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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
tallslenderguy replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
He left about a half hour ago. This was day six since i'd had my Sweet FB inside of me. i start to get twitchy on day three, i'm pretty sure i'm addicted to Him. i went to San Diego for 4 days to visit a friend... we sleep together, but we're platonic. He's a sadistic Dom, and i love Him dearly, but we are not sexually compatible. So, four days, then got back and two more days and i'm breaking out in a cold sweat wanting Him. i was washing dishes and preparing cocoa beans to go in my stone mill to make chocolate from scratch, and He called. Yeah, i dropped everything and got ready. God, it was so awesome. He had a huge nutt and was leaking out of me when He got up to shower, so i tasted some. sigh. i fee so good, and the chocolate is in the stone melange. All is right with the world. ❤️ -
i think many have responded to the question in the video title without watching the video. The video does not end with a definitive answer. The video raises a lot of points and questions in Harris' discussion of the topic with scholars who also reach different conclusions.
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Why Gay Men Pursue People They Don’t Want
tallslenderguy replied to BareBack35's topic in General Discussion
Gay culture has managed to refine the experience of pleasure and being desired. i think a lot of guys cognitively simplify sex down to 'just' pleasure, but i think the driving force is a combination of pleasure and wanting to be desired. One can get pleasure their self, but desire from another is missing. Hooking up gets both. i think (generally) men and women are wired differently when it comes to sex. i think men (more easily?) experience being desired during sex, and women perceive sex more like it's not their self that is being desired, but the pleasure they are giving. i think a lot of women have learned how to use sex to get other stuff they want and need. i think both are (sorta) getting what they want/need... the feeling of being desired, but they are getting it differently. Guys seem to be able to get that through multiple, simple connections ("hook ups"), whereas women seem to go for the same thing with one person ongoing. i know, this is way oversimplification of the complex. With women, things like babies factor in, as well as women historically being less socially powerful than men, so some women use sex in the power struggle, whereas some guys may not need or want that. i think with hook up sex, often what is being pursued is the intense feeling of being desired combined with pleasure, not some form of ongoing relationship. Maybe the question answers itself, guys are not interested in everything another guy may have to offer, just his cock or ass and his desire to use it. Then there are guys like me (and You? and others), who seem to have a different mix of both genders and want more or different than what a traditional woman wants or the type gay guy you describe. -
Hot bottom sluts fucked by more than regular tops
tallslenderguy replied to IntoBBvisitor's topic in General Discussion
idk if i'd call it a trend, but it seems more permissible? That maybe notions of beauty are becoming less central to attraction, that appearance is being modified as a reason to fuck? i think there's a lot that goes on with sex that remains unconscious or gets buried under the obvious pleasure that is derived. i think one of the drivers for gay sex is wanting to be desired... wanting to experience being desired by another guy. Desire can be felt intensely during sex. Being and feeling desired, i think, is a human need, i think it's at the core of "falling in love." i see hook up as a concise version of "falling in love," where we repeat the intense pleasure and affirmation in sex, over and over with lots of guys vs just one. But i think the root drive is similar to those looking for ltr with one person. Lots of sex with lots of guys gets the similar pleasure and affirmation that is traditionally sought in ltr. i think in hook up, the vehicle is less important than the destination. Though, we are all individuals still, so we're going to do things differently for infinite complex reasons. But i think there's also simple reasons behind some of our complexities. I.e., the gorgeous gym bodied, carefully crafted look is purposefully cultivated because that is that persons version of desirable. Depending on the need/desire of the moment, the package that the guy who responds with desire for him is wrapped in is less important than the actual desire. The "repugnant" guys repugnancy is less of a factor if he is carrying the requisite type of desire the gorgeous guy is craving. i think gay hook up culture has discovered? how to fill a need/desire at its most basic level. -
Hey sluts, I need an official ruling
tallslenderguy replied to NJRawDaddy's topic in General Discussion
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
tallslenderguy replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Just left... hard not to adore Him. i'm going to San Diego tomorrow to see a friend and He told me at the beginning of the week He'd have to breed me a lot since i was going to be gone, so He's been here everyday. i feel like He just fucked me 15 times, i don't know how He does it He has so much stamina, and He plows hard. my hole is totally wrecked, feels so opened, marked... like He put His signature all over me. i feel awesome. -
i've received 1000's of cocks in my life, and only once have i ever had an issue... and it was very minor. To me, the best strategy is a healthy diet with lots of whole food fiber and a shower shot. i have a FB Who texts me several times a week and wants to breed with little notice (He's gotten better about that in the last year lol), but it often only takes me about five minutes to get very clean with a shower nozzle. i switched nozzles awhile back to one with holes on the side vs one on the tip, and that has made a really big difference using a shower douche. Read enough of other guys experiences, and it becomes clear that getting water past the sigmoid is the cause of a lot of issues, but even that with some understanding and practice can be eliminated as an issue with proper technique and post douche checks. To me, the A ball sounds like a rectal gerbil hospital visit waiting to happen. Especially if the bottom is taking random Cocks and cannot monitor size/length. It could get pushed up into the Sigmoid (aka "the second hole") i suspect research has demonstrated that it will not harm the bottom, because of how it's made, it will likely eventually pass. But, anatomically, it would no longer be effective as a 'plug' once dislocated. It will also inhibit penetration, and shorten the area that can be penetrated. Also could be a source of pain for the bottom because it's when the Top gets past the Sigmoid curve when 'second hole' penetration becomes .... amazing. This will be a sort of condom that will prevent deeper penetration and deeper breeding. As a bottom, i want my Tops seed past the sigmoid because i can absorb all of it there, the rectal breeding is not as effective,.
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Hey sluts, I need an official ruling
tallslenderguy replied to NJRawDaddy's topic in General Discussion
To me? partly. i have a fairly complex view of the Top/bottom dynamic. To me, a Top has two cocks, His physical cock and an internal cock that drives the external, physical cock. i don't think i've ever met a Top Who wore a condom because He loves the way it feels, He does it to protect Himself against potentially catching an STD, or maybe He has cleanliness concerns. Either way, He is sacrificing part of His total desire to penetrate, fuck, orgasm, inseminate, breed. As i see it, all of those involve His physical cock and His internal cock. With a condom, he is sacrificing the element of skin on skin, To me, He's literally avoiding/sacrificing that component of Topping, even if He's the one Who ultimately empties the condom into His bottom. Two parts of bottoming i desire/need (crave lol) is receiving all of those parts i listed. While i perceive orgasm and insemination as closely tied together, i also see them as distinct. So, even if He ultimately empties the condom into me and seeds me, He disconnected it from His skin on skin orgasm inside of me. He not only sacrificed His physical skin on skin breeding of me, He also sacrificed some of the pleasure of His orgasm. i am impregnated and bond to both., and that's missing with a condom. -
lol. Feeling stupid is their own damned fault for saying "crap."
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
tallslenderguy replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
my FB came by after the gym, fucked me long and hard, totally naked. It was sweet and awesome. i'm full of cum. -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
tallslenderguy replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Yesterday... and He contacted me again today after His work... He likes to breed me after work usually, but i was out today on an appointment, so i texted Him back letting Him know i didn't know when i'd be home and He texted back: "after you get home then." Hell yeah!! i was hoping so. He's started to drift back into being a Total Top. He likes when i wear lingerie, says He likes to "bitch" me, and the last couple of months He does this thing when He's fucking me (i'm always lying on my stomach) and He reaches under and hold my chest like i have breasts... and damn, i do feel bitched, so i got a lace bra and some silicone breasts that trans people wear, and surprised Him a couple of fucks back. He came as soon as He reached under the first time, so i figured it really turned Him on, and He even told me He likes it...and He's a Man of few words, so i latch onto everything He says. It feels weird and awkward, i'm not fem and don't pass at all, but He gets so turned on and i love that. Also, i'm not fem, but i love that He loves to emasculate me, it doesn't feel mean or forceful at all, it just feels like extreme opposites attracting and bonding. i texted him, He's at the gym and said it would probably be a couple of hours... im prepped and ready. -
You wrote: "extremism is for sure, both on the conservative side and liberal/progressive side. In that, both are increasing as responses to each other. It's only when we choose to take non-extreme positions that things settle down." That seems a "nebulous construct" to me. my question was quoting your assertion that "non-extreme positions" will settle things down. i see trump and his administration as extreme, i do not see how choosing non-extreme positions in response will settle things down.
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For anyone who is interested, a google search will produce numerous examples of trump being called out for violating the constitution. i'll quote and link one source below. Without a doubt, trump and his supporters will disagree. Of course, none of "we," left, right or in between get to decide those things, they are being considered in our court system. And, no doubt, there will always be disagreements with court rulings. Where "we" do get a say in how our constitution and laws are interpreted by our government, is at the ballot box. One recent example where the supreme court ruled: "... the Supreme Court ruled on February 20 that many of his tariffs—those that invoked the International Emergency Economic Powers Act (IEEPA)—were unconstitutional." [think before following links] https://factually.co/fact-checks/justice/times-trump-violated-constitution-ce6ac3
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What "non extreme positions" will "settle down" trumps extremism?
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I know it's a long video/essay and not all will watch. The first 40 minutes are really setting forth the origination of fascism and how it came to be named. After the 40 minute mark, Johnny Harris interviews several scholars and experts on fascism... and, they do not all agree either, but they do come up with a list of things that typically goes along with fascism. i'm also concerned with the response to__________________. (whatever one calls the current group in charge). Out of curiosity, i asked Artificial Intelligence what it 'thought': "Did Europe initially take a moderate approach to hitler?" (i probably could have included mussolini in that). Here's the response: "Yes, Europe initially took a moderate approach to Hitler's rise. In the early years of Hitler's regime, many European leaders underestimated his ambitions, believing he would moderate his aggressive policies. This cautious response was characterized by several key factors: Policy of Appeasement Britain and France adopted a policy of appeasement, hoping to maintain peace by conceding to some of Hitler's demands, such as the annexation of Austria and the Sudetenland. This approach was largely influenced by the desire to avoid another devastating conflict after World War I. Economic Priorities Many European nations, particularly Britain, were focused on recovering from the Great Depression, which led to a lack of urgency regarding the threat posed by Nazi Germany. Initial Legitimization Early diplomatic efforts, such as the Four-Power Pact, conferred a degree of legitimacy on the Nazi regime, reflecting a reluctance to confront Hitler directly."
