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They're not allowed to be more emotionally mature because we're not teaching them how to be. -
You have a very strange view of the world, Erik. There's no point in arguing with you further because you seem unwilling to consider anything outside the worldview you've already formed - but I strongly believe attitudes like yours are a big part of the reason why so many kids are growing up with a narrow and sheltered view of the world around them.
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Again, you're assuming that something which is a basic part of the human existence is a horrible thing. I'm not talking about allowing rape, molestation or coercion - I'm talking about helping kids understand the feelings and urges many of them already experience amongst themselves. That doesn't mean they're all going to have or want sex, but it means they will better understand how their bodies and psychology work as they grow. It's just as equally about what to do when they're not ready too. Any kid which is confused or scared about their bodies will be more susceptible to grooming or exploitation from somebody with bad intentions. This type of education is just as important for giving kids the tools to know when NOT to consent and how to get help if somebody isn't respecting that decision.
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My point is education will help negate whatever negative consequences you're imagining. This is exactly the type of attitude I was referring to in my last reply.
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That's the type of thing I'm referring to, hntnhole - giving kids those basic mental building blocks so they can recognise and understand those feelings when they start to develop. I became sexually active with my friends very early on and we knew we were being "naughty" so we had to keep our thoughts secret and figure it out ourselves - but why? Why do we demonise something that should be fun and natural? I assume it's because most people prefer to think of kids as being perfect little creatures rather than young human beings who experience the same type of existence as adults do, just in their own way. In retrospect I felt a lot of confusion, frustration and fear about sex when I was younger - but that's because I was feeling things I *wanted* to feel but didn't know how to process yet, and I was afraid of getting caught and being in trouble. Those aren't the type of feelings and emotions we should be letting young people associate with sex. For the benefit of my younger self and anyone else like me, I wish we (as a society) stopped treating these feelings as something we're only allowed to feel beyond a certain age and stopped kidding ourselves into thinking these type of instincts can be ignored or suppressed.
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I'd suggest the solution to that is teaching kids how to process their feelings and the proper ways to seek/give consent.
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I was more of a bottom when I was younger. When I was 19 I rented the spare room in another guy's flat - he was 32 and we started fucking pretty soon after I moved in, and a few months later he started giving me piss enemas. He had a big dick even when he was soft so it went deep, and it always seemed to take a few hours for it to fully work its way back out so we couldn't do it all the time, but I always fucking loved the way it felt. There's nothing like laying in bed afterwards with a cock still up your ass and feeling that sensation of being filled up even deeper. I prefer being a top now but I still miss that feeling sometimes.
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Me too - I love giving a guy his first time. I'm not an overtly dominant top but I enjoy being in that position as the "leader" when I'm with a virgin for his first time. Plus their combination of excitement and nervousness is very sexy to me. The whole process of foreplay, teaching him what feels good for me, learning what feels good for him, stretching his muscles and being the first to feel the inside of his body is so nice. it sounds like Drew was a lucky lad.
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I've only experienced this with one other guy but it's such a good feeling dropping a load and then getting your piss swallowed too. There's something special about a guy who can drain your cock entirely.
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Thats horrible, I'm sorry man.
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For those of you who had your first experience when you were young, I'm curious about whether you consider it a positive experience or not? I was eager to start sooner then I did, but I have a friend who was very young for his first time and he has mixed feelings about it.
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I knew I liked boys since I was very young. I started fooling around with a friend when we were 9 - it was nice but I remember wanting to be with an older boy or man, I somehow knew what we were doing was just "playing" and there was more to it. I didn't get that chance until I was 15 though.
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first dick sucked-- cut or uncut?
nate88 replied to cumfillthishole's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
My first was also uncut - my friend when we were the same age. I didn't know what foreskin was so I thought there was something wrong with his dick when I first saw it, but then he pulled it back and it made more sense. I had a lot of fun with that boy's foreskin 🙂 I prefer uncut cock now and I definitely think that first cock is why. As a cut guy it's nice to have that extra bit of skin to play with. -
From the opposite perspective - I've helped a few younger lads explore and experience their first times. I was a sexual kid when I was younger too so I understand what it's like to feel that way and not always have an outlet for it, or to not have a partner who can let you satisfy those urges. Sex is a wonderful and natural thing, I really hate the way our society tries to repress and demonise it. We're doing younger people a lot more harm by making them feel like they're wrong for having these feelings instead of giving them the tools and knowledge to express themselves safely and healthily.
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I've given a few virgins their first time and for me the process of helping them open up is most of the fun. The sphincter is a muscle like any other - it can relax, it can stretch, you just need to help your bottom learn how to control that part of his body and teach him how to trust you. The first time is never comfortable at the start but with the right approach he can enjoy it as much as you. If you're the type of guy who forces a bottom to take it when his body isn't ready, then you're a bigger asshole then the one you're fucking.
