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straycowboy

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  1. gI had a good looking bi black guy over here last night. Unfortunately, didn't get to fuck him as I seem to really be having a difficult time transitioning back to being sexual with anyone. But he had a beautiful bubble butt, and tight. He was a good cocksuker too. We wound up using toys on him, and got him off. Says he will be back.
  2. I have never been concerned with other's hiv status, supposedly I don't have to be. I still get checked for everything, even the other STDs that I supposedly would be immune to. I for one, couldn't have intentionally infecting someone on my conscious, if my doctors were wrong. And although stealthing is fine in fantasy, I have a hard time coming to terms with the fact there are people who want to infect others, for whatever reason. Same with the bugchasing too. I'm still trying to understand this. Sorry about your friend Hollywood, and I hopeit turns out he wasn't stealthed, it won't fix things for him, but maybe with time, and friends like you, and maybe some counseling he'll be ok. The important thing now for him is to move on, and try to take care of himself, get whatever help he needs.
  3. So does anyone know what the laws are regarding shiping frozen cum in the U S. That's one question I do not want to ask my postal carrier. But might be willing to help out. Sounds kinky, and its not like I need to save it for any of the guys I've been playing with. LOL
  4. I tried being a sub one time out of curiosity, the dom tried to get me to swallow his piss. My answer was no, and trying to trick me into it resulted in his ass whipping in front of the other dom, and the other slave/sub, who I think then understood that when I say no, then the discussion is over, it's not a matter of stretching my limits. I am very comfortable staying inside them. I said no to the being restrained at the beginning also. I have always had trust issues. LOL But back to the piss play, if it turns the bottom on, and he asks me for it, I will oblige.
  5. Both pipesmokin manfucker, and tiger milner have given you good advice, perhaps a bit opposite in a way, but good nonetheless. Having worked for a major charity that deals with a chronic illness, I can tell you there are plenty of sources that can with the medical costs if it happens to you. But if you are that concerned about catching it, then listen to those concerns. It is possible you could even be immune, or resistant, so get checked for that. If you are, then you only have to worry about the other things you could catch. In the end you have to decide . Do you live your life in fearof what could happen, or enjoy life and find an acceptable risk level to participate at.
  6. The pain & pleasure of having sex while your body is bruised and battered can make you incredibly more sensitive, and less in control. And bruises can be erotic to look at. Of course it depends on how you got them, and where they are. Had many from bull riding, very few from fights, and more than a few from other activities. But the best bruises, are those from a sexual encounter, the .not necessarily intentional ones, that remind you each day untill they go away. And while fighting you sounds like it could actually end in fun MasMountaiMan, Me personally, I'd rather any bruising to you or me to be from wrestling for top position.
  7. I had a cop one time who liked for me to beat him. At first I wasn't sure I could even though the idea turned me in. But seeing the bruises on him, was so hot. I really got into it. He is the only guy l've ever done that with. The story is in the straighr/bi stories if you want to read it. 7 loads in 24 hours. I need to find me another like him. Advice, just be sure it's what you want, and what your limits are, and how to let your top know you've had enough.
  8. Honestly have never done it. If we click, then we have sex, even if they were 70. We are less likely to click though if they lie to me. Honesty gets you further with me, than compliments.
  9. Oh, Got off the point. I have always barebacked, unless specificly asked to use rubber.
  10. No, I wish I had been sexually active at a younger age. I was too busy being involved inso many civic, charitable, and school clubs, and on several teams that I didn't even date in high school. Found out from a neighbor after graduating, I was at the top of her girls basketball teams wanted to fuck list. If only she had told me in school, they might have had me. LOL. And the number of guys who stayed at my house, in just their briefs,and campouts, damn! My own fault though, because of how involved I was, everyone thought of me as untouchable, as I understand it from friends now. I was out of college before I became sexually active.
  11. Now how do I convince you to move to Longview?
  12. For just RANDOM SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS, the only advice my doctor ever gave me was to always be sure and use a slick lube when masturbating to insure I maintain maximum sensitivity for when I have sex with others, switch out hands, so I don't get used to only being able to cum one way. And of course the don't jack off quite so much . Just like you said., and one other thing. Learn to be selfish. For IN A RELATIONSHIP he gave me a pamplet of exercises to do wiith my partner. But if there were something I could take, that made me cum faster, I probably would.
  13. That's quite true. From your list in the earlier post, my problems are typically 'D', and sometimes 'C'. With a regular partner, I can learn to not think so much and enjoy the sensations, but with a random hookup, that's not possible.
  14. I've been thinking about this. I think a soundtrack of others having sex would work.so much better. Subliminal inspiration if you will.
  15. The bible belt will get you every time. What I always found crazy are the ones that cruise the park for bjs/fucking with/ from boys, then go to church sunday for forgiveness, then be back out there by the end of the day to repeat their indiscretions.
  16. Ok, now I can say the poppers question is definitely a, not going to try them. I had a young guy over the other night, and he had some. Offered to let me try them even, I said no. When he got in doggy position so I could fuck him he took a deep wiff, and just the smell killed my erection. We did 69 for a while, but just didn't recover. And I really wanted to fuck him too. I blamed it on being tired, it was after 1am, and I had already gone to bed when he asked to come over. He said I was only the second guy in over 3 months who said they'd fuck him, he's poz. Then he wanted to fuck me, but he just couldn't turn me on enough for that. After he left, and the room aired out, I was able to get hard again and went to bed. I'd forgotten just how string an odor poppers have.
  17. Unfortunately, I no longer have a doctor, they've all retired, or died themselves over the years, but I was always honest, even with embarrassing topics. They can't do their job if they don't know. The last dr. I saw was over my new bones, about 15 years ago. Damn that's been awhile. When I get tested for stds, I go anonymously to the Special Health services, here in town. Not that they don't know who I am, but I like the lack of records. Least tests& explaining medical records I have to do the better.
  18. See now, other people's driving skills concern me much more than the dangers of HIV. But thats because, I can get broken bones, and internal injuries, and they be immediately life threatening .
  19. No this is not awful, you want to be with him so much, you'd be ok with being pozed by him if it happened. You've thought about the issues, and you know those feelings are real. I am actually envious, this sound like love. And love is one of those confusing emotional things that can never be strange. I just hope he feels the same kind of bond with you, and that you remain together for the rest if your lives. I've known many couples, gay, and straight that have lasted a lifetime. It makes me happy to see such relationships last. I would think everyone wants that, and some search for it , and never find it, or lose it,. I wish everyone could find such a relationship. Its unfortunate, I can't grant my own wishes. LOL
  20. Yes, i was confusing there. It's both. But sometimes what a person believes they want isn't what they really wanted, they just talked themselves into it. Other times, those cravings, and desires are real, and thedriving motivator behind ones actions. The line can be blurred at times. I do believe being addicted to bareback to be a case where the person talks themself into believing that is what they must have. Reading stories, and fantasizing over the type of bonding taking place, can cause that blur. Sort of like asking a christian, muslim, and buddhist why their belief is right. They typically can't disconnect themselves to examine their beliefs objectively, to say anything more than, because it is, or they just know. If you examine your own motives, behind a desire, and figure out what makes you want that desire, then you can know if it's just something you talked yourself into believing, or truely what you need to be happy. My ex believed the only way he could have fun was to be drunk, and that those bottles had what he needed. His body knew that drinking would make him drunk, so he acted accordingly. But he had a good time without a single real drop of alcohol that night. He never could disconnect to see if what he believed he needed was in fact real, or if he had convinced himself he needed it. And he never believed any of us at the party that night when they told him nobody in fact had a real drink that night. Knowing your own motives makes the difference. Did I make myself any clearer than mud?
  21. That's still an issue you have to work out. Are you willing to risk catching the hiv on the chance you will stay together, and if you do catch it, what are your options health, and cost wise.
  22. Personally, I think it is a fantasy. Most people can talk themselves into believing anything. I've had a few raw loads over the years, and still prefer to top. And I will wear a condom if requested, even though I prefer bareback. But I would also guess if you have an addictive personality, it could happen. Mean trick I once played on an ex, who drank way to much all the . I switched the rum, and vodka and gin for water. He still got drunk on coke and water. The mind is a powerful influence if you believe something to be true, or possible.
  23. Ok, for the fun of it. When was younger, before the accident and adding so much weight, I was definitely a 9. Now, I'd say 7.5. Much better looking in person than photos, and also in clothes.LOL. I would date me. And since I fuck guys I connect with, not based on looks, age,size, weight,race, etc.. Anyone along the scale works.
  24. I do know that with me its not meds, I don't have to take any, except sometimes aspirin. It's a control and trust issue. With a relationship there are excercises I can do with my partner, that help, but since these guys are only going to be fuckbuds , I need to figure something else out. Life, it's never easy. LOL
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