norefusal
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it's only gone in one direction for me: i've become friends w guys i originally just fucked, but i have never later fucked someone i started out as friends with. but people move on, or move away. sexual compatibility is hard to be enough for a sustained relationship.
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Finding guys online for relationship
norefusal replied to tallslenderguy's topic in General Discussion
spam and scammers are annoying but i find them relatively easy to spot and avoid. im more triggered by how unapologetically rude some regular folk are. there will be guys who are openly racist, ageist, body shammers, etc and then try to hide behind the excuse of "it's how all gays are, you should be used to it" um, no. it's just how YOU are. in a lot of ways, going online helped exposed the hidden ugly underbelly of the community - grindr is like a 60 Minutes expose 😜 -
i wonder if it's a dated expression? prick, like dick and cunt was used to not only refer to genitals but also a person who's a jerk. a real asshole 😜 vs pussy which is someone weak or cowardly.
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🤣true also, when a blank profile cold DMs me "sup" i know im about to get black dick 😜
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once in middle school my best friend told me in all seriousness: penis is a tiny dick dick is average like what most guys have cock is a big fat dick prick is when it's long but thin 🤣
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same
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ok, the answer is either, 19, 29, 39, 59 or never. 😜 at each of those stages i discovered new and more intense ways of enjoying sex w my hole but still, the dime is taking forever to drop. 😜 i've recently gotten into FF so maybe once i experience my first gape i'll finally accept that i've got a cunt between my legs as far as pleasure goes.
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Bareback Bastards video links go here
norefusal replied to HardOneLA's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
i had the same but opposite. because it was back during "the crisis" he always either fucked me w a condom or his fav to straddle my head and give me a facial, which yes, made a huge mess with jizz flying everywhere. not getting fed or bred by him is one of my biggest life regrets but young people are dumb. he's probably still walking around spewing huge neg loads all these years later. 😜 -
Reconnecting with my gay uncle
norefusal replied to Jaygusher's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
speak for yourself! 🤣 i suppose it's weird that i get paid to sit at a desk and read BZ m-f 925 but unlike T this addiction doesn't have as bad a comedown 😜 -
i can only remember doing this once because i was very triggered. generally i stick by the rule "don't yuck someone's yum" but some guys seem to use "we like what we like" as a cover-up for bad behavior. so... you wanna write fiction about bad behavior, or share rRL experiences from your past, go right ahead. but don't encourage people to do awful, technically illegal things in RL and then get all hurt if someone downvotes it.
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it's funny how much changes in just a year. i've doubled down and gotten far more into blindfolded anon than before so have come to regard the muteness as part of the kink 🔥 but i still prefer a verbal guy. at least a smack on the ass signaling "job well done" but also, although i've gotten used to being present and reading the signs - i recently had a few very verbal guys who shouted all sorts of shit out loud as they came and i gotta say it made me realize how much i missed that. especially str8 guys seem to be masters of the silent orgasm and while i've come to accept it, i really appreciate a good verbal cummer. 😜
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😮this is by far the 🐷-est thing in your whole story 🤣 im not sure i would have done it. im not sure i could have done it. here in the NE most campuses and their dorms don't let outsiders in. the closest thing i ever did to this was once a grown adult snuck me into his sober house. still, it was a "what am doing w my life?" moment. possibly getting caught being somewhere youre not supposed to be sometimes sounds hotter that it is in reality. like gettin bred in a car that has child seats in the back 😜
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how did i get into it? a hot guy goated me into doing it 😜same way i first sucked dick way back when 🤣 i was at an outdoor cruising spot one nite and he was i guess what you'd call an experienced kinky dom bottom. he walked me thru how to fist him and although i'd never been particularly drawn to it before, i loved it. i was 59 and let's be honest, my top a stranger on demand stud days were behind me. this provided a nice way to top w out topping 😜 but we continued to hook up and the more i did it w him, saw how much he loved it and the big orgasms he had, i now wanted to try taking a fist myself. i've tried a few times w various guys but thus far i havnt gotten past 4 digits. but im gonna keep trying.
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Faithful Husband Tempted By Poz Neighbour
norefusal replied to Tommy Tank's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
great story and love the cliff hanger. -
i guess it just goes to show how much we all live in little bubbles of our own experience. it's shocking to me to hear of this parallel universe where the AIDS epidemic didn't affect BHs which not only remained open but were full of guys raw dogging their way through a heath crisis like a bunch of MAGA anti-vaxers 😮 but i think it's also about fads too to a certain extent. when i was a kid in the 70s BHs were a famous symbol of the gay lifestyle so to me theyre like liking the dorky music your dad listens to. i'm sure it's different for younger guys who weren't around for the village people 😜
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absolutely! but cruising in general has always been hit or miss. heck, w the apps, now one doesn't even have to leave the house in order to strike out on a fri nite 🤣 but also the whole world is going this way. personally i think the gay bars would be a bigger loss than the BH but that's just me. i think losing the gay bookstores was huge and yet most people have forgotten them and adjusted. the internet gave us unprecedented access to info. but it's also helped isolate us. and that's true for everyone, not just the "gay community."
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it's not just eggs that have gotten crazy expensive. I'd be more prone to go to an ABS or BH if they weren't the price of a good meal out, never mind the cost of the STI treatment after 😜But there's also the lameness of some of those who do go, that often make the trip seem not worth the entry price. Everytime i think to go to either, i remember the last time i paid to get in to what was essentially a dead party, and then i talk myself out of going.
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Have you ever thought when gays discovered fisting?
norefusal replied to Gingerguy's topic in General Discussion
i think the confusion comes with how fads and/or contexts plays a role. i feel like FFing was put on the "no fly list" when AiIDS hit the scene and is now enjoying a sort of retro comeback. similarly, i have no idea when the first group decided to "snowball" I just know the concept is new to me. when i first started fucking, rule 101 of m2m sex was don't go near another guy's ljz w a 10 foot pole. now w prep every hook up is like jizzapoluza 😜 -
last time i got breed was kinda both i guess. his orgasm was kinda loud n showy so id assumed he'd enjoyed himself 😜but after he left i just rolled over n went to sleep. i woke up in the am when some very wet sounding gas escaped with a sort of plop sound. my eyes opened wide as i felt the wetness spread and sure enough my crack was flooded w jizz. i cleaned up and went about my day when an hr later i needed to push something out and sure enough, it was more cum. like a lot. like wtf did i get gangbanged by 10 guys and sleep thru it amount. lol so, embarrassing that i cum shartred myself, but hot that i apparently made this guy dump the worlds biggest load deep up my ass.
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there are two types of people. unfortunately there are times when the gay cruising scene seems to be overrun w basic bitches who only have the same type of sex w the same type of people over and over again like groundhogs day. it's sounds like hell on earth to me only because i'm the opposite: i crave trying new and different things. i move a lot, have lived in dif countries, eat a wide variety of food and love trying new dishes, travel often, have been to over 30 countries, etc and some of the best sex i've ever had was with people i initially said no to but was glad i changed my mind as they proceeded to rock my world. 😜 i've got this friend who now when he points out a hot guy i don't even bother to turn my head to look. how many gen x latin bears can you check out before it all becomes one big blurr like he's literally cruising the same dude over and over again 🤣 live and let live i guess
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wow! that was different and a welcome pallet cleanse tbh. reminded me a bit of the gay cinema of the 80s and 90s. old fashioned boy meets boy tale. good job
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of course. same. but what is "gross" about cut is not the actual cock, but the fact that a developed nation would promote institutionalized genital mutilation. unless it's medically necessitated or cosmetically wanted, why are babies being altered against their will?
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this is a win win for me because I know i'm not suppose to say the quite part out loud, but i get extra turned on by black and latino dick, especially if uncut, and those just happen to be the same types that like a fat ass to unload in so...
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i love this story because it a bit different dealing with older adults, a married couple and a sort of kinky triangle that ensues. not the more popular "twink is so f-ing dumb that adults pozing him on his 18th bday is like stealing candy from a baby" stories that i find a bit 😴
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i lived in nyc for 24 years and no hook up ever stole so much as a penny off the floor from me. i must be blessed 😜 and of course we all got our own way around the big apple. my driving comment was in reference to my current 100% car dependent city. some guys will uber or even walk to me if i host. i'm judging 40something yo men who ask me to come pick them up take them to mine then drop them back home after like im morgan freeman or something. even then it was at least miss daisey's car! 😜
