Iker80

Lots of interesting ideas! Sounds like intention is big, like it should be something purposeful you want to do and that makes sense to me, I think because you have to feel different afterwards for it to matter. How can you say you changed if you feel the same as before?

First time I felt my guy throbbing was with a sexy, scruffy greek taxi driver I'd found online. We were using condoms but I felt him throbbing and I felt his hot pulses of cum inside me. Not expected with a condom, but since then I've often felt my guy's cum shots with a condom. It's like pulses of warmth. Maybe they help with that one thing because they focused the load in the tip of the condom in one place inside me? I've also felt them without a condom, but it's not actually been as often.

I was born in the late 80s so I don't remember those times, but I have seen changes. There's a lot more talk about sub and dom, even guys are asking me which one am I like you have to be one of them. But it's not really my thing. I can be rough or let another guy be rough with me, but I don't turn it on and off as part of my everyday way of being. Usually with guys I meet things are more mutual and whatever energy we find happens naturally. But that can be rough, I recently met a guy about my size who handled me rougher than I expected. I was growling and really wanted to give him a kick, but he was hot and doing a good job so I was also growling and swearing because I was annoyed I was enjoying it. Interesting energy between us. I don't think I've become a sub now though, it was just something that happened. It's the trying to create situations that seems to be more popular now. The thing is it doesn't feel so natural for me when you're trying to make it happen.

I've seen the topic asking with who and when we lost our virginity and I start thinking what is virginity? Many people say it's the first time you have sex, but I don't agree. What if it was a not very fun fumble when you were a teenager and nobody even cum, does that count? You can drive through a city and say "I've been there" but that's not what people mean when they ask if you've been there, they mean have you seen the sights, have you explored the place. And I'm a bi man so I have my straight virginity and my gay virginity, and there's first time top and bottom when you're a guy. Even for straight guys there's top and bottom virginity because women can use toys in you. My anal virginity was the biggest and last one for me, it's a big thing for me to share that. The first guy to put his dick inside me felt good, but he only did it for a few strokes. He was all about him being a bottom. I think my first proper time was when I was with a guy I really wanted inside me and he did it for a long time. He recharged fast and fucked me multiple times. Feeling him throbbing inside me I had my first prostate orgasm. That experience felt like the real thing. Still, he wore a condom the whole time. Even then I'd never fully felt a dick inside me. That happened later when I finally tried it with a guy bare. I wanted him a lot and I felt empty of him before he even went inside. I didn't even feel tight, and I'm often nervous to bottom. He just went in smoothly like his space was reserved. I had a couple of prostate orgasms as he fucked me missionary, we kissed and I wrapped my legs around him and played with his hairy nuts as he stroked in me. Finally he filled me with his cum. Feeling his dick throbbing a hot load inside me was when I was certain I'd totally lost my anal virginity. It was like the last bit. I guess that was when I'd properly 'been there' and had the full and real experience. I think these two guys are the guys I lost my anal virginity with because I had my first orgasm with one and my first bare fuck/load with the other. But I want to know what you think, what for you counts and what doesn't? Is it just the first guy you did something with, or is it something else?

Often I'm naked, but often also just pants down and go for it with a guy when we have only a little time. I like workmen and uniform so it's sexy for me not just a thing to do. Love how a hot guy's ass looks in some nice pants and feeling them through his pants, the feeling of getting my hands in his waistband and sliding them down his ass and legs. Even nicer when my hands find some nice thick hair to get my fingers in. Get him on his back with his pants round his ankles, or fuck him from behind with my hands holding his waist. Push up his top and hopefully find some more nice thick hair on his chest to play with as I'm fucking him. I met with a hot farmer a while back and he had the sexiest thickest treasure trail when I pushed up his top. I loved how it felt between my fingers and playing with it as I stroked inside him. The whole experience of feeling a hot guy through his work gear, the way the fabric feels, how he feels through it, and discovering him as I pull it off or stick my hands in is a lot of fun.

That's a great looking hairy dad hole

One of my favorite places was a field of long grass on a warm day. I had my jeans pulled down and the polish builder I was meeting inside me as we spooned. It was spontaneous and very sexy, and he lasted a long time. I also had a very sexy time topping a Spanish hairy guy in the back of my open truck parked somewhere private and looking up at the night sky. We started out kissing in the seats, but we wanted more and ended up in the back of the truck on some old dog blankets. I was only planning to drive him home, but sometimes things happen. For total fantasy I think somewhere in space with no gravity would be great. Floating around only feeling each other, no weight to bother us so we just relax in any positions we like. Would be a lot of fun to shoot a load out there too. But I want to go in to space anyway so maybe I'm cheating and making two wishes in to one. Well, if anyone wants to start a space mission to shoot some sexy men in to space, sign me up.

Not really at all. Guess I missed out on that. If anything I prefer guys don't mess with them too much. But I have plenty of other places that feel great, like lick my thighs, or play with and gently twist my treasure trail or beard with your fingers and I'll be very happy. Or if we're making love and I trust a guy, gently bite my ears or kiss/lick my neck, that can make me forget everything that isn't you.

Definitely evolving for me too. I keep learning about myself because I try new things. I don't know why I waited so long, but I was very busy with school and hockey. I always think to myself back then there will be time for sex when I want it. I didn't think I'd end up like I am now, that started when I fucked my first guy bare and we had a good time. After that I just wanted more.

Maybe you can make them happen for you? Wank and edge before bed until you're really hard and want to cum, but don't cum, just go to sleep. I used to do this sometime when staying in a hotel because I don't want to make a mess on the sheets. But actually it made me dream about fucking hot guys and cum everywhere. They can happen just because too, mostly if I don't cum for a while.

First time a guy cum in me I was about 28. I was ok taking loads after prep. Before that I didn't want to take the chance. If we're counting loads with a condom, first time was a few years before then. Compared to many I was late to being with other guys, but I am bi so I wasn't too bothered. Now I know how easy and chilled out guys are to have sex with I've been having lots of fun.

Getting fucked is about mind over everything else. When you're in the headspace your guy will go in easily because you're relaxed. It's not you're trying to take him, it's you feel empty of him before he even goes in. This isn't something that easily happens first time though, and that's ok. You don't need to get everything perfectly first time for it to be good. Dildos may or may not help. They're not essential. Many guys, I'm one of them, just went for it first time with another guy. For me, dildos and dicks are totally different. Dildos don't make me horny or excited to be inside me like a guy does, they're just a hard bit of not sexy plastic being shoved in to a very personal space. Zero pleasure, even when I'm the one driving, just lots of not sexy grunting and pain. So you maybe can or maybe can't take a dildo, depends what headspace they put you in. And that's really it, does the guy you want to try with make you want it? If he does, you'll get there. If a dildo sound fun, chances are they could work for you too, but if not they may be unhelpful.

I find truckers on grindr. Not had huge luck meeting any, except one guy who is a very sexy bottom I see regularly now. Most times they're hard to pin down a location for meet because they are always moving.

I make whatever noise happens, usually grunting, growling, whatever really.

Bareback is just a name for sex. It's ok to want the full experience with nothing between you, from your fingers in his beard as you kiss to your dick on his prostate, it's just natural sex, it's ok to like it.

That's hot. I'm tall and don't get to play with guys taller than me often, but it's a lot of fun when I do.

Stuck up guys. I extra hate it when they're stuck up and bossy.

Out of my last six arranged meets four were bare and two were condom only. I was top five times, bottom once. The usual sign it's going to be bare is if you don't talk about condoms before meeting. Only two guys asked before meeting. One guy asked me if I had any condoms before coming over because he was a nearby electrical workman on lunch break and didn't have one or time to get some, so I said it's cool, top bare and he did. The other guy who mentioned them before meeting said we needed to use condoms and I used them when I topped him.

I love dick and when the mood is right getting fucked, but it's about the guy and wanting him. I don't care about size. I've never felt more excited by a big dick or less by a small one. I just want to have fun and it all works.

It can be good. I met up with a guy a while ago and we had fun making out, I teased his hole a few times but he would move like he wasn't sure after a little bit each time so I asked about topping. He went on his stomach now and let me tease his hole properly. I didn't have lube or condoms and he didn't ask for one so I spit on his hole and went inside him. He felt great inside but I went slowly and about a third of my dick inside he went tight and I think maybe it will hurt him deeper, so I just fucked him that deep until I shot a load inside him. We've talked since and he says it was his first time. So it's good, but I know maybe I won't get all the way inside a guy his first time or get to pump him hard. Which is cool, it's still going to feel great and I'm totally good to help break a guy in. It's very sexy giving a guy his first time.

I can't stand toys or fingers inside me. They always hurt. Real dick only.

The thing if you're in a relationship with a women is that a lot don't understand men and sex. Some get it, but many don't. A lot of my past gf didn't like me wanking, and other guys tell me it's the same for them. If I was asked to give number one relationship advice to straight women I'd tell them let your guy wank. Don't worry about it. It's normal, all guys do it to let off steam. Making a big deal out of it means your guy feels repressed, and he's not going to stop doing it anyway. But he'll do it less now it's got to be secret so now he's getting horny more and starting to think about all kinds of stuff he'd like to try, and we get in to a lot more trouble when we're horny.

Yeah, dicks do that cumming thing. He's being daft.

They're great on the right guy. Sometimes I only want to focus on me topping the guy.

It's really hard to find a private place. I met up with a married polish builder last summer. Definitely my type of guy, super horny, stocky, and in workmans gear. He said he knew a place we could go and mess around a bit. Turns out it was some woodland and not private, he was really horny and saying lets do a bit while nobody is around and giving my dick a stroke through my shorts. He was ready to go, but people kept turning up and no way I'm getting it out. Looked like it wasn't going to happen, but there was a big field of tall grass, like 2 meter tall. I said lets go there and we went in to the grass and deep in it we sat down. And it was just us. It felt spontaneous and horny. We kissed, blew each other, and he fucked me. Being there in the long grass and feeling him there spooning and inside me, it was horny.