tallslenderguy

"The Piper" sounds like a Top to me.

About 10 minutes ago... my FB who's been wanting me to fuck him each time we're together now. It was inevitable, he wanted me to cum inside him this time... so we officially flip fucked. NWUSHorny will be proud of me lol. 😉

i will have to do some research to find out if this is evidence based... you can pretty much say anything on youtube, but i thought it interesting none the less. This guy is a Buddhist monk (and kinda hot, wonder if he'd breed me?) discussing info from a urologist. While it is speaks of masturbation, it's really about sex. i think he may indulge in some conjecture, but it's still interesting questions to consider. It seems Breeding Zone is doing a public service for guys by promoting libido 🙂

i think so. So much of sex is in our brain, and neuroplasticity is part of the brain. Synapses can be strengthened and weakened depending on how they are exercised. my guess is it's not permanent, and maybe is just part of your relationship with these Doms, that what can be 'conditioned' out can be 'conditioned' back in. It's all very complex, eh? You are ambivalent about it, part of you finds it "frustrating", while another part of you is "turned on," so there is a part of you that wants, or at least likes this, and accessing that part of you is where part of the Dom's power to control comes from. i have a FB and He's been breeding me 3-4x a week for 5.5 years now. About a year ago, He ventured more into Top/versatile territory, and now He likes to suck me and get fucked every time we are together. i never breed him, i just penetrate and fuck him, and i think that is part of how i am able to do it (lol, that and viagra), because i have no desire to fuck. For many years, the only thing that causes me to get hard is the desire of a Top to penetrate and breed me. No ed, just very specific stimuli. i believe what is happening is He is managing to connect to my desire to please and satisfy Him, so a part of me is still sub/bottom in that respect, but i manage to keep hold of my sub/bottom identity because i never breed him, and He is still Top/dom to me because we always end with Him breeding me. Probably in 5.5 years i have a couple of thousand of His loads in me, and he has never made me cum using my penis or from me fucking him. i think our sexual psychology is very individual, even though we all sort of fall into categories, how it all plays out is individual.

Just left. fuck. i feel like when He fucks me it's like a conquest, and when He unloads in me, He is occupying conquered territory. It's not like He fucks in an aggressive way, although He's all muscle, and He goes between deep grinding and hard pounding, but i feel His intent to possess, and He always does possess me.

About 20 minutes ago. FB wild man. He loves me giving Him oral and fucking him every time now, but me fucking him seems more like foreplay? He doesn't have that bottom craving to receive my orgasm or seed, so i think that's how i've been able to keep it going. It's like i get Him at a fevered pitch where He needs to cum, then i whisper in His ear and ask Him to breed me. He has so much muscle, and i'm a tall slender guy, i feel completely subdued under Him as He alternates between gentle and pounding... and when He pounds, it's whole body. He does these various holds while He's fucking, and they have a similar controlling effect. i asked Him about it today and He smiled and told me: "yeah, i like control." He's a quiet, polite Guy, very unassuming, the way He takes possession is incredible to me. Then, as soon as He cums, He is out and up and in my shower lol.

You're right... i don't have low self esteem or somehow feel unworthy, i'm more shocked by the longevity of our chemistry. It's not forced or put on, we both obviously passionately love what we're doing. And, it's not so much that i "don't understand" as much as i simply don't relate, and i find he doesn't relate to me either... it's hard for Him to grasp that i'm content to have His cock and seed in me and not cum myself. Thankfully, nature has opposites, and symbiosis is a thing.

Just left, caught me before i went to Costco. so glad He did. Who needs groceries when i;m getting this kind of nutrition? He does this thing when He fucks me. i'm always prone (face down) under Him, and He does this thing where He holds my left waste and right hip while lying on me and plowing me, and it feels incredible every time, like He has me totally contained, subdued, owned... idk, words are not enough. He likes to remind me He likes to "bitch me," which is kind of a strange term for me, i'm not fem, don't look feminine at all either, but on some level, i get it when He does that. He's also very vocal when i'm sucking Him or kissing His body, rimming or fucking Him (though i never cum), vocal in a totally pleasured way, never forceful, and the way He expresses pleasure drives me wild. It's like fuel, i never get tired of pleasuring Him with that kind of talk... well, except when i fuck him. i just do that for him because he really likes it, glad he's not into getting bred, he just likes the way fucking feels. Usually doesn't take long till i'm asking Him to breed me, or He's asking me. He's only ever cum in my mouth once, otherwise, He always breeds me, probably over 1000 times now. Off to Costco with a smile on my face.

i have a FB i write about fairly often in the "...last load given/taken" thread. He contacted me on Squirt at the beginning of Covid and has been breeding me 3-4x a week now for five and a half years. He told me when we met He was 25. He's a pretty hairy Latino Muscle Boy, so he easily passed, but i found out later He was 22 making me almost 3x his age at that point. He identifies as BI and is on the dL, so i never initiate with him, yet He consistently contacts me 3-4 times a week wanting sex. i'm pretty sure i'm the only guy he's had sex with, and i really don't understand why He's attracted to me, but i'm grateful to have Him in my life. He's a really sweet guy, and even though i know our relationship will always be limited to FB, we both obviously get something of value out of it, there's a real connection there. A little over a year ago, he started venturing into versatile territory from total top. Normally, that would not work for me, but for Him, i'm able and happy to give Him what he wants, even though it's not my disposition. Turns out, he loves to get fucked lol. i have to take viagra to make that happen for him. my equipment works fine, but psychologically i just don't get hard when a guy wants my cock, i only get hard when a guy wants my ass. A life mystery. We've probably had sex >1000 times now, but i have not cum during sex with Him, and He always breeds me before He leaves. He says He loves to "bitch" me, and the way He holds me when He fucks...yeah, that's about describes it.

Yet another great discussion on BZ. This really is a unique and cool community. Lot's of already good info here. Lots of things (gay related and otherwise) can affect the prostate. The only times i've ever had prostate issues from gay sex have resulted from urethral (i.e. the penis), not my rectum. Not implying that cannot or does not happen, just expanding the info here. The only time i've ever gotten a swollen prostate that affected my ability to void (pee) was from catheter play, and i've had several UTI's from getting sucked as well. Introduction of things like catheters or sounding can also introduce pathogens that can in turn infect the prostate, and infection causes swelling that in turn makes it harder to pee. The prostate surrounds the urethra and is porous, so any bacteria in the urethra has easy access to it. The urethra is not sterile (sterile urine is a common urban legend) but the naturally occurring bacteria in the bladder are beneficial unlike the ones coming from the outside [think before following links] https://www.healthline.com/health/is-urine-sterile#why-its-not

Great discussion. i'm a critical care nurse with a great deal of education on reversing/preventing disease process through diet. A large area of study right now is studying and mapping the gut microbiome. Simply put, humans live in symbiosis with bacteria. We have 10x more bacteria living in our gut than we have cells that compose our entire body (which may call into question for some: who's the host? lol). Study of diet because what we eat is the biggest influence of what affects the gut microbiome, and the gut microbiome in turn creates metabolites that either benefit or harm us. It's a complex topic science is only on the cusp of unraveling. DoxyPEP is and antibiotic (doxycycline) and antibiotics kill bacteria indiscriminately, some more than others. i'm not arguing for or against taking DoxyPEP, just want to add to information about it. It's not a panacea, it absolutely has side effects for anyone taking it, any antibiotic does. "Antibiotic use has become problematic because it unintentionally upsets the delicate equilibrium of the human gut microbiota. Antibiotics, especially broad-spectrum ones, that were once regarded as life-saving treatments for bacterial infections instead indiscriminately destroy the good bacteria that are essential for preserving gut health in addition to their target pathogens. Antibiotic-induced gut dysbiosis, the term for this disturbance, sets off a series of adverse reactions that negatively impact the gut microbiome, resulting in a decline in microbial diversity and the creation of an environment that is favourable to the establishment of strains that are resistant to antibiotics. Antibiotic exposure has wide-ranging effects from prenatal to adulthood; research has shown long-term effects include increased risk of antibiotic resistance, obesity, allergies, asthma, and altered metabolic processes. This thorough investigation emphasises the critical need for a more sophisticated knowledge of the effects of antibiotic therapy on the gut microbiota and the necessity of implementing all-encompassing solutions that reduce its detrimental effects and protect human healththroughout life." [think before following links] https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2590097824000090

About an hour ago, my sweet FB, third day in a row... i figure you guys might get bored if i write every time, but almost magically, the sex never gets boring or routine between us, 5.5 years now. He has only cum in my mouth once, He likes to end with breeding me, and i adore Him for that. Today, i replaced some grout in my walk in shower, so when He contacted me: "Free rn?" i had to tell Him i could not because the grout is still setting up. He wrote back that we could "just suck," which is way better than missing out on Him inside of me. We sucked, but He has a hard time cumming from getting sucked, even though He seems to really like it. So after a long session, He announced He had to go... and He had not cum. He's never left without cumming, and that's 100's of times. As He dressed, He said: "I've still got a hard on, i could still fuck you." i told Him i didn't know if He'd encounter something, and He told me it would be okay if He did, He could "just clean [His} dick in the sink." i didn't take much convincing. Thankfully, i was clean and now i'm also bred.

Just left... needed that bad. Had a house guest last week so i missed our 3-4 breeding sessions. Can't believe we've been doing this for 5 years, just never gets old. i'm so opened and creamed right now, sweetest feeling in the world. Love the way holds me, feels like affectionate restraint, hard to describe, but drives me wild. In 5 years and 100s of fucks with Him, i've never had an orgasm of my own, which kind of substantiates a fantasy of mine of sharing one orgasm between myself and my Top. i wondered if it was just a fanciful fantasy to bond that way, but we've been doing it now for 5 years. i don't think He is really aware of it, He never talks about me cumming, but them i've told him from the beginning that His orgasm in me is my orgasm when it leaves His body and enters mine. i was hard as a rock when He left, lately i've been fucking him for a bit before He finally says: "let Me fuck you." He has only ever cum in my mouth once, i don't think He prefers that, though He loves to get sucked, always breeds my ass and i'm totally sated by that. Awesome, eh?

Not really an issue for me as a total bottom. The only Top i don't want is the one who isn't going to breed me... It's a strange scenario though. There are guys out there who are ambivalent about sex... they want it, are driven, and in process, some change their mind. For me, all sex comes down to mutual desire. i won't have sex with any guy who doesn't want me and i them. I.e., it's the connection of mutual desire/need and much (maybe more?) than the connection of bodies. For me, if a guy doesn't leave a part of himself inside of me, it leaves me feeling incomplete, sort of empty, sad, disappointed, like his desire wasn't complete, or something turned it off? It's not only His cock, His seed, it's also His orgasm.... i see those as three separate things, though woven together. So, from my perspective, the guy who wants and craves that, and suddenly changes his mind while getting fucked, seems ambivalent about the whole act? i know, we're all individuals, so it could just be the guy is ignorant and thinks he's protecting himself from an STD. But i think there are plenty who psychologically have not fully embraced their desire/need for another man to possess them, and they feel that if they don't receive seed, they have not had sex. I fully embrace who and how i am, and i do not feel like i have had sex if a guy fucks me and does not do it wholly or completely (i.e., have His orgasm inside of me). To me, that is foreplay. And i know, there are many Tops Who don't wanna cum till they are done, so they will fuck several guys first before cumming. i get that, and if i am in a sex club, etc., i just put it down to foreplay and am not offended or disappointed. All said, i can see how a certain type of guy, not psychology self accepting, can keep his sense of virginity if he has not been seeded. It's a complex topic, so individuals are going to be in different places with their sexuality. Not a simple, black or white answer.

yes.

Opposites do something to me too, i'm not big, but i'm tall (6'5"), small Guys Who are Total Top and driven to breed drive me wild when they are almost shyly confident that i want them and they can own me.

i've wondered about this. i have a particular attraction to Black Men and Latino, though in no way exclusive. More recently i've come to understand it's a cultural attraction really. i guess that's associated with race, but not the sole cause of who or how anyone is.

i was just becoming sexually active with guys in the 80's. i watched my older brother die an awful death from AID's. With guys, i've always been pretty much (99.999%) bottom. i've been with and received 1000's of cocks and loads. i can count on 2 fingers the number of times i've used a condom. Was i a cumdump? i didn't hear or use the term, but comparatively speaking, i was. Was i afraid of AID's? Yes, but my drive to be taken/possessed by a Man and bred was stronger than my fear (by far). For me, it had nothing to do with bug chasing... and that wasn't a thing in the 80's anyway. i don't relate to the notion of "becoming a cumdump." i was being myself, not really becoming anything. Ironically, i found out i was poz when i went to get tested so i could go on PrEP, but even that wasn't a big deal for me, just felt more responsible, sort of like getting vaccinated. It was amazing it took as long as it did for me to become poz. i believe, prior to AID's, condoms didn't exist in the gay community. Condoms, prior to AID's, were a form of birth control. The idea of using them for STD's became a thing because of AID's. Prior to AID's, i don't think the term "bareback" existed either, it was just fucking lol. Guys didn't use condoms with guys because there was no risk of making a baby. So, i think if you wanted to get fucked, you were gonna be a cumdump to one degree or another.

Just seeing this, but Wow, great discussion!! i have all sorts of thoughts/feelings as i read through the comments, so i'll throw them into the mix. my feel is that there are no new sex acts... i.e., 'nothing new under the sun.' Which is not to suggest there aren't "trends." i speculate that, in part, trends are influenced by the waxing and waning of cultural openness/repression. i recently posted a review of Cabaret. The movie is set during WWII, but was made in the1970's, so it wasn't written or acted from the perspective of the era it depicted, so there was likely a mix of both? Still, one point the movie makes is how liberal and open Berlin was towards gays, and how quickly that reversed depending on the social structure in power at the time. The gay community is (and always has been?) a minority that exists in the larger context of heteronormative dominance and influence. The more liberal the social structure, the freer the social expressions, e.g., porn, movies, etc.. Words, descriptors change, but i think guys are basically the same. A gay guy in 1955 may not have rimmed, not because he didn't want to , but he maybe didn't think of it and there was no media available to give him the idea? We also tend to look at this topic from the perspective of our experience and life time, but just as we can see extreme trends just in our lifetime, in the broader context of human history, i suspect we could find similar waxing and waning of sexual trends. Pompeii comes to mind lol.

This is not a complete answer... i'm really tired after a 13 hour shift, so i don't know what i'll think after i sleep Somethings that come to me though is, i requires two people in an act where one is in a sense possessed and the other possesses... and that may be symbiotic, reciprocated each in their own way? i guess central though, it is a type of impregnating and impregnation, both are part of it. i guess as i see and feel it, both give, lose something to the other......

i found this to be a great commentary on a great film. To this day, i still find the film Cabaret captivating (almost put this in the LGBT section, but thought... nah lol)

About 10 minutes ago. i was all dressed and ready to go outside and paint the trim on my house... butt. my FB called and wanted more (He bred me last night too). He's going to Hawaii and wanted something to tide Him over. He's on the DL and will be with straight family so won't be getting any there. He identifies as Bi, and i'm pretty sure i'm the only guy He's ever been with, so i get a lot of His testosterone lol. 5 years seems a long time to me, sort of mysterious to me that He seems so satisfied using me for His sexual outlet. Pretty sure He hasn't had a GF in maybe a couple of years now, but He doesn't really talk about it, just occasional comments, and i just let Him be who and how he is. He loves getting fucked recently, and i continue to do so but don;t breed him, and it always ends with Him breeding me. So, no guarantees there will be no drips while i paint.

Found this a very informative watch. If your attention span is stressed, fast forward to the 13 mark to see where wealth distribution in the US starts to diverge.