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Ddawg

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  1. I'm with what most guys seem to be into- I think it's hot if the top will push me out of my comfort zone, and I know I will have little choice. But I don't want to be afraid of being a victim of a crime.
  2. One of my fantasies is to be in a 3way, HVL top in me as I'm in a bottom, and as we are enjoying this, one of them slams me for the first time.
  3. I was a late bloomer and didn't even try anything with a guy until I was 19. I'm a little envious of the few guys I learned were openly gay in high school. There were two occasions where guys tried confronting me on being a faggot- once was on the way into the locker room to get ready for gym class, the guy blocked the doorway and said, "This isn't the girls locker room." It didn't register on me that moment, I just pushed him aside and said, "Excuse me, I got class."
  4. I think I'm on board with most guys- if you're at 30 db's for most of the fun, and suddenly scream at 100 dbs, it's kinda a mood killer... Not a fan of totally silent types either... but I think one guy, in his mind, was 'stealthing' me when he came and continued to work my hole for a good 2-3 minutes afterwards- and when we'd talk next he'd ask if I were poz yet.. that was actually kinda hot.
  5. You're in a darkroom, who cares? Who's going to judge you- the other guys in the darkroom doing the same things?
  6. Breathe, relax, and enjoy the ride. No reason to wait between dicks anyways.
  7. If I ever topped a guy in chastity, I'd probably get turned on by it because of the novelty of the fetish to me more than anything. Long term? I simply don't know. If I were asked (told?) to be put in chastity, I'd probably find it hot for a session, but not for long-term wear.
  8. Doggy and on back/legs-up are probably my fave- best access to deepest penetration and relatively comfortable. A FB of mine loved to do a 'push-up' position- me on belly, pillow under hips, and he would be on top of me like he was going to do a pushup. Thrusting above from that angle hit my prostate every time and only feeling his cock knowing his whole body was above mine would drive me crazy- occassionally he would nibble or lick the back of my neck- goosebumps every time.
  9. I like a little bit of pain- like when a big dick slides into me and the guy doesn't give me time to adjust or relax. He can feel me struggle a bit and knows that the only choice I have is to surrender my hole. I don't want pain for the entirety of the experience, but a minute or two to help remind me what I'm there for is hot.
  10. The biggest cocks I've had have been white, so it's not been a size issue. The black guys I've been with have a natural... rhythm? approach? that seems like a 'uniquely black' way of plowing me, which I enjoy quite a bit. On the otherhand, I've had great and bad lays from black, white, latino... so I can't make a real vote... I just realized, I've never topped a black dude... something new to try!
  11. Back when I was a young bottom, it would hurt after cumming if I continued to get plowed- my muscles back there would tighten up and prostate would be too sensitive. At this point, I've learned to breath and let myself relax and withing 5-10 seconds I can continue to get plowed. It takes about a minute to feel euphoric again. If a top is inside me, I want him to use my hole to feel good, it's rare that I cum while getting fucked.
  12. The tops I've been with have been a mixed bag- though it seems the guys with thicker dicks seem to like tighter hole in my experience... you'd think it'd be the other way around. In my limited topping experience, I tend to like a relaxed hole... One trick I hooked up with stayed hard after he shot his load in me. With a glint in his eye he said he wanted to try something and to tighten down on him, to which I complied. He slowly pulled out until just the tip was in me. Then he pulled out quickly and mouthed the word "pop" and it sounded like he just uncorked a wine bottle with my used hole. Couldn't help but laugh.
  13. Waxed, trimmed (#1 or 2 on trimmer) or natural, please. Not a fan of shaved/sharp stubble.
  14. My nips are a little sensitive, but I don't get aroused by them. I used to have them pierced, had a minor medical thing and they had to come out and the holes closed. When I had piercings in, some shirts were rough enough it would catch my attention. Occasionally guys ask me if they had been pierced, since they're kinda semipermahard.
  15. As a bottom, I've had both kinds of tops. A FB of mine liked the fact that he was opening me up and stretching me open. He liked it TIGHT. Not only did I need to be fresh for him, but he also wanted me to clench down on him for dear life. He's also one of the few people to push cum out of my dick through banging my prostate. I've never had a full ejaculation from being plowed, but he did get a small puddle out of me.
  16. Sometimes a pair of boxers hits the spot- sure, they're not form fitting, but they drape around the goods and make you look and try to figure out exactly what's under them.
  17. I make a risotto I think is almost as good as sex: a little white wine, rich chicken stock, fontina cheese, artichoke hearts (fresh, not pickled or frozen) and a chiffonade of basil thrown in at the last minute. Rich, starchy, cheesy, peppery, creamy and a little sweet. Damn. I think I need a smoke.
  18. The wonderful thing about the definition of relationship is that it is fluid: closed, open, plays as couple... You might find a guy that perfectly matches you. Sex and love are not interchangeable and you may one day find someone who gives you what you want emotionally. A top that grins as he says, "Yeah, my boyfriend is a cumdump, and my cumdump always comes home to me." as his dick twitches in his jeans. On the otherhand, not everyone needs to be in a relationship to be happy. I think it's a fault in our own society that reinforces that you can't be happy or can't enjoy success without being attached to someone else to validate it. Quasi-hypocritically, I wouldn't mind being in a relationship, personally. One of the aspects of being a slut is not caring if others respect what you do, many of those who judge you would probably breed you if there we absolutely no consequences (guilt, cheating, fear, getting caught...). Afterall, you have a delicious booty. If you sleep well at night, slut it up!
  19. Dates have left underwear, their cock ring, their AAA car club card... (I still don't know why that ended up left behind). I've never accidentally or intentionally taken anything.
  20. Most of the time, I'm not hard, and it can go soft/hard at will, often I don't even notice. Part of the reason is that the erectile muscles are in the same area as the muscles for your hole- I focus on keeping a relaxed hole. Some tops hit the right spots and I stay hard regardless. After getting bred, I normally get rock hard, knowing I have a sticky load in me.
  21. Ddawg

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    You should want it, you should be ready for it. If you're reluctant to take a dick, you're going to not enjoy it as much. Being ready is clean and relaxed. It's tricky to stay relaxed- a nice hard dick penetrating you is intense- new to it or not used to the size- sometimes the body doesn't know how to interpret the sensations. As things get intense, your body will want to tense up- including that slutty hole of yours. Remember to breathe- relaxed deep breaths will encourage the rest of the body to open up and stay loose. I've taken 8" thick cock with just lube and breathing, no poppers or anything. And good lube makes a difference!
  22. I'm along the lines of exhibbottomslut. When everything is good, it's all about feeling the moment. My hole stretched around his dick, just feeling: is his cock throbbing, did it get thicker/longer, can I feel his cum gushing inside me? Is he holding me tight against him? Is his beard stubble gently scratching me? Am I moaning or grunting as our bodies are doing their primal functions? Am I clenching a pillow, blanket, his arm? Once upon a time I had FB who would give me an anal orgasm as he was about to drive his load into me. My whole body would get goosebumps, my internal muscles would start spasming as if I were ejaculating, but I wouldn't ejaculate. My whole body would tense up and I'm sure I was making some unholy noise. First time he freaked out a little, he never had a bottom do that... then he started looking forward to doing it it me every time. Again. No thoughts- just pure in-the-moment sensation.
  23. Hey All- My name is Ddawg, and I'm a homosexual. (Thank you, thank you.) I've been a career bottom for 14 years, since the first time I've had sex, and while I've bottomed for countless guys, I can still count the number of guys I've topped on one hand. When I see a hot guy, my reflex makes my hole twitch. I envy you guys who desire to grab the guy by the hips and shove your meat in him before he has a chance to realize his pants are around his ankles. I'm often perceived as a top, and living here in the greater Boston area, I live in a den of bottoms, which makes for a lot of confused sexual frustration. I know some of this is pure psychology and some may be pure instinct, but I've never found any discussion on this. Is there something I can to do make myself more a top? Thoughts? Insight? Practice volunteers? All is appreciated. Ddawg
  24. Eep. That is not the right way to make you into a cockhound. Don't try it again unless you find a guy to be gentle with you and you're ready for it again. It may actually be closer to two weeks before you're more properly healed up back there- a couple days will be enough for any pain or soreness to go away, but you're going to be very fragile on the inside.
  25. One of the most important things I find is to remember to breathe. Because of the excitement, intensity and new experience, it's easy to tense up and your whole body will tighten up- including that tender little hole of yours. Breathe and focus on relaxing. It will be intense. If it starts to hurt, slow down and remember to breathe and relax. You'll love that reward of a job well done when you feel that dick start pulsing and filling you up.
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