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topblkmale

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  1. When I go to certain sex venues (baths, ABS, clubs) in my area, guys on Grindr immediately hit me up and ask if I am there. They either live nearby or use the 'explore' feature to find guys who are there. Never understood this.
  2. Straight sex has clear boundaries. Step outside of those boundaries and you kinky (as they say).
  3. It counts as 'due diligence' and it makes guys feel better about themselves for having unprotected sex with random and complete strangers who they just met in a cruise spot or an online app. The correct answer remains: Yes, I'm clean. Are you? (make suspicious looking expression on face)
  4. Is this place still open? I've never been to Detroit but would love to check it out.
  5. I wonder if there are still guys out there who will meet each other WITHOUT face pics. I have had to block local faceless profiles on Grindr who have said they have seen me going to work. I don't need that kind of attention. I live in a dense urban area. I would NOT recommend hooking up with sketchy folks who live within > 1000 to 4000 feet. I've had two previous hook-ups show up at my place randomly unannounced and WAIT.
  6. In October 2021, Manhattan was in the height of the delta-Covid surge. Many workers were still remote and alot of businesses were closed still in Manhattan. I worked in midtown east 3 blocks from ESC during 2022 and midtown did not come back fully post-post pandemic til around gay pride and tourist season in June 2022. Also ESC was heavily enforcing the vaccine requirement which turned away alot of patrons who were not vaccinated in early 2021. Fast forward to fall 2022 and I would say ESC is actually busier than pre-Covid. There was a lull in attendance in August 2022 during the monkey pox outbreak. I go weekday afternoons and its always pretty busy. I have also noticed the crowd is very different. Many patrons I hear come from the two bath houses that shut down during Covid. So yes, I would say ESC has bounced back. For bath house type activity I would consider you also check out Rainbow Playground Club and their nightly events.
  7. I'm assuming ATL still only has the one bath house, Flex, and no sex clubs. Is the scene in ATL mostly in guy's private dwellings?
  8. Sadly Covid and the closure of Paddles ended Lidell's parties. I am wondering where many of the black men who attended his events go now. I've been to other parties but its not the same welcoming all-inclusive vibe. Lidell really knows how to have an event where the staff are all friendly with ample refreshments and clean-up supplies. Not to mention he would play that SAME scratched house music CD at every event. I knew the mix by heart. Also Lidell would always personally greet guys with a warm hello and small talk where he remembers everyone's name. I consider him to be an icon of the NYC sex party scene.
  9. The stereotype that gay men are very neat and clean is TOTALLY FALSE!
  10. I didn't find anything non sincere about him having a preference. I love all sodas and as a black man I love grape soda more if given a choice. 👍☑️
  11. Lidell had the best parties that attracted some very fine sexy black men. I've heard Nubian Dukes has parties still.
  12. For me I NEVER fuck in an ABS unless I know the bottom previously and if their hole is clean. There is nothing worse than fucking a dirty whole where there are no facilities to clean your dick.
  13. I have had a few who tried to imitate porn. For some reason they usually imitate the female sucking dick in straight hetero porn with the excessive moaning, (imaginary) hair toss and generally doing way too much.
  14. Ruin't, routed out holes are the best. Especially when the gape makes that hollowed out negative suction noise.
  15. Did you experience this in your 20s as a top, bottom, or verse?
  16. Seems to be a nutrient deficit some cocksuckers have. Kinda like kids eating boogers or dirt. My regular cocksucker I supplement always seems rejuvenated and revitalized after ingesting my semen.
  17. For context, in what part of the US are you located? I'm guessing South Florida.
  18. I agree but I believe its the fact that ABS tend to be mostly oral. Its always a cocksuckers first choice. Most bathhouses, sex parties and sex clubs I frequent guys are into anal primarily. I find myself seeking out the good cocksuckers as I LOVE good oral. I never have a problem finding asses to fuck. Case in point - Slammers Fort Lauderdale. The suck ramps are always half-empty and barely used. However the group fuck room (round bench) and the dark fuck room (regular bench) are always jam packed.
  19. Depends on the country and whether or not your are a permanent resident or naturalized citizen of said country. For me accessibility to affordable health care as well as climate, availability of sexually active men and how the society treats its seniors are my main factors when considering places abroad.
  20. Somewhere outside of the USA where there is less political nonsense, where men are still manly as well as masculine and the cost of living is cheaper. 👍🌎
  21. Get one of those fold out gay 'fun maps' of various large cities. Better yet, go to gaycities.com
  22. How old is BBC dude for context? Sounds as if he's a gig worker using doublelist for clients.
  23. Best bet would be a Motel 6 kind of place off of a major interstate in an OK suburb with direct access to restaurants/shopping center so you get more foot traffic if using a hook-up app.
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