My profiles online say safe only if it has a face pic. This is my hometown, I am a former bartender at popular gay bars. The tips from the customers paid my rent, & if customer is distressed by an honest POZ profile they may go to another bartender, esp if he/she's less busy. I was consistently second highest sales. People I don't even know remember me, + I do not need all my ex's gossiping about how I'm poz & bb("doesn't she any self-respect?") It a small kinda southern city. There are about 30 memebers online on BBRT on a saturday night. 700+ online on A4A, with 10 poz bb. I'd say there are a lot of liars on A4A. I do have have poz & bb profiles with no face pic.