Recognising we all have our preferences, I think some stick to them a little bit too much. I mean, does it really matter if they are perfect if it is just a hook-up? For the tops, an ass is an ass while for bottoms, a cock is a cock. I would like to think that if you are barebacking, there wouldn't be so many hang-ups. But unfortunately, even if you are going to be just a piece of meat for someone to get off in, they feel they need to find perfection to have a good time. I would be lying if I didn't have some limitations and preferences, but I try to keep an open mind. Beside, it is their loss. Hope things get better and you have loads of fun this year.