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Where do you think the best PUBLIC CRUISING spots are in NY??
norefusal replied to BXBjBtm's topic in New York Metro Area
yes how did i miss this 🤣 honestly it seemed like 2 different places early 2000s and early 2020s . it's entirely possible the basement wasn't a feature way back then, and also maybe everyone being downstairs would explain why it was shockingly empty upstairs a few years ago. but i went to a different gay bar last year in nyc and really, if any bar had been this dead at midnight back in the 90s we'd all be talking about it going out of business. overall i kinda got a "you can never go back home again" vibe. today's gays just don't seem to go out like my generation did in the 90s. -
Where do you think the best PUBLIC CRUISING spots are in NY??
norefusal replied to BXBjBtm's topic in New York Metro Area
sorry, what does this even mean? it's a bar, so i've def gone home w guys i've met there but i don't recall them having a backroom nor have i've ever been there when someone was getting fucked ontop of a pool table so i've never considered it a "cruising spot". last time i was there most people were hanging out outside in those left over covid shacks. 😜 -
road-head! have you received or given? :->
norefusal commented on pupHawaii's gallery image in User Galleries
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Questions that don't deserve their own thread
norefusal replied to yoursinmine's topic in General Discussion
i'm only going to respond to #3 because the other six can be answered w "everyone's different but also i like variety so im different ways on different days and/or w different people" your hole is elastic, so capable of stretching when needed and snapping back in shape afterward. it will stretch wider and more easily if you are turned on more via foreplay. this is also why poppers, chemsex etc are so popular as they're generally a short cut to willingly being a ho. similarly, you hole will not tighten back up due to trauma ie forced entry, no lube, rough sex the bottom isn't into. some guys train their holes w stretching toys, exercises and routines in order to intentionally alter its ability to tighten back up. it's a sorta form of kink. -
Tops becoming always more agressive and rough
norefusal replied to IntoBBvisitor's topic in General Discussion
i've noticed this as well and am always trying to figure it out. but kink has gone mainstream in a big way and even older str8 people are confused as to why things like "choking a bitch" are now just a standard part of usual sex and not reserved for niche kinksters. dont get me started on pegging which i'm still not sure is actually a thing average str8s casually do 😜 -
and how did this make you feel?
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this is two sep fantasies in one. kudos for starting your gourney yourself and becoming a roided out cum dump jock pig. maybe your transformation will attract the dom Sir you seek but kudos for not holding your breath waiting for him. control what you can control and leave the rest up to fate.
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sounds like you know the place better than i do so won't be thrown off my all the signs forbidding all the things that are exactly what guys are there to do 😜but the handful of times i've been there it's been deader than corpse at a funereal and the few guys that do wander in seem to be my personal favorite: guys who go to sex spots but don't want to have sex. dude, if you only want to watch, put on one of the videos! 😜unless you know the right time to go, in which case please share w your horny pig brothers 😈
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now that's a bussy! -
more slutty than u already are? not possible! 😜 all kidding aside one "side affect" i enjoy is not having to ask people their status b4 sex, or conversely feeling bad about myself for not asking. it's such a HIPPA violation. even listing our status on the apps seems wrong to me. such an invasion of privacy.
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Have you ever taken money to fuck or be fucked ?
norefusal replied to Thedogsbolloxxl2's topic in General Discussion
been offered? yes taken? no commodifying natural impulses is wrong imho ymmv -
i find it all depends on my mood. somedays i really get off on the whole unknown aspect of a new stranger and it's very hot. other days i just can't w strangers. unknown people in my house, dweebs hosting in weirdo abodes, potentially bad in bed, etc ugh somedays the comfort and intimacy of a regular FB who knows how to push all your buttons just right is worth his weight in gold. other times i break up w them because i just can't w your nonsense anymore.
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it's so wild to think we were perhaps in the same place at the same time once and didn't know it 😜
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that's the place! where i lost my gay porno cherry lol it should have a plaque (i assume it's been torn down)
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what u describe above ^ is basically how i find most cruising spots today. the apps really seem to have ruined cruising so im just glad i got to do it when it was 🔥 but theaters specifically? i havnt been to one since the 80s. i'm not sure they even exist where i am anymore. but these places can also be "good riddance to bad rubbish" too. i guess what hasn't changed is both include people. people suck. and not in the good way 😜
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yes! 🤣 the amount of guys who say they want to drop by for my door open ass up face down for anon hosting but need to see a face pic first. um... you just don't get it do you sweetie 😜
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i seem to fall for the same scam over and over. a guy next door type posts that he's sick of the shallow and superficial gay community. he's looking for a true emotional and intellectual connection and about to give up hope. i ask if he'd like to meet and see if we hit if off. he replies basically: not you! i'm looking for a deep emotional and intellectual connection with a tall GL muscle jock DJ w a huge dick. 🤣
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where was the Pilgram? i lived in Boston in the mid 80s and worked in the leather district and the combat zone was on its way out but some remnants still remained. i used to frequent some theaters there around this time. i don't recall any names.
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Popping a Bottoms Second Hole ... Myth or Fact?
norefusal replied to RVAGuy's topic in General Discussion
one thing i know for sure: this guy you were talking to was a sadist who seems to relish the idea that he causing pain and problems for his partners. i've taken my share of long d and most big guys take care to adjust positions, rhythms, angles etc in order for me to enjoy the fucking. honestly, the "second ring" is almost entirely responsible for turning me into a size queen. it just hits different. i don't always get or stay hard during it but after he's finished im often so turned on by the deep dicking that i jerk myself off. or if im lucky the top blows me. not to yuk anyone's yum but i wouldn't hook up w this guy if i were you. ymmv -
tbh i don't think younger guys were ever that into them. i started going just because it was all i knew, and i wasn't out yet, but the guys i met there were rarely young and hot.
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Tell me your first fuck buddy stories
norefusal replied to Ronitsingh's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
one early FB that springs to mind was a fit latino who barely spoke English. i was primarily interested in his big uncut cock tbh but i was too young and dumb to see that and eventually obsessed over the lack on communication and how he was primarily just interested in fucking me, like that was a bad thing 😜 the one obvious thing i found problematic at the time but now swear by is: he was always slipping it in raw and i'd have to remind him to put a condom on. this was circa 1992 but i do sometimes regret all the breedings i denied myself back in the day. -
sounds 🔥 if i were you i'd be back there every night 😜
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i've done a lot of both door unlocked and door open and perhaps it's just dumb luck but i find 99.99999% of the time guys are just horny nice guys who enjoy a sexy set up. i will say that ironically the scariest moments come at crowed bathhouses. when im door open ass up and a big guy comes in and not only shuts but locks the door and for a split second i'm like "oh shit what bs is he gonna try n pull?" but i guess they're just shy guys who don't want people watching them fuck.
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no. but it's also just a preference not a requirement for me. i use spit a lot mostly because i frequent cruising spots and sex in "inappropriate places" and most people don't carry lube on them at all times. but sex at home sometimes also uses spit but if the guys wants lube i'm ok w it. i'd rather fuck w lube than not fuck at all. which is my real complaint: wtf is up w guys who have to have everything just so or they can't fuck? smh
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i hit my runners wall w monogamy at 12 years too. but you're way ahead of me. 1 i found a new respect for cheaters. it's a scheduling nightmare! you need a social secretary just to fit in hook ups during non suspicious times 2. it was mostly just oral but i let an embarrassing amount of guys dump in me b4 i got on prep. for me it was more a reaction to being a whore than a causation 😜
