ktopper

None. Never read it. Or the bible either. On this forum I prefer to stick to sexual topics. I argue about religion or politics on other forums.

I have had several. Some of them were guys I hung out with whether we had sex or not, but we usually did. We would work on a car or some such project but would be eying each with sexual intent and end up fucking. Hard to concentrate on changing sparkplugs while your assistant is rubbing his sexy ass against your rock hard dick. Then afterwards kick back with a drink or three with both of us aware that he had a load of my cum in his ass. Fuckbuds are hot. The longer you know each other the better the sex is.

I've had them. I had one the first time I bottomed, although I didn't realize it at the time. I even have them sometimes as a top. I'll be buried in some sexy guy's ass and just stop fucking and start "twitching" my cock inside him and feel an oh-so-delicious prostate orgasm start. I usually cum soon after. But I've practiced them over the years while sinfully polluting myself (well at least my sheets) with lust in my heart. I massage my taint with my knees bent up while twitching my dick, hands free, except for the one massaging under my balls. Voila, anal orgasms one right after another until I began dribbling cum. Neat thing is I can rest for a minute or two and do it again. Highly recommended for those with insomnia, guaranteed to bring on sweet dreams of hot ass and nice cocks.

Congratulations on following your true sexual nature. You are not necessarily a beta male, you are just gay. The two may, or may not, equate. If you truly are a beta male then strive to be an alpha bottom. If you get off on being a submissive fem than go for it with gusto. Try xdressing, some men, including me, get off on them. . My understanding is that Hep C can now be treated to the point of being undetectable. Others here will know a lot more about this than me.

I began my sexual life at 15, with a girl, bare. By the time I was out of high school I had banged dozens of girls, always bare. Over my lifetime I have had sex with probably over a hundred women, lost count a long time ago, and used a condom with them maybe 5 or 6 times. Yeah, I have paid for a few abortions. I got into gay sex at age 25, back in the 70s, and it was bareback only for several years. No one even thought about condoms in the gay scene at the time, why would we? After all men didn't get pregnant. Although there have been some men I would have loved to impregnate. Then AIDS hit. It is hard now to imagine the impact it had. Everyone knew someone who died from it. I remember being in a gay-friendly bar and talking to two gays with full blown AIDS. One of them looked like a walking skeleton. They both knew they were dying and there wasn't a damned thing anyone could do about it. I began seriously limiting my gay sexual encounters and when I did have sex with a guy it was always with a condom. Well almost always, I occasionally made exceptions. No one really knew much about HIV but we knew it was a death sentence and we were terrified of it. People were even afraid of oral sex, hell, people were afraid to make skin contact with their partner's semen. In the early 90s things began to loosen up a little. By the late 90s I started bare backing once in a while. I had gotten married and was afraid I would bring it home to my wife so I would make up excuses to not have sex with her until I could get tested. I would even get tested if all I did was give someone head. By about 2005 I had decided fuck it, my chances of catching HIV as a top were fairly low for any given encounter. But I still maintained a schedule of regular testing because of my wife. My wife went totally asexual around 2012 and I quit worrying about it and started bare backing every chance I got and went years between tests. I had one recently and am still negative. People now talk about losing their erection with condoms but I never really had a problem with that. I could fuck just fine with a condom on, it just wasn't nearly as much fun as bare. By the later 80s on through the 90s it was just part of the routine. But I never did like to use them and plan on NEVER using one again. Bare back forever, just as the sex gods and goddesses intended

A hot gay ass does it for me. I've sometimes had trouble cumming when balling women. Never have that problem with guys. A bottom I used to fuck once handed me a handwritten list of his desires and preferences, which I mostly ignored, me being me. One of his preferences was "no kissing." I positioned him on the edge of the bed (his sister's bed, he was house sitting) and asked him "does no kissing mean here too" as I kissed my way up and down his fat dick. That seemed to be OK for him so I began kissing my way around his sexy bubble butt while asking "or here?" That also seemed to not be a problem for him. I then zeroed in on his hole and asked "or here?" as I worked my tongue into his ass as he moaned with pleasure. He started begging me to fuck him so I slid my cock inside him and pulled his head up and kissed him slipping my tongue, fresh from his ass, into his mouth. He went absolutely wild and came almost immediately. That set me off and I followed soon after. We became fuck buddies and he never again presented me with any lists of HIS desires.

Cum is the best.

I was recently tested (end of March), came back HIV Neg. I have updated my profile to reflect this. I have topped guys who I knew were poz, several times actually. I stayed neg. So I don't worry about it. When I was still having sex with my wife I was much more careful and either wore a condom or, later on, got tested often.

A lot of guys I don't kiss, probably most. But when I get a bottom who is into it it is usually a lot of fun. For me it is more about domination than romance or affection. It sends a message that the bottom is taking a female role and, I think, intensifies his experience as a bottom. Besides, it is just a lot of fun unless the bottom has bad breath or fucked up teeth.

Male. Breathing under his own power. Clean. Now I do have a certain hierarchy of preferences: Old (like me) guy. A choice between that and a middle age masculine acting dude will see me fucking the middle age guy. A choice between a middle aged guy and a hot bottom in 20s or early 30s will see the younger guy getting some dick. Between the masculine guy in his 20s and an all out fem, including xdressers will have me breeding the sissy boi. A shemale would be my very top pick although I have never been lucky enough to fuck one. Guys in suits are a special category, they always make my dick hard, at least they do if I suspect or know they are gay. Straight guys don't do anything for me, They are just another guy. One category I avoid is young teens or even younger. I will NOT play around with them, 18 or older please. Over the years I have had a lot of fuck buddies who were bro types. There's just something really satisfying about having your cock buried in some dudes ass while he is begging you to fuck him harder while you are whispering in his ear calling him a hot faggot and telling him how much you like breeding his sexy ass and then 10 minutes later you are both kicked back drinking a beer and talking about guy stuff although you are both very aware he has a load of your cum in his guts. Then the conversation starts turning sexual again and leads to round two.

I have been guilty of calling bottoms faggots and bitches. But only after it is clear that they are into that. Otherwise I don't. I also make it clear just how much I enjoy fucking them. I started as a bottom and see no shame in that. Years ago the first guy I ever topped told me in one of our fuck sessions that it mattered not whether you were pitching or catching, you were both playing the same game. Back in the 1970s when I first got into gay sex you would sometimes hear bottoms referred to as "punks." Tops would talk about "making a punk" out of some sexy guy or "punking" him. I think that term came from the prison population and got picked up by some in the gay community. That was one hell of an offensive term. I haven't heard it used in a gay context for decades now.

If enough of them discovered the pleasures of gay sex the problem would be solved. The only thing to divide us would be "top or bottom?" What would unite us is a shared need for sex. A hard dick or a horny ass is pretty much color blind. I have never been fucked by a black guy but have given several of them BJs. And I have fucked several of them. When I am buried in a hot black ass I am not concerned with his race although I am aware of it. But it's not a fetish thing for me, just two gay men doing what we like to do. White bottoms seem to think all black males are tops. I know from experience that is not true.

Yes, I like doing that and get rock hard from it. And that is as a top. Even better if I suck dick before topping. It turns my gay dial all the way up to max. "Women? What's that? Now Excuse me while I enjoy a hot piece of gay ass." LOL

I think I am past the DILF stage. Is there such a thing as a GILF, a grandpa I'd like to fuck?

Yes. That sexy ass is world class for sure.

I voted "clean cut". But truthfully it was a tough choice, it could have easily been femme. Well dressed businessmen types with a bit of a gay vibe always gets my attention. But then so do masculine working class types (like me). Fems also make my dick hard and I have always hooked up with them whenever I got the chance. I reckon I just basically like to fuck guys up the ass. Twinks are not my thing but some of them ARE sexy. I just don't like the idea of accidentally doing one below the age of consent.

It isn't a big issue for me. I like when a bottom does get hard because I think it's sexy but if he doesn't I'm gonna fuck him anyway.

I was 25 and my first time was raw. This was around 1977 and AIDS wasn't yet an issue. I never used condoms with women and saw no reason to use them with guys, after all I didn't have to worry about getting pregnant. My first several years of gay sex were bare, both as a bottom and then as a top. It kind of became imprinted on my libido. A few years into the '80s Aids came along and scared hell out of everyone including me. At first they knew gay men were getting sick and dying but weren't sure why. A lot of crazy theories were circulating, like the one that blamed it on poppers. Another said it was a reaction to a male taking cum inside his body and it was nature's way of punishing degeneracy. They never tackled the obvious question of why married men's wives were also getting it. Then they identified the HIV virus and that, if anything, made the panic worse. Gays dealt with it by using condoms. I hated the damn things but used them. As a top you wouldn't get any without a condom. By the late '90s things were turning around and that lead to pure ass breeding bliss for us tops. I love unloading is some fag's hot sexy ass.

I once worked with several "Nazi" skinheads. The way they talked any gays they encountered were subjected to a Doc Martin boot party. I was several years older than them but they seemed to respect me because I could outwork them and never antagonized them. They also didn't realize I was gay and I wasn't about to advertise that fact to them. I've never had sex with one and never had any desire to do so. I have sometimes wondered if some of them aren't over compensating for something they are keeping repressed.

In situations where quietness is very desirable, such as some public rest rooms, I often don't say a word, no loud growling or anything. The bottom still knows when I'm cumming, I grab his ass and get very physical even sometimes biting him as I cum. Not long after I got married my wife and I were at a nice restaurant and after we ordered I excused myself to go piss. While standing at the urinal a guy walked up to the urinal beside me and started checking me out. I looked at him and we recognized each other from a local ABS/video store where I had fucked him a couple of times. I was instantly hard and motioned for him to follow me into a booth. He had his pants pulled down and I had my dick out within seconds. He lubed my cock and I was inside him in real short order. I was nervous but also very excited and in probably less than a minute slammed into him with my cock buried to the hilt as I came. I cleaned up and arrived back at my table just as the waitress was setting down a basket of dinner rolls. My wife and I had a very pleasant dinner as I looked into her eyes and told her how nice she looked all dressed up and told her how much trouble she was going to be in when we got home.

Yes! As a top I do this. I quietly tell the bottom, usually whispering into his ear as I pull him close, how good his tight faggot ass feels and say shit like "I'm gonna make a girl out of you and make you like it." When I'm getting close I tell him I'm about to breed his hot sexy ass and I announce when I'm starting to cum and say things like "you're gonna be shitting cum for a week." Sometimes a bottom is so into our fuck that he will start to cum also. Not often but memorable when it happens. It's like I am fucking him mentally as well as physically. I think I do a lot of this because I started as a bottom and just do what I liked having done to me. I think I am a natural top but when I first got into gay sex it took me a couple of years to figure that out. During that time I had some very hot encounters as a bottom but I always fantasized about what the top must be feeling when he came in my ass. I'm not loud when topping but I am verbal. It's interesting with fuck buddies at times when I have gotten to know them pretty well. One minute I'm telling him what a hot sexy slut he is and dominating him sexually and 5 minutes later we are talking about cars or guns or bitching about our wives or GFs or whatever.

As a top I don't ever worry about being a "good top." If a bottom isn't into what I'm serving, well bottoms are all over the place and a hell of a lot of them do like it. That's not to say I absolutely don't care about the guy I'm breeding, if it is obvious that he is having a good time I enjoy that and try to make it even better. I am now 71 years of age and pretty much a one shot and I'm done guy. When I was younger and super horny I could cum and then stay in the bottom's ass and stay at least semi hard while we dirty-talked each other and within a few minutes we would be on round 2. Sadly those days are long gone. But mostly I consider bottoms as sexy pieces of ass looking for a load of cum and that is what I deliver. One of the things I like about fuck buddies is that you each learn each others buttons and that can make for fantastic fucking.

Try that with a sugar pine cone.

Yes, me. With both men and women. Natural scenic places make women horny. Good bottom boys are always horny.

How about when a top/tops have pumped you so full it has nowhere else to go except out?