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topblkmale

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  1. Very true statement especially in corporate America.
  2. Many guys on Grindr use the motels on Route 1&9 south of EWR in Elizabeth, NJ. Not the safest area as there is drug activity and related crime in the area. However lots of truckers do park in the vicinity since the port is nearby.
  3. As a previous poster mentioned, NYC is mostly private gay sex parties hosted in various loft apartment spaces throughout Manhattan and the outer boros. Google: GaySexNYC for some listings.
  4. Are Asians considered minorities or White in your reasonings?
  5. Agreed as I do seem to run across many black (Gen Z) who are illiterate. Rarely do I see the same with white or asian of the same age group.
  6. I'm also uninformed as to what exactly is Critical Race Theory. This is what I gathered from Google/Wikipedia: Critical race theory (CRT) is a cross-disciplinary examination – by social and civil-rights scholars and activists – of how laws, social and political movements, and media shape, and are shaped by, social conceptions of race and ethnicity. Goals include challenging all mainstream and "alternative" views of racism and racial justice, including conservative, liberal, and progressive. The word critical in the name is an academic reference to critical thinking, critical theory, and scholarly criticism, rather than criticizing or blaming people.[1][2] I'd be interested in doing some further reading on the subject. Maybe someone can recommend a recent book on the topic.
  7. American and Western European men. The culture no longer promotes male masculinity in any form of media.
  8. I'm assuming you support teaching Critical Race Theory. ☑️ Very curious to know why.
  9. I remain attracted to guys based on culture. I prefer guys from backgrounds where men are still encouraged to be manly and masculine. Many North American and European cultures have feminized the men which is cool if you are attracted to that.
  10. Not just black. East Asian, South Asian and hispano as well.
  11. Lots of anti-white racism in the LGBT. Would love to hear your concerns about that.
  12. If a guy 'sounds gay' I move on. Sorry. (not sorry) Alot of it is an exaggeration and dramatization of a gay male stereotype.
  13. For all the fans of 90s R&B ▶️ INTRO - Come Inside 👍
  14. Its also a southern thing among older black American men. Living in the south I heard older black men refer to vagina as 'cock'.
  15. Its the sad reality of our lives in the US and other western societies. One can no longer be around any family, friends or co-workers without hearing mindless, endless political 'discussions'. (I just nod in agreement and politely change with subject)
  16. Glad things turned out ok and he's NOT underage or a LEO. One day this kid will mess with the wrong guy on Grindr and find himself in a bad situation.
  17. Yes, I'm aware explore and distance can be turned off. I keep these settings disabled when I'm home. I mainly use Grindr when I travel as I am not interested in doing anything with local guys.
  18. Careful. Depending on where you live (suburb, urban, rural) and the distance, he could figure out where you live using the explore function on Grindr. I turn my distance off after I have a shady interaction with someone. But I live in an urban area so someone close-by can figure out where I live just by walking the neighborhood.
  19. I was approached by a guy first claiming to be 19 years old then later changed their age closer to being 15 years old. Similar to the OP. The chatting back and forth didn't match the age/demographic I was supposedly chatting with. (use of slang/abbreviations) Also alot of the conversation appeared very purposely scripted. After I the guy changed his age and I suspected it was a LEO, I quickly blocked the profile. Blocking a profile removes the chat history on both parties.
  20. Reporting this to the local police might not go over too well for none of the parties involved. Its quite possible that this WAS actually law enforcement trying to entrap the poster. For discretion on Grinder I recommend using disappearing pics and NOT talking to anyone under 21 years of age. There are lots of high school age trans kids on Grindr in my neighborhood. (whole other topic for discussion) I immediately block them if they are too close or make ANY kind of contact with my profile. I live in the NE where there are many local jurisdictions and I have been approached at least twice by LEOs aka 'to catch a predator'.
  21. Since your younger I would recommend Rainbow Playground Club. Its a play space where you undress at the check in desk where your clothing is stored in a plastic bag. Guys walk around in underwear or less except Tuesday nights which is totally nude. Tell one of the guys working the front reception desk its your first time. They are generally helpful with that. Most sex venues in NYC have a similar set-up.
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