ive always been open about promiscuity, and that i BB..but i dont go into details, and i make that obvious....now if i was a hard partier id get a lecture. Seems like they go the lecture route if you use alot of drugs, or fuck prisoners (they ask that).... but since Str8 people never play safe either (hypocrites)...i dont get any lectures. First thing i get asked when admitting as a BB brother, they always ask if im a TOP.." you dont BTTM do you?" -and we all know why cuz tops dont get it AS easy . but i understand why they wont openly say that (it would be advocating the behaviour).we DO get it from poz bttms, just not as often yet...yet.