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Full absorption. If the top can fuck it deeper into me, that's good, otherwise I do my best to keep it in for at least 24 hours if I can. I've got a few tricks to do when I get home from a sauna/fuckdate, mainly lying face down for a bit with my hips tilted so my ass is nicely pointed upwards. Just gives the cum a nice downwards/inwards trajectory to facilitate absorption. If I arrive home late at night, straight to bed, and either try to sleep face down, or on my left side, again for that downwards gradient so it all stays nicely inside to help me absorb every bit of his DNA into my body.
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Random strangers cumming in my ass is the pinnacle of sexual joy for me as a no-Prep bareback bottom. I agree with others that regulars are fun too, and fill the gaps when no randoms seem available, but yeah - no name, no words, just a quick fuck in a cruising area, a Grindr hookup or a sauna railing: it's about that moment of beyond-thrill for me. I don't know anything about you but your DNA is in my ass and starting to swirl into my body and brain. Love it 😉
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Yes Kegel is where this starts, but where Kegel focuses on the pelvic floor, the skills I'm talking about go all the way inside, to the height of the navel and other places. Deep core movements rather than just Kegel/pelvic floor at the base and/or entrance. I haven't really found an appropriate term for the aspects that go deep up inside Agreed!
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I was 14. First ever load was in the mouth, and got addicted tbh. Best taste and feeling ever. First load in the ass was around the same time. Scared the fuck out of me at the time... but also, it planted a seed (pun intended) that steadily grew for years until I became a full-on barebacker in my 30s
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Guess this is really a question for tops, but as a bottom I prefer the top to go slow and first and steadily ramp it up. That way I can actively participate in the fuck, with both of us working hard to focus on the top's pleasure. I've got a few significant skills inside which are hard to explain, but start with pelvic floor exercises that can move right up inside me, zipping up my abs and deep core muscles to give the feel like your fucking a fleshjack (sometimes I like to get a top to push all the way inside me, stop fucking me and keep still, so I can show him the full range of the skill... from the base of the cock to the tip! 😉 ) Most guys when I show them this they are like what the fuck man never felt something like this before. I can actually use these skills to make guys cum quickly sometimes, but mostly I use it to intensify the pleasure. I'm sure there are plenty of other bottoms who have skills like this tbh but it always seems to surprise the top. If he just slams inside me full tilt from the get go, then I'm just a passive fuckhole, holding on and waiting for him to cum. Fair play, that's the totally the top's right if he wants to use me that way... but it's much more fun for you if I can actively participate and get these inner skills going: slamming into me generally deactivates the muscles controls I need to do this. So yeah, take it slow, let me bring my full range of skills to give you a pleasureable and ecstatic fuck before you cum in my ass.
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I love the freedom of climbing into a sling at a sauna/bathhouse and letting myself get fucked by anyone and/or everyone. No cocks or loads refused. It's really liberating to have absolutely no control over who fucks me. Put my feet through the loops, shove my ass forwards, lie back, put my arms above my head for maximum submissive pose, and let the men take me one after another. But every now and then, for a reason I can't quite explain, after a couple of fucks it becomes really uncomfrtable and even painful inside. Once the pain starts it ramps up until it's unbearable and I can't figure out why. Like the fuck position is all wrong or somehow I'm tensing up inside when being fucked really hard. Hate it when that happens because then I have to stop. With slings for me, it seems it's one or the other with no middle ground: either lie back and take pounding after pounding, load after load for an hour or more, men using the sling itself to thrust ever harder into me, until my eyes roll back in my head and I shiver with ecstasy... or it's a fail at the first hurdle. Wish I could figure out why... But when it's good... oh man, it's FUCKING good!
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More than an hour after he has cum inside me. I never like to cum during sex, as it's all abotu the guy fucking me, using me to get off. My focus is completely on what he needs to do to get his pleasure and to cum. Once his cum is in me and we're done, I like to keep it inside me for as long as possible, and sometime after I will want to cum, jacking off while thinking about his DNA making its way into me. That's the only time I ever want to cum, when at least one guy has already cum inside me.
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Were you born a cocksucker? Or made one?
jd13 replied to blackfeeder's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
Definitely born cocksucker. Soon as I realised I was gay I wanted it, and got it quite young. Loved the taste of everything, went back for more, never asked to be sucked in return. Born bottom too. Never wanted to top, never will. -
Twice in the last six weeks or so. Love it when it happens... Mid-October: I was flying home via Amsterdam airport, checking out Grindr, when a guy walks past, sees what I'm doing, sits down next to me. Asks me if I'm checking out Grindr - yes I say - then he comes right out to say 'dyou want to find a toilet with me and have sex?' Bold as brass. Obviously I say yes but even I'm a bit taken aback until I realise from his accent he's Dutch - like Germans very direct. Well, we find a toilet and he fucks me. Sadly he pulled out to cum (I think he mistimed it as he whispered 'no' as he did so: oh well) but still, a nice fuck in an airport 😄 Two weeks ago: Walking down the street about a mile from my home, and a guy winks at me several times as I walk past. This never happens in Britain tbh so either he's drunk, or lairily horny. Turns out when I stop, smile and say hi, he's the latter. Ends in sex again, this time in a forest about 10mins walk away. He fucks me, cums in me, then later I get a message on Grindr: 'I knew I recognised you from somewhere!'
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I do love a good verbal top, but what I really value when being fucked is authenticity, whetehr emotional, psychological or otherwise. I don't tend to like fake verbal or role play: I prefer that if the top likes to focus silently on the fuck - and communicate through facial expressions, dirty smiles etc - then that's hotter than if he launches into a whole load of verbal that doesn't sound that real. On the other hand, a dom top that calls me every name under the sun and enjoys every dirty word of it, then fuck yeah, I'll respond to that completely.
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"You are only allowed to send 0 messages per day"
jd13 replied to a topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
Thanks for this viking8x6, clarifies the situation - cheers 😄 [edit: hilariously, by posting this, my rank has just increased to 'Participant' !! 😄 ] -
Yes I totally believe bottoms go into heat, and it chimes well with my own experience. Personally, I think bareback bottoms are much more likely to go into heat, as there are definitely behaviour-altering aspects to cum, especially when absorbed through the ass. I certainly experience that. I spent virtually all of spring and summer this year in a rabid heat: I couldn't get enough, and like the OP, I constantly felt my ass shimmering, hungry for more. I'd go to the sauna, come out filled with cum, after being fucked for hours, with my ass throbbing, and still it wasn't enough. Every fuck, every cumshot just intensified it. I was out cruising every other day, on Grindr nightly, and to the sauna once a week at least. It was fun as fuck but also a bit maddening at times. Then, in September, it pretty much blew itself out, without warning. Had a brief burst in October then it went to sleep again. Am now just moderately horny sometimes - taking some time off, i guess! - but I'm sure one good hard fuck and a testosterone-filled cumshot into me will fire it up again, at least for a bit. But it won't wake up properly for any sustained length of time until spring. Then I will burn again 😉
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"You are only allowed to send 0 messages per day"
jd13 replied to a topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
I'm sure this has been asked before, and apologies if there's a good response somewhere I haven't found, but... I can only post three things in 24 hours at the moment, and unable to like/upvote others' posts. Now I'm guessing this is because I'm new, and stop spammers etc. Perfedtly reasonable. But, do these restrictions disappear after a certain time has elapsed after joining, or is it more about how many posts/replies in order to get to a certain rank (ie, from beginner, to explorer, enthusiast, and so on...)...? Hope that makes sense, thanks in advance of replies 😄 -
I love alpha/faggot dynamics - and I'm the faggot in the scene - but to me it's a game, not an identity. In sex, I enjoy being pleasured by being fucked, and I take deep pleasure in my submission to an Alpha Man, even if I don't want him to touch my cock, or expect to cum during sex. But as an identity, an object to serve - nahhh, not for me, it's just a game. Example: if an alpha asks me to do his chores, my response would be to laugh to tell him to fuck off. If an alpha wants me to cum during/after sex, I usually refuse that too. That said, sub for me is closer to an identity, but fag: it's just a plaything for sex. I also know far too much about the origins, mistaken modelling and misinformation about the whole 'alpha' thing (wolves, chimps, human behaviours etc) to ultimately think of it anything other than laughably absurd. Call me a fag during sex, slap me about, rail me, rough me up, fuck me: but dehumanise me? Fuck you
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Always keep the cum in me, for as long as possible. If I get home after a hookup or sauna visit, I will lie face down ass up for a while to help it roll deeper inside me, to faciliate full absorption. I hate it when it tries to escape 😉
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What is the Strangest Thing that has Happened to You at a Hook-Up
jd13 replied to Falls727's topic in General Discussion
Sauna fuck about eight years ago. Hot guy but he was fairly high. Don't normally do H&H guys but I couldn't resist, and his cock was ramrod hard. Just wanted it in me, and his body against mine. He rolled me onto my front as soon as he got into the cubicle, face down ass up, and he got inside me purposefully like a man on a mission. Rode my ass hard for a good long time, fucking me with some hot skills to get me on the ecstatic side of things. After about 20 minutes, it dawned on me that he was humming some tune during the sex, and murmuring a few words as if singing very quietly to himself. As I say, he was pretty high. Anyway, I found myself trying to identify the song... it was familiar somehow, and he was fucking me in time to the imagined rhythm of the song. It was a kind of sharp, staccato rhythm which felt good inside. Soon dawned on me that he was picking up the pace, and that he was going to cum not long from now, so I started doing my usual thing of pushing back on his cock to encourage his cumshot. He responded by starting to sing louder. Still couldn't identify what it was. Kinda bugged me a bit but lost myself in the ecstasy of it again. Then suddenly he grabbed me by the hair, pulled my head up, tried to kiss me, and, in rhythm to his fucking and (presumably) to the song in his head sang quite loudly: "Gonna fuck ya like its nine-teen-ninety-nine!" I started to laugh as I'd finally id'd the song, and pushed back harder, trying to find the rhythm for him. About twenty seconds later he shot a big load inside me. "1999" by Prince. Suddenly the whole rhythm of the fuck made sense, the music in his head, the murmured words, everything. When i think back to that fuck I hear that song in my head now too, like it was playing out loud. ("two-thousand-zero-zero. just. cum-in-me. right. now." was what I shoulda sang back to him! 😉 ) That was a good night. -
For me, the goal when I give my ass to a top is to make him cum. My ass is his fleshjack, to use in whatever way he needs to shoot his load. I nearly always say 'thanks' to him afterwards. I don't often get thanked in return, which is fine with me. About 50% of the time, in saunas, hookups or cruising encounters, the top will literally turn away from me to sort himself out before leaving without a word. I'm fine with this. It suits me as much as it may suit him. Our encounter, our transaction is finished once he cums: we both got what we came for: him, to shoot his load in a warm, willing hole that will take him as rough or as quickly as he likes, and me: I have his load in my ass, and I'm grateful for that. Nothing more - beyond my 'thanks' to him - needs to be said.
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I didn't answer the poll, as I am entirely agnostic about the question. In the UK, the age of consent is 16, but there is a general perception that if you're 18+, you shouldn't be having sex with someone under 18, i.e. the age of consent is really there for people 16-18 to have sex with each other. That's my interpretation (and it may be wrong), and I think re: power inequalities across gender and age, that's probably a good idea. All that said, I lost my virginity at 14 to a man who was 21. I felt completely vindicated about my sexuality when I did, went back to see him a number of times, and I have, by and large, completely positive perceptions about the whole situation. When I was 15, I started having sex with another older man (early 30s). Again, my memories are completely positive. Which I guess makes me a bit of a hypocrite. I'm aware different people are ready at different times, and maybe the law has to walk a compromise between those varying readinesses and protection of children. Me, i didn't want protecting: I wanted to have sex. But just because that was my experience doesn't mean it must necessarily apply to everyone everywhere. And it doesn't: not even to me, across time. When I was 27, I had the chance to have sex with a guy who was 17. He was completely into me, but the moment I found out he was 17 I backed away fully. Even though I lost my V at 14 to an older man. There's this feeling in me that, quite simply: it's different when you're older. I'm quite aware that's a fairly unformed opinion/feeling, but there it is. On balance, then, I wouldn't advocate for the law to be changed, but it is 'on balance'... balancing between many opposing ideas, feelings, opinions, readinesses and protections (few of which I've mentioned here). On balance, I think we just about have the balance right... ish!
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I swirl around between different feelings when I'm being fucked raw. Sometimes I feel like I am at my most masculine when there's a cock in me, other times I'm a submissive bitch boy being used and emasculated. Or a howling animal, an empty fucktoy, a tool for the top's fantasies, or just a vehicle for men to cum in. And sometimes I find an amazing ecstatic space beyond all that where 'man' and even 'human' don't come close to touching me. I am raw shining feeling and blazing light. I love all these feelings, and which one I guess depends on my mood and the top. I will say that very often, when he cums in me, I do turn into a growling animal, reaching round to grip his ass so that he thrusts in me harder or stays inside me. However submissive I might have gotten, here I take a dominant moment: Stay. In. Me. Give. Me. All. The. Cum. It's somewhere between man and animal, but it's also that ecstatic 'beyond' moment too...
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Do you refuse tops that insist on condoms
jd13 replied to jcklvrga's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I always refuse a top wanting to fuck me with a condom, pretty firmly, no matter how hot he might be. But at the same time, I don't complain about it: it's just a matter of different boundaries: he wants safe, I want bare. I treat it as if we're two bottoms basically: there will be no fucking, but that's no reason I can't get on my knees and make you cum with my mouth and throat. If I'm asked why I refuse, I say that bare feels much MUCH better, infinitely more intimate, warmer, closer, more thrilling, aeons hotter, and the risk is so horny too. Plus when he cums, with a condom, only one of us - him, the top - gets to enjoy the cumshot. If he fucks me raw, we both get to enjoy your cumshot inside me. And I do, so so much. Not just in the moment, but for hours afterwards. The jizzjoy thrumming inside me, the feeling of being marked, his DNA transgressing me and swimming through my bloodstream into my brain. To fuck me up a little bit more each time... -
Bottoms: Do you get fucked for the fucking or for the load?
jd13 replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I love a good long raw fuck as much as the next gay, but ultimately I'm in it for the load in my ass, and the surging jizzjoy feeling that inevitably follows
