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Difficult to say yes or no. I love getting rimmed. Turns me on. But actually rimming myself? I am more into guys my own age and those turn out to be 40/50s guys and the more bear top types. I do no like to bury my tongue in a fat bear ass however. More interested in their cocks and bodies. However....the occasions I had with 20-somethings with juicy clean firm bubble butts I just couldn't get enough of rimming their asses. Got me all horned up. Them too because I could see their cocks getting harder. Perfect to get a good pounding afterwards.

I agree the costs would be less to provide PrEP (if it would be 100% effective in prevention of contracting HIV) than providing drugs to keep a HIV+ patient alive, for the rest of their lives. But insurance companies are rats. At least in Holland they are not state controlled anymore, but private companies whose ultimate goal is to make a profit for the stakeholders. There is some government role in that government can order the sector to have a cap in premiums, but the whole privatization of health care in NL has been a total disaster. Where years ago, when we had a different system (state provided for low income for low cost or private for those who could afford it) people now are furious about the selling out and privitization of services by the government that used to be state owned. Everything had to be privatized because that would improve competition and drive prices down, they said. The opposite has happened. This is not just health care, but in a lot of other areas. The Dutch fear they are going the "American way", where you can only have a good service as long as you have money. And the low paid people are left to rot in the streets because they cannot afford it (at least that is what I see on news sites comments. We had a very good health care system but recent governments are breaking it down with the motto "competition will decrease the costs". Costs have only gone up since then. And politicians are doing the exact opposite of what they promised before the election as soon as they have a seat in parliament or government. I am totally disgusted. What worries me is that the majority still votes for those vultures. Sorry for ranting.........

I am sure there will be many takers! The place caters to vanilla guys to outright filth :-) Try to get a Spanish guy (or more) from Las Palmas coming south for the weekend. They usually don't bother with condoms.

This went straight to my favs on Xtube:-) Thanks for posting this

The Dutch Aids Foundation has stated in 2012 that there were still too many questions about Truvada to release it on the market as medication to prevent HIV infection. They said Truvada could reduce the risk of getting infected "only" by 44 to 73%. They also stated then that the tight regime of taking medication every single day in combination with regular medical checks had proven to be difficult to keep up by (test) users. Six days ago (July 17th 2014) they released a statement saying they support further investigation into the feasability of using PrEP for a specific target audience (men who have unprotected sex with multiple men or neg men with HIV+ partners) and will start a study on that later this year together with the Amsterdam Health Services (GGD) and other parties. And yes, the EU is slow in making decisions. That's because there are 28 different countries in the EU, all with different social, cultural and religious backgrounds who all have to have their say. It's not a country. And I believe (but am not sure) that approving a certain type of medication to the EU market is an EU decision, not an invidual country decision (otherwise people would go shop around across the border). What is covered by health insurance though is a country decision, or even health insurance companies in that country. In Holland it wouldn't be the government that would have to carry the costs but insurance companies. But it differs per country depending of what their health care system is. I would assume (but Bearbandit knows this better than I) in the UK the NHS would have to pick up the costs. In Holland I am sure there will be companies who will refuse to cover the costs as they will regard it as giving somone a free ticket (at their and premium payer's expense) to have unprotected sex. They will say that there is a cheaper alternative: condoms. Which are also not covered by the way, but less expensive than the $5k+ the ECDC expects the costs to be for PrEP per person. They will also argue that it is unfair that other premium payers would have to pay for a gay guy's "free ticket" to have unprotected sex while there is an alternative (condoms). Which of course will be odd because my premium now also pays for stuff my fellow premium payers use but I don't and never will: contraceptive pills, abortions, fertility treatments and so on.

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I grew up with Cadinot even though it was hard to get into a sex theatre as a teen to see them. That's the only place they were shown. Now I don't watch them anymore as I am not really into twinks (unless it's a sexy muscled teen with a bubble butt fucking the hell out of a guy!). I was a twink myself then of course. I do remember some scenes though that made me cum alsmost instantly. Like Tiger I like Eric Videos now. Bit of a story setting at the beginning (mostly in Paris) and then these sexy thugs pounding away. Favorites being Darko, Keiran and Peto Coast. I do speak a little bit of French (not enough to hold a conversation) but not the street language these guys use. But I do understand "putain", "bite" and "baise" ("whore" "cock" and "fuck") :-)

Damn, you have some smoking hot vids man! And I am listed as the top comment on one of them before I knew! :-)

Good going James! And I agree with your statement.

Fucking hell......$1000 for one hour? I wish I had that amount of money for a fuck!

I would associate that with a top who fucks hard and long and/or a top who can fuck and cum multiple times in the same session.

http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=wH1Ne-G390- My friend's dad fucks me

Commenters believe this is Antioni Biaggi. Which bottom doesn't want to be on the receiving end of that magic fuck pole?

I am not really into leather, but there are sometimes leather themed nights at some clubs. But you don't see a stream of leather guys at night in the Yumbo, true. Mostly shorts, tanks or T-shirts. Cruise would be the obvious place to go if you're into leather. And there are a few others.

Yes, but as a top you would cum inside the tool, not in the Guy's ass? Unless the top takes it out and shoves his cock into the guy's bare ass when he cums of course. Maybe just nice tools to spice up the play until it comes to cumming? Just asking. I haven't used any of these toys, so curious to hear from those who have.

I hope this in the right section, if not please move to the appropriate one please? Question to both tops and Bottoms. Fort Troff offers quite a few toys with sort of cock enhancements tools. Meaning cock sheaths to give you a larger cock (like the Jizz Jacket) or for Bottoms the Raw Dawg XXL and similar stuff. No condom in sight but of course they actually function as a replacement for a condom since there is no bare fuck. Top or bottom are "protected" by the tool. Has anyone of you used one of these? And, if yes, what are the pros and cons? And what does it feel like for both tops and bottoms. I can imagine that for a bottom it doesn't feel that much different, getting stretched a bit more maybe. But for a top? Having your cock in one of those things, fucking a guy? Pics (not sure if i am allowed to post these though): p.s. the FT models are fucking hot by the way!

I agree with seaguy. I try to limit the risks as well, but you never know. It only takes one hit to attract HIV and your life can change dramatically. Especially in Europe. In the US you can get on the PrEP program. In Europe you cannot because it hasn't been approved yet. Some EU nitwits state the program hasn't proved itself yet or hasn't proven to be safe to use (but maybe Beartbandit can elaborate on that, being closer to information available on this). Even it were approved in the EU it is not sure your insurance company would cover it. And in NL you can change insurance company only once a year, in December for the following year. I doubt it would be covered by the basic insurance you can buy, but it would probably be in the extended insurance, which makes it expensive for people on low incomes (which would be me being out of a job at the moment with no prospect of getting one).

Yes, but I usually cum without touching myself. The fuck itself makes me cum hands free. I try not to cum but it just happens. And then sometimes I am free to concentrate on the tops pleasure (and sometimes the ones after him), but sometimes it happens to me that I have lost all interest. In those cases I let the top continue of course but secretly wishes he finishes soon as well. And sometimes I don't cum at all and JO afterwards. It's a mixed bag and what I hate is I never know upfront which mood I will be in after I have cum. Doesn't make me a very reliable bottom! Wish it was otherwise.

LOL. Thanks guys. If you need further advice don't hesitate to ask! And this ass hasn't had not much action since moving away from GC :-(

LOL, thank you! Wish I could get a job like that :-) I would suggest 10 days or two weeks. One week is too short I think, considering travel days which are wasted days and you are left with only 5 days effectively. 10 days or two weeks will give you enough time to enjoy the sun and the nightlife. There will be days when you are not in the mood to roam the bars and just want to have a nice dinner in the evening and enjoy a drink at one of the café terraces in the Yumbo (which are also great meeting/cruising places by the way!). And then one week (= 5 days) is too short in my view. There are a lot of other activities in GC as well in the daytime. Do a tour around the Island (there are commercial tourings). It is amazing. Go to Las Palmas for a day, or the organized Las Palmas Gay Night tour (= also connect with others joining the same tour). Go see Teror or other towns. Lots of things to do besides hanging around at night in the sleazy Yumbo bars :-). Go to the Gay beach. There are plenty of private persons offering accommodation if a hotel or resort is too expensive for you. I know a few. They don't publish it because of recent laws. But check Booking.com for deals. I would recommend Playa del Sol. Excellent location practically IN the Yumbo and great pool and sun lounge and pool facilities. Very popular with gay guys. Another is Los Tilos, but that is very basic so do not expect any luxury. Hotel Neptuno is a favorite as well, but more expensive. Aparthotel Buenos Aires is another favorite. All within 5 minutes walk to the gay bars. Then again, taxis are very cheap in PDI. If you pick a different hotel a bit away from Yumbo single fares are about €3.00 or so. As for restaurants, go for dinner outside of yumbo. A lot cheaper and much better.

RawTop has a point. When I was young and naive I thought gay LTR's worked just like straight LTR's. Most don't. Sure I have seen monogomous gay LTR's but I think those are exceptions. What I experienced is that either fuck outside the relationship or invite a 3rd (or more) to the bedroom for some fun. Made me realize I rather have a relationship with a buddy with whom I connect and can love, more like a brother really, but both partners seek sex when and where they want it. If that occasionally happens to be the partner, fine, but not limit it to that. The one time I had a LTR we ended up not having sex at all anymore after 7 years. Partner was OK with it, but it drove me crazy, so I strayed. And that pretty much ended the relationship because he couldn't understand that I needed/wanted sex.

In addition: August, September and October mostly see Italians, French, Belgians, Dutch, Germans and a few other nationalities. And Brits of course (but when aren't they there???). The period starting November is called Scandi season (for Scandinavians) as the Norwegians, Swedes, Danes and Fins are flooding the place. So if you're into big blond Vikings (stereotyping here)...... If you want to go, try to stay away when there are school holidays. You then won't see families with screaming kids up from 5/6 yo. In the weekend the horny Canarians from capitol Las Palmas come down south for some sin sex. As Playa del ingles has the raunchy clubs they don't have in their city. September is an excellent time to go though. Go and enjoy! Planning to go there myself end of September. Need to take care of some unfinished business due to me living there until recently, so not so much a sex vacation. But will enjoy it anyhow.

I think you are in the UK (name)? Try Gaydar. It also has a chat function, even by region for certain countries. And one of the selection criteria on profiles is safe/bare . Oh, and their radio station is cool too :-)

September is a good time to go. Not as busy as in the high season (Oct-May) of course, but no shortage of men either. Temperature is perfect for outdoor sex, even in the evening/night. When I didn't live there but was only vacationing I often went in September.

I cannot remember the exact first time when I was in a dark room for the very first time. Must have been in a bar in the city I moved to when going to university. I do remember a bar there which had a dark room and it was hot as fuck. It wasn't very big and there was only one small red light bulb, giving some light, but not much and guys were just groping, feeling crotches and asses, kissing, sucking and fucking. But, we all still had our clothes on. The hottest one was in the Thermos Night sauna in Amsterdam years ago. A pitch dark "maze" area stuffed with naked guys just feeling and groping around because nobody could see a thing. Everyone was sweaty because of the temperature and you could hardly move because it was so busy. I could hear guys getting sucked and fucked (but couldn't see it) while hands were exploring my body, cock and ass when I pushed myself around the crowd. Ended up getting fucked several times in the crowd by guys just shoving their dick up my ass while others still groped my front and explored to examine if I was fucking material. Was high on poppers that night and didn't really care who hit me up (couldn't see them anyway). I still think of that night as the best one I ever had in a BH. And I still remember the thumping remix of Björk's "Human Behaviour" when stumbling, drunk and poppered up to the tits, through the alleys where the private cabins were. Stayed there until 06.00 and then had to leave because they closed and took the first train home, cum still leaking out of my ass. Damn! So much want to repeat that, but 20 years older now and not so much attractive anymore for the groping hands. LOL.