So I wanted to train my hole, as its very tight, and wanted to be able to take those thick and big cocks (in fact any) without too much work.
At the minute it could take half an hour or more for my hole to be ready to take cock, and that's not handy if its an impromtu meet, like I saw a guy on grindr at the local diy store, met him in the toilet, he was rock hard, but frustrated because he couldn't get in me.
My hole would be tight where, getting it to open would involve pain unless a lot of time was taken.
So my questions are:
Is training you hole about e.g. using a butt plug and keeping it in a long time so your hole gets used to being open?
For example using a small butt plug keeping it in you as long as you each day say over a week, then moving to the next size and doing the same?
Or is it about trying to stretch your hole to its limits each time, taking time to take the thickest dildo or plug just for a short time?
And do you need to keep up the stretching, to keep it open, thinking it will go back and tighten up if its not continually trained?
Hopefully some good advice, and / or products to recommend (specific toys, lubes, anything that would help). I guess perhaps patience in doing this is also required?
I find regular lube doesn;t help a lot, so I wondered if fisting lube would be the answer?