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I almost did. After I got somewhat stealthed..no I got stealthed by a married guy who hasn't played since he and his wife divorced I craved more raw dick. When I went on vacation that sweet daddy who bred me on the beach and let another guy fuck me raw (but not breed) I got addicted. I got together with a guy a few times but he had someone come over one night the same time I was and it was awkward. Wouldn't have minded it if we all played but it just felt weird afterwards and his texts were strange. At a bath house a few months ago I saw a guy with a "raw" dogtag on. He told me he was poz and I was scared but a little excited too. I ended up in his room and bent over while he played with my ass and stretched it a bit. He asked if he could put his cock in for a bit and I nervously said yes. As soon as he put it in though I asked him to please pull out and he did. I know I bitched out. I jacked him off though. He was really hot and his demeanor was hot too. But that scared the hell out of me. Almost let a poz guy fuck me. I'll be honest though it kind of excited me but I'm not ready for that yet. I jacked him off to at least get him to cum. I think I could be a bareback slut who goes from safe sex to all bb and loads. But I haven't crossed that line and don't know if I will. Sure would be hot though. If the right top came along I would.

@einathens: Thank you I was really nervous to mention old guard because I know how some respond to it. I don't really know what's going on with new guard because I am not in the scene. I have met very few young guys like me though who were extremely exceptional boys and carried themselves strong and with dignity and who brought honor to their Sir and represented their Sir very well. Some of them ran groups or helped out in the community but seemed to help other boys the most. I have high hopes for leather boys such as those and hope that they very well do become the next generation. I have no idea if they are old guard or new guard but whatever they call themselves or don't call themselves they have the values and spirit of old guard and that's what matters. At the same time there are some dangerous idiots out there who are also on the rise and unfortunately part of the next generation. I do believe that you are right though and that most of the younger guys don't view or life leather as the older generation did and it is more of a facet of sexual life. But that in itself is part of it even if it's not the whole. But make no mistake there are even young guys out there who might not quite be living it as the older generation did but are living their lives and it's almost like growth rather then imitation. I often wonder as well if bottoms bareback more then tops or if versatiles do more. But I won''t get into that. You are probably right. I wonder how many are open about barebacking though. I sure as hell am not. Being gay was no problem. Having an interest in leather and being a slave was difficult and felt like leading two different lives. Add barebacking to the mix now and it's like damn..always something to hide or that is kept secret. Might not always be but it always seems that way. @kpig I once thought that leather should be more open and out there and even got involved and got leather to have presence at pride. But I learned more about leather and what it used to be like. I would like leather to be more exclusive again but the catch is if it's so exclusive no one will know about it and those who want to learn about it might pass it. But those who really want it and seek it (like I did) will find a way and find it. But unfortunately it is what it is. At the very least at least the leather community did not become what the bear community is today. That would be worse. Thank you.

I found it interesting how you mentioned the second ring. A top I hooked up with once told me flat out he was going to fuck my ass. I told him I would do my best to take him. He told me that if I went back to his hotel with him I would be fucked. He then told me how some bottoms he fucks it sometimes gets bloody. I don't think the blood oozes out and ruptures but when he pulls out there is blood on the cock. The man had a huge dick in length and girth. He used so much lube and I still had trouble taking it. I kept thinking of those guys he fucked and he told me doesn't care if it hurt them or if they were uncomfortable once he was inside a bottom they were his bitch and it was his ass and he would use them until his needs were met and he was satisfied. It took me about 10 minutes to take his cock all the way but there was something about another ring I did not even know was there and getting past that ring. I had to do so many breathing techniques and relaxing techniques and mental stablity and calmness to take it. And when I took it I never felt so full in my life. He fucked my ass hard and deep and he called me a bitch, cunt, whore, and every name in the book. Telling me that my ass was made for fucking and that I should ask men if they need service when I talk to them because it's my job as bottom boy to take care of a man's needs and to give up my ass for their pleasure and to take it like a good bottom boy. I did not bleed. But I see guys like this all time. Claiming they can take any size dick and that the top isn't man enough or they are pushy or bossy. There are some men out there who don't play that shit and you would be lucky if they asked you to leave or threw you out of their room. Because there are some dicks out there that if rammed in your ass with little to no lube would tear you up. It sounds hot as a fantasy but the reality would be hell. I don't think it's quite the OP's fault for tearing up bottoms holes. But the bottoms needs to really ask themselves if they can take it and prepare themselves and take it once the top is in. But as the other guy said some bottoms might not literally be able to take it and can end up in the hospital. I don't know if I'm that type of bottom but I really don't want to find out.

Is it really that hard to find poz cum? So many of the sex clubs, book stores, and bath houses have poz guys. I've seen some of them online stating they are poz. Hell there is even a poz night every month (or week?) at one sex club. In Austin, TX I'd think it wouldn't be that hard. I think it's better to ask before. If you ask after a guy is obviously going to want to lie to not freak you out or might not care. But that goes for the other side of the coin as wel. If you want to get pozzed and ask a guy if he is poz he might lie and say he is poz when he is neg. Just be upfront

He's looking for cam sex. He wants poz tops because that turns him on and excites him. There are many bottoms who get turned on being on cam and having a guy give them orders verbally over the microphone or by im like text. Now getting fucked or servicing a top while men are watching on skype is hot. I sucked a big dicked guy once and he was on cam4 and broadcasting it. That was kinda hot. I miss ICU though.

@mascmountainman I did not notice the tips to getting truckers. There actually was a site when I first come out for hooking up with truckers. It seemed pretty good although it was more of a forum. You are probably right that GPS apps like scruff or others are probably the best. Changing zip codes and all that must be a pain if constantly travelling. But the phone updating the gps is easy. Actually I talked to a trucker a while back on scruff. Hot fucking man. I have seen truckers at sex club areas. In my area they aren't at the bookstores too much because the parking is too small for them. But one sex club area. It's like trucker nirvana. So many rigs in the back area and guessing which sex club the sexy truckers ventured into is the hard part >_>". I've seen truckers post on craigslist but it seems rare. I think the reality is like you said, they don't really have time to plan things it's hard because of the schedules and routes but I guess it also depends on who they work for. I guess the easier and more accessible the area or place is for the trucker the better. I wondered about the cleanliness too. I think it would be hot to sniff the truckers pits and lick them all over and taste their crotch and balls. But their ass is another story. You mentioned about ways to clean yourself in public restrooms i know of some ways and have done so but it's limited. Technically you could use the little douche bottles and have those on hands but it's the showering that's probably the hardest. I'm sure if the trucker is a bottom they do their best to clean themselves out. The problem is there are probably some who don't care or just get used to not being able to practice hygiene and embrace it. That might be a turn on for some though. You are correct about cruising the truck stops too. That back area that's only for truckers is tough to do. You can't park with the truckers either. I have heard sometimes you can park near the trucks and stay in the car. But it would have to be away from the main trucker area (..well my only knowledge of truck stops is really flying j and petro. There might be better truckstops and some that are more accesible for cruising'. You would have to get a trucker to invite you versus try to get in their area. I think night time would probably be the best though. Now I am curious about one thing if you can answer this. What do truckers really think of horny and cute or not so cute guys cruising them while they drive. Last trip we took I could not help but check out almost every damn trucker that passed by. Some were really woofy and hot and some not so much..and some were women. Does that ever bother truckers and is it a turn on for some? A fantasy I have is wearing really low cut shorts and finding a way to show ass or some cock and drive slow as a trucker passes by. It would be assume to get a honk one day...a good one. As for cruising or flirting with a trucker while driving. What is the reality of actually hooking up with that trucker? Probably next to zero right unless you two happen to be at the same truck stop or if he someone signals you to follow him which is probably more porn logic. Thank you Sir.

Hehe.. I knew a top who named his dick It might be me but with my leather background and SOOOO many men and women having "scene names" and never giving out there real name and never knowing what to freaking calling or asking myself, "Am I really going to call them Lord****" or "Grand Master". I sometimes wondered if I was in a c-.. The default names that i call tops is Daddy or Sir. Master is reserved for...well you guessed it. If a top asked me to call him "big dog" or something like that..I'd probably be getting fucked with an indifferent look on my face. Think of the indifferent emoticon and think of that face when getting fucked..or "Really...just finish up already" On the other hand as a boy a top can pretty much call me whatever the fuck they want. Bitch, cunt, fag, slut, whore, boy, I'll take it. It turns me on. But only if the top is controlling or dominant. Another thing is I generally call a top Sir, Daddy or call them by their name depending on the chemistry between us. If he is a demanding, selfish, controlling, dominant, and a bastard I will definitely call him Sir especially if he takes my ass and owns it. If he is more sweet, passionate, romantic, or more friendly it might be more daddy. And if it's just a guy, a dude, a male then it's their name. I donno it's just weird like that.

The advice about be assertive not agressive is gold. When I first went to sex clubs and bath houses when I was new I was going in every room or trying to talk to every guy and I got rejected a lot >_>" I don't know if this is good advice for a bottom but sometimes stroking your hard cock or letting the guy feel your cock helps. Even tops can admire a hard cock and respect it. Plus most men even tops just like cock. Hell last time I did that the man grabbed my cock and took me into the room and put me on my knees and had me suck his cock. He stopped and I thought he was bored with me or I was doing bad but he bent me over the bed and fucked me..safe though. But it was still hot. ...Some tops do consider a bottoms dick to be a handle too. I've been told that many times >.> I actually saw someone wear a dogtag in a bath house recently that said "raw". I was very surprised and he was hot and that got me talking to him. Great advice for taking loads though. Maybe someday I will try this. I have thought about renting a room and just laying down with my ass in the air. ..Damn I'm getting horny.

I thought this was about the ass being clean and I thought it was going to be about when a top fucks a bottom asks them if they are clean I usually ask a guy if they are neg or poz before we even get naked. Clean is way too vague. If you want to know someone's status ask. I've had people admit to being poz if I flat out ask if they are poz or neg. I've been asked if I am clean before and I make sure I clean myself out before getting fucked. That's what clean means to me. And yes every bottom should assume everyone they play with is poz.

I'm surprised about the lack of mention of recon as well. I have noticed that quite a few men on recon list "safe only". But since some parts of the site are leather or "Master/slave" some might implay safe play as playing safely and consensual and not neccesarily mean condoms vs. no condoms. At the same time I have really only hooked up with one person on recon. It was amazing but it was condoms. The other thing about recon is I think recon is also more about play sessions and not just a quick hook up. For some it takes time and preparation vs. manhunt, squirt, and others which are usually quick hook ups. I will say though I have gotten dick on manhunt a few times. In some ways though I have gotten laid more on craigslist. Especially when I was a little younger. It's easy to weed out the fakes but it can be fun. But sometimes too many fakes. I think manhunt and craigslist are the top ones for me. As for BBRT. Still nervous about bbing so not using it to it's full potential. But there are hot guys in my area and always people on. I love this forum too but it doesn't really feel like a hook up site. And that's not entirely a bad thing. Less pressure and more freedom and confidence to discuss and say things that aren't possible on hook up sites. ...All those sites I consider hook up not dating btw

Very beautiful. I know the feeling of a man being the first ever to breed you. Especially if it's in a relationship. It's a moment that you can never have again like losing your virginity. Fortunately for me it was the most amazing experience ever and I did everything to please that man and after the breeding we had a very long cuddle and then some more fucking. I'm glad that your bottom knew what he wanted and was determined to get breed. Although it's hot when a top bbs a bottom for the first time if he is nervous or unsure. This pig knew what he wanted and decided it before he went to get fucked. That feeling of confidence on both ends is amazing. Great story Sir

Okay so I know I don't post here alot and I go ghost mode sometimes. But for the sake of this I will fill in a little background info about myself. At 18 I found a very kind Sir and submissive to train me. I have learned so much from them and am still with them but because of my young age and lack of experience I am so curious and like a sponge. Just wanting to learn as much as I can from people and experiences and take it in and absorb the knowledge and information. Even though I had a lot of knowledge experience (still with them but it's open) not alot of experience with bdsm and leather play experiences. Have leather though. And have had some experiences that I mentioned. This might not matter to some but to me it does so I will get to the point of this. I've learned a lot about gay history and obviously HIV has relevance. I know that AIDS did wipe out a majority of gay leathermen and some of which who were old guard or who had presence in the community and in leather culture. So most Masters, tops, and those who have leather in their life and it's more then just kink and to get off seem to play safe and don't do bb. Most of these are older gay men who probably went through all kinds of things in their lifetime. Maybe it's just the area I'm in but I haven't found any. Then again I haven't really seeked the bb side and there aren't really leather men in my area. But I'm wondering if some might view old guard men might view bb as a way of life like men on this site do. I still think somewhere there are a bunch of older leather Sirs who converse and obviously have lots of sex and enjoy their lifestyles.But I can't help and wonder what the majority is. Barebacking or safe sex. Obviously if they own property its different and most do bb their slave or boy. I don't think most people will care about this since I know some people view sex as just getting a nut and going and some view leather as something hot and fun to do but with everything I've learned and how I've been raised I take it a bit more to heart and that is not always a good thing..really never is but I digress. After re-reading this I can tell i am not asking the question clearly. Point blank do the majority of older leather guy men (or old guard) participate in and practice bb sex or do most play safe. From a leather man's perspective I want to know their opinions of barebacking vs. safe sex. And I tried not to mention old guard because I know not everyone believes in it and some resent it but whatever you wanna call it old school or whatever the feeling doesn't change and still has meaning to some. ...Thank you.

This is somewhat tricky. I've been with tops who are "so called tops" but really bottoms and later become full bottoms. Nonetheless. I hooked up with a chubby guy once and he fucked me at his place and then we went to a bath house. We fucked there and he got 2 guys to fuck me. They wanted to fuck me anyways but he lead me around like he was my Master or Sir (far from it) and even called me his boy at one point. There was one guy who fucked me I wasn't really into but I was really young at that point and less confident (if possible) so went through it. A few months ago I fucked a bottom submissive nurse at the bath house. It was strange that it ended up happening but I bred him too. Afterwards I felt like I was obligated to this bottom for some reason because I am also a bottom..(even though I fucked him) and wanted him to have more cock. We went to another sex club and I got him in a sling. Unfortunately no one was really interested in him. They have no idea what they missed out on. He was so subservient and naturally submissive and willing to please. As much as it's my nature his natural talents and skills surpass mine. Fucker made me jealous. Problem is he also liked younger guys. I know not all younger guys like to fuck older and if they do it's usually for different reasons. So even though he wanted me to whore him out and I did too I ended up fucking him a few times and breeding him. It was nice being able to do exactly what I like a top to do to me and do that to him. And he obviously liked it. ...I was only whored out by a guy who is more of a geniune top once. That was a hot night. He led me around the bar having me drink mens piss and suck their cocks, bend over for them (with protection since it was before bb...lol) and for the most part he knew my type. Still love how he went into the urinal and that hot bear was pissing and asked him if he wanted a submissive cockersucker to service him and the man immedietely pissed in my mouth and fucked it until he came...and after I took the daddy's cock who whored me out I had my own fun too. ...Being whored out can feel strange with a top because it is more about their pleasure. But being whored out by a bottom. They know where you are cumming from and what you like so they are more likely to do it for you. Bottoms can be brotherly sometimes. Still that was a weird feeling that sort of dedication I felt towards him. I normally never fuck guys or let them suck my cock. But when i do it does feel different and strange. I have let a guy suck me once or twice because he was really hot and even though I knew he was a bottom I just wanted interaction with him. In some ways maybe having sex with a bottom helps build your skills as a bottom as well.. ..On another note. It would be hot as hell if my brother in submission ever whored me out. He knows me so well and damn he would do a damn good job at it. And the selfless fucker would probably do it just to make me happy too.

I'm a horny young and somewhat single slut. I fucking come everyday. I love to play with my dick and cum multiple times. I don't come that often around others but then again i don't always get fucked. If the top is worth it I do make sure I cum for the top though. If not I just get him off. I always get the top off. If I had a top that owned my ass though I would definitely not cum so I would be extremely hungry and horny for his cock, load, and piss. If that's even possible.

...As if I wasn't horny enough *facepalm* I love truckers. I love the look of truckers the average guy type, the clothes, the attitude and of course the truck. I have not been fucked by too many truckers. Maybe 2 or 3 in a sex club before. Almost hooked up with one once but he bailed. I have seen truckers go to sex areas sometimes and at times I'd try to guess where they went. Once driving around there a trucker was parked and looked down straight at me and I slowed down and looked up straight at him. It was the longest pause and I was chicken shit. On a trip a while back coming back we went to a truck stop to eat and all I could think about in the bathroom was getting fucked by hot burly truckers. One late saturday night I did even drive to a truckstop kind of far from here and went into the restroom and there was a really hot trucker there but stupid fucking cleaning guys were there. I saw the trucker only area and felt that I wasted the trip since I don't have a trucker license. I did talk to a guy a while back though who told me how he loved to fuck truckers. He mentioned strawberry plains. Sounds really fruity. My ultimate fantasy is to get whored out a truck stop and be used by different guys and maybe even travelling with a trucker for a while and him fucking me when he wants or me servicing him and any men he sets up along the trip. I have read stories similar to that. Being raped a truck stop sounds kind of hot but painful. I'd probably still be hard though... If I ever travel by myself if I see truckers passing by I will slow down. Heh I did drive home naked once after a night of no action because I was so fucking horny and jacking off hoping truckers would get a look at me and be interested. Damn I'm such a horny slut >_>" ..But I love truckers. And piss. Yeah..taking multiple truckers piss would be hot as fuck. It sure was with those bikers.

Yes I do Sir. In one of my earliest experiences a man told me that a boy has two holes to please a dom. The rest does not matter. He taught me how to "present my ass" when I want a man to fuck me. I was too scared at the time but thinking back on it that was really hot. The way I licked and serviced his boots, his cock, took his belt, and then took his cock up my ass was extremely hot too. When I was in a leather protocol oriented relationship if Master was coming home I would always be naked and kneel down and only raise my head once Master allowed. Often times, I would raise my head to his hard cock and service him. One hook up I had once was with a businesses type guy who loved to fuck younger guys. He had me fold his clothes when I stripped him and place them in the corer, and take off his boots and place them in the appropriate area. It was such a turn on and when he told me to "present my ass to him" it drove me wild as I proudly presented my ass and he put on a rubber and fucked me. He came extremely fast. I don't get fucked a whole lot so guys usually cum quick. The best memory so far though is a leather Sir I met at a bar one night. When I went back to his hotel he barely gave me commands. Only a few like to take off his boots, get on my knees, and to put on something. But the hottest part was I knew how to please the man without him having to say "suck me boy", "bend over boy", "play with my nipples boy"and etc. I never begged for his cock either. And it was fortunate because he did not believe subs should beg for cock. He is one of those who believes that "he will take it" when he is good and ready. It sounds like an asshole attitude but he was a very respectable man. But probably a selfish top. Hottest top I've ever been with. It all depends on the guy too. Try to interact with your sub more outside of the bedroom and see what really turns on the sub. Some subs are more service oriented as well. And apply that to sex and they are yours. Some also like to be controlled by not being allowed to cum or chastity. That's not an issue for me because I generally never touch my cock when a top is fucking me or using me. Unless ordered too. Hope this helped..but yes I remember many times. I hope to have more times as well.

I still have and carry condoms. I have a potential fuck buddy thing going on right now so of course no condoms for that. And if I make another friend probably not. But when I go to the baths, book store, or sex club damn straight I have condoms. Although I found it ironically recently that even though I wanted to get bbed by those guys in the bookstore they put on the condom without me asking and even when I was ready to ride their dick. I'm a little hesitant now because of all the stealthers out there. I guess that means need to be a little more selective with guys at public sex places. Condoms still serve a use for me but if it's a regular buddy I get with it goes in me bare.

Huh? Natural submissive huh. You have some good ideas. Things like, "having him on his knees awaiting me", "instructing him to take out my cock" "ask him questions about submission while he services you" Very good things. Not sure if this applies to all submissives but it does for me. A top doesn't even have to fuck me or have me suck his cock to get me turned on. It's all about the control. Tops that show great control over themselves and submissives are the hottest. Power and respect not arrogance. I've had some tops even have me fold their clothes and put them away when stripping them. I've had some tops inspect me to make me more anxious and excited. Even simple things like orders like "boy bring me that lube" or "get that bag for me" or "stay right here boy". I don't quite know how it works and how tops are able to do it because I'm a bottom but it's the feeling. It makes you want to make yourself vulnerable, open, and obedient to the top because he is the alpha and he either has control over you or you are giving control to him. You want to be controlled. As for things to do to a sub. Love getting fucked, spanked, flogged, tits tortured, balls squeezed, choked a little, slapped, hit, pissed on or in, being spit on, biten, and of course being cum on or inside. Oh and getting tied up is hot too. Hell just having arms restrained. Just think of ways to control the boy and to put him in his natural submissive mindset and how that responds to your dom control mindset. ..Something like that.

I'm really surprised this story has never been commented on it's interesting. I know that some bars actually really did physically punish people. Some of the leather bars. If someone in the community fucked up or was being an ass. I think it was usually being tied up and whipped pretty hard. I don't think ever fucked, raped, drugged, fisted, and beat though. But I'm sure it's happened. That kid honestly had it coming to him though. He was a total asshole not only online but in the bar too. It's true he might have gotten drugged and that made it worse. But with the attitude the kid gave to several men at the bar he had it coming to him and not only that but it would have happened sooner or later even without drugs. It did seem like it got out of hand though. I liked the part about how the guy saved one of the kids though. Kind of hot that he ended up becoming an obedient houseboy too. Probably much better then the fate of the punk. The part about the pair being raided was rather interesting as well. Great story..surprised no one ever commented on it.

Saturday night I met the same hot fucking bear top from last weekend. I rushed to get over there..rushed too much unfortunately, and strangely enough saw someone else going there when I was walking to his apartment. I got there and there was another guy there on the couch. I thought he was just the man's roomate. I greeted my top and he immedietely had me sucking his cock and stripping me. He discovered that I wore and orange jockstrap. Did it just for him. He seemed to appreciate that. I serviced his cock for a good while and he played with my hole and ate it out pretty good. He then told me to turn around and get on all fours. He pushed in pretty quickly and it fucking hurt and I wanted to try to relax but he made me fucking take it and I felt the "pop" and he was in. Damn it felt so good getting fucked by him. The guy on the couch came into the bedroom and got naked and stroked his cock watching me get fucked. I wanted to suck him but he made no effort to give me permission or invite me. In all honesty he seemed like a voyeur. Eventually I felt the top's breathing get heavier and felt him really pound my ass and then he put all his weight on me and bred my ass. It was so fucking hot. As soon as he pulled out I immedietely cleaned the man's cock. He thanked me and I used the restroom. Interestingly enough when I get back that guy on the bed was still naked. I thanked the top and he gave me a hug and I left. He texted me something weird the other day but it did not make sense. I understand I will only hear from this man when he wants ass and nothing else but that. And it's fine with me. He can breed me.

I've been filmed once before. I did it partially as a valentines gift for my partner. He wasn't too crazy about it though. I guess the top did not excite him. He was never that sexual anymore. I destroyed the DVD though although my face was covered there was one part where it wasn't. It was a little awkward because the guy was moving with his partner so he literally fucked me on the floor. He was pretty big too and I had trouble taking it at first but then I took it. We used condoms though. Kinda glad we did because I have seen him on Xtube months after he did my video and he started barebacking alot. I met someone else once who claimed to be a top and fucked me (condoms) and asked me to do a video but I refused. He is somewhat popular but in most videos now he is getting bred by big dicked tops or sucking cock. Guess I dodged two bullets. It would be fun to do real porn though not amatuer. I think I'd rather escort first though.

I know its in the very very back of this board but this is a great story. Two things I loved. Even though the boy got raped, drugged, and pozzed he still kept himself and got the bastard back who pozzed him. The second was the part about "we start out as cum pigs and work our way up to Master". In the leather lifestyle..or how it used to be done you started from the bottom and trained as a bottom whether it was to be a bottom or a top you were a bottom. Meaning you got fucked up the ass and served a man. I don't know what that experience is like for tops. Most tops who I know say "they did not ike it..but did it for the training". So, I very much respect and admire that you incorporated that into this hot story. I might have top urges at times but if I was breed and raped like this i would probably be begging for men to fuck my cunt and breed me as the submissive boy I am. Even though it's just a story it takes a special and strong man to do what the character in this story did. Thank you Sir.

I have worn one of these recently. A Sir i very much like and respect put me in a rubber suit with a gas mask. He left my ass, cock, and balls exposed. He mostly played with those and of course my nipples. it was very light but it was interesting being in a rubber suit with a gas mask. The sleeves were also folded so I was restrained. I can honestly say that it did not do much for me. I did it more for him. Interesting experience though. I liked the cigar play i did at an event better though. Hot leather mask with a hole for the top to make me inhale that cigar. That shit was hot. I might try the gas mask again though.

I knew a couple who met orginally at a bath house. They are still together but an open relationship. I have met guys I would have loved to date at bath houses and sex clubs but it usually doesn't work out. I'm still shy and reserved right now and not really outgoing. Well when I'm bent over I guess I'm pretty fun for some guys. But I need to work on personality and a sexy like attitude to show to tops. Hell maybe even try to seduce a top or two. i don't think people should go to sex clubs to meet bfs but if it happens or if a friendship happens then that's great.

Interesting. That is uncommon. I think the only time I ever refused to suck cock was when I bit the inside of my mouth and it really hurt and I had to use orajel to numb the pain. Of course this was at gay days in anaheim. Did not go after sex because of this. But one guy who I got to know throughout the weekend did fuck me. I just did not suck him. But that was the only reason why I did not suck or kiss. If it wasn't for that I would have been all over his dick and drank his piss instead of him pissing in the tub (don't know why he did that) randomly that night. Now what can be common sometimes is for tops to fuck a bottom without them sucking. But generally it's not the bottom who says "fuck me don't wanna suck you" it's that the top wants some ass and wants to fuck. I've had the happen before but it was rare. They were either quickes or really brutal fucks. I'd much rather suck a top and polish his knob and honor his manhood before he takes my ass. But it's all up to the top.