu. Then again, it could have just been the regular flu.
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Anti HIV gel cuts infection rate in half!
rawTOP replied to Belfast-Bottom's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
It probably won't work anally. At least years ago I remember asking someone who was a big proponent of the microbial work whether they could do something similar for guys and the answer was that the chemistry of the ass was very different than the chemistry of the vagina. What works in one probably won't work in the other. They're also tackling a very particular problem - the fact that in straight sex the man usually determines whether a condom is used - especially among the poor in Africa. They wanted something the woman could do for herself that would reduce the chances of infection without compromising what is often a delicate relationship between the woman and the man. Gay men have far more autonomy than poor straight women in Africa. We make our own choices (most of the time). IMHO, it's fair that a solution was found for poor African women before they found one for us. They're at greater need/risk. -
Please DON'T post too many details. Contact information is fine, but not an address. Sex parties in NYC are pushing the limits of legal and the health department isn't happy about them. No need to give them too much precise information. We also don't want people in the building googling their address and finding that their neighbor is throwing regular sex parties...
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Guys - This is the real deal... You can get paid to be on one of the hottest new bareback sites on the Internet... If you're a bottom and dream of getting drenched in cum (after getting gangbanged bareback) then this is the site you want to be on. I wouldn't be surprised if some of you bottoms offered to do the videos for free... I know it's sorta a dream scenario for a lot of you. And I'm sure they can always use tops too! If you want to see examples of the videos they shoot checkout these links... http://www.rawtop.com/porn/bb/bukkake-boys http://www.breedingzone.com/search.php?do=process&q="[bukkake%20boys]" The first link (on rawtop.com) has preview videos, the second link (here on Breeding Zone) features more scenes and bigger pics, but doesn't have videos.
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Steve-O - Welcome to Breeding Zone! Glad to see you do your first post - and a good one too with you looking for loads... Do realize however that while you may want neg loads, not all the tops who fuck you may really know their true HIV status - there is a real risk when you're a bareback bottom. Make sure you're OK with that risk before you start, 'cause a lot of guys find it's an addictive, one way street. Also realize that poz guys who are genuinely undetectable are very low risk 'cause they're basically shooting blanks. IMHO, if you're not willing to take a load from an undetectable guy, you probably shouldn't be a bareback bottom in the first place.
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Wear a jock strap. jockstrap = bottom
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18yo white bottom teen(noobie) Gangbang wanted
rawTOP replied to Btmcumslut's topic in Vancouver Metro Area
Welcome to Breeding Zone BtmCumSlut! Great first post. Hope you can find the right top to organize your gangbang...
