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Ddawg

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  1. ?! You mean they're supposed to be venues to socialize and meet people, not just stand and model in my clique!?
  2. I think there are multiple factors: Too much porn- the entitlement to get laid by a hot model/porn star Too many bots. It's a way of filtering out robo profiles. Inept social skills. Many want a venue or slight possibility of 'something more'. If they're on an app or hookup site, they don't necessarily have the skills or confidence to connect in real life for 'something more'.
  3. I like guys near my size, neither of us should need a footstool to kiss the other. I'm a bottom but a big spoon cuddler. So a slightly smaller top is perfect.
  4. Found a couple clients on Grindr, one actually contacted me on it for professional assistance. (Work related, not escort related. Perverts. ) I did find one "straight" former coworker on Grindr. Everyone suspected he was gay. I took a screenshot and said hi, after which I was immediately blocked. Worth it. Since he only 'likes' body builders and male models on Facebook, most people probably have an idea. No need for 'capitalizing'. Not attracted either.
  5. Pineapple, mango and papaya have an enzyme that boosts fructose in semen, making it extra sweet. If you got a buddy you want to practice on, have him consume one of these fruits or their juice the day before and day of. Try it on yourself and taste your own. Soon'uff you'll be hooked!
  6. Stealthing is giving a load to someone unbeknownst to them. Two scenarios may apply: someone thinking you'll use a condom and you do something to compromise its effect (cutting a hole, slipping it off); or telling someone you are neg knowingly you are poz. Stealth is a deception tactic. Pozzing or bugging are relatively interchangeable- generally the transfer of a poz load to a neg individual. Gifting is the same, but with the added mentality or ceremony of intentional sharing a poz load to a neg guy, that it's something special or worth celebrating. Nuances, etc are more contextual, but this seems to be the gist. Happy to hear others though!
  7. Welcome aboard!
  8. Lube and breathing are my two tidbits. Find a lube that feels best for you- I'm liking the hybrid 'cum'lubes these days. Some boys swear on coconut oil. Also, relax and breathe. As you get stimulated, the body's natural response is to tighten up. Easy breathing will help everything from tightening up and becoming painful. Oh, and last: practice makes perfect!
  9. If man couldn't masturbate, I think there would be more tops and vers boys. With that said, I don't enjoy topping. I don't even like getting sucked. I've tried. When I rub one out, it's not about the penile stimulation I like, it's the ejaculatory muscles kneading my prostate. Being perceived as a top, I'm often forced into this role I honestly and utterly do not enjoy.
  10. Many of the muscles that support erection are also in the same area as the rectal sphincter. Relaxing to take a dick often means not getting hard, as in my case. Am I enjoying bottoming? Hell yes. For me, a cock sliding in me is rubbing against my prostate on top of the wonderful sensation of being stretched open. If all goes well, I can get full body goosebumps, I moan and whimper uncontrollably, and get anal orgasms- all of the inner muscles start throbbing as if to ejaculate without actual ejaculation, erection, etc. The only time I might be interested in jacking is while sitting on a cock- "cowgirl" position. Even if I ejaculate, I cannot and will not make the top stop. That's just rude.
  11. Makes me think of a song by Peaches, lyrics go "Can you cut the mustard to clear the custard" in Slippery Dick. Gotta love Peaches.
  12. I'm rarely hard when I get plowed. Relaxing my hole muscles included relaxing erectile muscles. I don't enjoy getting my dick played with that much anyways. When I wank off, it's not for the penile stimulation, but the internal prostate stimulation as the ejaculatory movements massage all the right spots- a top's cock does the same thing. I make a lot of noise when my prostate feels good, so you tops will know if you're doing a good job!
  13. Sorry, didn't get the video... Feels right it's out there and I don't have it... Used, hit and quit...
  14. I like being the receptive conduit for the sexual release of a heteronormative cis-male individual. Their approach is a little different, I like it.. Guys, relax: it's just sex.
  15. Today I just hopped on Grindr, got a message, guy asked if I were neg and played safe. Of course, I said yes. He came over, we dropped clothes, he started to nibble on me hard, pushed me to my knees to suck. A few minutes into him pushing me around, he bent me over my couch, lined his dick up to my hole and slid in. Swapping positions, he was getting close, asked if he could record him cumming in me. I shut off the tv, which had the Golden or Gilmore Girls on, so he could get a clean video. He shoved in hard and shot a nice load in me. Before pulling out, he replayed his cumshot and I heard my moaning from his phone. Safe only? Ha.
  16. You're being honest and upfront, so the problem is them, not you. Do I have any suggestions? Hmm. I have room in my bed here in the greater Boston area!
  17. Right now, I'm liking the StraightCam 'Cum' lube. I don't precum (you lucky dawgs who do), and I have very calloused hands so spit only goes so far. It washes off easily, coats well during play... Pure silicone lubes seem to need twelve washings before you feel back to normal.
  18. Some may say I'm selfish for only bottoming. I want a top to fill me up. I don't like getting sucked, I have very little motivation to top. I don't flip. To most, you're selfish. To others, your an ideal match. If you're a good top, you'll be pounding me into an anal orgasm which I find more intense than any ejaculation, and I can have multiple orgasms. I'm getting off. I cum loudly, you'll know.
  19. ...when the phrase "what do you think about the confederate flag?" Was muttered.
  20. Have him focus on relaxing his breathing rather than the monster cock he's beginning to take. Loose breathing = loose hole. If all else fails, remind him why the term "pillowbiter" was invented.
  21. 'Late to the party' on commenting. I'm actually a little jealous. I was a late bloomer, didn't start messing around with guys until I was 20... (As long as everything is consensual, blah blah, standard disclaimer) If I could turn back time...
  22. Reversed situation- I've had a couple tops pull out last minute. I felt cheated each time. You're loving my hole, you're treating me like the trashy bottom you want me to be, but my hole isn't good enough to cum in?... My whole being becomes part of making the top feel good and cum, anything less is a job not well-done.
  23. I love a top that's somewhere in between. Love a top who knows to go slow enough to not let it hurt but fast enough where I'm slightly uncomfortable... Tight but not painful... I know he's in control . In this balance, my hole guides him straight to my prostate and I'm completely helpless to his use.
  24. What's my process? First, I imagine I'm a lone tree in the middle of a wheat field... ... Actually I have a shower shot set. Usually does the trick.
  25. In a way, I think it's a beautiful thing that this can be a situation in our day and age. I'm not a parent and couldn't imagine this situation. But, It sounds like you handled it well, knowing your kids, etc. Most kids are adaptable and if you don't overdramatize things, they get it. But on the otherhand, as a kid, I wouldn't want too many details. Gold star for healthy parenting, in my book.
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