norefusal
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i find it all depends on my mood. somedays i really get off on the whole unknown aspect of a new stranger and it's very hot. other days i just can't w strangers. unknown people in my house, dweebs hosting in weirdo abodes, potentially bad in bed, etc ugh somedays the comfort and intimacy of a regular FB who knows how to push all your buttons just right is worth his weight in gold. other times i break up w them because i just can't w your nonsense anymore.
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it's so wild to think we were perhaps in the same place at the same time once and didn't know it 😜
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that's the place! where i lost my gay porno cherry lol it should have a plaque (i assume it's been torn down)
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what u describe above ^ is basically how i find most cruising spots today. the apps really seem to have ruined cruising so im just glad i got to do it when it was 🔥 but theaters specifically? i havnt been to one since the 80s. i'm not sure they even exist where i am anymore. but these places can also be "good riddance to bad rubbish" too. i guess what hasn't changed is both include people. people suck. and not in the good way 😜
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yes! 🤣 the amount of guys who say they want to drop by for my door open ass up face down for anon hosting but need to see a face pic first. um... you just don't get it do you sweetie 😜 -
i seem to fall for the same scam over and over. a guy next door type posts that he's sick of the shallow and superficial gay community. he's looking for a true emotional and intellectual connection and about to give up hope. i ask if he'd like to meet and see if we hit if off. he replies basically: not you! i'm looking for a deep emotional and intellectual connection with a tall GL muscle jock DJ w a huge dick. 🤣
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where was the Pilgram? i lived in Boston in the mid 80s and worked in the leather district and the combat zone was on its way out but some remnants still remained. i used to frequent some theaters there around this time. i don't recall any names.
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Popping a Bottoms Second Hole ... Myth or Fact?
norefusal replied to RVAGuy's topic in General Discussion
one thing i know for sure: this guy you were talking to was a sadist who seems to relish the idea that he causing pain and problems for his partners. i've taken my share of long d and most big guys take care to adjust positions, rhythms, angles etc in order for me to enjoy the fucking. honestly, the "second ring" is almost entirely responsible for turning me into a size queen. it just hits different. i don't always get or stay hard during it but after he's finished im often so turned on by the deep dicking that i jerk myself off. or if im lucky the top blows me. not to yuk anyone's yum but i wouldn't hook up w this guy if i were you. ymmv -
tbh i don't think younger guys were ever that into them. i started going just because it was all i knew, and i wasn't out yet, but the guys i met there were rarely young and hot.
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Tell me your first fuck buddy stories
norefusal replied to Ronitsingh's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
one early FB that springs to mind was a fit latino who barely spoke English. i was primarily interested in his big uncut cock tbh but i was too young and dumb to see that and eventually obsessed over the lack on communication and how he was primarily just interested in fucking me, like that was a bad thing 😜 the one obvious thing i found problematic at the time but now swear by is: he was always slipping it in raw and i'd have to remind him to put a condom on. this was circa 1992 but i do sometimes regret all the breedings i denied myself back in the day. -
sounds 🔥 if i were you i'd be back there every night 😜
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i've done a lot of both door unlocked and door open and perhaps it's just dumb luck but i find 99.99999% of the time guys are just horny nice guys who enjoy a sexy set up. i will say that ironically the scariest moments come at crowed bathhouses. when im door open ass up and a big guy comes in and not only shuts but locks the door and for a split second i'm like "oh shit what bs is he gonna try n pull?" but i guess they're just shy guys who don't want people watching them fuck.
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no. but it's also just a preference not a requirement for me. i use spit a lot mostly because i frequent cruising spots and sex in "inappropriate places" and most people don't carry lube on them at all times. but sex at home sometimes also uses spit but if the guys wants lube i'm ok w it. i'd rather fuck w lube than not fuck at all. which is my real complaint: wtf is up w guys who have to have everything just so or they can't fuck? smh
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i hit my runners wall w monogamy at 12 years too. but you're way ahead of me. 1 i found a new respect for cheaters. it's a scheduling nightmare! you need a social secretary just to fit in hook ups during non suspicious times 2. it was mostly just oral but i let an embarrassing amount of guys dump in me b4 i got on prep. for me it was more a reaction to being a whore than a causation 😜
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Favorite part about giving head?
norefusal replied to DiscreetNDangerous's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
it's a win win because the load in mouth is proof of a job well done but also, it's subservience to the superior male 101 swallowing his load like a dumb bitch w no self respect. 😈 -
let's not get twisted. taking precautions to keep oneself healthy is smart. intentionally risking another persons health secretly/non-consentually is morally wrong. end of. saying anyone who gets bred is taking the risk of being pozzed on himself is = to saying anyone in a sexy outfit deserves to be raped. sorry. stealthing is kinky exactly because the stealther knows it's morally wrong and is getting off on doing something bad. and this is an opinion hill im willing to die on.
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i live in So New England and i have not noticed any uptick in the good old "no fats, no fems, no asians" stand by that the gay community can't seem to ever shake. what i have seen go wild is the whole "use me like im not even human" fetish. it used to be just "cumdump collecting loads, contact me and if a fit i'll send dets" now it's "took a sedative and about to pass out. here's address. door unlocked all night anyone invited to come breed me while i sleep" like WTF one guy used to post every weekend that he was hosting ass up door open. then it was every night. now other guys are posting "hey, heading over to breed the (town name) cumdump. who wants to come tag team w me?" 😮he went from weekend party boy to tourist attraction in just a few years.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
norefusal replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
different interpretation of "last" : a favorite FB of mine came over the other day. the sex is always great but something about this time was just different. different in both literal and effemeral ways. it was fantastic but as he was getting dressed he dropped the bomb that he's moving out of state. it literally was my last load from him. perhaps it felt different because unbeknownst to me, it was goodbye sex. idk but what surprises me is how sad i got. we had both gone out of our way to make sure this was "just sex" and nothing else. but we'd been hooking up regularly for 3 years! how do you fuck someone for 3 years and feel nothing? you'd have to be a psychopath. so while i'm cool with it. i get why he's doing what's best for him and i support it knowing id do the same. and it's nice to have a relationship w a guy end on a good note - no harsh words, bad behavior or hurt feelings. but it's unchartered territory for me. was it love? no! but it was something. so it feels like a loss. nothing comparable to my divorce, but still, it's not nothing. weird. -
What turns you on the most that isn't cock or arse?
norefusal replied to ff69's topic in General Discussion
got a thing for bara titties and i got it bad 😜 thank god insta is free cause it's embarrassing how addicted i am to thirst traps one there 😜 -
san francisco. no clue what it was called. not a great experience. the 70s was when gay culture really hit mainstream and the bathhouses seemed lit. but coming of age in the 80s i saw everything 70s as dated and lame, like the music your dad listened to. plus the aids crisis really destroyed them, both fairly and unfairly. by the time i went to my first one on a trip to SF in the late 90s it was like a touristy thing, like riding a cable car. the place was like a failing mall in vibe. the sex was "eh" and i got my very first STI making the whole thing seem like a huge disappointment, like a tourist trap of a by gone era. but this was also a by product of survivors in the pre-prep era. freedom had turned deadly and the new vibe was "i'm a good girl. i wean a get married some day. just like you straights". prep has really allowed us to loosen up and go back to our slutty selves.
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what are we calling "private"? i know that if i log in it enables me to comment in "the backroom" forums where as i can on view/lurk if i don't log in. Is that what u mean? Same w starting a new topic iirc.
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yes 😜 variety is the spice of life. naked is great: natural, bonding even it can also be kink/humiliation at times: i once hooked up w 2 dodgy guys in a very dodgy situation and they almost immediately yanked my jock off forcefully, proclaiming "no clothes allowed". i'm still not sure if they were stealth filming me or not. anyways that whole thing was so dodgy it was 🔥 ive sometimes upon request worn fetish gear ifdnever thought id be into but it was very freeing. liberating. wearing a jock is my current go to as i feel it help put me in the "just a hole to be used" mood. but i know its also because im embarrassed by my dic and that not freeing or liberating at all. same as when i keep my tshirt on because suddenly im ashamed to not be all jacked.
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i used to be like this when i was younger, long b4 pep n prep, when bb sex really earned the "risky" label. im not saying things aren't better now, im just saying a guy about to breed me is no longer enough to make me instantly blow my wad
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yes please
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i tend to agree. but thats me. i'd have let him rape me on day 1 and respected him as a man for it. but clean his house, let him control my $? fuck that shit. if he's not fucking my ass he can fuck right off. 😜 tbh this never passed the smell test for me but i lean pessimist by most of the "i need advice" posts on here. i also wonder if this isn't part of the rollplay. the wait, the fear, the ultimatum, then the inevitable rape and true ownership. is this anal edging?
