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  1. norefusal
    let's not get twisted. taking precautions to keep oneself healthy is smart. intentionally risking another persons health secretly/non-consentually is morally wrong. end of. saying anyone who gets bred is taking the risk of being pozzed on himself is = to saying anyone in a sexy outfit deserves to be raped. sorry. stealthing is kinky exactly because the stealther knows it's morally wrong and is getting off on doing something bad. and this is an opinion hill im willing to die on.
  2. norefusal
    i live in So New England and i have not noticed any uptick in the good old "no fats, no fems, no asians" stand by that the gay community can't seem to ever shake. what i have seen go wild is the whole "use me like im not even human" fetish. it used to be just "cumdump collecting loads, contact me and if a fit i'll send dets" now it's "took a sedative and about to pass out. here's address. door unlocked all night anyone invited to come breed me while i sleep" like WTF one guy used to post every weekend that he was hosting ass up door open. then it was every night. now other guys are posting "hey, heading over to breed the (town name) cumdump. who wants to come tag team w me?" 😮he went from weekend party boy to tourist attraction in just a few years.
  3. norefusal
    different interpretation of "last" : a favorite FB of mine came over the other day. the sex is always great but something about this time was just different. different in both literal and effemeral ways. it was fantastic but as he was getting dressed he dropped the bomb that he's moving out of state. it literally was my last load from him. perhaps it felt different because unbeknownst to me, it was goodbye sex. idk but what surprises me is how sad i got. we had both gone out of our way to make sure this was "just sex" and nothing else. but we'd been hooking up regularly for 3 years! how do you fuck someone for 3 years and feel nothing? you'd have to be a psychopath. so while i'm cool with it. i get why he's doing what's best for him and i support it knowing id do the same. and it's nice to have a relationship w a guy end on a good note - no harsh words, bad behavior or hurt feelings. but it's unchartered territory for me. was it love? no! but it was something. so it feels like a loss. nothing comparable to my divorce, but still, it's not nothing. weird.
  4. norefusal
    got a thing for bara titties and i got it bad 😜 thank god insta is free cause it's embarrassing how addicted i am to thirst traps one there 😜
  5. norefusal
    san francisco. no clue what it was called. not a great experience. the 70s was when gay culture really hit mainstream and the bathhouses seemed lit. but coming of age in the 80s i saw everything 70s as dated and lame, like the music your dad listened to. plus the aids crisis really destroyed them, both fairly and unfairly. by the time i went to my first one on a trip to SF in the late 90s it was like a touristy thing, like riding a cable car. the place was like a failing mall in vibe. the sex was "eh" and i got my very first STI making the whole thing seem like a huge disappointment, like a tourist trap of a by gone era. but this was also a by product of survivors in the pre-prep era. freedom had turned deadly and the new vibe was "i'm a good girl. i wean a get married some day. just like you straights". prep has really allowed us to loosen up and go back to our slutty selves.
  6. norefusal
    what are we calling "private"? i know that if i log in it enables me to comment in "the backroom" forums where as i can on view/lurk if i don't log in. Is that what u mean? Same w starting a new topic iirc.
  7. norefusal
    yes 😜 variety is the spice of life. naked is great: natural, bonding even it can also be kink/humiliation at times: i once hooked up w 2 dodgy guys in a very dodgy situation and they almost immediately yanked my jock off forcefully, proclaiming "no clothes allowed". i'm still not sure if they were stealth filming me or not. anyways that whole thing was so dodgy it was 🔥 ive sometimes upon request worn fetish gear ifdnever thought id be into but it was very freeing. liberating. wearing a jock is my current go to as i feel it help put me in the "just a hole to be used" mood. but i know its also because im embarrassed by my dic and that not freeing or liberating at all. same as when i keep my tshirt on because suddenly im ashamed to not be all jacked.
  8. norefusal
    i used to be like this when i was younger, long b4 pep n prep, when bb sex really earned the "risky" label. im not saying things aren't better now, im just saying a guy about to breed me is no longer enough to make me instantly blow my wad
  9. norefusal
    yes please
  10. norefusal
    i tend to agree. but thats me. i'd have let him rape me on day 1 and respected him as a man for it. but clean his house, let him control my $? fuck that shit. if he's not fucking my ass he can fuck right off. 😜 tbh this never passed the smell test for me but i lean pessimist by most of the "i need advice" posts on here. i also wonder if this isn't part of the rollplay. the wait, the fear, the ultimatum, then the inevitable rape and true ownership. is this anal edging?
  11. norefusal
    plus the fact that the list makes 0 sense. how is having a 10" dick a bucket list item? and how is it equal in points to fucking a dog? and is had sex with a dog = to had sex with a homeless guy? wtf and who asks the living situation of random people you hook up w in like the back room of a bar? "mmm feels nice. oh quick question, is your name currently on a lease?" 😜
  12. norefusal
    so hot! but also hot that they both acted "normal" the guys i meet are all so damaged. im sure we've all been there: you smash w a guy in a cruising area and u both leave happy. a few days later you spot him across a crowed bar and when your eyes meet you smile and his face registers shock and horror: the kind of face you make when your mom walks in on you jerking off. he then makes a hasty exit like you've just figured out that clark kent and superman are the same person. and you're like "lord is it too much to ask that you send me a cocksucker that's isnt kray kray?" 😜
  13. norefusal
    don't you mean your partner believes it to be a health choice while you consider it a kink? imho "im on the pill" is a health choice, while "i like to be on top" is a sex practice. "i like to risk getting pregnant or pozzed by not using precaution" seems more a kink, while "i get turned on by jockstraps" seems more a fetish. either way... only unprotected sex could possibly count as a kink/fetish for some ie "i get off on the possible danger or repercussions to my carelessness". Calling condom-less sex while on birth control or prep a kink/fetish seems a wild overstatement of silly proportions. so i dont agree that barebacking itself can be seen as anything other than just plan sex.
  14. norefusal
    me2. however knowing the guys/scene near me i'm confident the number is zero 😜 but i also have the good/bad (subjective) habit of not looking into my hook up's faces so especially since i frequent cruising areas, backrooms, parties etc, im often mid-act before i realized ive hooked up w this guy before. 😜 recently someone DMed me saying he was sad not to make a party but hoped to see me at futures ones, then added how much he liked the way i looked up when sucking him off and i swear i have no clue who this guy is 🤣 so not hooking up w people i know, but also don't even need a blindfold to serve guys i've no idea who that was. 😜
  15. norefusal

    use that hole :->

    norefusal commented on pupHawaii's gallery image in User Galleries

    use that hole :->
    i had a fuck just like this the other day. not sure if this is the place but: shout out to my FB who bred me this way despite me NOT looking like the bottom in this vid. like, at all 😍 also shout out to all young fit tops who get off on fucking daddies w hairy beer guts. you're doing the lord's work 😍
  16. norefusal
    tatted cock with tatted head.png
    umm that is so beautiful but ouch how did he endure it
  17. norefusal
    jeez how much did u guys smoke? roaches don't care about you so unless you brought along a bag w snacks in it, they didn't tag along. but how mentally ill is this guy that he lives in infested squalor like it's no biggie? i've hooked up w tons of drug addicts and none of them were filthy crack-house squatter crazy. it sounds like a scene out of trainspotting 😜you should post this story in the "when did u let your standards slip" thread 😜
  18. norefusal
    add my name to the list - love WS 🐷
  19. norefusal
    this is actually kinda funny and oddly historically accurate. i hope they continue to hook up at the office etc but it's the 80s/90s so despite working closely for months, he still continues to refer to his coworker as "cute asian dude" instead of using his name 😜
  20. norefusal
    for all i know, you may already have 😜
  21. norefusal
    hmmm when i was young and closeted my options were very limited and therefore i often felt i'd slummed it a bit. ABS don't always carry the porn star hunks you dream about being gay w lol after i came out the world seemed my oyster so i could afford to curate my sex life. but ive always valued performance over looks and would often hook up w "butterfaces" because id rather enjoy sex than impress my friend w the handsomeness of my conquests. by 35 i'd low key developed a sex addiction so it did seem i was being less choosy but it was more about needing a fix than enjoying sex. once i got divorced after a very long monogamous relationship i was much older and therefore had to lower my standards per see but i adjusted by leaning in and exploring my sub bottom cumdump side. if you havnt been bred blindfolded by an unseen unknown stranger yet, i highly recommend it. 😈
  22. norefusal
    questions like this throw me off: before prep almost everyone used condoms and although i successfully talked a few single gay guys into taking my dick raw it does come w a certain % of guilt, as it always took emotional manipulation and that gets "iffy" morally when it comes to consent. after prep the only guys i ever meet who even bring u the c word are top cheaters on the DL and honestly it's easier just to either give in or say forget it. it's not like there's not plenty of raw-only guys all over the apps to choose from but again, morally, do i really wanna be responsible for helping someone getting cheated on also getting the clap?
  23. norefusal
    it's low level chem sex. like booze it helps u relax but also makes you lose some motor coordination like weed it hightens emotions so even banal sex seems good but that in itself can become addictive where it's hard to have sex sober anymore. like T its chems, unnatural and a health risk. it's not as addictive as T but then the high isn't nearly as good. but it's somewhat of a similar head-in-the-clouds high and of course party type behavior is its own caution. i e had nights where ive done all 4: booze, weed, poppers and T. i've never heard of anyone going to poppers rehab but it's still a chem addiction, or can be. i've noticed that since going sober from T, my poppers usage just skyrocketed as a sort of "safer alternative".
  24. norefusal
    not at all. i'm just saying for me personally i don't see the fuss. but i get that so much of sexual assault is subjective including difference of opinion between the two involved as to weather it was consensual or not. strictly speaking you could say my sat night wasn't CNC because we didn't discuss it beforehand. i also suppose my letting him come back for more is consent. and the follow up DMs of "come back anytime" wouldn't help a case 😜 but i'm probably a bdsm weirdo anyways because i'm most turned on by the nonconcentual stuff. 😈
  25. norefusal
    well, it's good that we all get to do what works for us and not be restricted by rules set for others. for me, this isn't such a black sheep. BDSM is largely CNC. other than maybe a bar fight, when else are we like "ok, now you hit me hard and i'm gonna enjoy it" 😜 i do it w friends where we pretend they break in to the house not realizing i'm home n napping. they then tie me up and "force" me to bottom for them. the only time ive used my safe word is one time one of them got a bit too eager w the taser on my nuts. anyways, the whole CNC thing is up for interpretation imho. i've had peeps on here tell me getting really rough fucked isn't CNC and honestly i don't see the difference. is it verbal rape talk? because most actual rape doesn't come w verbal "i'm raping you" talk. this one dl str8 guy that sometimes rough fucks me if i'm blindfolded fucks me so angrily it sure feels like CNC to me. but rape is in the eye of the victim. and if it feels like i'm getting raped but i'm enjoying it, who's to say it's not CNC just because it didn't fit some rule i don't know about.

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