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Iker80

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  1. I tell them we're living through a huge sex revolution. And in the future when everyone is remembering and talking about this moment in time they'll be talking how people suddenly connected like never before with new compatible partners online, they're going to be talking about people like me who went out and had fun with this new freedom. Not talking about the people who stayed home talking crap about it. Who's going to care about the story of those guys? They'll be the guys everyone rolls their eyes at and skims over, like the people who said the pill was slutty in the 60s. Nobody wrote a book about them, there was nothing to say and basically nobody agrees with them now anyway. So I'm going to spend this very sexy moment in time having fun with as many sexy men as possible.
  2. 100%, love a guy who smells good, that's hot
  3. Some guys are not happy when I say no and try to talk me around. But we can't like all type of guy. Sometimes guys just show up with all the unmatched things that don't make me horny. And they're like "but I'm hot!" and that's not how it works. Nobody is just hot, but everybody is hot to someone.
  4. For sure, a top needs to be in the right headspace. Some guys I end up rolling around nuts deep in them for a hour or more, but with a few guys I've not stayed hard very long. I think all guys have things that hit them wrong, for me it's getting my dick grabbed roughly, being rushed, stuff like that. Sure, sometimes I'm instantly ready to go, but read the situation with a guy, if he's happy and you're having fun but he's not gone fully hard yet just relax and let it happen when it happens.
  5. Mostly I fuck or get fucked, but not always, and less happening when I was younger. So I'm open to it. Before prep it was a way to have safe sex without a condom, to feel a whole experience with nothing between you and your guy, and that's important to me. Kissing with a guy while he's slowly wanking me is way hotter than fucking with a condom.
  6. We had a hot sports teacher. He never showered with us. Maybe good thing he didn't I'd have had a difficult to explain rock hard dick...
  7. Mostly I'm talking a bit before meeting, want to feel if a guy is genuine before spending time. Many guys just want to have fun, but some just want to play games around attention seeking or being controlling.
  8. Up to you, but don't have to be alright with the chance. Doxy pep is good at stopping bacteria STDs, I plan to start it soon, but it's not like the almost certainty prep gives you for HIV protection. And it costs you if you get something, it takes time to get tested and treated, something like gonorrhea can be 2 weeks of feeling crap.
  9. Most times I want a hot load in my guts, it's so good feeling my guy throbbing and pumping cum in me as we're kissing. But last week I had a lot of fun blowing a Canadian guy who was staying at a nearby hotel. Just slowly blowing him, having fun, then he suddenly grabbed my head to keep me on his dick and shot a massive load. Every time I thought it's the last shot he shot another big pulse of cum. Each one was the amount most guys cum total. It was a lot of fun. He's gone home now and we never got to meet again, but who knows, maybe again some time we'll meet.
  10. Love a chilled out guy who enjoys connecting. The kind of guy you can spend ages with rolling around, kissing, fucking, feeling happy together, that's a sexy guy. I'll meet with a guy who says the right things about wanting this over a hotter looking guy who doesn't say them. A lot of good sex is in the connection. For totally physical things, I love a hairy guy. I have a hairy vers friend and missionary with him is amazing. It's feeling my dick rubbing between our thick, warm treasure trails as he's fucking me, or feeling his between us as I'm fucking him, it's maximum pleasure for me. And could frot all day with him, everything feels great on my hands and dick with a warm furry man. So yeah, hairy is hot. Nice beard too, love how that feel in my fingers and as we're kissing. A guy that can last a while too. Having my prostate and hole worked feels good, but when we hit 10+ minutes with a guy who's doing it well it goes to a totally new level. Having a prostate orgasm is maybe possible.
  11. It's a lot of women saying this so I think a lot of guys accept it's normal. Good news is not all women think like this, so I'll look for a more relaxed gf in future.
  12. None of my ex gf were even cool about me wanking by myself, so coming out bi would have been a massive deal. A lot of women don't understand male sexuality and a lot of men don't have good words to describe it. So I think most bi guys have low expectations talking about it is going to help and they're probably right. Still, taking risks and things isn't justified by that, but maybe this explains why so many bi guys are not telling anyone about it.
  13. Guys can be twitchy and if that feeling gets too big they run off. It happens a lot. For me it's a push pull between wanting fun and someone I don't know touching me, which sometimes hits the wrong feeling for me. Other guys can get stressed by things like cheating on their gf. You've got to be more horny than stressed by whats going on. If you're not the balance goes the wrong way and guys run off. I've seen it, I've done it. Probably not anything you did wrong.
  14. I think there's confusion. Eunuch is a guy with no nuts, but normally still has his dick. These days most guys with one or both nuts missing were born without them or had cancer and got them removed. They're not less male, just guys who didn't have/lost a body part. It happens. A guy with no nuts can take testosterone to have hormones like usual, so no problem getting hard, being able to top and he can cum, plus other stuff like having body hair and beard. I know some guys get castrated for sex reasons and want to be seen differently and have it focused on, but that's not all. The guys I've know with a missing nut or none were stressed about it and for them dating and sex was harder. So yeah, I've had some fun with guys with missing nuts, it's all fine.
  15. Yeah, lots more guys now wanting to get beat and fucked rough, or fucked like you don't like them. Not an energy I feel so kind of don't get it first hand, but each to their own. Sucks though messaging a hot guy I want to roll around with, kiss, make love and he's coming back with "spit on me while you call me names". Guess it can't always be a match!
  16. Usually happens. When guys ask if I play safe or say they only play safe meaning we should use condoms, I say I use prep to play safe because it's more reliable than condoms for HIV. And for everything else you'd just get whatever in your throat when you blow each other anyway. Not that I worry about it, I've had all the vaccines and test regular. Been fucking raw for about a decade now and barely had any problems, and anything that could happen is temporary and treatable. So I'm totally fine without a condom, but it's ok if he wants one, no pressure. At this point most guys just say ok or whatever, and when we meet we don't talk about or use a condom. Most times I think guys just want to hear it's ok and safe enough, and they're not going to be judged for doing it raw. If they're new or I think maybe don't know about stuff I say to guys it's good to get tested, get vaccines and prep so they don't have to rely on their partners doing this. I've met and talked with a lot of dl bi guys who didn't understand prep or that there's vaccines and I know some went and got them, and I've encouraged guys who were nervous to go to the clinic for this stuff that it's normal, not something to worry about doing, and some started going. As for guys who really want to use condoms, it's fair enough. I won't blow a guy with one though, that's my hard limit. I can't have something with that rubber feel and gross taste in my mouth. Yuck.
  17. I don't. The majority of guys I meet with and top don't use them either. Maybe they're a bigger thing in the US?
  18. If I'm wanking with a guy I like to shoot a hot load over his dick to use as his wanking lube. Weirdly, the curious guys who want to wank together but no touching dicks and things sometimes love getting a hot load shot all over their dick. When it's just me wanking I like different things. Mostly I wank in the morning because I'm waking up hard and want to cum. Feels good to stretch out in bed, legs wide and slowly wank until I shoot all over my chest and beard. Sometimes I grab some boxers and wrap them around my dick to wank and cum in, feels nice and warm and easier to clean up, but sometimes it just feels great to let it go everywhere and make a mess. If I'm traveling on a team trip with shared rooms I'll wank in the shower and shoot a load on the wall.
  19. Maybe one day. I don't think they're hotter because porn star, but you see what they're like and enjoy. A guy I like a lot in porn came to London when I was there and he was escorting. He's got that sweet but dirty personality I can't resist. I was very tempted to hire him. Got very close. But I didn't. I was less sure about that then. He's never come back near me and I think doesn't make porn any more :( So I say go for it if you have the chance with a guy you like. Some chances happen one time only. But who knows.... If anyone runs in to Matt Muck tell him to go to Spain, there's a guy who wants to spend a long weekend rolling around with him ;)
  20. I'll try whatever when I'm getting fucked but I'm a fan of missionary. Love to interact with my guy as he's fucking me, get my legs around him, hold his head in my hands with my fingers in his hair and tell him he feels amazing, kiss him, grab his butt with my hands and feel him clenching as he throbs a hot load in me. Also it's a great position for hitting my prostate. I have more prostate orgasms getting fucked missionary. When I'm doing the fucking I like spooning. I play often with not much experience guys and it's easy to open up and relax a guy for some good deep fucking on his side. Can adjust the angle and how deep and really get on my guy's prostate spooning. Also I can get my hand on his dick and edge him while I rub his prostate. Love taking charge of a guy's orgasm like that. It never felt right to me fucking a guy and him wanking himself and being in charge of cumming. As top it's my job to tease him, make him grunt and moan and finally to make him cum.
  21. Can be both. I met last week with a guy working night shift security. Love a guy in uniform. Stick on a uniform and for some reason makes me want a guy a lot more. I had a lot of fun grabbing his butt and feeling his dick through his work pants, felt good undoing his belt and pulling his pants down to fuck him from behind with my arm around him. Kissing his stubbly neck and feeling his collar on my face. He was a hot very fuckable guy, but for me uniform made things hotter because I have a uniform fetish. But some other guy who doesn't have uniform fetish could meet up, pull his pants down, fuck him like I did and kiss his neck, have fun, but not feel the same way I did. So same thing, different experience. It's an activity when you do it, it's a fetish when you see it as the thing you really want, when it's something you daydream about it when you think about a guy.
  22. My first times in my mid 20s were often with guys in their 40s. They were there and I liked them, so why not? Now in my late 30s I sometimes meet with a guy who's 62, and sometimes have met a guy who is 20. I see differences in our lives when we talk, but two men in bed who want to have sex there's no difference.
  23. My arm felt ok, no big pain, but I don't know if it's the vaccine or how it's injected that makes it hurt. I get a flu vaccine every year and sometimes it hurts, sometimes it doesn't. Anyway, I hope the vaccine is good for you and no more gonorrhoea.
  24. Like shooting a load? Getting fucked properly is a total complete experience for me, so no worries if I shoot or not. First time a guy hit my prostate right I had this massive warmth coming from my prostate like a heater turned on inside it and then the pleasure. Each time it got better I thought that's the maximum, then it went better. I've felt my prostate ever since, even just squeezing my butt I can feel it in there. I think that guy found the on switch. When he shot his load and pulled out I put my legs around him and pulled him straight back in, then the second time he tried to pull out I did the same. I don't know where I was, I'd just had the best feeling I'd ever had and felt proper satisfied but also wanted more. And it wasn't like it happened once, I was in that feeling for multiple minutes at a time during parts of the fucking. That's a lot of the best feeling you've ever had. I'd have had my prostate worked more, but no way I needed to shoot a load after that. I've since had full prostate orgasms, he just had me getting close, but doesn't matter, on the edge or proper full prostate orgasm, I'm a happy guy by the end and don't need to shoot a load. But nothing wrong with a guy wanting to shoot a load. A fun spanish guy I've been meeting recently likes spooning, me fucking him, kissing and me wanking and edging him. He likes being taken care of and made to cum. We cum together same time. Another guy I play with, he likes to focus on getting fucked but then wank afterwards, he says he has extra intense orgasms after getting fucked. Other guys I top, some want to cum, some don't. I think go with the mood, see what a guy likes. But don't expect, for some of us like me we'd just being doing it to check a box not because we need it.
  25. All good for me. Full beard is very popular here, but I see more goatees and mustaches on guys now and they can be very hot. I think maybe 80-90% of guys I like have some face hair. Only thing is no wax for me, I like it to feel good in my fingers and on my lips if we kiss.
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