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  1. Yet we don't know for sure. It's not fair to speculate. I doubt we would want people saying the same of us. Does he have a great track record for honesty? No. But it took balls to go public with his status. And.... Your statement begs the question: would you tell the truth if asked if you had told all of your sex partners and you hadn't? Especially when it is illegal to lie about your status in several states... I don't know of many, if any, that would.
  2. Me. Hate it. Yet I want a man in control. I'm very much a submissive. But I still have a brain. And my brain is wired in a way that hates my ass being called a cunt or a pussy. I'm a masculine submissive. Don't effeminize me by using female terms for my ass. You want to think you are fucking a woman's parts? Go fuck a woman. If it's your way of being dominant, go dominate someone else. If that's your thing, more power to ya. Good on ya. Keep it up. As for me, find other ways to dominate. There are many.
  3. I don't think it makes you a girl. And I know you didn't mean that literally. The only thing I think it proves is that you are human. On some level, you care about him. Seven years.... Any normal human would develop some sense of caring about someone they've known (through the intimate act of fucking, no less) for seven years. Doesn't mean you love him. You just care. Even if he is just a fuck buddy. Not a bad trait to have, if you ask me.
  4. A fuck buddy to me is someone who is more than a hook up. He's a repeat hook up. Different from friends with benefits. I've had both. I did things non sexual with the friend with benefits. Fuck buddy? We got together to fuck. That was it.
  5. I don't know that we ever will get past the stigma. At least in some of our lifetimes. People don't want to be educated about it. It scares them. As long as the majority would rather remain in the dark on the subject, the stigma will continue. The stigma is alive and well not only in heterosexual communities but in the gay "community". They live by the mantra "ignorance is bliss" and in doing so, they remain uneducated and alienate a whole community of people who just happen to have a virus. Kind of silly, when you think about it.
  6. The Talk just confirmed how ignorant people are. They have no clue. My local news opened with the teaser last night stating that Charlie was going to reveal he has a disease that will be the cause of his death. I wrote the news anchor. Educated her. She wrote back and said she was forwarding it to the producer because he wrote the line and she realized after it came out of her mouth that it was wrong..... Who knows. But it's great to see ignorance is alive and well...
  7. According to the interview, he says he could have contracted it several ways. That he does not know how he got it. There is already this notion that is still perpetuated that if it is contracted sexually, it has to have been homosexually. Heteros transmit it. I don't think it's fair to jump to conclusions. We don't want people doing that to us.
  8. Not sure how much of a surprise this may be, given his history of drug use and prostitutes. Wonder how the reaction will be. One source says the cruel "tiger blood" jokes have already started. That's no surprise. Charlie Sheen to Address His HIV Status on the 'Today' Show - http://www.msn.com/en-us/tv/celebrity/charlie-sheen-to-address-his-hiv-status-on-the-today-show/ar-BBn4V4C?ocid=ansmsnsports11
  9. I'm with the last two posters. Sounds like he had an ego problem. And you popped his bubble. I'm a bottom, so I can't really answer your question. But I will say I'm not going to complain and act like it's too much just to make the top think he's huge.
  10. I honestly don't know how manhunt stays in the mix. So few guys on there. Too limited in how many profiles and messages you can view in a day unless you pay way much more than the site is worth. I met one guy on there. And that was before a lot of these other apps came about. I too can't get into Grindr. Too many Ken dolls and self absorbed boys on there. More so than the other sites any way. But that's just my experience. Maybe it's different elsewhere.
  11. A "slim chance" is still too much of a chance for me. That means it is still possible. And why waste a perfectly good fuck with concern that you may be discovered? Yeah... I tend to error on the side of caution in a lot of things, but I'm with the majority on here. It's illegal and others may not be so keen on having their bodies on cam. It all boils down to respect for others.
  12. That's well worth it for privacy. As much as you can have online, anyway. Any suggestions on which would be best?
  13. I'm secure in my masculinity. Very secure in my masculinity. And I think that is why I like the separation between male and female labels. I don't identify with being female. In any way. Well, save for taking cock inside me. For me, it's a preference. Have I had tops call it a pussy or a cunt when fucking me? Yes. Did it turn me on/off? No. It's a preference. That's all. I'm not going to kick him out of bed for saying it. I've heard some say that if the top needs to call it a pussy or cunt to turn him on, maybe he is the one with the insecurities in his masculinity. And his sexuality. Lol Who knows... I wouldn't go that far in saying that. Because I can't read his mind. So that would be judgmental. And god knows we gay people are not judgmental..................
  14. Protest too much? No. This is a forum where OPINIONS are freely given. If some of us don't like the term, that's our call. Just because we don't agree with your fondness for the terms doesn't make us protestors. If we all agreed on everything on this board, it would become very dull and boring and the forum would die. You want to call it a pussy, cunt or mangina? Go for it. No skin off my nose. Seems to bother you more than it does us, seeing you were the one to start a thread about it calling us out on it. Seems a little silly to me since there is already an active thread about using these terms.
  15. I'm with PhoenixGeoff. I deleted (deactivated. They won't let you delete) Facebook almost two years ago and I don't miss it. I like my privacy. I quit using google a long time ago for the same reasons. They don't need to know what they claim they have the right to know. I didn't like it when it started sending ads based on content in my private email. I still have an account with gmail, but I don't use it to discuss important issues with anyone. I'm still trying to find a good email system that isn't so intrusive. While your Facebook page sounds hot, I'm not willing to have big brother looking over my shoulder anymore than they already are if I can help it.
  16. BBrT may be for barebackers, but it has become like the other apps in a lot of ways. "Must be clean" (I fucking hate that term) is becoming the norm on there. I got turned down so much on there because I'm poz. I deleted my account. Best luck for me has been scruff and A4A.
  17. When you are scrambling, trying to save an engagement (which he lost) and a career, your mind doesn't necessarily think the best. We've all had our moments of lame excuses. The guy came clean and came out. That deserves some credit.
  18. Maybe "Marinate or push out?" would have been the better question. While a virus may be absorbed, I don't know the semen can be. But I think the majority understood what the OP meant.
  19. We've all had those moments of denial as a general rule. Granted, not on the scale of his story... It's not easy admitting at first. But at least he found the courage to do so. Gotta give him props for that.
  20. Slow. The. Fuck. Up. As much as I love a rough fuck, you better work up to it. I've had a top try to ram it in. We had both just taken a huge hit off the poppers. I've never lost a buzz so quickly in my life. Gayav8or has it right. Do what he does, and like tallslenderguy said, it's almost tantric. A far better experience for both men involved.
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