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My first boyfriend would gargle with hydrogen peroxide immediately after giving head. He'd keep a small bottle with him when he went out to give head. Seemed to work for him.

Thank you. But that didn't quite work. Is it: [think before following links] https://www.poppers-aroma.com/ or [think before following links] https://www.poppers-aromas.eu/ (they might be the same company). Do you have a recommended brand?

Can you share the link? I just ordered some from aromaboy.com I hope the order goes through.

I got the "Jack Hunter (Medium)" from Mr. Hankey. 9.5" long (insertable) and 7-8" around. Medium-firm, and brown color. I use it with my HiSmith fuck machine when I'm in the mood. The thickness is a challenge but I see it becoming a favorite. Since I bought it around my birthday, I got 25% off! 😄 [think before following links] https://www.mrhankeystoys.com/realistic/jack-hunter-four-sizes

I think I understand your question. I do like to eat some of the cum out of the bottom's ass. But I like to fuck harder and more vigorously. To me, it just feels great! But I can understand how the shape of my cock head would pull out any existing cum. If I do pull out cum, I enjoy pushing it back in because I WANT to mix my cumload with those of other men in some slutty cumdump. It's a thrill knowing that I'm using a community slut.

The Glorious Health Club had an arson fire in mid 2024. Any word if it will ever reopen?

There is responsibility of both the bottom AND top to be educated, trained, and ready for anal sex with large penises. That includes physically AND mentally. I have the privilege of having a friend and fuck-buddy with a true 12"x8" cock. And he knows how to use his cock properly. He shared a story with me that when he had begun topping, the bottoms had trouble taking him. He finally had a older, wise bottom who explained that he, as the top, needs to understand the workings of the bottom. That bottom told him to read the book "Anal Pleasure and Health" by Dr. Morin. Once he understood the physiology, he was able to adjust his technique and work WITH bottoms. Even though I hadn't read it, yet, he talked me through what to do. He was able to tell with his cock when he was at certain points in my anatomy and would pause or pull back or change angle and tell me how to relax and what was going on. I, too, read the book and finally understood my own anatomy. As bottoms we are lucky that we can practice with dildos and I learned the depth of my "second hole" and how the sensations are surprisingly different beyond that. At first, my body would react that it is pain, but as I learned that no damage was being done (when it is done correctly), I was able to even relax further and enjoy that different sensation. I know that at a certain point, a specific angle is best to get past that. I'm still working with my body to adjust to the "other" angle. I'm not going to call it the "wrong" angle because I just need to teach myself how to relax and stretch that particular angle. Those are involuntary muscles that we can learn to voluntarily control with practice and training. It's not like relaxing your skeletal muscles but learning how to relax your internal muscles. It took a lot of time and patience for me to learn that. Many tops may not have the patience in the heat of the moment, so practicing on your own with a dildo is a great option. For me, the only way to learn how to relax those muscles is to "touch" that muscle with a dildo; gently at first so my brain can figure out how to relax it. Mentally, you have to be able to trust the top AND yourself. And when that moment past the "second hole" when the sensations change, not to panic but to continue to relax and trust yourself and the top. BTW, my friend has moved across country. We keep in touch but I do miss him. When I know he may be visiting, I step up my training and bring out the bigger dildos! [It's also helped me be a better top, too. Even though I'm bigger than average, I'm not a monster cock. But, I do come across bottoms with second holes that are not very deep, or a bottom that is not experienced. So, I know what they are experiencing and I can pace myself accordingly and talk them through it.]

I'm still here over 8 years after making this post but my "HATE" of being poz is growing more towards "FEAR". I have many friends who have been on these HIV meds for decades now (including me), and they are developing extremely rare diseases. Besides the one friend I also posted about whose meds stopped working and he died painfully from Hodgkin's Lymphoma, another friend has a disease where the muscles in his eyes no longer works and his joints cause pain. Less than two years after my post in 2014 my own husband developed an extremely rare lymphatic disorder that has a higher incidence in men with well-controlled HIV. He's been in and out of the hospital with this disease. There is no cure or recommended treatments; he is in a study that uses treatments for other diseases. They mostly work. I almost lost him a few weeks ago when the disease raged again worse than ever before. Watching him be confused and suffer everyday for weeks before a new treatment is tried is heartbreaking and devastating. He's home but will be trying this new treatment for the next several months to see if it will help. As for me, I used to look so much younger than my age. I now look older than my older husband who is sick. My hips and back are collapsing earlier than my age indicates. I remember our doctor telling us when we started the medication that HIV will not kill us; but we don't know what these drugs are going to do years from now. Well, here we are.

My mother taught me to never talk bad about the dead, only good. Anita Bryant is dead. Good!

Feeling another man's heart beat from the inside. 😲

It's an honor to receive a man's sperm and assist with his release.

Why do you hide your medical practices and situation with your doctors? They work for you and can't do their jobs correctly without having all your info. If you can't trust them or confide in them, fire them and find one that will work with you. You deserve complete care.

That's 50 hours. So, that 1000th man will be standing there with a hard on for over 2 days? 🙄

I prefer my bottom sluts to leave their cock alone as they are pleasuring me or I'm using them. Whether they have a hardon or not doesn't matter. I want them to focus on my cock in their mouth or ass. After fucking them awhile and getting their ass loose, I like to rub my face and beard around and in their hole. I precum a lot and enjoy our fluids and scents in my beard. Major plus if they precum, too, without touching themselves. Double points if they have someone else's load in their ass, too. It's great to watch their cock and nuts bounce around (hard or soft) while I'm fucking them or eating their hole. Bottoms with loose nuts/ball sack also gives me something else to hang on to while fucking them. A long loose nut sack helps when they are in my sling. I can stand still, hang on to their nut sack and push/pull them back and forth to swing on my cock. I know that can be a little uncomfortable for them to be pulled and pushed with their nuts, but a little pain for them is enjoyable for me.

After getting fucked, i have problems peeing. It's difficult to get started, slower stream, and a little painful. My doctor indicated it could be BPH and let me try a daily low dose cialis which helps reduce prostate swelling slightly. It helped a little. But i still have issues with prostate swelling after intense fucking. It's not a major issue yet. BTW, I'm almost 60 years old.