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Iker80

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  1. Anyone else love this? If I'm having fun with a guy and he asks where to cum I sometimes say shoot on my dick and I wank with his cum, feels good stroking it all over my dick until I shoot a load, or I shoot on his dick and wank him with it. Guys get horny doing it, but nobody else seems to do it? I've never seen it in porn either. Normally it's a bit cum, and bit lube or spit. But few days ago I had a very hot experience. I was meeting with a discreet married bi guy at a hotel. Didn't start out hot, I felt misled because he was using old pics and said he was maybe 10 year younger than he was, so didn't have the most amazing chemistry with him. It wasn't one of those times you fall in to bed kissing and blow each other like your dicks are the best tasting thing on earth. Friendly regular guy though, I was horny enough and happy enough to wank together. When he's ready to cum I said shoot on my dick. I just felt like having his married dad load on my dick. He shot one of the biggest loads I've ever seen, just keep pumping it out. My dick was covered in hot thick cum and dripping off my nuts. Suddenly I was rock hard and really into things. Great cum too, not just the amount, I was edging, taking my time, stuff didn't go sticky or anything, just carried on nice and juicy and silky smooth until I couldn't hold it in any more and shot one of my bigger loads. I didn't think I'd see him again, I left thinking I wouldn't. But now I keep thinking about his cum and how it felt all over my dick. So I messaged him again today. I'm not that in to him, kind of neutral really, but that cum made amazing lube. So, anyone else like wanking with cum?
  2. Preference vs. prejudice is the difference. It shows in a guy's ability to find guys he matches with without being hostile to whole groups of people. I think that's what some guys are getting wrong, not that there's inherent problem with a guy having preferences. That's why some profiles make me feel like I don't want to talk to that guy even if I'm his type. Better to say what you like and not what you don't, and to be polite if someone who isn't a match wants to hookup. Maybe humour is the best way. I recently told a trans woman at a bar who wanted to flirt she's very pretty but I have bad taste, I only seem to like hairy scruffy workmen kind of guys. She laughed and we talked a bit, I think we're friends now, would be fun to see her out and about again.
  3. Lot of crap from that guy. I'm late 30s and fucked guys of all ages, but best bottoms so far are the oldest guys at 58 and 62. Both are totally my type, friendly, love getting fucked and filled with cum, hairy and with nice thick beards. They've both got that stocky-fit rugby player body and great hairy butts I love fucking. So no worries there. But it's more, older guys can have the best hole. Years of being fucked breaks a guy in so good. They both feel like hot velvet inside. And they've got amazing range. From so relaxed my dick is gliding inside them to gripping extra tight, their holes just do a lot of different stuff depending how we're fucking. Had some amazing long sessions edging in these guys while they're relaxed and some of my biggest orgasms in them when they tighten up. Still love playing with younger guys, never going to say no to a sexy guy, but there's not been anything quite like how the older guys feel inside. I hope they don't ever stop wanting to get fucked
  4. 100% I'm wanting the connection and hot situation number one. Everything else comes after that. Dick size is neutral, all do something well the others don't. I have also seen a lot of popular sex toys are not big, so it's not as important as people think. Porn/popular ideas exaggerate the need for a big dick and it's ability to make you feel good. It's not like you just stick a big dick in and amazing stuff happens. Skill and stamina are more important. Big dick wins for going deep if you like that feeling, which sometimes I do, and it wins for being able to do different positions easy without slipping out. So it's good, but none of that is mission critical stuff. It scores lower on potential to hurt and ability to fuck fast. I relax easier with smaller guys and take hard fast fucking a lot better with them. A better skilled big top will adjust depth as his guy needs. I'm medium-big 7.5" and can feel if I'm going deeper than a guy is ready for. Some guys can get pounded hard with 7.5" nuts deep, some guys can only do 5" gently, it depends. Spooning is a great position for adjusting depth and speed and keeping a guy feeling only good things.
  5. 5-6" hits my prostate great. And if my guy curves up things get even better. Easiest guys to have a prostate orgasm with. So if I'm imagining the perfect guy maybe I'd give him 5-6" with a nice curve to have easy prostate orgasms with him. Smaller dick doesn't hit my prostate but it's still great. It's easy to get fucked with under 4" and no worries about getting pounded long and hard. I went away for a week with a friend who's got a smaller dick and we had fun, he fucked me every day. So maybe I'd imagine the perfect guy with a dick that's easy to enjoy every day as long as we like. And I can still have prostate orgasms if it's feeling good and I'm squeezing my butt again and again, it's been known to make it happen. Bigger dicks don't hit my prostate that much, kind of go past it. Bigger they get the less often I can take them too, but they're also really good feeling, the deepness is very satisfying and intimate. Love spooning with a long dick guy grinding deep inside me as we kiss. So maybe the perfect size is long for some intimate deep fucking. Something about feeling a long dick throbbing as he cums that's uniquely hot too. Guess they're all good!
  6. Cum looks great dripping down a dark dick, but other than that good dick is good dick and there's no difference for me because of colour.
  7. Who are you talking it to, him, you, or?
  8. Big promises saying you just stick it in and all will be good, but will see how it goes if I ever get my hands on these things. I play a lot with not experienced guys, they want to get fucked but douching is not something they know about. Maybe this works for them. But then I have to convince my curious first time bi guy to have a random ball stuck up his butt, so that is maybe a new problem!
  9. I tell them we're living through a huge sex revolution. And in the future when everyone is remembering and talking about this moment in time they'll be talking how people suddenly connected like never before with new compatible partners online, they're going to be talking about people like me who went out and had fun with this new freedom. Not talking about the people who stayed home talking crap about it. Who's going to care about the story of those guys? They'll be the guys everyone rolls their eyes at and skims over, like the people who said the pill was slutty in the 60s. Nobody wrote a book about them, there was nothing to say and basically nobody agrees with them now anyway. So I'm going to spend this very sexy moment in time having fun with as many sexy men as possible.
  10. 100%, love a guy who smells good, that's hot
  11. Some guys are not happy when I say no and try to talk me around. But we can't like all type of guy. Sometimes guys just show up with all the unmatched things that don't make me horny. And they're like "but I'm hot!" and that's not how it works. Nobody is just hot, but everybody is hot to someone.
  12. For sure, a top needs to be in the right headspace. Some guys I end up rolling around nuts deep in them for a hour or more, but with a few guys I've not stayed hard very long. I think all guys have things that hit them wrong, for me it's getting my dick grabbed roughly, being rushed, stuff like that. Sure, sometimes I'm instantly ready to go, but read the situation with a guy, if he's happy and you're having fun but he's not gone fully hard yet just relax and let it happen when it happens.
  13. Mostly I fuck or get fucked, but not always, and less happening when I was younger. So I'm open to it. Before prep it was a way to have safe sex without a condom, to feel a whole experience with nothing between you and your guy, and that's important to me. Kissing with a guy while he's slowly wanking me is way hotter than fucking with a condom.
  14. We had a hot sports teacher. He never showered with us. Maybe good thing he didn't I'd have had a difficult to explain rock hard dick...
  15. Mostly I'm talking a bit before meeting, want to feel if a guy is genuine before spending time. Many guys just want to have fun, but some just want to play games around attention seeking or being controlling.
  16. Up to you, but don't have to be alright with the chance. Doxy pep is good at stopping bacteria STDs, I plan to start it soon, but it's not like the almost certainty prep gives you for HIV protection. And it costs you if you get something, it takes time to get tested and treated, something like gonorrhea can be 2 weeks of feeling crap.
  17. Most times I want a hot load in my guts, it's so good feeling my guy throbbing and pumping cum in me as we're kissing. But last week I had a lot of fun blowing a Canadian guy who was staying at a nearby hotel. Just slowly blowing him, having fun, then he suddenly grabbed my head to keep me on his dick and shot a massive load. Every time I thought it's the last shot he shot another big pulse of cum. Each one was the amount most guys cum total. It was a lot of fun. He's gone home now and we never got to meet again, but who knows, maybe again some time we'll meet.
  18. Love a chilled out guy who enjoys connecting. The kind of guy you can spend ages with rolling around, kissing, fucking, feeling happy together, that's a sexy guy. I'll meet with a guy who says the right things about wanting this over a hotter looking guy who doesn't say them. A lot of good sex is in the connection. For totally physical things, I love a hairy guy. I have a hairy vers friend and missionary with him is amazing. It's feeling my dick rubbing between our thick, warm treasure trails as he's fucking me, or feeling his between us as I'm fucking him, it's maximum pleasure for me. And could frot all day with him, everything feels great on my hands and dick with a warm furry man. So yeah, hairy is hot. Nice beard too, love how that feel in my fingers and as we're kissing. A guy that can last a while too. Having my prostate and hole worked feels good, but when we hit 10+ minutes with a guy who's doing it well it goes to a totally new level. Having a prostate orgasm is maybe possible.
  19. It's a lot of women saying this so I think a lot of guys accept it's normal. Good news is not all women think like this, so I'll look for a more relaxed gf in future.
  20. None of my ex gf were even cool about me wanking by myself, so coming out bi would have been a massive deal. A lot of women don't understand male sexuality and a lot of men don't have good words to describe it. So I think most bi guys have low expectations talking about it is going to help and they're probably right. Still, taking risks and things isn't justified by that, but maybe this explains why so many bi guys are not telling anyone about it.
  21. Guys can be twitchy and if that feeling gets too big they run off. It happens a lot. For me it's a push pull between wanting fun and someone I don't know touching me, which sometimes hits the wrong feeling for me. Other guys can get stressed by things like cheating on their gf. You've got to be more horny than stressed by whats going on. If you're not the balance goes the wrong way and guys run off. I've seen it, I've done it. Probably not anything you did wrong.
  22. I think there's confusion. Eunuch is a guy with no nuts, but normally still has his dick. These days most guys with one or both nuts missing were born without them or had cancer and got them removed. They're not less male, just guys who didn't have/lost a body part. It happens. A guy with no nuts can take testosterone to have hormones like usual, so no problem getting hard, being able to top and he can cum, plus other stuff like having body hair and beard. I know some guys get castrated for sex reasons and want to be seen differently and have it focused on, but that's not all. The guys I've know with a missing nut or none were stressed about it and for them dating and sex was harder. So yeah, I've had some fun with guys with missing nuts, it's all fine.
  23. Yeah, lots more guys now wanting to get beat and fucked rough, or fucked like you don't like them. Not an energy I feel so kind of don't get it first hand, but each to their own. Sucks though messaging a hot guy I want to roll around with, kiss, make love and he's coming back with "spit on me while you call me names". Guess it can't always be a match!
  24. Usually happens. When guys ask if I play safe or say they only play safe meaning we should use condoms, I say I use prep to play safe because it's more reliable than condoms for HIV. And for everything else you'd just get whatever in your throat when you blow each other anyway. Not that I worry about it, I've had all the vaccines and test regular. Been fucking raw for about a decade now and barely had any problems, and anything that could happen is temporary and treatable. So I'm totally fine without a condom, but it's ok if he wants one, no pressure. At this point most guys just say ok or whatever, and when we meet we don't talk about or use a condom. Most times I think guys just want to hear it's ok and safe enough, and they're not going to be judged for doing it raw. If they're new or I think maybe don't know about stuff I say to guys it's good to get tested, get vaccines and prep so they don't have to rely on their partners doing this. I've met and talked with a lot of dl bi guys who didn't understand prep or that there's vaccines and I know some went and got them, and I've encouraged guys who were nervous to go to the clinic for this stuff that it's normal, not something to worry about doing, and some started going. As for guys who really want to use condoms, it's fair enough. I won't blow a guy with one though, that's my hard limit. I can't have something with that rubber feel and gross taste in my mouth. Yuck.
  25. I don't. The majority of guys I meet with and top don't use them either. Maybe they're a bigger thing in the US?
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