Throattopman

That is an amazingly hot video.

My favorites have always been Steamworks (now closed for COVID) and Manhandler (now closed for good). Public/semipublic anonymous sex is my thing, much more than Grindr or whatnot. Am I shit outta luck, Chicago fellas?

TT Boy and Brandon Iron (RIP) both get me going.

Poppers. Authentically sleazy settings (not bars or bathhouses, but shitty hotel rooms, A/B glory holes, etc.). Bottoms who are doing it because they need the $20.

Visiting Chicago and looking to hook up with two or more at Steamworks this weekend. I want to get my load drained by a pig who's getting fucked by another total top. Simple as that. I'm 50, cropped hair, stocky dad bod, nice cock.

This made me pop a diamond-cutter and shoot a huge load.

A lot of guys have wanted to suck my cock or get fucked while I smoke a cigar. Seems to be a big thing with some oral bottoms — the idea of sucking off a man who's enjoying a cigar. Some get off verbal abuse. Some get off on full service while I kick back and enjoy a cigar. You'd have to ask bottoms what gets them off about it ... whether it's the masculine image, the smell, the look, whatever.

https://ncsmokerdawg.tumblr.com/post/185254033729/wetdude50-over-55000-followers-also-follow-me No idea how this is still up on Tumblr after the purge, but goddamn is it hot

Same with me. I was 18 and my crotch had itched for a week. By the time I actually looked at it there were dozens of good sized crabs on my pubes and black spots all under my skin like poppy seeds. I had to go to a free clinic and get some prescription lotion, and it still took weeks to get rid of them.

This made me shoot about a foot. Not normally into twinks but watching Austin Wolf take him past his limits and use him for his own pleasure was HOT.

1. It happened. It's in the past. 2. If you're not traumatized by it, why not try to be turned on by the memory? Can't tell you the number of bottoms I've met who've had something similar happen and found it to be hot later. Sounds like they got what they came for. You might do the same.

There's a front bar, then a small smoking patio, and behind it is a sort of large shed where the cruising happens. It's dim but not like a real darkroom. Most of the guys are standing around waiting for something to happen, but you'll find a few blow jobs and some bare fucking. Last time I was there I fucked a guy with a beer bottle while a group watched.

Big fantasy of mine is to be part of a top gang-rape and be the one holding down the cumhole's arms as he gets invaded by one hard cock after another ... telling him to stop squirming, stop crying and take it all.

Started smoking at 12, full-time at 14. It made my cock hard. Still does. I've shot some of my biggest loads while getting serviced while I smoke. Anyone who wants to get me off but objects to my smoking can fuck off and find someone else.

In Chicago for Labor Day and looking for a man/men who live to service cock ... deep throat experts and real cocksucking pigs. Face to face or glory hole fine. I shoot a big load, you get a big load, we both leave happy. Me: 100% top, 45, above-average cock, average body (look like your average Home Depot dad), smoker. Can't host but can meet at your place, Manhandler, etc. Check my profile for more.

Nothing wrong with that. "Reciprocal" sex is drilled into our heads at a young age. In my late teens when I figured out that I enjoyed planting a load and that there were men who didn't want me to reciprocate — in fact, it ruined it for them even to suggest it — I was able to truly embrace my inclinations. In fact, it's a fuckin turn-on for me to shoot a hot load in a willing hole and walk away in the next minute. We both got what we wanted.

Gonna separate fetish from turn-on here ... Fetish: Smoking. Real men who know the pleasure of tobacco. I don't care if you don't smoke, but you better be into me doing it. Turn-on: Rough sex, anon sex, glory hole sex, non-reciprocal sex. Hit 'em and quit 'em.

My favorite. Nothing I like better than kicking back with a cigar or Marlboro Red and have a guy do a long, slow worship session of my cock, balls and ass with his tongue.

You can have a connection with anon sex. Sometimes I feel strongly connected to a total stranger who is deep-throating me or who I'm fucking.

Love Camel straights ... but I'm purely top. Smoke sex is totally hot when I'm doing it with the right guy ... and the right guy enjoys working my cock, balls and hole with his mouth while I kick back and enjoy a few Reds or Camels or a nice cigar. Still blow loads like a teenager in those situations ...

I was 14 when I started smoking full-time — Marlboros. By the time I was 15 I was enjoying Camel straights and at 16, cigars ... good ones, not the gas station crap. By then I knew tobacco was always going to be part of my life as a man. Around that age I also discovered men sucked cock better than any girlfriend I ever had, and were more available. I could go to any glory hole or dirty/underground sex club (the mainstream "spas" were boring) and have a stranger make me cum hard. If I got to smoke while it was happening I came twice as hard. In my twenties there was no shortage of guys who wanted me to come over, kick back, light a cigar and relax while they took care of my cock. Harder to find these days. Also harder to find are masculine role models who enjoy smoking and don't give a shit. Miss seeing the Marlboro or Camel pack poking out of a work shirt or dress shirt. To this day I like no-strings, hard top sex as much as I like tobacco. When I find a true submissive who gets turned on by a smoking top who knows it's all about his own pleasure, that's the best. Anybody else?

Hey, men -- Coming to Chicago and won't be there for Cumunion, but saw that there is a Saturday afternoon event called "Bears, Baths, Beyond" at Steamworks. Anyone know if they get a decent crowd on Saturday afternoons ... would be nice to drop a load in a space full of like-minded guys.

One of my favorite things is to fuck a guy's throat until I shoot my first load — then kick back, maybe have a smoke, and have him give me a long slow rim job until I'm hard again... then go for round two with a nice relaxed blowjob and a second load. Nothing better than cumming once and having a man eat my ass to get me hard again.

Is "selfish" a bad thing if both people get what they want? As a top, I've been with men who want to make an emotional connection (even briefly). Others want a buddy vibe. And there are plenty of others (I'd call subs, not bottoms) who see their role as a pleasure giver or just a hole. Some of them want to be used impersonally. Others want it to be rough. Or filled with contempt. I've had more than one man thank me for not even touching his dick -- there's a big group of bottoms who want their dicks ignored completely. I've also been at sex parties where a bottom disposes of me the minute I shoot down his throat -- he's grabbing for the next dick, the next load. I don't think that's selfish. He's getting off. When I was about 21 I picked up a sub in a leather bar and went back to his place. He got me off twice. After the second time I asked if he wanted to get off and he said "No, sir, I'm here to get you off." When I was leaving he said "I'll come 20 times thinking of this." Right now I'm not looking for a relationship or date. I want to shoot a load, and I want someone to take it. Within that framework there's a lot we can do.

OK, I finally got time to answer your questions... I went over to Jay's every week or two for about four months. Like I said, he was a top but still versatile enough to want to show me how to do it right. He would lay with his head hanging over the bed and I would stand over him and fuck his throat, usually after he took a big hit of poppers. I tried poppers and thought they were OK, but I was 20 or 21 and didn't really need them, if you know what I mean (and I didn't like the headache afterward). Jay had a three-bedroom apartment and had regular sex parties. I never went, but he showed me some photos -- sucking, fucking, some on a rim seat and a few with a guy getting pissed on in a bathtub. Jay's face was never in them, but he was always topping. Anyway, we had one really hot throat-fucking session one day. I had taken a huge hit of poppers and found myself really just raping his throat (he was poppered up and willing, of course). The gagging and coughing really turned me on and I shot hard. Later when we were cleaning up he invited me to come to a party that Saturday night -- "no pressure," just a chance to hang out and see what was up. It was a pretty horny scene in some ways -- and in others, not so much to me. There were some guys in full leather, which didn't interest me. One bedroom had an anything goes scene with guys sucking and fucking. In the living room there was a lot of beer and a couple of pigs going around sucking any cock they could find. Since I was new and younger, both were on me pretty quickly -- one was OK and the other was pretty good, but what felt great was when they sucked my dick at the same time (one on the shaft, one on the head). After some of this I shot a load and they both were on me trying to eat every drop. After that I had another beer and a couple of smokes, deciding whether I wanted to stay or not. I was horny again pretty quick but to be honest the scene wasn't as hot as I wanted. I went to the back to see if I could find Jay. The door to the back bedroom was only about half-open. There was no light. I went in and found a guy just a few years older than me sprawled on the bed on his stomach, really out of it. One of the leather guys was fucking him, and another guy was holding down the guy's arms, which was barely necessary since the guy getting fucked was just moaning softly. Two more guys were watching and jerking it -- one of them was Jay. The leather guy started making noises like he was going to come, and the guy holding down the bottom's arms started saying, "Do it. Shoot that load. Shoot that load in his ass. Get it in there. Get it deep." The leather guy suddenly shuddered, pushed as far as he could into the young guy's ass, and obviously dropped a huge load inside. Suddenly Jay's arm was around me. "You want that?" he said. I shook my head no and realized I'd been jerking my cock. "Come on, man," Jay said. "Just put the tip in. See how it feels." The guy on the bed was sort of groping behind himself blindly, feeling around for a cock. So I did. Grabbed his ass and just put the tip of my cock in. It was warm and very slick with cum. The guy tried to back up on my dick. I didn't want to do it, but suddenly I was really hard and thought maybe I would jerk off on the guy's asshole. I felt Jay's arm around me. With his left hand he put a bottle of poppers under my nostril and closed the other nostril. With his other hand he guided my dick deeper into the guy's ass. These poppers were a LOT better than the ones he'd used before and suddenly all I wanted to do was fuck this kid's ass. Hard. And I did it. He started to moan and yell and the guy holding his arms locked his arms to the bed and locked eyes with me while I fucked what turned out to be his boyfriend, who was being whored out for the night. "Fucking load his ass!" the guy commanded, and I shot REALLY quick, quicker than I thought possible. Without even thinking about or being aware it was happening I was cumming up his ass and it felt great. To this day I still like a lot of things I really discovered that day -- anon sex, hard sex, being serviced by guys who were being whored out by their boyfriends. Still love fucking a throat while a guy's getting fucked at the other end, preferably by his partner or master who is getting off by watching his sub used. Anyone into that, hit me up.