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I do not like degrading sex and will not participate in it. I have on a very few occasions engaged in some light S&M (mostly verbal) when a bottom wanted it but I do not think of him as worthless trash, I only do it to enhance HIS pleasure. That's the thing, sex should be pleasurable for all parties involved and respect should be automatic. It should be playful even. A bottom who desires hardcore humiliation and genuine pain has psychological issues and is possibly on a path to self deletion and I want no part of that. I don't want to sound preachy about this but I do have strong feelings on this topic.

I can see it being loads of fun.

No! But in the interest of full disclosure I did once give a bottom a glass of something alcoholic, I forget what, and a cigar. But that was after our fuck.

A bottom with a load or two dripping from his hole turns me the fuck ON, not off. Maybe there is something wrong with me. Perhaps I'm turning into a homo? Oh wait, I AM a homo and I like it. Otherwise I wouldn't fuck hot sexy guys up the ass and that would suck bad.

Willing, it's too bad you are 3000 miles away from me. I would love to devirginize you anally. You really sound like you need to get bred. A couple of loads in your hot ass and you will never be the same. Worked for me.

As a top I'm mostly basing my opinions on bottoms. I have been at this for a lot of years so have met a lot of different personality types. The overwhelming majority I have got along with just fine, at least for the purpose of sex. A few, not at all. I like masculine acting bottoms because well they are kind of what man to man sex is all about. Fem guys are also a big turn on for me, man sex with a feminine twist. Some bottoms are kind of alpha about it which I don't mind as long as they don't get too pushy and most of them are great pieces of ass. Laid back easy going guys are good, the kind who prefers the top to take the lead while they take pleasure in just getting bred. Some bottoms can be real assholes, psychologically speaking, pun not really intended but it works so I'll go with it. Some tend to take the "fag persona" to extremes. Some are "size queens" and can be vocal about it, acting like they are doing you a favor by allowing you to fuck their very special (in their own minds) pussies which are usually only given to real studs with 12 inches or more. I'm above average but I'm not John Holmes so I usually get dressed and tell them they can fuck themselves as I leave. I hooked up with some jerk one time and we went to his place to fuck. We were getting undressed and everything was OK until he spotted my wedding band. "Are you married?" he asks. Yes, I say. "I suppose you are one of those bisexuals" he says with a condescending attitude. I asked what the problem was with that. He said bisexuals were not really into gay sex and usually weren't very good at it because they were just frustrated straights whose wives weren't putting out at home. I didn't bother telling him that I had fucked my rather attractive wife silly the night before and she had sent me out the door to work that morning with a BJ. I got dressed and left, rather pissed at his attitude. I called a fuck buddy and we met for a quickie before I went home. No complaints from him. I used to see the jerk at a local cruising area. I used to get a lot of action there, several of the men I had bred before. The Jerk never seemed to get any action, mostly just walked around by himself in the bushes watching other guys fuck.

For me music can be almost like a drug. Once I have my cock up some guys ass the music gets tuned out, along with everything else, and my focus is on fucking. But music before sex can be great for setting the mood.

I once jacked off and came on a GFs crucifix necklace. Didn't bother my conscience one damned bit. And when I was a little kid I once broke something and blamed it on my little brother. He got a spanking for it. I felt really bad over that evil deed, watching him cry while knowing it was my fault was heart breaking. But sexual stuff? Never felt bad about any of that.

Easy, just do it. Hang out in gay friendly bars. Go to parks and rest areas and cruise.Adult book and movie stores, the few that are left. It might be hard to find a group of like minded guys until you are part of the scene, then opportunities will appear.

This thread makes my dick hard for some reason.

As a top I mostly have sex with masculine bottoms, guys who, once the fucking is done, you feel comfortable just hanging out and having a beer or three with. And I enjoy hell out of it. But I have had sex with fem guys on several occasions. It has always been amazing. I once picked up a xdresser on a Friday night and we spent the entire weekend in a motel room fucking. On Saturday night I took him/her out for dinner at a nice restaurant and I don't think anyone thought he/she was a guy. I could hardly keep my hands off the sexy bitch. Knowing she had a rather nice cock stuffed into her pantyhose made it even hotter. I'm bi and it's like the best of both worlds at the same time. I sometimes fantasize about getting down with a tranny but it has never happened. But don't get me wrong, I very much love gay sex with masculine guys on the bottom.

It has been decades since I last bottomed. When I did I didn't feel any less masculine. What did I feel? Perverted, dirty, disgusting, like I was breaking every rule society tried to impose on me, rebellious, extremely aroused, turned on, and very sexy. IOW it was a hell of a lot of fun.

Beautifully expressed! You become cum-drunk. Someone should start an organization called cocksuckers anonymous for those who can't control their cocksucking addiction. It would undoubtedly turn into an orgy at every meeting. I would love to moderate that. We all have a civic responsibility to do what we can for our fellow man and I feel moderating those meetings would be a good fit for me.

Yes, this definitely needs an in depth study.

My experiences with truckers leads me to believe more of them are bottoms than tops. Not all of them though. My 2nd gay experience was a trucker who topped me and he was almost (but not quite) my only fuck buddy for a year or so. Damn, that guy could fuck. He did his best to make a fag out of me and I did my best to help him. Over the years I have topped a lot of truckers. I envy them their lifestyle. I have never worked as a long haul trucker but at one time had a job that required a CDL and drove some monstrous equipment down the highway but it wasn't really a trucker lifestyle being mostly local stuff.

Interesting topic. I'm not into the BD/SM scene so have never really considered this. When a bottom asks me to stop or slow down I just do it. It's cool reading about the interests and games of others. Safe words make a lot of sense in certain circumstances. Reading about some of your experiences makes me feel kind of boring.

That is one very nice ass, a fucking work of art. Way to go, dude, now I'm hard enough to cut diamonds and it's all your fault. Now I'm gonna hafta bust a nut and guess whose pic I'll be looking at when I do.

That's hot as fuck.

Not only does the taste vary but the "potency" also differs. I like to swirl cum around in my mouth and under my tongue for that sublingual experience. Some cum will almost numb my mouth and especially my tongue. It seems like I can feel those aggressive little swimmers penetrating into my bloodstream. But perhaps I'm just imagining it. A former GF from my youth mentioned this to me once after giving me a BJ and after I started sucking cock myself I remembered what she said so perhaps it is just the power of suggestion at work. But personally I think it is real.

I have been with bottoms who liked to JO and cum on my cock and then use it for lube while I fucked them. Hot!

Yes! I can relate to that 100%. A curvy bubble but tapering into a smaller waist, then flaring out to broad shoulders, all solid firm muscle. Men's asses are firm and solid, not soft and yielding like women, and sooo fuckable.

I was completely straight until age 25. I enjoyed it, mostly, except for those times I didn't due to female irrationality, drama, and a few broken hearts. Then I had an encounter where I bottomed for a very sexy gay top. I was conflicted about it for a few months but finally realized it didn't make me any less of a man. To me it was more like a case of expanding my sexual horizons. Bottoming was something I could take or leave, I enjoyed it but was doing it more out of curiosity and the adventure of forbidden fruit than anything. After bottoming for a couple of years I finally topped for the first time. It was fantastic. I think those first few years I could have quit gay sex without any issues, I was still strongly focused on the ladies. After a few more disappointments with women I began seeking gay sex more and more. I think in a way I turned myself gay. It really didn't come natural to me, but I did like it, and I made a decision to cultivate those tastes. By my mid 30s most of my sexual encounters were gay and I kind of imprinted on it as my go to, although I still enjoyed straight sex and got plenty of it but it was so much less trouble to get down with guys so I did. As I got older I focused more on sex with men. I still have sex with women, I currently have a long term female affair partner but we don't get together all that much anymore. Last time we did (a couple of weeks ago) she mentioned that she was seeing a guy who is bi. She expressed some interest, with prompting by me, in a threesome. Something about the thought of breeding a guy with her watching makes my dick hard. I will leave it up to her to make the decision on whether we go through with it or not. Being bi hasn't really created any psychological issues for me. It's just what I am. But I will say that I prefer gay sex. It is much more erotic, hotter, I like knowing what a bottom is feeling, and how to (hopefully) give him as much pleasure as he is giving me. Gay sex really is the best.

1. Gay bottoms. Straight men do nothing for me. 2. Gay men with nice asses. 3. Gay men with nice asses and big dicks. I am a top but well hung bottoms are sexy as fuck. Women with sexy derrieres also turn me on because in reality I am bi. I do not consider that a blessing. I have learned the hard way too many times that it is a curse. I am at peace and content with my gay life. I cannot exactly say the same about many of my "straight" encounters. Straight sex can really fuck up a guy's life.

It makes me feel even more gay. At adult arcades I like to suck a few cocks before topping some hot fag. It makes the entire experience magnitudes hotter.

I would use them if a bottom I want to fuck insists. But I don't like using them. I started having gay sex back in the 1970s and no one used them back in those days. Then in the 80s the AIDS epidemic hit. So I started using them. By the late 90s I only used them if the bottom insisted. By the early 2000s I rarely used them, and now I can't even remember the last time I used one. I think part of the reason I hate them so much is because it reminds me of the dark days of the 80s. And it just feels so fucking good to cum in a sexy dude's ass man to man and know he has my sperm in his ass when I finish. I have also screwed tons of women and I don't think I ever used a condom with any of them. I have paid for a few abortions when I was fairly sure I had knocked them up but in general I feel that contraception is the lady's responsibility. Never had that problem with a guy, and they are better pieces of ass anyway.