Jump to content

norefusal

Members
 View Profile  See their activity

  • Posts

    681

  • Joined

  • Last visited

 Content Type 

Everything posted by norefusal

  1. norefusal
    my #1 rule is "avoid any discussion of it" 😜 until fairly recently, i've been able to ridiculously boast "i've never cheated on anyone". it's not cheating if you never officially agreed to be exclusive. it's BS i know but as george costanza says " it's not a lie if you believe it" 😜 this continued thru the times i tried to cheat on my husband and the hook up just didn't happen, or didn't continue until "completion". i'd convince myself it wasn't cheating if no one came. that worked until the day i took a load and could no longer lie to even myself. i know other cheaters have specific rules. the guy who became my sole FB during lockdown wouldn't fuck me. that was the rule he set for himself. it seems silly to me to think the daily loads i swallowed weren't technically "cheating" but hey, his rules worked for him, who am i to say they're silly.
  2. norefusal
    i started doing this but quickly lost interest. i'd rather just live in the moment. the fact that i struggle to come up with a real number when asked how many partners ive had, alone screams "SLUT!" so why bother. "too many to keep track of" is its own answer 😜
  3. norefusal
    to me sniffies is a hook up basic staple, like jeans and a white tee are to your wardrobe 😜 it's great for travel, quick hook ups when horny, and perfect if you're into anon w whomever as it attracts str8s, cheaters, guys on DL etc sure there's lots of BS, time wasters etc but that's because it's connected to people and people suck lol
  4. norefusal
    i'll tell ya, i've gotten way more action from the gym locker room then i ever got at any ABS or bath house 😜
  5. norefusal
    i met my ex husband when he cruised me in the steam room at the YMCA. afterward, when people asked, he liked to quip "we met at the gym... and neither one of us have stepped foot inside one since!" 😜
  6. norefusal
    *shrug* id rather get fucked w a condom than not get fucked at all so respecting his opinion coincides w me meeting my needs. whenever guys say they just move on to the next top i always think "must be nice to be you then" lol refusing a top in this "bottom's market" and as an older guy, its basically like saying "well guess im not getting fucked today" 😜 and that doesnt even include the 60% of the guys hitting you up for "oral only" 😜
  7. norefusal
    yes. post lockdown i was able to work from home for over a year and str8 guys love the mid-day quickie between meetings or on the way to or from home. early am "going to the gym honey" etc now i have "summer hrs" so get fri afternoons off and that's when i host most of my anon hookups. the worst was when i was still married and trying to start playing around. i gained a new respect for cheaters then. trying to schedule a DL hookup is like trying to solve a rubic's cube 😜
  8. norefusal
    lol grindr is literally that friend who says "oh i have a gay coworker. you two should meet!" that's it. the end. how the interaction goes from there is 100% up to the humans involved. i'm actually both impressed and horrified by your suggestions that a computer program interfere in an effort to correct human behavior. your post reads like the basis for a sci-fi novel 😜
  9. norefusal
    i suspect that the closest we've all come to being a simp, especially in our youth, is the crush on a str8 friend that bedeviled our days and nights until we were old enough to go out and find a gay community to engage with. i was a simp for a str8 friend in college, except that being thirsty for him was a perk, not a motivator. he was a popular kid i used to get inside the cool-kid's clique and improve my social standing. so it was mutually beneficial even if never consummated 😜
  10. norefusal
    only 2 going to a party fri nite. will try to improve on this weeks dismal showing 😜
  11. norefusal
    no idea what you mean but like bear, twink, top, sub etc it's used as code or shorthand on hook up sites to easily describe kinks sought. how do you explain to the potential anon tops you're asking to come NSA breed n go u as your husband watches or films but doesn't participate, and why? simp cuts to the chase. i've seen other sought after kinks use it to: like the guys who get pleasure out of one bullying the other to send him $.
  12. norefusal
    i got the impression that per gay hook up apps, a "simp" refers to the partner who likes to watch his husband get fucked by strangers. as for your examples above, none of them seem str8 exclusive so in theory i'm sure they happen w gays. personally, i can't think of a single example of me doin any, but there are maybe some close calls lol theres a guy who attends a lot of the same parties i go to who i kinda have a crush on. he's spoken to me in depth about my thoughts and opinions, has fooled around w me but not gone "all the way" yet, etc. i get a bit excited to see he's going to the same event but id still go even if he wasn't. there's a vague i may like him more than he likes me vibe, but it never crosses over into simp territory like you describe above.
  13. norefusal
    interesting. i'd have to say that just as much as i'm turned on by manscent, i'm also turned on by wearing other guy's intimates, especially if they're used. once in a blue moon a hook up will unexpectedly pull something out of a hamper and tell me to put it on and wearing his musky jock/thong/whatever is instant boner material.
  14. norefusal
    i had that job in college! it was the best! most guys didn't pay for the service so i rarely had to hand out towels and got tons of homework done on the job, plus the view of everyone walking back n forth to the showers 😜# in praise of guys who strut around nakid 🍆 the membership locker guys kept their clothes in had mesh fronts (if you've ever opened a locker a day or two after putting your gym clothes in it, you know why lol) so that made it easy for me to steal used jocks and speedos 🐷that i am. but the best were the nights when the wrestling team would do their group weight ins. the scale was right in front of my desk and they would all strip naked and as each got on the scare the others would all comment on his body and what was looking good, sometimes they'd touch the areas they were praising, etc it was all very soft core edge porn and i nearly creamed my pants on several occasions. 💦💦😜
  15. norefusal
    different days = different guys i get bored in general doing the same thing all the time, and guys are no exception. this is why cruising areas are so fun. you can spread your ass for a dom top one minute, only to later be forcing a faggot to choke on your cock, the now departed top's load still tryin to leak out your cunt. bitch doesn't need to know what you got up to before he arrived 😜
  16. norefusal
    interesting recent comments from Fauci's book tour. its nice he credits the Aids activists and compares them favorable vs the antivaxers but old habits die hard. as one of those activists, i haven't forgotten how it all seemed too little too late at the time. also interesting his dire predictions on how ramped up covid would have been if we hadn't rushed out the vaccine. still, where my hiv vax at? i'll continue to ruin my liver w pills but i can't help be frustrated.
  17. norefusal
    that would be me 😈
  18. norefusal
    this! 100% even as a young virgin i was the type of person who believed in facts, science and the word of experts, so when i repeatedly read that the average dick is 5.5 to 6" i believed it. im lucky in that i've been able to do exhaustive research over the years and have literally been up close and personal with several hundred erect penises. my findings corroborate the experts: most guys have a 5.5 to 6" dick. when asked i often say things like "i got a standard 6" or "all-american boy-next-door dick" and i can tell you that not a single one of those hundreds of men turned their nose up at it or refused to play. would i turn away a genie offering to grant me a thick 8" porn schlong? no. but do i waste my time feeling insecure about something i have zero control over? not for a second. but let's be honest even if it is a toxic attitude. it's fun to see all the different shapes sizes and differences but there is such a thing as a "pretty" dick. like @sub4oralcummine is straight, unblemished and looks just like a toilet stall drawing of everyone's preconceived notion of what a dick should look like, so that may explain all the compliments despite it being "nothing special".
  19. norefusal
    squirt was a dud for me, but i agree the cruising section was its best feature. but honestly, unless you're new in town, you only need to know this info once, not keep checking back in to see where the trendy new cruising spot is lol
  20. norefusal
    i'm not a total top, not even close. but when i do top, the more masc the bottom is the more turned on i get, and vice versa. femme twink bottoms are are huge turn off even tho they're always tryin to get this hairy daddy to fuck them. this can be frustrating as it seems as of late that if i liked to fuck femme bottoms i'd be fucking 24/7. but the dick wants what the dick wants.
  21. norefusal
    i find the opposite. i mean i get it, weather it's coworkers, friends, or fuckbuddies, str8 guys are always high maintenance 😜 but i like the way they fuck. they're always so happy to have permission to live out all of their perverted porn fantasies, that they readily adapt to kink. no one wants to snarl "take it bitch!" then spit in the face of the mother of their children, even if it's just fun roll play. it's weird. and nobody enjoys tight ass like a guy used to fucking the busted cunt of a mom after multiple births.
  22. norefusal
    i actually hear "you DDF?" much more often. i usually just nod are give some barely answered response. perhaps this is a dick attitude, but i only asked such things before i got a prep. i mean, im fucking raw because i accept the risks i take and they should too. if i give someone an STI because im in that window of infected but no symptoms yet, thats the risk they took when they decided to fuck around. not my problem. the condom thing w cheaters im more wish washy on. i purposefully don't travel w them. sometime when i host and they ask i deny i have any. i mean, if u require it, then fucking bring your own. but my willingness to cave is proportionate to how thirsty i am to get fucked. a dick in your home is worth two on grindr. 😜
  23. norefusal
    when i got Syph i was livid! not mad at whoever gave it to me, or myself for being such a slut it literally could have been anyone 😜 i was angry at puritanical society for their archaic efforts to control us. i was at the clinic ranting about why do i have a Tudor dynasty disease in this day and age. they can clone a sheep from cells but they can't eradicate a 15th century disease? i went full conspiracy theory 🤣i was still an underage virgin when they test tubed a baby.
  24. norefusal
    i've always gotten a secret thrill off of fucking ugly guys i wouldn't want my friends to know i fucked. but now, i'll literally fuck anybody, never say no. it's a gamble but it's a double thrill: i love being such a slut that i'll literally accept any dick, but also the gamble. some of my best fucks have been w guys i was going to refuse, doing things i previously thought i didn't like
  25. norefusal
    the body regulates sperm temperature to keep it healthy. between 90-95 deg. if it felt warmer than usual, his balls were prob just a bit hot - like tight pants on a hot day sweaty. was he out on a summer bike ride in lycra? jizz can taste funky or look discolored if diseased or unhealthy. but i don't think it's noticeably warmer.

Other #BBBH Sites…

This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply.

Top Bareback Porn Sites…

×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

By using this site, you agree to our Terms of Use, Privacy Policy, and Guidelines. We have placed cookies on your device to help make this website better. You can adjust your cookie settings, otherwise we'll assume you're okay to continue.