ktopper

My career as a bottom was fairly brief, 2 years as nothing but a bottom and another year as versatile. This was late 1970s before anyone had even heard about HIV. So I have never been fucked with a condom, thank the gods. All that cum I absorbed into my body made me even more gay, a condition I like very much. Then I discovered how much fun topping is and went several years as a top without using a condom. During the '80s everyone was afraid of HIV so most bottoms insisted on rubbers. I hated them. Some wouldn't even suck dick without a condom. Late '90s things started to turn around and return to normal. Condoms suck and it is not really sex if they are involved. They should be banned!

Not usually, but depends on the situation. I once had a girlfriend who loved sucking my dick. Then one night she blew me and Immediately kissed me, my cum still on her lips and tongue. It surprised me but was hot. It became a regular thing for us. Sometimes with the right guy and if I'm really horny, or using poppers, I will felch a guy after breeding him.

I could stop having gay sex anytime I wanted to. I just can't imagine ever wanting to.

Glory hole breeding is nice. I have bred a lot of bottoms through glory holes. I like them spread and ready, and I don't mind rimming first, especially if he has already taken a few loads. And I agree that the sloppier the better. Love it when another top's cum squishes out around my cock and down onto my balls when I slide into some fag's sexy ass. I also love the skin to skin contact, the whole body experience of breeding without the restrictions of a glory hole.

You seem to be similar to me. I am attracted to the ladies and like having them in my life. Straight men do nothing for me. But if I find out a guy is gay I find them very erotic. I fucking love gay sex. I don't worry about labels, I just love to fuck. I joke that I am gay with a hetero kink but I could also be said to be straight with a gay fetish. And don't be afraid to try topping. I started as a bottom but once I started topping I found my true self.

I have welcomed the new year a few times with women, including my wife. But never with a guy. That is on my bucket list

When I first discovered gay sex I bottomed for the first couple years. I always tried to hold it in so it would absorb into my body. Sometimes after a good long fucking cum would slowly leak out into my underwear on my way home. As a top I really appreciate it when a bottom doesn't clean himself up and retains my cum. Letting cum soak in and sperm cells penetrate into your blood stream makes you even more gay. That is a good way to be.

Yes, I love fucking a cumslick ass. Of course I also love being the first, or only, guy to breed a hot ass. Fuck, who am I kidding? I just love fucking a sexy gay ass.

Around 10:00 this morning. Yesterday afternoon I was in a hardware store and recognized a guy I fucked a couple times several years ago. He recognized me also so we started talking and I asked him if he still played around. He said every chance he got but he had something already set up for last night so he couldn't play with me just then. We exchanged phone numbers. He called me about 9:00 this morning and said he could be at my house in a half hour. My wife is away for a week so it was perfect timing. You know it's going to be a good day when you breed a hot ass before noon. After I came and pulled out he grabbed his cock and shot a huge load on my bedsheets. He left after that. My bed smells like cum and is making me horny again so I'll probably lay down for a nap soon and add another load to my sheets.

I have never been in a gay relationship and have no intentions of ever getting into one. But I have hooked up with gay couples and it is damned hot.

I don't disagree with anything in your post. However I do at least attempt to do the right thing, especially regarding the opposite sex. Any guy looking for dick, well he is probably going to get it, the "morality" is between him and his partner.

Cocksucker here. Not divorced, but after almost 30 years I may heading that way. When I first got married my wife and I had a very active sex life. She was also not shy about public displays of affection. We were traveling through the South West and stopped at a rest area on the freeway. I went in to the bathrooms to dispose of some excess coffee. She headed for the "ladies room to freshen up." There were people lined up at the urinals so I went into a stall. I pissed and then sat down to read the graffiti. There was a glory hole in the wall and a guy was stroking a nice cock in the neighboring stall. I signaled him I was interested and he slid his cock through and I started giving him a BJ. He soon shot a load in my mouth which I swallowed down. We both exited our stalls at the same time and I got a good look at him, older guy, balding, mustache. I went outside and sat at a picnic table to wait for my wife. He sat down at the table next to me without either of us saying anything. My wife came out and I stood up. She wrapped her arms around me and pulled me in for a deep kiss. She said "umm, your kisses taste really good today." I look over and the guy gives me a big wink. My wife saw it. When we got back in the car she said "I think that old guy was jealous of you because you have such a sexy wife." Well, modesty was never one of her strong points. I hope the old guy enjoyed the situation as much as I did.

That is hot. Now I have a hard-on and it's all your fault.

Yes, definitely true. I have had several bottoms mention it. It is starting to sound cliche but my favorite moments are the initial penetration and the moments just before and during orgasm. It's like I am dominating the bottom during the entire fuck and then surrender to him as I unload deep in his ass. The entire process from first meeting to completion is amazing, the initial checking out his ass, undressing, his masculine odor, my entire body and soul comes fully to life. Men are born to have sex, it is a primal animalistic drive. It is fully expressed through gay sex, no filters, no pretenses. I thank the gods every day for my gay side.

When I was around mid to late 50s I used to hook up with a guy in his late 60s. He was a versatile bottom who loved to get fucked. He had zero tolerance for guys who just wanted oral or mutual JO. I met him at a local cruising area and after that we got together often. He became a favorite we fucked two or three times a week. We were both married but I would call him up if the wife was going to be working a late shift and he would come over. Or we would meet at the local cruise and sometimes involve other men. Usually I prefer younger guys but he was in shape, still kind of handsome in a grandpa sort of way, and he was a nice tight fuck. Also rather adventurous, which I like in a bottom. Now I'm the old guy, fortunately there are guys who don't mind getting fucked by us older gentlemen. Well, "gentleman" may be stretching it some.

Kid, you remind me of myself when I was your age (now 71).

I will play with a guys nipples but I don't want mine touched.

30 minutes or an hour of edging while reading this forum or watching porn. This forum is responsible for several good j.o. sessions, especially the thread with pics of all those hot holes. When in my youth I used to sometimes get a quick "nuisance nut" before heading out to meet some dude for a hook-up or take a girl on a date.

Cheating can be complicated. Sometimes physical needs over ride moral convictions. I love sending married men home to their wives with a load of my cum in their ass. When I first got into gay sex (mid twenties) I was bottoming. I had a girl friend at the time and it was a turn on for me to go home and fuck her with a load of cum in me. A few times she came home from a "night out with her friends" with that unmistakable delicious odor of sex emanating from her. It was hot and we would have great sex. She had once been involved in a lesbian relationship and was open-minded about sex. I liked her and her sexuality was just part of her so I accepted it. But she was an exception, with most of my GFs I did not tolerate them fucking around. I don't hate women, I rather like them, almost too much. I have also fucked married men in front of their wives, and wives in front of their husband, always with mutual consent. That's not cheating. I have never been in a relationship with another man but have fucked guys that were in relationships. Were they cheating? Maybe. But I don't pry into the status of their relationship, maybe it's open, maybe not. I have hooked up with gay couples who want to play together and that is hot. When I was young I got involved once with a friend's wife. I absolutely hated myself for it and vowed to not do that again. I have mostly kept that vow to myself with a couple of exceptions. One was with a lady with whom I have had a casual affair for years. She once married an abusive woman beating asshole that I knew was cheating on her with several other women, as well as beating her. It was therapy for her as much as anything. I reckon I have different standards for men versus women. If a guy is looking for dick I will happily give it to him. If a gay man is in a relationship he should, in my opinion, have it worked out honestly and openly with his partner. As for me, well it is almost impossible for me to turn down a gay piece of ass. But with women I really try to avoid them if they are in a relationship. After all, I don't really have to fuck them when I can easily pick up a guy and he will probably be a better fuck anyway. Who knows, it may even be her husband or boyfriend LOL!

To be that leather clad biker, nazi hat and all, in a Tom of Finland piece of art who has just picked up that muscular but oh-so-gay sailor. We would walk out of a gay bar, mid afternoon, and walk down the sidewalk with my hand on that fag sailor's ass advertising to the world that we were going to enjoy some hot gay sex and we didn't give a damn who knew it. The women and respectable business men we walked past on the sidewalk would be checking out our very obvious hard-ons and, while outwardly expressing disapproval, they would secretly be envious. The ladies would go home with wet panties and the guys would slip into the nearest bathroom to masturbate. I would fuck that sailorboy senseless.

I am retired in a small city/large town in an otherwise rural area. It is what I like. I have never lived in a big city during my entire 70+ years. I have visited several of them and love the sexual variety of cities but don't want to live in one. I know rural living is not for everyone, to be honest it has no appeal for most. Having lived in rural fly-over areas in several states I have learned that just about everywhere has a gay scene, but it is different than being gay in a large city. In cities no one cares if you are openly gay. Small towns do care. So I stay "closeted," which is a huge deal breaker for most gays these days. Bath houses and such are non-existent, but there are always cruisey areas. And once one gets known to the gays in the area opportunities open up. Everyone gay is on the down-low but there privately hosted sex parties and gang-bangs and other private affairs going on. It's a matter of adjusting to the environment. The variety and convenience may not come close to what cities offer but a certain percentage of the population will be gay. I've fucked enough cowboys, loggers, and good ol' boys and even bible-thumpers to know from experience. That group of rowdy gay bashing construction workers in the bar? At least one of them is either taking dick up his ass or fucking someone in the ass on a regular basis. I have also discovered that a lot of Hispanics are gay or bi. I realize this probably has zero appeal to most but I am comfortable with it. It is what I grew up with and know, and prefer. And some of these country boys are almost as piggy as I am.

At 71 I don't score nearly as much as I used to. When I was younger I would also binge. I traveled quite a bit, often driving from coast to coast. I could have flown but driving was more fun. ABSs were common back then and if I spotted one from the freeway or highway I would pull in. I would go in and give a couple of blowjobs, sometimes fuck someone, then back on the road until I spotted another ABS. Rest areas were also good, especially if there were several big rigs parked there. When I would get a motel for the night I would hunt down another ABS looking to score some ass before calling it a day. I would often end up taking some fuckboy back to my room for some quality playtime. By the time I got across the country I would be sated and take a break for awhile. Good times, I wish I was 30 or 40 again.

I've never really given it much thought. But I don't see why not. If he was a gay bottom I would probably not turn down a chance to get off in his ass. Now a trans woman, I have never been lucky enough to hook up with one, but I damned sure wouldn't pass it up. Hell, if she had a big dick I would probably propose marriage. Just kidding, about the marriage part anyway.

Yes, several times. When I was in my early 20s I was working on a tree thinning crew. One Friday night we all went to some red-neck bar full of loggers and other working class types. There was one middle aged dude sitting at a table by himself who didn't look like he fit in with the crowd, better dressed, well shaven, short styled hair, etc. I was seated at the bar with my co-workers. Everyone was getting hammered and loud. I guess I must have been staring at the dude, probably wondering WTF he was doing in this kind of bar. Finally the dude came up to me and said something to the effect that we were both staring at each other the same way and we should go somewhere to discuss it. I had never had, or even desired gay sex at that time so I was totally clueless about what he was trying to do. I thought he was just being "weird" so I ignored him. But it was so out of the ordinary that it stuck in my head. A few years later I was initiated into gay sex and gained some experience about such things and realized what was really happening that night. Too bad, he was a nice looking guy and would have probably fucked me real good. I have been hit on other times after I figured out how much I like gay sex. I have taken advantage of those situations whenever possible.

I'm on board with this way of thinking. Although there are plenty of men who identify as men who are fairly hairless, crotch hair and hairy armpits but smooth ass and chest. I am one. Gotta say I do like completely hairless sissies, panties and lingerie a plus. Lingerie on a masculine bear type just looks ridiculous, although I will still fuck him. I like masculine men to be masculine when I fuck them, they actually turn me on a lot. A favorite fantasy is to bang a sexy shemale, although I never have.