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topblkmale

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  1. I doubt they're doing a total renovation of the facility. This is the first work they've done since they removed the stadium seating in the TV room and closed off the downstairs hallway of rooms in the back next to the bathroom. I LOVED those rooms. They were super cruisy with that old-school dark seedy bathhouse feel. There are TONS of dead space where they could create dark rooms, glory hole sections and add slings, etc. (The area of walk-in rooms with the Greek Adonis statue) But as I understand they cannot since they remain open under a 'grandfathered' exception to a NYS law that does not permit new bathhouses in the state. I'm not certain, but that may include any new construction or additions. So by NYS law, I don't think they can attain permits to add any additional facilities to develop the place other than routine maintenance.
  2. I don't think they had a choice for venue as there are no Republican cities.
  3. I like adam4adam as the only site still around to meet older ethnic guys. I deleted my profile then came right back for that reason. Sniffies is mostly young twink/thug types and I feel I'm on the older side for that site. I've never seen any guys over 25 y/o in my area.
  4. True. Many LGBT people do. The inverse reminds me of Atlanta - a blue city in a rural red state - where many black gay men flocked to in the late 90s from all over the US.
  5. Which blue state or target metro area are you planning to move to?
  6. That will never happen in the last NYC bathhouse remaining. For a similar set-up on the East Coast try 321 Slammer in FTL.
  7. I believe the refurbishment was unintentional. There was some sort of water/pipe/electrical issue in the wall which had to be fixed.
  8. Where are these such places? My personal experience is 50/50. Half I find on Grindr. Other half from hook-up sex venues. Grinder is excellent for traveling and finding a specific type of guy that interests you by using their filters. Other apps don't offer that functionality with such ease.
  9. Requiring employees to return to the office is not an unfair labor practice. I will continue wasting my otherwise constructive time on Grindr sifting through unsolicited ass pics.
  10. I can't wait for the Democratic debate (which there will probably not be one). So I will have to wait til 2027 to see CNN/MSNBC coverage of that event.
  11. Most cum-dump bottoms would rather take six cocks for 5 minutes each rather than get fucked REALLY well by one or two cocks for 15 minutes each. They're interested in LOADS - not getting fucked good. If I'm at a sex club/party I self-limit my time with one bottom to 5 to 10 minutes. I can easily fuck for half hour to 45 minutes or more if I'm into the bottom. But I know its not fair to monopolize their hole like that.
  12. Answer: HE'S NOT INTO YOU I'm a passionate and romantic top for bottoms that I am into other than sex. Very few. The rest - 99% - of bottoms I just fuck and leave. There's more to it, but I won't get into it. But frankly most interactions now-a-days are part of hook-up culture.
  13. Years ago I met a guy at Slammer LA who asked to draw me. I reluctantly said sure and regrettably had to sit (near the lockers and TV) for a half hour while he sketched me. This was during primetime Friday night while the dark rooms were filling up fast.
  14. 100% agreed. I like to touch and feel SKIN. No need to hide or 'enhance' any body part.
  15. I fuck well lubed loose holes. Turn ON lube is decent. I'm don't do spit only holes. I'm not trying to concentrate on producing mouth moisture in large quantities while fucking. 🤣🤣
  16. LA most likely. SF seems post-apocalyptic vice city and non-sexual. But try asking in the California sub-forums.
  17. Wow! Its amazing that place has survived yet bathhouses in NYC, Chicago and LA have been shuttered.
  18. I've met very few 'average' black men. Chasing BBC ~ NOT racist.
  19. Its NEVER a good idea to write wordy profiles on gay hookup sites. Someone will ALWAYS find something that offends them.
  20. One STRONG possibility that is being overlooked is that some guys who like to get sucked don't get checked for STI's and therefore don't know if they're 'clean'. Therefore they pull-out before shooting their load due to their own uncertainty. Many of these types of guys are the same ones who see cocksuckers who swallow as being risky and unsafe.
  21. Do you go to a 'straight' doctor or one who deals with gay men's health issues? My STI doctor asks if I am straight or gay then asks if I'm top or bottom. Yet he still always gives me the oral swab.
  22. One of two things. Either they are used to dealing with women (who usually don't like sucking and don't want cum in their mouth) Or they still believe pulling out is 'safe sex' and guys that swallow are probably not 'clean'.
  23. Its worth checking out if you have never been, but I won't be going back anytime soon. JOC had a very sexy mature ethnic diverse friendly crowd (latin, black, euro tourists, asian). The host. Lidell and his workers were all SUPER sexy and friendly. BlowBuddies crowd is OK, just not the JOC crowd. The hosts take your payment and check your clothes. That's about it. I did not notice anyone 'working' the event (cleaning, refreshments, massage, engaging guys, etc). Blow Buddies is expensive (to me) at $30 with the extremely short hours - 6 PM til 9 PM. Most guys are there around 6:30 PM and are gone by 8 PM. I don't care for the set up. Its too bright in areas with furniture push against the wall in dark corners. The front half of the space looks like a waiting room and no ones uses it. Would love to hear other's thoughts who have been.
  24. So many trans are there. Especially on Saturday.
  25. Yes, a few times. Its NOT a comfortable position and does not feel pleasurable based on angle, deep-throat ability and teeth of the cocksucker. It requires lots of gymnastics for no pleasure. I'm nine inches with a slight upward bend. Assuming the cocksucker can deep-throat my entire length without gagging (bonus if he's a toothless dentured gummer) - I have to stand on my tip-toes, angle my pelvis downward and try not to hurt myself or the cocksucker. But yes, it does LOOK sexy and hot.
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