nate88
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I'm the same - normal sized loads, but when I'm turned on I can leak like crazy. Especially if it's been a while since my last load.
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I love guys like that. It's a huge turn on being with a guy when you know his balls are busy churning up a fresh load, or feeling my balls working up another load to join the one he's still holding up his ass.
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Sometimes we forget lubing inside is just as important as lubing outside, especially for first timers. And especially if he has douched because that process will remove the mucus/moisture the rectum usually has. Take the time to finger him - it will help lube his insides and also help his muscles stretch, and help him adjust to the sensation of being penetrated. Some lube brands include nozzles which are almost like mini douches - buy lube like that so you can squirt lube inside him too, or find a lube injector on Amazon. It will help your cock stay lubed as you penetrate him deeper.
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This has been my experience with virgins and newer bottoms too - the spooning position is usually the most comfortable and relaxing for them. It also helps us maximise body contact and lets me kiss/breathe on their ears and neck. Laying the bottom on his tummy is another favourite of mine for the same reason, but something about that position seems to need a bit more trust established first.
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What sort of guys did you hookup with before you turned 18?
nate88 replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I don't think there's anything wrong with what you did. You're lucky that you had the confidence to express yourself like that - as long as you had a positive experience there's no need to feel regret. -
I'm glad you enjoyed yourself but it always bothers me hearing about a top who puts his own needs ahead of his bottom like this, especially when the bottom is new and still learning. Going at his pace is so important at those ages - I always make sure the younger lads I'm with are comfortable and enjoying themselves. Nothing is more gratifying than helping a younger bottom get started.
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Anyone who wants to fill up a twink can hmu
nate88 replied to Twinkbottombare's topic in General Discussion
If only you were in Sydney! -
100% I can relate to this.
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They're not allowed to be more emotionally mature because we're not teaching them how to be.
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You have a very strange view of the world, Erik. There's no point in arguing with you further because you seem unwilling to consider anything outside the worldview you've already formed - but I strongly believe attitudes like yours are a big part of the reason why so many kids are growing up with a narrow and sheltered view of the world around them.
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Again, you're assuming that something which is a basic part of the human existence is a horrible thing. I'm not talking about allowing rape, molestation or coercion - I'm talking about helping kids understand the feelings and urges many of them already experience amongst themselves. That doesn't mean they're all going to have or want sex, but it means they will better understand how their bodies and psychology work as they grow. It's just as equally about what to do when they're not ready too. Any kid which is confused or scared about their bodies will be more susceptible to grooming or exploitation from somebody with bad intentions. This type of education is just as important for giving kids the tools to know when NOT to consent and how to get help if somebody isn't respecting that decision.
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My point is education will help negate whatever negative consequences you're imagining. This is exactly the type of attitude I was referring to in my last reply.
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That's the type of thing I'm referring to, hntnhole - giving kids those basic mental building blocks so they can recognise and understand those feelings when they start to develop. I became sexually active with my friends very early on and we knew we were being "naughty" so we had to keep our thoughts secret and figure it out ourselves - but why? Why do we demonise something that should be fun and natural? I assume it's because most people prefer to think of kids as being perfect little creatures rather than young human beings who experience the same type of existence as adults do, just in their own way. In retrospect I felt a lot of confusion, frustration and fear about sex when I was younger - but that's because I was feeling things I *wanted* to feel but didn't know how to process yet, and I was afraid of getting caught and being in trouble. Those aren't the type of feelings and emotions we should be letting young people associate with sex. For the benefit of my younger self and anyone else like me, I wish we (as a society) stopped treating these feelings as something we're only allowed to feel beyond a certain age and stopped kidding ourselves into thinking these type of instincts can be ignored or suppressed.
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I'd suggest the solution to that is teaching kids how to process their feelings and the proper ways to seek/give consent.
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I was more of a bottom when I was younger. When I was 19 I rented the spare room in another guy's flat - he was 32 and we started fucking pretty soon after I moved in, and a few months later he started giving me piss enemas. He had a big dick even when he was soft so it went deep, and it always seemed to take a few hours for it to fully work its way back out so we couldn't do it all the time, but I always fucking loved the way it felt. There's nothing like laying in bed afterwards with a cock still up your ass and feeling that sensation of being filled up even deeper. I prefer being a top now but I still miss that feeling sometimes.
