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I am surprised more posters did not receive this notice or think it may concern them. I suppose they do not use or frequent sites where web cams are used. Skype has been dead for awhile. I knew that, it's great for a one on one connections AFTER I have met them on say a Zoom meeting thru MeWe, or other web cam sites. Once I was informed Zoom does not fall under Microsoft jurisdiction I was relieved that these fun "chat" rooms would continue without the fear of them being closed down. I appreciate people looking into this because it came as a shock to me, just as when Google closed down the Google Plus rooms. I mean I knew it was coming, but I was surprised Zoom stepped in and picked up the slack, and gave guys an alternative. Thanks to those who looked into this....

Alright, not my finest moment, or my best post. I hear the cynicism in your response all the way from south Florida. I am starting to feel the kick back towards my posting, thank you very much. It's my fault, I was trying to get around the topic, so to speak. Change it into something it was not meant to be, my bad.

When I first saw this thread, I thought you were asking if I would only sleep with a guy one time and never again. Funny, with all the issues these days, health and drugs at the top of the list, I had developed a sort of "go to" list. For the record, I am in a relationship now, but when single I had three or four guys on my phone and I would type in the words "Do you wanna fuck me" and after doing enhancements, would push the send button depending on what I was in the mood for. One actually called me out on it, because I was so messed up, I actually misspelled some words. With that being said, these four guys I could call, no matter how messed up I was and they would still drive over, still have sex with me, and still come back. So I can say I am not a one time guy, I would do you more then once, but I am not sure I was ever really capable of doing it twice in one day with ANY guy for that matter.

I agree with everything you said. I knew the pay was rotten, the guys were used and spit out, and almost all escorted to make ends meet. What I didn't say much about was the "what's next" equation for Onlyfans performers and I am glad you mentioned that. So many of these guys (and I have been around quite a few who have no "Plan B"). They don't think about what it's like to be 40, or God forbid 50! They live in the moment and that is it. I know of a few who take online courses, but for the most part is all about planning the next "shoot". I have one friend who complains about the constant travel, arranging guys who get along to have sex for an hour on camera, and then complains the escort service he works for when he is in town does not understand he needs to go to the gym and take a break from, well, sex. Everyone needs to make a living, rent has become outrageous and many of these guys live in big cities. You mentioned you have friends doing onlyfans and you haven't had that conversation with them - "the what's next?" conversation. It is a tough one to have because months turn into years, and I know of guys in south Florida who worked for major studios and are now in their 40s, escorting, and working for smaller studios and trying to work in onlyfans. I feel bad for them because they really are in a tough spot as each year creeps by. I would ask them, point blank, what is the plan for ten years down the line? I know of at least two who receive SSD or SSI, so they feel they will always have money coming in. If you friends are a couple, I would try and find the more logical of the two, corner him, and ask some hard questions. Like, "what are you going to do in 2032?" It's not easy, you might get some push-back or denial, but if they are friends and you care about them, I think at least one of the two has probably thought about this. I would not be surprised if onlyfans looses it's luster. It is already available on torrents, so it is possible these guys are not being compensated for their work. It's great they have a friend like you, because when they are 45, friends may disappear. I wish them luck.

Don't apologize about the rant, a lot of what you mentioned I have experienced. The people pulling your curtains open, trust me, if they live in Florida they have been in my house. The theft of items, even those we would consider mundane and ordinary are an invasion of your privacy and your home. You sound like me, you accept an apology, and sure enough - the same cast of characters do it again. When I go to someone's home, I ask them what room to go into, where to put my bag, and where to sit my ass. I don't move, I don't ask for anything, and I don't touch anything that does not belong to me. I do not manipulate someone's computer, their TV or VCR, or any other electronics. This business of looking out your windows is PURE crazy. They don't realize the jeopardy they put everyone in. I once had a guy go to the front door, open it completely, and stand there buck naked. A man was doing construction on the next building roof over actually drooped his wheel barrel. So I know these things happen. You try to be nice, be accommodating, and these individuals put you in a very awkward and possibly negative situation with your neighbors, apartment complex, or HOA. I have been there and I know exactly what you are talking about. It's tough to make someone leave, no one wants to be "the bad guy", but when they are gone you will have to deal with the consequences. If I have anything say it would be this. One offense - and they are gone. I don't care what they look like, who they came with, they are out of my house. Because their behavior could cost you your living situation. Be strong man!

You are really scaring me here with you post regarding Truvada. I was on it for more than five years, maybe seven. I was changed to Descovy and Prezcobix, only after I became resistant to the Truvada combination I was taking (after I was on four meds at once). My bf takes Truvada and I believe it now more than five years. Thanks for posting this, because to be honest, I am not sure just how closely his kidney functions are monitored. We switched doctors so I am sure if our current physician knows exactly how long he has been on Truvada, and our labs are only drawn twice a year. Thanks for the warning!

I blame the usage of "enhancements". When I first came out, I went after guys who I was attracted to. The first question out of my mouth was not "Are you a top or a bottom". To be honest, I didn't even think of that. It was about the guy, what I liked about him, did he like me, etc. Today, everyone is put into a column. Top, bottom, MAYBE vers. I think things changed in the advent of online hook up sites and the use of drugs. In a bar, you don't know, so you talk to the guy you are attracted to. Online, it clearly states. I understand on some sites you can actually screen out all the tops so you can concentrate on the available bottoms, and vice versa. What a shame. My personal feeling is this - if you are really attracted to a guy, you want to continue to see him, you can work the details in the bedroom. Some people may think that is a very unrealistic attitude to have, but I know from experience I have had long lasting sexual relationships with guys who claim to be either top or bottom. You can works these things out guys....

Thanks for that, I am relieved. Zoom was my concern, I am glad you informed me. I feel a lot better, thanks!

I know that previously it had been mentioned that changes were coming to what content we could post on hook sites and apps. I just received an email from Microsoft and that changes were coming to all aspects, including the use of web cam sites. This email, and actually one previously, said violations of these agreements could result in individuals no longer being allowed to use Microsoft products. I am taking this as a reference to Skype and possibly Zoom rooms. Though they were not specifically mentioned, the email said any and all entities that belonged to them needed to abide by the standards and rules. So does anyone know what this means for the future? I have been an avid Skype user for years. I noticed as time has gone by that the membership seems to have decreased, at least among gay men. Less group conversations, less nudity, less sex. Now when Google Plus went away, I assumed Zoom rooms would be a thing of the past. I was, happily, mistaken. I use MeWe, and at almost any time of day, I can find a room where men are having sex and using "enhancements". Openly, usually with a moderator who is playing dance music. No one is telling anyone what they can or cannot do. Now in order to get invited into these rooms, you have to apply to various groups. Their questionnaires often ask about your feelings on visible sex as well as the use of enhancements. Once you apply, you receive a response back telling you that you are accepted, and then you receive invites into their Zoom rooms. So the ability to get an invite into one of these Zoom rooms is relatively easy. Apply to the group, they say yes you are welcome, and then you get invites. Easy as that. So my question to Breeding Zone members is this? Will the email I received today from Microsoft have any effect on these MeWe invites that I have been enjoying? Will they simply go away, just like Google Plus rooms went away? Because I do enjoy using this form of entertainment I would greatly disappointed if the email I received today marks "the beginning of the end". Has anyone else received one of these emails, and will it negatively impact MeWe and Zoom? I know it will have an effect on Skype, which I basically now use to contact family members, not eight naked men at 2 am on a weekend. Thoughts and feedback is greatly appreciated.

Thank you for the encouraging response. I knew there were tops out there who wanted mature bottoms. The same applies when it comes to tops, I would much rather have someone 38 to 60 over someone 18 to 35. There are always exceptions but experience usually rules. Your response is the first I read, I am glad my Forum question resulted in an intelligent response. Thank you!

Okay, so I may know the answer to this already, and it may have been asked in the past as I am still relatively new, but I wanted to throw it out to Breeding Zone posters. I remember being a sexually active teenager and saying "oh God, I will never have sex with a guy over 30". Well, was I in for a lesson. I left the north for Florida and found this nirvana called Fort Lauderdale, or rather Wilton Manors. There were many, many men not just over 30, or 40 but even 50 who I would want to jump on. But that is not the purpose of my question. So, is a "less than attractive 50 plus top with a huge dick" more desirable than a 50 plus, attractive, in-shape bottom? I have been to group parties when I was in my 30s and had a very handsome gentleman, over 50, maybe 60, who said to me quietly "You know, the only reason I get invited to these parties is because I have a big dick"..... Really, I thought? Well, his age had nothing to do with it. He was sweet, handsome, polite, considerate and yeah he had a big dick but he knew how to use it and treated me with respect. So, with three computers live streaming me, a man old enough to fuck me was broadcast to people not only in the US but throughout the world. I heard people yelling my first name as I waved to the monitors. However, this gentleman showed me the best time of anyone who was there during my three day visit. I was later told I was the "guest of honor" and had no desire in either of the hosts. So, "Breeding Zone" members, does a big dick on a polite gentleman worth more than fucking an in-shape, attractive bottom young enough to be his son? Please, discuss....

Okay, second vote - Matteo Berrettini. For those of you who don't follow tennis, he's an Italian who got to the finals of Wimbledon last year. Just google his name, plenty of pics with his shirt off. Great face and smile. He gets a vote from me as well.

There is a weather guy on the local CBS affiliate named Tyler Moore (locals look him up he is hot). Even the name Tyler Moore screams porn to me. He's relatively new, but very hot. He's listed as a "meteorologist with 10 Tampa Bay". I know it's odd to pick out some local television personality but he gets my vote.

I always tried to take advanced placement courses in high school that were given on Saturdays and during the summer at the University I planned on attending. It gave me freedom from my parents, and access to other guys who were 16 or older, some already in college who had dorm rooms or close by apartments. It was the perfect scenario because there were many horny guys or those unsure of their sexuality that were willing to have a smart 16 year old come by their room or apartment and help study. Not every situation ended up with sex, and I actually made friends. But it did give me the time and location to play when others made it apparent they were interested in doing so. When I walked into a room and they immediately took off their shirt and just had underwear on, I knew I was in for more then just a cram study on college physics. I often wonder if these guys went on to marry women and have children, because I would only see them on campus and they usually pretended not to see me.

Can I be part of the casting division? You know, help screen and select the "models", ask for their "head shots". Oh and communicate to those not selected what they can do to possibly earn a "walk on part" and be naked in the background. PLEASE I worked in HR for years I would be great.

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No, his location was Chicago and to be honest he never opened the messages. He also didn't delete them, and that green light indicating he is online remains on. So I believe Mr. Dawson is a busy gentleman, other priorities. Maybe he has gone on to live and work a normal job, I don't know. I doubt we will see him in porn again, I know he gave an interview to a mid-west newspaper in the early to mid 2000s. (say 2007 or 2008?) saying he was HIV positive. It's his life and health and it's his business only. I found it amusing that on his BBRT profile he actually used some kind of porn promotion from one of his videos which clearly showed BBDawson, looking cute and innocent. The primary pic of him has him sporting salt and pepper facial hair and a skull cap. He looked good as far as I'm concerned.

Czech Hunters is NOT real. Those young men who the photographer stumbles across have been pre-selected and screened prior to the filming. I often view these videos, and I admit the prized "discovery" the host makes can sometimes be very attractive. But what you may not see, is that in many cases the subject (Okay, let's say it - the bottom) have credits with film studios like BelAmi. They did not just decide to spend the day in the park and then that afternoon a stranger with a camera suddenly has his dick up their ass. It just doesn't work that way, many of those locations have been scouted in advance to make sure they are secure, and at times you see that situation come apart. So then we find our trusty cameraman in an apartment, this time the young man is riding his dick - perhaps for the first time, really! No, no not true. I'd like to know how many of these young men would know how to "prepare" for a bottom scene. The reason they know - they have been instructed on what things need to be done in advance of shooting. There is often the comparison Bait Bus equals Czech Hunter. I don't know if I have enough information on Bait Bus (are all the individuals gay acting students) but with Czech Hunter they are recruited and many have prior porn film credits.

My birthday is on June 16th, it doesn't matter how old you are going to be - it still matters!

So, anyone want to give me a birthday present, via my hole, and help me celebrate? I will host, and be generous in more ways than one.....

I just wanted to take the time to thank you again for giving me the update. Some things make it sound appealing, other things you mentioned do not. However, it does give me a glimmer as to what is going on in that area. Not surprised to hear about the soaring housing prices, I had an x-bf move over there around 2005 and he told me he could only find a "shack" for $250,000. Now he always exaggerated so I took what he said with a grain of salt. I have been over there and stayed at two guest houses but I never really looked into living there full time. My employer would have transferred me but I would have lost my per diem for staying in a hotel and the COLA that was offered just did not make up the difference in rents. I often wonder what my life would have been like had I moved. I didn't trust myself not to be a total ho and at that time in my life I was at my most, ah, desirable. I managed to lose my government vehicle outside the baths one night, too hight to find it, reported it stolen, only to find out I had parked it in a Burger King Parking lot. The Fort Lauderdale police were kind enough to call me and tell me it was found and impounded. I had to beat it over to Lauderdale before my co-worker found all the phone numbers I had compiled in the glove compartment. I think I made the right choice by staying on the west coast, I just don't trust myself. Again, thank you for taking me down memory lane. Btw, sorry you were not aware of the "private employee bathroom". I had some of my best times there, taking all my clothes off for total strangers in a tiny room and doing "enhancements" makes me believe I really enjoyed myself. Have a great weekend, and thanks for helping me catch up to what I am missing!

Just a quick "shout out" to you about your description of Ramrod that you posted recently. I had the privilege of having to work in Ft Lauderdale from Sunday to Thursday for five years and I would go to Ramrod every Thursday night. You described that place perfectly and I miss it so much. Sure parking was a bitch, but I could go in wearing no shirt, 501 jeans and no one had attitude in that place. Just nice guys looking to get laid. I became friendly with the bartender. One room I am not sure you described was the "staff toilet" and he used to give me the key so I could use it to do some "enhancements" or fuck around with a few guys, as long as I kept it brief. I found it funny they asked if I wanted to join the "Young Men's Leather Club of South Florida". Don't know if that still exists, I used to go even on an afternoon, my favorite event was picking up a UPS driver in uniform and having sex in the UPS truck. What seems to have changed is how you described the open sex in the outside area. I used to walk by there, some guys were getting blow jobs, and I believe there was a notice saying it was a "quiet area". No one talked, and the bartender back there paid no attention to what was going on. You mentioned "Slammers". That wasn't there when I was working in that area, the name alone triggers me. I can't figure out if it is a bar or sex club or combination but it sounded like it was close to the Ramrod. I am going to have to drive over and check it out. While I was working there, I would go to the Ramrod, I believe the Eagle was still open, and then I ended up at the bath house. Both the first one and then when they moved across Broward to the second location. I could not believe they hired someone to check your bag when you came in, the first location I swear I had sex with at least two thirds of the guys that worked there. When I was approached about the bag check, it turned out the guy was someone I knew from Sarasota who used to hustle and he let me just go and pay. What I later heard is that they began doing room checks and making guys sit on their hands to check the rooms, all the guys smoking t. To me, that is just too much but I guess they wanted to stay in business. Well enough of my trip down memory lane, but I meant to thank you earlier because your story about your adventure at the Ramrod, with the young man, and hearing about Slammers makes me want to come back to Lauderdale. I used to bitch I had to stay on 17th Street causeway at the old Crown Sterling Suites for four or five nights a week, I never realized how good I had it. All paid on the government dime. I would kill for that opportunity again, and having sex with half the guys who delivered room service was great. Take care.

Lito Cruz remains one of the hottest men in porn today. I don't know if it is by choice but I don't see him as often as I used to. He seemed to work for studios out of California and he was always a masterful top, really knew what he was doing and got the bottom to blow his load. I had read somewhere he was the oldest working porn star in gay men's pornography today, not sure if that is accurate but he looks incredible.

No, no. I met him back when I described that situation in NY, and he was very nice, no attitude. Today, I wouldn't really be interested that much.