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topblkmale

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  1. Faire would be your best bet. WAY more action and more black guys go there - many who are looking for CDs and trans. Also check out Rainbow Playground Club in Queens. Its more accessible from Manhattan with a diverse younger crowd.
  2. I find it ironic that the SF Bay area is the only metro in the US that has two bathhouses still open. With the exception being South Florida which has three.
  3. 321 Slammer - Ft. Lauderdale, FL The bathhouse scene in the US is over.
  4. I don't think NYC offers this kind of entertainment anymore. If so, I would imagine it would take place in the latin gay bars and clubs of Jackson Heights, Queens on Roosevelt Avenue. Those spots might still be seedy.
  5. I went to CumUnion last night at Rainbow Playground. It was very busy with 84 guys total. The crowd was noticeably VERY different than a normal night. Almost all new faces for sure with many younger Asians, scruffy bearded white guys and what seemed like Euro tourists from Manhattan. I hear naked Tuesday nights get around 150 guys. I just wish they had different promoters on different nights like pre-Covid. You get a better mix that way.
  6. Very true. Many hookups on Grindr live in filthy apartments. I can't deal with roaches, bedbugs and rodents. I've already had two guys bring bugs into my home. I have come to find out that many gays like living in squalor and its part of some kind of pig fetish thing. But I don't judge.
  7. I'll pass. Sounds painful plus it won't be easy to get my dick and balls out easily if the cocksucker can't manage it. It might work on a guy with a small dick. Better yet, if you can deep-throat and lick balls at the same time. Try perfecting that first.
  8. I started out in my mid-teens getting sucked under stall at the local mall department stores. Then in the university library men's room. Somehow I discovered the book 'Tearoom Trade' and I use to read it in the stall while I waited for someone to suck me off between my classes. Weird that the university library even had that book in catalogue. If I remember correctly, it was in the psychology/sociology section. Well at least I was learning and making good use of those college loans.
  9. For me its cultural as almost all black American men, especially those who grew up in urban areas say dick. The word 'cock' sounds funny to us and I would NEVER use that term with other black men. Cocksucker is usually replaced with 'gives head' or 'sucks good dick'. However I do see more black men embracing the term BBC in their online profiles. I intentionally code switch depending on my audience.
  10. Remember after the top shoots his load down your throat and its over...ITS OVER. Let your man enjoy the orgasm then turn your focus on getting him cleaned up. (Please don't use toilet paper) Thank him and follow his cues as to how he likes to wind down after a good blow job.
  11. Side use to mean cuddling but now it means just oral sex. People like to reinvent names for the same sexual behaviors to go with the current times. I remember when it was called french and greek (active or passive)
  12. Ok, you're over 30 years old so I'm assuming you've been around sexually. That's old in gay years. If you were school/college age it would be a thing.
  13. I'm just attracted to bottoms with nice masculine feet. Strong arches, trimmed toenails, straight toes with no fungus or discoloration. Nice feet are part genetics + part hygiene + cultural norms. I've also noticed foot fetish is not big in the US. I search Grindr in other parts of the world and see so many hot guys showcasing their feet.
  14. Has anyone been to Blowbuddies Thursday night party in midtown? I'm not sure I want to pay 30 bucks for a three hour weeknight event...which equals around an hour and a half of rushed action.
  15. Won't work. Sounds like you have a type or type(s)...which is perfectly normal. Most gays just focus on body type, age, skin color and dick size. I find most don't care about face which is why getting a face pic online is a chore. I have three steady fuck buddies who are not attractive (ugly) but the rest checks out. We only fuck in the dark so I just focus away from their face with no kissing.
  16. If yo poppa bred yo momma 'on the hole' you would not be here to read this. 🙈
  17. NYC is slowly becoming very gay sex-less. The best place in the US right now is by far South Florida. You have three bathhouses, one gay sex club and those gay resorts.
  18. rape tourism with the Africans no less ☑️🤔 Yeah, no. I can't. ✋🏾
  19. I agree. Don't shit where you live or work. It rarely ends well.
  20. Find a top with a decent sized penis who is willing to train you. Don't wing it! Otherwise you will pick up bad cocksucking habits that will stay with you the rest of your cocksucking life. I have experienced MANY guys who have been sucking dick for decades and don't know what they're doing and some too old to be retrained correctly.
  21. Half of Twitter is porn so if EM starts charging, there will be no content engagement. I only use Twitter to view porn. But I have noticed I am bombarded with politics, random news and EM tweets. Its impossible to filter out the political news nonsense to get to the porn. Add to that, I see most of the porn content creators are now retweeting DNC and other democrat items of interest to gays and other minority communities instead of posting new porn. 🤔
  22. Novel idea. ☑️ Not EVERYONE should be on Twitter. If that's the case, delete account, uninstall app. Fixed./r
  23. From a top's perspective this is not a good way to get sucked. While yes, it is a nice dominant position, the angle of the tongue and throat are way off. The top has to contort himself. Most dicks don't curve in two directions which this position requires.
  24. I think 'anon' in this context means no real names or other personal information other than what the other person looks like.
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