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  1. GermanFucker
    Yeah, sure. I wouldn't count colds, stomach flus, noroviruses etc. That's just life and goes away after a ten days. I don't fuck when I don't feel like it, but I make plans, so no, those don't really take me out of the game. STDs do, especially e.g. syphillis. Other than that I think the last time I was out of the game completely for several weeks was a sports injury: smashed up face, multiple sprains (arms, hands etc.), body covered in bruises and haematomas. Everything just hurt, especially movement / activity.
  2. GermanFucker
    A lot depends on how one's health was before one first started meds. As long as you don't do therapy, the virus will build more and more reservoirs in your body, which will become active again once you go off meds. Be cautious, especially if you had AIDS before. 1 or 2 days sounds too short, 1 or 2 weeks sounds more realistic, at least according to: http://www.pnas.org/content/96/26/15109.full.pdf Other than that, Matias47 makes sense: IMHO a stupid strategy on so many levels. I wholeheartedly agree. Not because I'm a prude, but because I enjoy barebacking so very much and want to keep doing it for the next 40 years without fear or shame.
  3. GermanFucker
    Realistically as a 20 year old you will be experimenting a lot over the next few years and evolve sexually. Such an arrangement might work as stopgap measure for a few weeks / months. But over time it is quite likely you will see such a commitment as an obstacle and having sex with the guy as a chore. Or you will find yourself on a track to slavedom that you wouldn't have chosen otherwise. If you want to go for it, I recommend a.) not making yourself totally dependent on the other guy (by moving ALL your stuff in etc.), b.) clearly define the rules, otherwise "whenever" can mean INSTEAD of a date with a guy you were looking forward to, c.) have an exit strategy ready for whenever your priorities change. Personally I would recommend sharing an appartment with other likeminded sluts instead of above mentioned arrangement. Real freedom instead of exchanging your parents for a "daddy", one dependency for another. But it's your life to do with as you please.
  4. GermanFucker
    Not wanting to sound snarky, but: What's your point? EVERY man wants to fuck bareback, it's mainly a question of creating the right circumstances to have doubters go for it.
  5. GermanFucker
    On BBC3. For those who get BBC (in the UK or e.g. via Satellite, I think there's also streaming, but you probably have to use a British IP adress), I think it's worth a look. I got the feeling that many barebackers just see their own scene. The program is about an STI clinic and shows how young people nowadays really don't use protection anymore. It has a safer sex message, but it's not overly preachy about it. It rather shows boys and girls being stupid, which is often rather endearing than a warning as intended. On the other hand it shows the reality of STIs down to anal swabs in graphic detail. IMHO it's good to see that everyone likes unsafe sex. It's the new normal, it's not the early nineties anymore, where only poz men had bareback sex amongst each other.
  6. GermanFucker
    I think after the last post the point is pretty much moot. However shouldn't the thread title be changed to "I'm poz dating a poz guy" ?
  7. GermanFucker
    Too young.
  8. GermanFucker
    Maybe it's true that depravity craves innocence to feed on, but I do like them young and energetic. However far more important than the number of years is the amount of life that's still left in a guy. Young jocks are my favorite, but farm workers in their 30s or mid-fourties sportsmen are fun too. Drug addicts with dead eyes are not my thing, not even when they're eighteen. Neither are middle-aged walking skeletons.
  9. GermanFucker
    Some parts of the site are still available using the WayBack machine at www.archive.org. The original URL was cuteboybbparty.com
  10. GermanFucker
    Just out of curiosity: Why Flash and not HTML5 ? Flash is a major pain in the ass, isn't it finally time to abandon it now there's a better alternative? (Not meant as a criticism, maybe there are good reasons I don't see yet.)
  11. GermanFucker
    I think that is the most important point: If someone puts some effort into writing you a personal message (i.e. not a standardized message sent out by the hundreds), it's only fair to reply in kind. Just ignoring a basically nice person because he isn't your cup of tea sexually is kinda dickish.
  12. GermanFucker
    Victim, really? A sticks and stones thing comes to mind here. I, personally, am completely self-assured. I don't get insulted easily (not on chat sites at least, I do have my honor, i.e. if e.g. some I respect calls me a liar, I do get insulted. Just not by chicken-shit.). If someone lacks the self-esteem to deal with rejection, that is his problem, not mine. If he starts to send angry messages, I don't worry about them one nano-second. I do believe in karma, so I try to be as open, honest and friendly - in one word: sincere - as possible. I might use sentences like: "You are an attractive guy and I'm sure you'll find plenty of other tops here. You're just not 100% the type I go for instinctively." "I find you sexy, but I'm looking for something different, specific right now." "I read in your profile that you like sex while being high. I don't do drugs - ever. I respect your preferences, I just don't think we'll "click". Sex should be enjoyable for both of us and I'm sure you also will enjoy it more with someone else who shares your tastes." "I won't force you to do anything, but I do know what I want (i.e. bareback, seeding your ass etc.). You seem unsure about what you want, so I have got the feeling this will lead to nothing. Feel free to contact me again once you know definitively." "Sorry, but I'm on my way to the gym" There are exceptions of course: If someone doesn't make the effort to at least let me know what he wants from me, I can be curt. If someone contacts me for the 10,000th time, I usually get sardonic ("As always: Thanks, but no thanks")
  13. GermanFucker
    @BrisFuck: Your symptoms could very well be from HIV, though usually they start a bit later than just one week after exposure, they could also be from a myriad of other diseases. As HungLatinDom said, an ELISA antibody test should catch a large percentage of infections (~80%) after 4-6 weeks, but a repeat test approx. 3 months later is necessary to be "100%" sure. What you can do after 2 weeks is a PCR test, which searches directly for virus DNA in your blood. In Europe it's usually not covered by health insurance and costs around 100 € / 100 £ . Don't know about Australia, though.
  14. GermanFucker
    No.... just no. No rubber on my dick - whatsoever.
  15. GermanFucker
    Now THAT is the interesting question. I have found that there are two alternatives: 1.) Weak minds use drugs to become uninhibited and to later have an excuse why they behaved "out of character". 2.) Strong, mature adults (regardless of age) just realize what they really want and then DECIDE to let go of their fear. You gotta be one with yourself ("zen"), which is somewhat harder to achieve, but then it's the easiest thing in the world. P.S.: Topping a bottom of unknown status is at least as risky as taking an undetectable load.
  16. GermanFucker
    It's not. Usually when one starts HAART, the viral load in the blood decreases much faster than e.g. in semen. Therefore the recommendation that one should be successfully on meds for some time before doing away with condoms. That's because guys buy condoms too large for their dicks or store them improperly. If one knows how to use condoms, it's far closer to 100%. Its the same as for undetectable guys: You gotta do it right for it to work.
  17. GermanFucker
    If he is undetectable, there is a very, very low risk of infection. Other than that: It is your choice and you should listen to noone else but yourself when it comes to your health and the risks you take. Do what feels right TO YOU. (On a side note: I am convinced that at least 90% of all "should I" threads are purely for masturbation purposes. Or are guys that easily find their way to a bareback website both so uninformed about HIV and so unsure sexually that they need to ask?)
  18. GermanFucker
    By now it's not so much a question of belief anymore, there is considerable data supporting this view. Studies on the subject have to be taken with a grain of salt (like the one done in Switzerland), as they mostly deal with monogamous heterosexual couples, but the main points are valid nonetheless: Someone who (a) has been undetectable for quite some time, ( adheres to his therapy regimen, © doesn't do too many drugs (blackouts, forgetting to take meds or check up on other STDs) and (d) watches out for other STDs in general poses a very low risk. There is always some risk, but in this case it is as low as other general life risks, e.g. getting hit by a car or a broken condom when having safer sex. By far not as risky as sleeping bareback with just anyone (i.e. unknown status), the exact number would depend on the exact make-up of the group you use for comparison / as a reference point.
  19. GermanFucker
    BECOMES ????????? It already is. Maybe it's different in the United States (you guys e.g. have considerably higher HIV prevalence rates than Germany) and in big cities like New York (were barebackers form a distinct group). My experience is a completely different one. I am a "normal guy" who lives in medium sized city (~100.000 inhabitants, with a larger metropolitan area to the one side and nothing but forests and fields in the other direction) who fucks around mostly with other "normal guys". Guys say they use condoms, but if you hit the right buttons, they really don't (e.g. small town guys amongst each other fuck bareback because everyone knows everyone, young guys because they are young etc.). If you define "the norm" as what is societally accepted, then it's not. If you define it as what the guys want and what really happens, it already is. Safer sex is mostly lip service here ).
  20. GermanFucker
    Cars are great for pocket gays. For us tall guys not so much *LOL.
  21. GermanFucker
    I've done all of the above. Adult video store, cheap hotel and sauna / bathhouse (probably my favorite of the three). But if it's just for a quick fuck (or if I'm not quite sure about the guy yet, so I don't want to unnecessarily spend money): The restrooms of the local college or just the woods.
  22. GermanFucker
    Nope, German tops are the best
  23. GermanFucker
    I think there might be a difference between OR nurses and nurses in general. I know that surgeons - due to the risk of cuts (bones can be very sharp) - have to disclose. Another field is aviation, where it is usually no problem for flight attendants on domestic flights to be poz, but there are problems on international flights, as these FAs cannot be used on routes to countries with archaic HIV laws.
  24. GermanFucker
    That is not quite correct. Usually it takes 8-10 years for an HIV infection to turn into AIDS and become lethal. However, that is just a statistical average. Just like there are slow progressors and long-term-nonprogressors, for whom it takes 20-30 years to develop AIDS - or whose bodies are able to control HIV for the rest of their lives, there are also fast progressors. Just a few percent in both cases, but still.... It's all a question of genetics, some are lucky, others have genes that make them die of AIDS within a year or so (without medication). That's why monitoring an HIV infection is important, because for these few percent, it is imperative to start antiretroviral therapy early.
  25. GermanFucker
    Who's to blame for that? IMHO it's lesbians and HIV/AIDS. Twenty years ago, when all the interesting gay men were busy either dying of AIDS or caring for partners and friends who were, lesbians took over the LGBT political agenda. And as nesters, their goal was a completely different: Marriage and children.

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