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I think everyone has their boundaries in one way or another. For me, real sex will involve penetration: your cock is either going down my throat or in my ass, or both. I will do my best to make you cum. There will not be condoms involved. You could argue that these are my boundaries. Certainly I don't much like the whole 'Raw Is Law' thing. Raw is definitely Law for me, but I wouldn't dream of imposing that on anyone else, or denigrating someone else for using condoms. They just won't be fucking me, is all. We all have our boundaries. My partner is on the asexual scale but he loves body contact. We don't have sex (he doesn't want to catch anything from me ha ha - his joke, not mine, but one I agree with!) but what we do on the body contact side of things is wonderful and emotional. So, with the man I love, all those 'real sex' demands go out the window. So much for my own alleged boundaries therefore!

This, exactly this. Theft is real. Abuse and violence by visitors to your own home are real. Also, I live with my husband. We're totally committed and completely open. He's more poly and into love connections, and I'm the one who lets anyone fuck and breed me. So out of respect for the fact that this is our home, and I don't even swap names before they fuck me, I don't bring guys home. He knows and understands my hyper-sex-drive, but that's the only price I have to pay for constantly exercising it. Good news is, lots of guys round here can host or like to fuck outdoors so I'm all in As for those who don't trust adults who don't host... well, often there are good reasons. That's all.

Thanks @PozBearWI 😄 Something else I forgot to mention. Actually, it was the first thing I wanted to say – hey there ADHD! – but anyway… There will be times when your gag reflex fires regardless of how skilled you might be. This happened to me yesterday with the tree/skullfuck guy. Several times, as he thrusted into my throat, my gag reflex fired. The trick here is not to care. Lean into it, even. Once you’ve discovered that if you swallow the cock head into your throat and hold it, you can’t really gag, if you do gag for a moment, swallow that bad boy down and hold it there. This will very often shut down the gag. The trick is not to care that you’re gagging. Keep going. Don’t stop. Give him what he needs. Gulp gulp gulp 🤣

I'm mindful that the effects of some of these might be entirely psychosomatic. But I've done some neuro tricks for other reasons... such as neuro/vestibular moves to relax hamstrings etc. The nose pinch one kinda has the 'neuro' ring of truth about it. Also the thumb/finger press. But yeah, it could also be psychosomatic. Which means if you believe it, it'll probably work 🤣

Reminds me of a Muslim guy who I hooked up with for a quick outdoor fuck a few months ago in the depths of winter. It was cold, but he still blew his load inside me. Afterwards he complained that I hadn't douched well enough. Told him I had douched very well, but he wasn't the first load of the night. He'd known that beforehand. 'You don't understand. I gotta stay clean, I'm a Muslim'. Just thought: ungrateful prick, I've just made you cum. I've had lots of very skilful Muslim guys and they were never this whiny afterwards. I walked off, but what I wanted to say was: 'Well then, don't raw fuck random homo asses in a park at night!' One of the few times I blocked someone on Grindr. Shame: it was a pretty good fuck until the whining. Anyway, yet again I digress... 🤣

There's lots of tips on suppressing your gag reflex online. Basically start with a toothbrush on the back of your tongue and hold it on the edge of your gag reflex until it startas to desensitize. Then, over time, move that toothbrush back. I got to hitting the back of my throat and moving it down - while breathing steadily - before I switched my training to dildos. One little tip when trying to deep throat cock is to put the tip of your tongue over your lower teeth. This moves the tongue forwards, and the gag reflex - mostly related to back-of-the-tongue action pushing upwards and back to close the throat - becomes weaker as that back-of-the-tongue area is now depressed and pushed forwards slightly. Once you get to the dildo stage, there's a bit of a secret revelation: if you choose to swallow the head of the cock or dildo, and let it sit there in your throat, you might gag as it goes down, and as it comes back out, but while it's sitting there, you CANNOT really gag. This blew my mind during dildo training. You just hold, almost like a meditation and you can go quite some time before the need to breathe means you pull the dildo back out. There are a few neuro tricks as well: with left thumb and finger press, pinching the end of your nose, or flicking your forehead a few times. Doing the rounds on Insta and TikTok. They kinda work, but only briefly - a few minutes at best - and mostly do so by relaxing the vagus nerve at the back of the throat, not by suppressing the gag reflex. Don't try to understand how or why: neuro tricks are weird. An example video here: [think before following links] https://www.instagram.com/p/DFj_1AESpdM/ Finally, what others have said about psychology is good and important. Shut any fears or worries down. Reassure yourself that you're doing the best you can. Fill your head with welcoming, and even relaxing thoughts, like: I want this. I want his cock inside me. It's good to take his cock into me as deeply as I can. If you are a sub like me, then you can get into thoughts about submission and service too. I want to serve this man as best I can. I need to make his cock feel great. Get eager, push yourself a bit maybe but don't beat yourself up if there's something you can't do yet. Just love that cock in you, man. Love it! 😄 Also, you can help yourself by working to suppress the gag reflex when sucking, by letting your body do whatever else it needs to do in order to work that suppression. An example: yesterday afternoon at a cruising area, I was sucking a guy, invited him to put his hands round the back of my head to go deeper, but I got uncomfrtoable kneeling there in the dirt. So I sat down, propped my head up against a tree, and he skullfucked me hard into the tree trunk, gripping my face as he did so. It was only after he had shot his welcome load down my throat that he saw tears streaming down my face. He asked if I was alright. Never better was the reply. I knew by sitting down and let tears flow that I was just letting my body do what it needed to, so that I could give you the best time with my skull 🤣🤣🤣 You see it sometimes in deep throat porn: guys with tears in their eyes or cascades of spit pouring out. It's all good. the whole thing is wonderful 😄

A few months ago at a sauna, I was being fucked in a public area by a dom top, while another guy was being fucked next to me. Two fags getting raw fucked together. We started kissing, then I began to work my mouth down his neck, over his shoulder and down his back, twisting myself to lick the other fag's ass as he was being fucked. Guess I wanted to be the faggiest fag out of the two of us 🤣 Anyway, I begin licking the shaft of the cock that was fucking him, when the top briefly pulled out, slammed his cock into my throat, then back in the other fag's hole, back into my mouth, and so on. It was amazing. I could taste the cum already in the other fag's ass, the top's cock, and the fag's ass too. All while my top continued to fuck my faggot ass before cumming in me. Once the other fag's top had shot inside him, again his cock went into my throat and I got a brief spurt. Incredible experience and the first time I did this. I'll be looking to do it again for sure. [Edit: yeah I have overused the words fag and faggot here to refer to myself and the other guy. But once someone uses that kind of talk with me, I always respond eagerly!]

Usually when the top cums in me, I will be growling like an animal. It's deep-seated and automatic. But if he laughs, that laughter is completely infectious for me. I'll be giggling too. Agreed on the extra value and connection

This. Exactly this. As I said above, I love sex with a guy who simultaneously gets into the Fuck Yeah Horniness, as well as the wild laughable absurdity of it all. That's a full spectrum of experiences right there. Sex is hot and sweaty, but also intensely fun. Laughter is also fun. I love guys that understand the bridge between the two.

I've been off Prep as a total bottom for 18months now and it feels like I'm back to my old sexual self again. I starting taking it raw in 2012, and steadily got more committed, until Prep came along. Somehow it never felt right for me and I was constantly off it and on again, never really taking it properly. Since summer 2023, I have been free of it, and it feels fantastic. Every fuck seems like a much deeper thrill, every load in my ass a sharper risk. It's wonderful. As for Japan... I used to live there in the 90s. My cruising/sex venue info is probably years out of date (that said, Japan doesn't change very much!), but way back when, the grounds of Osaka Castle at night were good. Shinsaibashi bridge on the weekend too (picked up several guys there, both Japanese and foreign, including a Finnish guy who was my bf for a bit). Umeda district had a few gay bars/clubs and a gay bathhouse back then. Genuinely can't remember the name of the bathhouse... ...just looked up on Google Maps: Daikichi is the name of the sauna, and I cannot believe Explosion - the gay club in Umeda - is still open! I used to go there all the time, and to Daikichi. Like I said, Japan doesn't change very much. Enjoy! 😄 PS - Also there was a cruising beach down by Nishinomiya, or somewhere close. Suma Beach I think. Get the train to JR Suma station (it's to the west of Kobe), and walk along to the far west side (away from the main part of the beach, where it's really narrow, sandwiched between the sea and a noisy main road). Picked up a different guy anytime I went there in summer. Awesome place it was

I have been known to seduce other bottoms into fucking me at a sauna, but never deceptively. I've been told, repeatedly throughout my life, that I give off 'top vibes'. Honestly as a total - and very proud! - sub btm, I have no idea what these vibes are, but I suspect it's about me being tall (6ft2) or the way I roll my shoulders a bit when I walk. Or something else. Most tops look at me and think 'oh, another top'. Fuck knows what this so-called vibe is but I wish it wouldn't. Anyway, the point is I sometimes find myself in a cubicle with another bottom, and as we get over the disappointment of the moment, I might sometimes offer my body to pleasure the bottom - like, do you like sucking, or can I suck you? do you want to rim me (some btms do), etc etc - and to turn him on. Get him hard somehow. Seduce him into a surge of emotion and then playfully offer my ass. And sometimes they go for it, not often to cumshot - although that has happened - but just for 5 or 10 minutes of fun. The look on some of these guy's faces as they discover - well shit now I might be *vers btm* now - it's priceless 😉 But for me it's always a seduction, never a deception. Submissive, gently seeking to bring out any latent dominant aspect they might have, even for a moment. But I never lie about who I am or what I do. I always keep it playful. If they're not up for being seduced this way, I don't push it.

I like to take charge at first, to pleasure his cock with my tongue and mouth skills, then steadily work my way down the shaft, drop my gag reflex so I can deep throat him for a bit, and just generally savour the whoile feeling of having a man's cock in my mouth and throat. But perhaps a few minutes in, I love to turn things around in a kind of deliberately seductive move: I run my hands up his body, down his arms, take his hands in mine, and with his cock still riding my tongue, place his hands firmly on the back of my head. A clear signal to take control and skullfuck me. At this point I will then run my hands back up his body so that he has full control of my head, to skullfuck and throatfuck me to his cock's content. I am there, kneeling, arms reaching up, almost like a worshipful supplicant to his desires. I fucking love this feeling.

I agree with those who say there's no reliable way to know. Instinctively you'd think 'big swinging balls' but that's not an indicator in my experience. If there is one possible indicator - and it's not a 100% guarantee - then I'd suggest the amount of precum a guy produces while I'm sucking him. You know that thrill when the first taste of precum glides across your tongue or hits your throat, that rush of knowing that a) he's enjoying what you're doing, and b) there might be a cumshot in the next few minutes. But if that taste of precum becomes a repeated gush, and I feel I'm already having to swallow in order for the next little spurt or taste, a regular set of spurts into the mouth, then yeah... more than half the time what follows is a delicious heavy cumshot down my throat.

This sounds like my experience. The first sensation was just cold, like there was a big ice cube up there. My ass started to get an ice-cream headache! 🤣 But even then I figured: well, it'll be a nice tight hole for him to fuck with all the muscle contractions down there with this cold. Then, when it started to melt, when the cold subsided.... and the waves of jizzjoy began to hit. Ever seen film of that Indian Ocean tsunami? It was like that. Wave after wave after wave. And yeah churning strangers' cum inside me. Beyond hot.

Last toy I bought was three weeks ago. A ten inch silicone 'realistic' dildo. I say realistic, it's bright purple. But I bought it to train myself to be able to fully deep throat again. Got out of practice in recent years, but used to be a master at it. I'm still pretty good, but only maybe 80% as good as I was. Can still suppress my gag reflex for the most part, but every now and then it kicks in. Someone tried to throat fuck me a couple of weeks back, and I only managed a few thrusts before I had to slow down and ease off into a regular suck. This isn't acceptable as far as I'm concerned. I've always loved taking a good deep skullfucking, so I am working with this new silicone dildo for about 15 minutes a day. things are starting to come back 😄

Did not know this was called Devil's Dick but yes a guy did this to me some years ago. I loved it. Mostly it was his own cum saved up but he said he'd grabbed a couple of used condoms he'd found at a crusing area in Leeds we both frequented. So the cum was unknown to both of us. When he slid the frozen lump of it in me, I wanted it to be super horny but it just felt cold. When it started melting, though, not only was it super horny, a wave of jizzjoy hit me, very intensely. We used it as the only lube for a really wild afternoon-long fuck. Waves of pleasure and constantly riding jizzjoy throughout, especially when he came inside me a couple of times with fresh loads. Incredible experience.

It's definitely what you do with it that counts for me, speaking as a total cocksucking bb btm. Sucking on a six-inch cock is fun because, while I can deep throat, it can be a lot of work with a big cock to really work it all properly, whereas six inches will just gently hit the back of my throat. I can go to town, give the guy maximum pleasure by working my mouth, lips and tongue in a way that's relaxing for both of us. Deep throating something much larger can become hard work. I'll do it of course but yeah, it becomes about working and serving the guy - which as a sub is a pleasure for me - rather than relaxing into his cock in my mouth. As for being fucked - yeah I tend to find guys on the more average side tend to work it more, and have more skills. They don't rely on the idea that 'hey I'm big so I'm gonna rock your world anyway' (they often don't), whereas a six-inch can have me howling from a good repertoire of fuck skills. It's the lack of complacency I think, among other things. I remember a few years back on a night out with some straight friends, we were all drunk, and conversation turned to 'size matters'. There was general, but naive agreement among the straight guys. I got my ADHD hyper on, and was like 'Guys, how the fuck would you know? You've never had one in you!' Once they got over the shock - they should've known, I am a bit ADHD no-filter - I carried on with some thing like: 'Skills are important. It's the difference between me checking my watch halfway through wondering how long this is gonna go on for, and howling the place down for an hour. If you say 'size matters' then I'm honestly gonna think you have no skills in the bedroom...' I think that corrected the perception, at least for them. Conversation continued with them asking - you know how straight guys do - what is it actually like being fucked, why do you like sucking cock etc, and me answering like the uninhibited homo that I am ha ha. Anyway, I digress. The point: Skills. Not Size.

The biggest cock I ever took was 11 inches. A skinny-as-fuck Eastern European guy with basically a third leg. We were in a public area of Sweatbox in London, kissing and putting on a bit of a show, when he said he wanted to fuck me. "But" he said "it's big, no one can ever really take the whole of me" - or words to that effect. And I thought... Challenge Accepted! Especially in front of that audience. I'll be honest: it was hard work. We did it doggy style so I had a bit of control how deep he went. It took quite a few minutes to work my hole right down to the hilt - he was quite patient with me because he knew I would try my hardest to accomodate him fully - and when it did go right down until I could feel my ass against his abs, it opened me right up and felt FUCKING GOOD. Until he started fucking me. Now I had a few loads inside me to help lube the situation up, and he was fucking me bareback, so I knew if I could hold on, I'd get his load so deep inside me I'd be spitting it out. But fuck me, once he got into a rhythm it just fucking hurt. I bit down, determined. Held onto my cock and balls because even they were hurting as he started to work it. Good thing was, all the appreciative noises he was making, like "wow, can't believe you've taken it all", "fuck yeah feels so good" and so on. That's all I was really in for now, to make him feel good and to make him cum. At one point he asked if I was hurting him, and I just grunted "That's my problem. Not yours. Don;t fucking stop." Because if he had stopped, I would have pulled him out of me and got out of there. Luckily for me, he didn't take that long to cum. Maybe he really never had had many guys take his cock fully like this but whatever, the last 30 seconds of crescendo pounding were agonising. He shot his load so deep into me, and with such an animal howl, that a wave of relief hit me - my animal howls too. Well, the truth is that I pretty much did it to say that I had done it... and yeah to be able to sit here and type this right now. I've taken 10.5 inches since then, with much the same result, but well... was it worth it? For taking yet another stranger's load deeper into my ass than ever before? Yes For the story and bragging rights? Fuck yes For the sense that I bit down and got used hard? Fuck fuck yes But the actual fuck itself, I gotta be honest: it was an endurance ride pretty much from start to finish, very little pleasure for me, and it pretty much wiped me out for the rest of the night. Once we were done, I found a private cabin, crashed and slept for an hour. Fairly sure I might have got a minor anal fissure from it too. But am I happy I did it? Fuck yeah! Do I still jack off about it six years later? Fuck fuck yeah Would I do it again if I got the chance, even though I know it'd be fucking agony? FUCK FUCK FUCK YEAH!

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Yeah I needed to read this today too. Thanks man 😉

This is totally true and I 100% agree, but the problem with morals, in general, is that they are public, as in: morals present themselves as universal, natural, normal, god-given - even enfolded into the very fabric of the universe itself! - when of course they are nothing of the sort, not even a bit, changing over time, place, culture and between individuals, among many other things. Often wildly different in the same person in different contexts. That poz-stigmatizing slut-shamer probably thought of himself as a thoughtful, compassionate sort of person in many contexts, but here, let me send you this nasty barb to make you feel terrible, because morals. This is why I prefer ethics. With ethics, you've got to actually think 😜

Block. Instant block. I wouldn't even stop to think, or doubt, or seek to educate, or anything else, including allowing someone else's malice to seep into your mind and make a home there. Block, and do not compromise with assholes** Also I know your post was a while ago, but sending love. Any top would be lucky to have you. Of this i am certain x ** Advice which, in these days of rising global fascism, must be regularly utilised.

Quite a varied field of public sex for me, but for blowjobs (always giving), I guess the top 5 would be: 1. While filming a Triga porn film in 2012. Not public at the time, but obviously the DVD went out everywhere, so that has to be the most public thing I ever did. 2. Endless blowjobs and fucks in cruising areas with an audience. If having sex in a cruising area I will always choose to be public rather than go off somewhere private. Ditto cruise bars like Vault in London. I love an audience. Don't we all? 3. Sucking off a train driver at 6am while the train was parked in a major UK city railway station. He had caught me on Grindr and by coincidence happened to be the driver on the first train of that morning. Sucked him off in my seat: there were passengers in the other carriage and on the platform who probably saw us. 4. This one's a bit contrived, but... The British Museum. Was visiting with a guy who wanted to do something wild and I was up for it. So we tucked away upstairs at a secluded exhibit (in the Greek exhibits - up some stairs into a smallish exhibition space of some friezes from one specific temple or place, I forget exactly). We kinda planned it out. The second we got up there and saw no one else there, he whipped his cock out, I got down at the top of the stairs and sucked it for about a minute. He didn't cum but really we just did it to say we'd done it. Stopped before we thought we might get caught, though at one point he was skullfucking me hard and I thought he might blow.. Went down to the toilets and he finished him in there by using my ass. Good times. 😉 5. Crowded gay bar during Pride weekend in Leeds. His friends stood around in the courtyard as I got on my knees and blew a friend of mine because I was drunk, horny and he dared me to. Blew him to completion as his friends hid me and kept watch. Ok that's five! 😄

Way back in 2012, I was a tourist in the UK porn industry for a summer. Did a few films, a few photoshoots, got myself exposed a bit, and then after three months stopped. One of the films I did, for Triga, was a full-on piss party group sex thing. Was pissed on by multiple guys for the afternoon, got myself fucked, sucked cock and drank piss down etc. It was incredible. Tried to find a few screencaps of the vid I made at the time, but only one pic with two guys pissing on me at the same time - first pic, of me being fucked - found a few others of me getting pissed on, or in the mouth, but just by one guy. Shame - I thought I had some of me taking piss by two or three guys at once there. Anyway, enjoy, and feel free to download and re-upload elsewhere if you like 'em. It's fun to share! 😄

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