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Interesting take on sex. We seem to be total opposites. For me intercourse IS my main focus. That applies to both men and women, I am technically bi. And as for gay sex, it applies whether topping or bottoming. I haven't bottomed for several decades but when I did it was all about getting fucked. Topping a guy is my ultimate sexual pleasure. I do like to suck dick, usually when I know I'm going to fuck someone latter. Maybe that doesn't count as real intercourse. But when it comes to me receiving a BJ from another guy I would really rather just breed him. I'm not criticizing you, I guess I just don't really understand your preferences. But I find it interesting, as I tend to do with what I don't understand.

Nice! Back when I bottomed I liked that too, I hated to even wash them after a really hot fuck.

versmetropig captures the spirit of the era perfectly. There were no cell phones or hookup apps, not even PCs, so hookups required more game. But it was not hard to score in the 70s. Especially in the cities. Simply walking down a sidewalk in the right neighborhood often lead to a hookup if you were looking. Walk past a guy and let your eyes linger on his crotch and he would often do the same. It was an exciting, free and easy, more innocent time to be alive. I rode Harleys back in those days and the "Tom of Finland" look, sans huge biceps and the gym body (although I did have a well muscled ass), came natural. The eighties, with the exception of the first couple of years, were hell. It is hard to explain how bad it was. People were dying, everyone was afraid, gays were ostracized. Having lived through those decades I really do think that the present is a golden age for gays, based on things like huge improvements in health care and general tolerance of gays and lesbians.

I don't know about best brands, sources and such. But my personal favorites contain a hard cock and a nice bubble butt.

My first time topping I was about half pissed off at the bottom. The guy I topped was rather drunk. He had a GF who was a former GF of mine. I had recently hooked up with her although we were no longer a couple. He heard about it. I went into a local bar about mid afternoon and he was there. He got all whiny and emotional about his GF and kept saying that me fucking her was like I was fucking him. He was a smaller guy maybe 5'6" or 7. He had spent time in prison for some minor felony and the rumor was that he was a prison punk. I found out later it wasn't just a rumor. He was getting pretty drunk and the bartender wanted him to leave. I drove him home and on the way he started playing with my cock. I didn't know if wanted to kick his ass or fuck him. I ended up fucking him which was a great decision. I knew his GF wouldn't be home from work for another hour or so and kind of invited myself in. He immediately opened my pants and started giving me a BJ. I steered him to his bedroom, the same bedroom where I had fucked his slutty GF a few days before, and got us both naked. He dug around in a drawer and came up with some lube. I was soon sliding into him with his ass up and face down. I had been bottoming for a couple of years at that point but was surprised by how good his ass felt around my cock, so tight and silky smooth although he loosened up a little as we fucked. It didn't take me long to cum. I rolled over onto my back thinking we were finished but he straddled me and and lowered himself on my still hard cock. I lasted a lot longer this time and we soon changed positions again with him once again ass up. The sight of that sexy ass taking my cock eventually had me blowing another nut. I wiped my cock off on the sheets and noticed he had shot a huge load on the sheets also. I got dressed rather quickly because I knew hi GF was due home any time. Between the alcohol he had drank and our fuck he was asleep when I left. I always wondered what his GF thought when she got home. We fucked often for a year or so after this first encounter. He was a much better piece of ass than his GF.

As a top I tend to be rather verbal while fucking. I usually announce that I'm about to cum just before I do just that. I don't mean it as a warning, I just think it's hot. By that point it doesn't really matter to me what the bottom wants, he is going to get my load. After all dude, we are fucking, what did you expect?

Bareback is not a "new standard," it is The Standard. I somehow doubt that Achilles and Patroclus used condoms. Of course they hadn't been invented yet so that simplified their choice somewhat, but still...

I probably average about 3 times a week. Normal healthy gay porn. About 2 or 3 times a year I watch some hetero porn. Some kinky stuff right there, that straight porn.

The second guy I ever had sex with was a local owner/operator. I knew the guy slightly and had heard rumors that he was gay. He was on his way home and had stopped at a local truckstop to fuel up and then hit the bar for a beer. He sat next to me at the bar and we had a couple of beers and then went out to his truck to smoke some weed. He ended up fucking me in the sleeper. I think it was a case of mutual seduction. We became fuck buddies for a couple of years and he dumped a lot of cum in me. Since then I have had quite a bit of sex in sleeper cabs, always as a top. I know there are trucker tops but I also know that most are bottoms, at least the ones I have hooked up with are bottoms, with the exception of my first trucker. He was all top with a nice dick and he knew how to use it. He spent two years making a fag out of me and making me like it. Of course I eventually discovered how much fun topping was and became exclusively a top. But I think my experience as a bottom made me a better top and contributed to my enjoyment as a top. Here is a salute to truckers. I am more than happy to help break up the monotony of their life on the road. And the masculine aroma of a sleeper makes my dick hard.

I am married to a woman and I fuck around with both men and other women. My relationship with my wife has been sexless for over a decade. We had a very good sex life for years but she came down with a bad case of bible-thumperism and we grew apart, emotionally and philosophically. Even when we were still enjoying sex as a married couple I am positive she was cheating on me. The unmistakable smell of another man's cum in her panties after a night out with her "girl friends" was rather suspicious. And believe me, I know what cum smells and tastes like. I didn't let it bother me much, in fact it kind of turned me on. I also fucked around on her so it made us kind of even. I got tested for HIV and other STIs often because I really didn't want to infect her. But that is no longer an issue so I indulge in fucking a horny gay bottom every chance I get with zero guilt or regrets. People wonder why I don't get a divorce from her since we have became nothing more than house mates, she has her bedroom and I have mine and we do almost nothing together. She has her friends and I have mine. I don't divorce her for financial reasons. Even if I let her have the house she would have a hard time paying property tax and upkeep on it. I don't mind helping her out financially, I think I owe her that. And at 72 I am not looking at getting into a committed relationship with another woman, I prefer sex with men. I like fuck buddies but not enough to marry one or even live with him. I own a vacation cabin miles away from anyone and I just spent most of the summer there. It is off the grid with a solar system for power, enough to run a refrigerator and freezer, lights, a microwave oven, well pump, etc. No internet (which explains my absence from this forum). It's a good place to get away from the wife for awhile, She is not what one would consider a nice person, she is a classic case of NPD. Early in the summer I had several relatives and friends show up at the cabin one afternoon and was introduced to a guy, 39 YO. Everyone was drinking beer and then switched to Black Velvet and I kept getting gay vibes from this guy and also noticed he had a really nice fuckable ass. His gaydar was also evidently beeping loudly concerning me. He showed up to visit the next afternoon and we ended up fucking. He visited 4 more times during the summer. Life is good! So yeah, I cheat and have no regrets about it.

I do plan to vote for Trump. I see no reason not to despite all the rear mongering about him being literally Hitler and such. I see no indication that any of it is true. I do have some concerns about the people who will inevitably weasel their way into power in a Trump administration. Hopefully he will have learned a bit from his last go around. J.D. Vance also concerns me. I would have much rather he had chosen someone like Tulsi Gabbard. The truths of the Bhagavad Gita would help balance out the superstitious BS of of the xtian/judaio big book of spiritual poison called "the bible". My neighbors are of Mexican heritage. The have a Trump banner on the front of their house. They are Americans. They have no fear of deportation because they are citizens. I have talked to Blacks, a surprising number of them are voting for Trump. They consider themselves Americans. Why not? They have been here as long or longer than many Whites. I have zero intentions to tell anyone who to vote for, that is their business and they should vote their conscience. Just as I intend to do. One thing is certain, though. Whatever happens I will still have an appetite for sucking cock and breeding hot sexy gay ass. I don't think Trump presents any threat to me on that account or I wouldn't vote for him.

Yeah, sometimes, usually right after I cum.

I, for one, do like tight holes. They loosen up when you start fucking. My biggest complaint about female pussy is that it is too sloppy. That is one of the reasons I prefer guys. Male ass is firm, not all soft and squishy.

I tell the bottom I'm about to cum. If he asks me to pull out I usually will, but not always. Sometimes his ass is just so good that I've got to breed it. Announcing I'm about to nut does two things. It gives the fuck boy an opportunity to back out. Or it enhances the breeding for him, but it's usually pretty obvious that he is about to get bred anyway.

I've had it happen when topping. A bit of brown wipes off. But one time I arranged to meet a guy around 7:00 in the morning. He had drank a few cups of coffee. After I cam I pulled out and he started squirting shit and cum. I admit it grossed me out. He apologized profusely. It never happened again with him but since then I have made it a point to never fuck a guy right after he has had his morning cup of joe.

I do not like degrading sex and will not participate in it. I have on a very few occasions engaged in some light S&M (mostly verbal) when a bottom wanted it but I do not think of him as worthless trash, I only do it to enhance HIS pleasure. That's the thing, sex should be pleasurable for all parties involved and respect should be automatic. It should be playful even. A bottom who desires hardcore humiliation and genuine pain has psychological issues and is possibly on a path to self deletion and I want no part of that. I don't want to sound preachy about this but I do have strong feelings on this topic.

I can see it being loads of fun.

No! But in the interest of full disclosure I did once give a bottom a glass of something alcoholic, I forget what, and a cigar. But that was after our fuck.

A bottom with a load or two dripping from his hole turns me the fuck ON, not off. Maybe there is something wrong with me. Perhaps I'm turning into a homo? Oh wait, I AM a homo and I like it. Otherwise I wouldn't fuck hot sexy guys up the ass and that would suck bad.

Willing, it's too bad you are 3000 miles away from me. I would love to devirginize you anally. You really sound like you need to get bred. A couple of loads in your hot ass and you will never be the same. Worked for me.

As a top I'm mostly basing my opinions on bottoms. I have been at this for a lot of years so have met a lot of different personality types. The overwhelming majority I have got along with just fine, at least for the purpose of sex. A few, not at all. I like masculine acting bottoms because well they are kind of what man to man sex is all about. Fem guys are also a big turn on for me, man sex with a feminine twist. Some bottoms are kind of alpha about it which I don't mind as long as they don't get too pushy and most of them are great pieces of ass. Laid back easy going guys are good, the kind who prefers the top to take the lead while they take pleasure in just getting bred. Some bottoms can be real assholes, psychologically speaking, pun not really intended but it works so I'll go with it. Some tend to take the "fag persona" to extremes. Some are "size queens" and can be vocal about it, acting like they are doing you a favor by allowing you to fuck their very special (in their own minds) pussies which are usually only given to real studs with 12 inches or more. I'm above average but I'm not John Holmes so I usually get dressed and tell them they can fuck themselves as I leave. I hooked up with some jerk one time and we went to his place to fuck. We were getting undressed and everything was OK until he spotted my wedding band. "Are you married?" he asks. Yes, I say. "I suppose you are one of those bisexuals" he says with a condescending attitude. I asked what the problem was with that. He said bisexuals were not really into gay sex and usually weren't very good at it because they were just frustrated straights whose wives weren't putting out at home. I didn't bother telling him that I had fucked my rather attractive wife silly the night before and she had sent me out the door to work that morning with a BJ. I got dressed and left, rather pissed at his attitude. I called a fuck buddy and we met for a quickie before I went home. No complaints from him. I used to see the jerk at a local cruising area. I used to get a lot of action there, several of the men I had bred before. The Jerk never seemed to get any action, mostly just walked around by himself in the bushes watching other guys fuck.

For me music can be almost like a drug. Once I have my cock up some guys ass the music gets tuned out, along with everything else, and my focus is on fucking. But music before sex can be great for setting the mood.

I once jacked off and came on a GFs crucifix necklace. Didn't bother my conscience one damned bit. And when I was a little kid I once broke something and blamed it on my little brother. He got a spanking for it. I felt really bad over that evil deed, watching him cry while knowing it was my fault was heart breaking. But sexual stuff? Never felt bad about any of that.

Easy, just do it. Hang out in gay friendly bars. Go to parks and rest areas and cruise.Adult book and movie stores, the few that are left. It might be hard to find a group of like minded guys until you are part of the scene, then opportunities will appear.

This thread makes my dick hard for some reason.