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i've done it but always with guys with similar tastes (no pun intended) count me amongst those who would consider scat a dealbreaker. im less surprised by guys who don't wanna clean a cock off than by guys who don't want their cocks cleaned off. one top even said "ew no it's dirty!" and pulled away when i tried to suck his dick.
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i think ALL men have pig potential as it built into our DNA. it seems more nature to me. to act upon it or not act upon it seems more nurture to me. lonliness, slut shaming, guilt, all seem more like things society invented rather than intuition. it does appear that men are more naturally piggy than women, and certainly societal norms and sexist roll play exaggerate this. so it's not surprising to me that men often turn to other men for guilt free pig play even if they don't self identify as gay. then there's context: i came of age during the scary aids crisis years so it not surprising to me that everyone seemed much less slutty back then. it does seem some people are more drawn to it as a lifestyle but i'm always shocked to meet young pigs. for me i definitely got piggier and piggier as i got older. at this age it's like vanilla just does nothing for me i might as well just not bother. ๐ i can't remember the last time i met a married couple who weren't open. but then again, i was monogamously gay married for years and we rarely left the house even to non-sexually socialize. i lost all but 1 of my gay friends while married. so maybe non-piggy gays are all home netflix and chilling and i meet a lot of pigs looking for group action because they actually left the house ๐คฃ
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it can be frustrating i know. like everything else it takes time and often success happens suddenly by chance not by design. the only advice i can give is just keep trying. statistically the more you put yourself out there the higher the likelihood of finding a match. luckily you don't have to be out to enjoy kink. it's not really part of the out gay culture per se and most of the parties and hook up sites for kink are private and discrete. going to a FF party hosted at a bathhouse is not like marching in a pride parade: your coworkers aren't going to all "i saw you on the news!" come monday ๐
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oh gays and their obsessive classifications lol im neither surprised by the "no, CNC is a very specific rollplay exercise with strict rules" responses that read more like "if it's not from the Champagne region of France, all you had was cheap bubbly wine dear" ๐ nor the "that's just generic gay sex honey" from people who have been so conditioned to normalize trauma that this forum often reads like "so i was fucked by my father at 6 years old, as we all were" ๐คฃ even bdsm sessions come w a certain amount of pre-negotiation i've seen guys who like rough sex put right up front in their bio "like to fuck dry no lube not even spit" so what do you label it when there's no pre- consent or agreement but you're just lucky that you were in the mood for it? cause i've been having rough sex for a long time and this wasn't generic rough sex. i was there.
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i feel like you guys will get this. i just had a buddy come over to fuck and i don't know how to explain it cause if i describe the nuts and bolts of it it sounds like rape but it def wasn't cause i fucking loved every minute of it. if anything i'm surprised how well i could take it ๐ this guy is a 40ish beefy latino str8 guy on DL with a fat uncut cock. we've hooked up a few times and he has gotten a bit rougher each time pushing the boundaries. he asked to come over and i readily said yes. i waited on the couch smoking some 420 and chilling in a leather harness, used jock and gym socks. he arrived just as the buzz was starting to hit. i offered him some and he started smoking before sitting down so i noticed he was already raging hard under his shorts. i got on my knees, pulled his pants down and started sucking while he smoked but then he put the pipe down, grabbed my head and really started throat fucking me fast n deep, calling me bitch etc recently a buddy referred to me as a throat goat at a sex party but it's all comparative: i'm often disappointed how quickly i gag. but i guess the 420 had me relaxed because not only did i last longer but i could really just be in the moment and enjoy the feeling of getting deep throated. eventually i did gag and came up for air, he immediately said " come'on im gonna fuck you" i bent over the sofa and was surprised that he just shoved the whole fat thing in dry without even spitting on my hole. but what really surprised me was that it didnt hurt even a bit. he just went straight to pounding me hard and i fucking loved it. he pulled out the poppers and would take breaks sliding in slow and soft but then grab my harness and fucking drill me like a wild man. my moans we're loud and gutteral. so different than during a long session. i guess he was really pent up cause when he came it went on for a long time with him shouting 4 letter words like one does when the orgasm is super intense. other than a few quick pleasantries he was dressed quickly and out the door. and even though i'd been used like cheap rag doll, i was just sittin there panting in ecstasy because it felt great. ๐ท have i reached full fledged pig status? ๐
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Why can't I stop barebacking?
norefusal replied to Usedbottom's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
i go by a case by case situation. i def would have said no to the above as it seems u had plenty of dick to choose from. i usually only say yes on those nights your online for hrs and nothing is working out and youre down to get fucked w condom or not get fucked at all as your choice's. which tbh rolling over and going to sleep untucked sometimes is my choice depending on my mood. -
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lol i suspect you don't want those big behinds to be acting very "str8" tho ๐
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First anal sex (bottom), should I prepare or not?
norefusal replied to Diogenes's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
i don't know what ur history is but this is my experience: i started out fucking women, not random hook up but GFs. sex always included a lot of foreplay, making out, mutual oral etc so by the time i was penetrating they were all wet n ready. my ass is far more like a cunt than i realized. my first top was a lovely, hot guy and by the time he stuck his big d up my virgin ass we'd been talking/flirting and fooling around for a while so it just slid right in as i wanted it bad by that point. in my experience, it only hurts if a guy walks in and just goes right at fucking 0 to 60 with not even a hello first. so no amount of lubed dildo play is gonna do it if your cherry-busting plan is to host door open ass up for anon. i can do it now, but that's after decades of being a shameless whore ๐ -
same but we're all different. i know i have very negative knee jerk reaction to "paying for sex" and to me this falls under that category. i will on occasion pay to enter a sex party or a bathhouse, etc but that's a lot different than having ongoing monthly costs to a for-profit organization that just lists which of your neighbors are up for it. ๐
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gym Who remembers the showers in gym class?
norefusal replied to SweetPiss's topic in General Discussion
MS was a big room w multiple heads off of poles in the middle of the room. HS was a u shaped corridor w heads on both walls and we filed thru single file like cars in a car wash. we basically just rinsed off- no soap -
gym Who remembers the showers in gym class?
norefusal replied to SweetPiss's topic in General Discussion
middle school made much more of an indullable impression on me as it was my introduction to locker room culture. all the tall athletic guys who went thru puberty early strutted around naked cracking jokes and snapping towels, their big Ds swinging side to side under full bushes, while all the lil guys who hadn't been hit by the change yet quickly changed hunched over in corners and avoided the showers. by HS i used it more as a learning lab to educate myself on all my ignorant questions like: is the D proportionate to height etc, or if black guys have light palms, is the head of their D light? etc. this was way before google and online porn so we old school gays had to Nancy Drew our way thru life. -
what i learned is that there is nothing unique about the experience. its your freshman year in the dorm. its being a 2nd year transfer student in an established class. its your first day at a full time job. its your first ever trip to a gay bar. it takes days just to process that what happened was so wildly different than what you thought would happen. that's neither good nor bad just unexpected.
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What is the best position to get seeded as deep as possible?
norefusal replied to Pampix's topic in General Discussion
i'm sure its different for everyone but i've always gotten my deepest breedings w me on all 4s and the top crouching over me, feet flat on bed, knees bent. -
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Who likes to sniff sweaty jocks and athletes gear
norefusal replied to SweetPiss's topic in Softcore Fetishes Forum
oh yeah. love wearing other guys' used gear too ๐ back in college, repressed me had a job in the locker room of the men's gym which awoke many dormant feelings. i'd sometimes steal random strangers' dirty jocks and speedos. am i proud of it? no. did i enjoy the jo sessions back in my dorm room w my stolen gear? fuck yeah! ๐ -
exactly! never once in RL have i ever done it in a bed at home w a girl who kept her bra on the whole time, yet if my only knowledge of sex was what they show on TV, i'd think that's how all couples do it ๐คฃ i always chuckle a bit at porn when the guys starts yelling "i'm gonna breed you! i'm gonna shoot deep in this hole!" and then pulls out and jerks his load out all over bare skin ๐
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did u ever find out? how long did it last? did u take doxy just in case? i've never experienced this but it does seem more like an allergy than an STI but im curious to know if u saw your dr. Maybe the guy previously had a condom on? or lube? did anything taste odd? i dont care for the taste of silicone lube.
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omg, i tried it once for like 30 seconds when i was young. never made that mistake twice! def one of those "what's the point in living if you can't have raw dick" moments ๐คฃ
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why is the timer on? the real answer is a BJ should last as long as it feel good for both guys. period. i know what you're getting at tho. the only time i can suck for hrs on end like some kind of punishment in hell is when i'm spun. sober, luckily im good enough at it that the guy will usually come before im bored or tired. but some guys can't cum for various reasons and if my jaw is acking or my nose starts running too much or i've been deep throating for so long my gag reflex just quits on me it's like ok this was suppose to be a temp job not a fucking career ๐ likewise, i don't enjoy prolonged BJs. i like getting my dick sucked as long as it feels good, but often if it goes on too long it's like my dick gets overstimulated and oversensitive so it's actually starts to hurt making it unlikely that i'll cum. to me, being able to make a guy cum with your mouth in an efficient manner is the true talent.
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King of Hill actor, Jonathan Joss, murdered in homophobic attack.
norefusal replied to brnbk's topic in LGBT Politics
not to be all "gun don't kill people" about it but... you are right. leaders fuel the hate. but he's everyone's president and just as i hear his words and think "that's not right. that's stupid. that doesn't even make sense" i refused to let the millions of people who voted for him off the hook. ultimately, the people doing the hate crimes are the ones to blame, twinkie defense be damned -
instincts? - i love the whole idea of it and get turned on by seeing a slut bred in front of a crowd - i love the feel of sloshing around in a wet cunt. i'm as queer as a$3 bill but i do sometimes miss the slip-n-slide feel of a real pussy. this comes closest- a cum filled stretched hole - i'm unaware of any concept of pushing my competitors' babies out of the way. - but my problem is not instinct but ptsd. ๐i gotta get fucking dr fauci's "you're all gonna die!" hysteria out of my mind. it's bizarro world where my brain is going "this is ๐ฅaf!" and my dick is going "danger! danger will robinson! abort mission" the opposite of most sex scenarios where my brain is "this is creepy and totally unwoke" and my dick just hardens more like "fuck yeah! use that stupid bitch" ๐
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i've never gotten and complaints but i know im average because: math. sometimes guys will say something about it being big and i always have to suppress a laugh cause ive been w enough guys to know what a big D looks like and i ain't it. ๐ but in my experience of "can i fuck you or not?" dick size is the least of the issues. most guys are either too tied into uptight ideas of the top being the "man" and the bottom being the "woman" or anal is a step too far, i don't know u like that, or fear of disease (it was soooo much harder to get a guy to bottom for you pre-prep) or "i'll suck dick but i won't get fucked - that's gay!" etc etc
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Attraction vs Fetishism: Racial Preference
norefusal replied to KindaBasic's topic in General Discussion
this! i've both slept with and dated men of all races. but here's the rub: i live in usa which per last census is roughly 51%white, 33%latino,11%black, 3%asian and 2%other. you would think that scewers the odds. i have both dated and slept w more white guys than anyone but that's just because there's so many more of them. but, just by chance: i've had several LTRs w asians despite not having very many nsa hook ups w them. but i rarely go on dates w black and latin guys despite having nsa hookups w countless ones. in my experience they tend to be more on the DL, str8 or "str8" etc. and that's not me profiling them, that's just the facts of the stats how they coincidentally worked out for me. i know several who are out and date, just not me ๐ considering how many of my recent hook ups verbalize how they're into me being a thick-bottomed daddy, you could argue i'm the one being fetishized lol but i'm not complaining. being stereotyped is also getting me laid on the reg, so....
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